E-Stim Refractory period?

Hello all,

Just curious to hear about others experience with Refractory periods after e-stim?

I really wish I could train myself to keep wanting it after I cum. I truly enjoy my e-stim sessions but once I blow my load it's all over right then and there as if a switch has been thrown and all my desire is completely removed.

Sure, it's satisfying but still, I wish I could keep going somehow. I find it takes me hours or even DAYS to get in the mood again where I'm "hungry" for another e-stim session.

I feel the same, so does my husband. Add to that, the fact that the longer you are on e-stim during a session, the higher the settings you need to use to get off. If you have been on it for a really long session, you need a higher current setting and it gets to the point where you start to feel electrocuted if you try to use it for a second orgasm after only a short rest.

I am in complete agreement. After a session I feel totally drained and need some rest to restore my desire.

With any cum I am drained and lose most sex desire for about 2 hours. E-stim is about the same.. My problem is unless someone else is controlling the magic box I tend to jump to the routine I know will make me cum immediately, then it's over.

If someone else is operating the box (remotely or in-house) I tend to just let them bring me up and down until the moment of climax.

Then the "tingle" will last for as much as 30 minutes without any connection, I love it!

I have to concur with most everyone else...after I cum..I'm drained...LOL. Only a few times I was able to cum twice in two sessions.

There was the time I hooked up with someone for some estim play and he brought over the ET-312 unit..man...my dick got rock hard...he was in control, he was teasing my dick...then he knew I was about to bust and he held the base of my dick and I blew my load. Then he lowered the settings and I felt the tinkle but my dick was soft....he cleaned up my cum and then just held my dick and balls and continued to estim me...I got hard again...and came twice! That was one of the best experiences I had.

The second time, I had a session with a play doc. He tied me up and controlled the box and he was able to get three cum shots out of me. The first one was quick...the 2nd one was long and drawn out and it took a while and then the 3rd one hurt...LOL...but I was able to have an orgasm...the problem with my 2nd time..it took LONG time!!!

I made a post about one of my fantasies about being in a medical setting over night where the nurses or medical staff, keeps estiming you all night long and draining your balls....I think it would be a hot scenario to play out.

Being a newbie to e-stim by using a TENS unit for less than a week, I find the discussion in this thread very informative. I had stimmed myself for a couple of hours for several days and found the sensations, using standard gel pads, quite addicting, but no orgasm, just a lot of pre-cum.

Then yesterday I found a sweet spot setting with a 2" X 4" pad folded deep into my ass crack and anus, and a 2" X 2" pad taped to the frenulum of my penis. The build up was rapid and the orgasmic spasm continued for quite some time after shooting my load; as the spasm lessened I finally lowered the current, totally spent.

Today I tried to replicate what happened yesterday, but found my penile nerves too desensitized. As others have reported, that caused me in increase power which was less tingle and more like lots of needles (pain for me can be a different type of pleasure). Will try again sometime tomorrow, testing the restoration of my nerves.

Many thanx to all who have contributed to this thread as it helps me have realistic expectations for a man of 62.

I am 56 years old and doing e-stim for a year. So only a short time. As a unit, I have a Sanitas SEM 40 - Digital EMS / TENS.

When I use a testicle ring electrodes and a ring for the penis. Sometimes a Analelektrode.

It is a long-lasting sexually stimulating sensation. This is, in my old age, only with e-stim sessions. It gives the best results with 80 Hz when I ejaculate, it takes about a day and then I would enjoy to the next session.

Hi all,

57 yo male here and discovered e-stim about 20 years ago, starting with the stick on pads.

Once I figured out that by getting a connection inside my anus with a probe, whew..., with a smaller probe inserted into the tip of my penis, attached to a glans ring, I am able to orgasm several times and take as long as, or cum as quick as, I like. I combine this set up with a semi-snug band behind my testicles and I can stim and stay hard and feel sooooo wonderful for as long as I can stand it. I am capable of doing this on a daily basis if I get the chance, generally about 2 hrs and 3 nuts and I am completly drained, to induce the third orgasm I generally have my tens unit at nearly full power as I am quite desentized by then, but by the next day I am horny for it again.

I started e-sim a number of years ago. My wife is very vanilla and anything like e-stim is out of the question. I retired a little over five years ago and had the house to myself up until a few months ago. That allowed me to "play" as much as I wanted without any problems. I have a Rimba 600 unit and can edge for the better part of the day before one of two things happen. I either apply too much current and have an orgasm or become too de-sensitized and risk skin damage. I have found that if you stay on the machine for long periods of time it is possible to literally get electric burns on your skin. I don't know if there is any long term issues but the skin gets scaly in the burnt area.

I have the best sexual TENS unit -- (2) ET-312s. They produce a much more erotic feeling than (cheap) medical units that produce a rougher signal. Nevertheless, I don't feel like having another orgasm after the first. I have, however, had women who had multiple orgasms from different trodes & different placements. Even multiple orgasms one right after the other from the same trodes & placements -- but then again, women are naturally multi-orgasmic in many ways.

If you keep it on low, you can run it for hours without being desensitized. By accident, I once fell asleep with it on for 8 hours. Afterwards, I asked other users if they had ever done that. A number of both men & women said they often plugged themselves in when going to sleep. It is very soothing. That steady flow of dopamine into the brain.

I am able to stim many times in a day with only a 20 minute or so waiting period after orgasm, before I'm horny again. its always great.

I to must wait for a period of time before I can do it again. I have found that it depends on the amount of time and intensity involved in the scenario. The best estim session I had required a refractory period of three days. I was on the system for a long time and my mistress was insanely wicked though it was safe, sane and consensual. I still get a tingle thinking about that session.

I use an Electrastim unit with bipolar anal plug for one channel, the other to a cockring round the base and a sticky pad on my perineum. Also use bipolar stim to my nipples, separate TENS channel to each. Usually one orgasm is enough, just occasionally if I'm feeling fresh I can have another after an hour or so. A few times (maybe 3 or 4 I have been able to keep the stim going after orgasm and managed a second coming after 5 to 10 minutes.

Very detailed and informative posts here..I have much playtime to learn My own body but I predict that after Cummings its allover...just as its always been for me..I lose interest and move to next thing.

E-stim and the refractory period has been a play scenario that came up several years ago.

We were learning to drive an ET312 using our lap top, our instructor was in Europe and controlled our 312 via the 'net. My wife was chatting with the instructor while I was hooked up and bound, The safety factor for me was that my wife could have killed the feed at ant time but it was not necessary as we trusted the instructor.

TMI? sorry.

After about 90 minutes of play I ejaculated. That's usually when we stop playing. Our instructor ask if I wanted to stop, what a dilemma for me as I was tired but... The lesson was so amazing I said no so after a clean up we continued at a fairly low level for thirty minutes using waves, climb and intense. Then we went to higher levels and it got really hot. I came again and it was a very long orgasm, dry for the most part though precum was evident. Past that we played for a while, what happened was indescribable.

I think that this was only possible because I was not in control and in the care of someone who loves me and controlled by someone we both trusted.

Welcome to the site Lowell! Great first post. It sounds like you had an amazing session via remote stim with your 312. When it comes to multiples via estim it seems like a much shorter refractory period to me for sure. I'm willing to bet though having someone else drive is more of a mental enabler to going for that second orgasm knowing that they are In Control. Keep posting your experiences here I'm sure there are plenty of folks who'd love see your gear setup as well!

I guess it was my first post on the site, thank you for your wlecome.

Yes, being driven is an enabler as when you agree to be driven you ceede control to the driver.

Same experience as Lowell. After orgasm your brain switches off that part of your system. But if you're not in control and bound up it's different because you cannot run away. It still takes time to recover (15-20 mins for me) while very soft but still noticeable stimulation continues. But, while wet orgasms may not be possible, intense dry ones are. Thing is, your body is made to protect itself, so you loose interest ... but if you can't run away, you can't loose interest ;-)

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