Sports physical exam form incident
I think physical exam forms should be private. when i was 13 I had to get a sports physical at school for wrestling. I was uncircimcised, and the doctor wrote, 'uncircumcised genitalia, foreskin retracted w no phimosis, tanner stage 3' on the comments section next to the genitalia section.
the sports physical took place during normal school hours, and i was given a hall pass to go to the nurse's office. After the exam was complete, she handed me the form back, and told me to drop them off at the admin office before next week.
I dropped off the form during lunch hour at the admin office, and there was a female student assistant there who was in a senior class, and she was helping with paperwork and minor admin stuff for extra credit since she was ahead of the class for taking some placement exams.
she asked me if i need help, and i told her that i'm just here to drop off the form, and she said that she'll take it and file it with the rest. she took it, and flipped through it, making sure that it was signed, and she said, ok, we'll file it.
I was more than surprised when couple of days later when I was taking books out of the locker for next class, two girls came up to me and asked me if i really had an uncircumcised penis. i was dumbfounded, and ignored the question and walked away, but then i figured that the only person who could have seen the form was the assistant at the office. Then i remembered that the two girls sometimes hung out with the girl from the admin office. the girl obviously looked through the exam form and found out that i was uncut, and told her friends about it. The girls asked me the same question four different times on different days, and i finally said, 'no i don't', but then their reply was 'you are lying'
i told my counselor about the incident and told her that the assistant was looking through the exam form which is supposed to be private, and she said that she will talk to her. Apparently she talked to the student assistant, and she denied it, and after that the issue sort of went away, and there were no more questions from the girls.
Now looking back i would have wondered if it was reversed with a guy looking at a girl's examination form and babbling to other guys about the girl's development and whatnot. i think that would have been dealt with more seriously.