Question for the guys. Which is more humiliating

It is to have the femal to unzip and lover the pants and panties befor putting me over her lap.

Much more embarrassing to have her lower your trosers first then lay you over her knees and then for her to lower your undies while you are bent over after a good warm up.

And when she is finished to have to stand in front of her feeling your red bottom as she lays done the law with your penis bulging in front of her. As a real bonus you are ordered to the corner still with your undies still arround your thies.

Now that is what she told me to say

I think being told in the mrnoning that you've been a bad boy & will get a spanking when you arrive home. Your home after work in a business suit & told to go up to the bedroom & wait for your spanking. Over the knee you go still in your suit & out cones the wooden paddle first on your pants, then they're pulled down & the spanking begins again on your boxers or briefs. Those are pulled down & it all begins again. The anticipation is exciting & having some one else pulling every thing down is humiliating especially if done in front of others.

To have her pull them down. Butt humiliation is part of the punishment.

Without question, I would MUCH rather have my pants taken down by my spanker. It's just exquisitely and sooooooo uniquely humbling to have to stand there like a naughty little boy while the fingers of female authority unbuckle, unbutton and unzip my trousers. Mmmm, and then to have her tug them down to my knees, leaving my underpants primed for the critical unveiling.

I used to prefer having my bottom bared then and there, but my longest serving Spanking Lady, Mummy Em, decided one day to wait until I was over her lap and she'd handspanked my bum through my undies. Only then would she deliberately and tantalizingly tug them down, leaving my naughty bare backside utterly helpless and entirely at her mercy. Mmmm, how saucily sweet it is!

For me it makes no difference, it's the trip,over the knee that makes the event the reality because as soon as I am upturned and positioned I know what is coming. I usually have on some tight nylon shorts so if the spanking starts with them on my butt is tight and the smacks are quite effective. It's easy to raise my hips and have the shorts pulled down for the bare butt portion.

To have her pull them down

For me personally, having your pants lowered by the spanker is so much more embarasing and humiliating and that is why i like it

Oh for sure having her tell me to lower then and watch while I do. Then being ordered to fold them and put away, I am getting boned thinking about it. And being over the knee while she lower the undies, mmm. would be better if she got pissed and ripped em off before flailing on my naughty ass.

Having her take my pants and panties down and pulling me over her lap by my ear

The psychology of forcibly stripping a male indicates that making him strip will usually be more humiliating. If you strip him, he's likely to rationalize the process as being out of his control.

I've gone to the doctor for checkups every year. Always having blood test to check my PSI among other things.

Once a female doctor examined me and said she wanted to check my prostate. She instructed to lie on the table on my side which I did. She then put on the blue gloves and inserted her finger in my butt. I thought she wanted a stool sample because she did it several times. Then she told me my prostate was normal. I didn't get excited because I was taken by surprise and a little nervous. All the other male doctors never did this procedure. Was she just playing with me? I'll never know for sure.

Either way would be a thrill, because I think being humiliated in spanking situation is thrilling. I would think the humiliation might tip toward the dom pulling my pants and underwear down. It would then be great if she pulled me across he knees by the balls.

Either way is fine by me as long as i am getting a paddle on my bare butt. There is nothing about having your bare butt paddled that's humiliating for me. being told that iam going to receive a bare bottom paddling is very exciting. I would actually prefer to be completely naked.

Definitely more embarrassing to have your pants pulled down. If she demands that you pull your pants down, you can refuse and just not do it. Or just pull them down a bit. If she's mad and you don't cooperate, she can yank them down and / or pull them off completely. When she's fully clothed, she has all the power. Not much can be more humiliating than to be standing in front of a strong woman with no pants on.

If she pulls them down it I the most embarressing

To have them pulled down or lowered by someone else.

It was just a given from childhood we boys got our paddlings bare--and it happened thru high school--Mom stopped when we were 14-- however dad paddled us thru high school. We just went to the boys bedroom and took down our pants and underwear and hiked up our shirts and knelt on an ottoman and mom or dad came up and padled us bare whether 7 or 17--It hurt as much ---at 17---believe me

The only female who has ever paddled me (other than my mom) is my wife---She is a great wife--but seems to need to paddle me about once or twice in a yr----and i have earned it so never any argument---no problem about any embarrassment or shame as its just my wife and me who know---No problem ever about taking down clothes cause I always shower first and then I am naked when I bend over to get paddled--What about other guys if there are any other guys---til a forum like this i always thought i was the only guy-- it works fine for us so i have no problem with it---though i hate the pain on my butt--but otherwise it would not have any effect---so i just take the pain as something totally earned---and from my wifes paddling abilities-- she damn well agrees i earned it!

My preference would be to be directed to strip completely and stand before the Top with my legs spread and hands behind my head. I would be inspected before being spanked and then again after. If other people were present for my punishment, even better. I could be directed to present myself for inspection to anyone interested.

This is also the process I prefer as a Top.

More humiliating/exciting to have the spanker in charge of the slow disrobing: visual evaluation, then unbutton and unzip trousers and quite slowly slide them down for my removal. Then a thorough tactile and visual examination of my underpants before they are inched down.

More humiliating for her to order you to do it.

I would never in as million yrs take a bare ass paddling from anyone than my wife---It is infrequent but it does happen--I am as naked as the day i was born--It is completely consenting When i get it i have earned it---We both know at about the same time after so many yrs when a paddling has to make things right---My butt hurts plenty----but since it is my wife there is no embarrassment or humiliation factor

Depends. My wife does both. She may also ask me to open my pants (belt and zip) but she will pull them down herself. She does not like fumbling with clothing that is difficult to open on others (e.g. jeans) but will typically pull down pajamas herself (easy).

If pulling down my pants she may have a snide look at my penis if it's some play of half-play spanking ("my, what a PERVERSE little boy").

A possible additional humiliation is "hygiene inspection" (stains in the brief or even wiping with a paper towel), which may result in a pre-spanking trip to the bathroom to be washed like a toddler.

I do not feel a difference between the two methods both equally humiliating, the undressing happening on orders is possibly the more usual one.

Yes having your wife tell you the she was to be you day to be punish but a full punishment . first take of everything . Then sit down in front of her while she tell you what you did , then she would paddle you untill you buns were very red & sore. But before she would give you s big oral castor oil. That is not what she did not do but that ment that she would give me one full spone at a time make me hold that in me untill she said I could let it in me then 3 more time that is alful to take but then have to sit there untill the castor oil started to give me cramps with her sitting there with the paddle telling me that my buns wouls be hurting s bad to sit when the castor oil would make me move my bowels for a long time not anything i wanted but then she said get your buns over my lap . Then she hit one bun then the outer that laster over an hour or untill the caster oil started to come out of my hole this time the spanking stop because the castor oil was working on me you can not hold that castor oil oral laxative it just come out she gave a rag to run to the pot it really hert to sit on my sore buns . My wife has made a spanking last for hours . The oral cartor oil give a punishment spanking something no one wants but she love to make my bowels move the oral laxative or an punishment enema . Well fellows try it it is not fun but does make a punishment spanking not just something you do not want her to tell you it time to be punish.

I'd say having her command you to strip to your pants in front of her, then she yanks or cuts them off in one quick move...

I find it more embarrassing when the female pulls my pants and undies down herself

I think it's more humiliating to be told to pull them down while she watches.

For me, definitely being told to. Its a bit more authoritarian.