How often do you have a recto-vaginal exam?

I am already very hot on anal touch.

But ...

Once my doctor examined my rectum during a gynecological examination. He was cautious, but with his little plastic glove it was not much erotic.

Later, another doctor asked if I would want this investigation. He was rude before and I declined his offer.

In my session examinations by my fetish doctor, I enjoy the hardest Anal stretching and unpleasant examination.

My wife gets one every year for her normal exam, now for play..

I get one at every single pelvic exam. And it's been that way since I was pretty young (25 or the like).

In talking with others, I thought there was some sort of age requirement. Some say 30, some say 40. I guess it depends on the dr.

In real life they've never done it.

My doctor does one every year during my pap/pelvic exam.

Once a year. If I go there for something else between yearly visits he skips that part.

I get a recto-vaginal exam yearly it’s always done after my Pap smear and it is done while my feet are the stirrups. Even though it’s not my favorite part of the exam I still find it exciting.

Ladies, when did you start receiving recto/vaginal exams. Based on the women I have talked to, it seems to vary by age and/or by dr. Some it started when they were 30, some 35, and then some as late as 40.

Just ran across this topic again. My wife at her last checkup in Sept. had a recto-vaginal exam, this was the first she's had in nearly twenty years. Interesting why it's been so off and on in her life time. I wish I understood the reasoning.

In real life I've had three different female gynecologists over the last 47 years. I've never received a recto-vaginal exam. Two of them never suggested that exam and the other said she believed it was overly invasive and unnecessary unless absolutely needed. She never made it a mandatory procedure and suggested patient consent if or when she thought it was necessary.

In my MedFet life I like the feeling of a finger in my vagina and one in my fanny. My husband is always gentle.

I think I’ve had it done four or five times (out of 15 pelvics). The first time was at my first exam. I didn’t really have any idea the doctor would do it. After the bimanual exam I was ecstatic. I had survived! Wait, why is she switching gloves?

“Mandy you are going to feel some pressure in your bottom. Bare down for me”

.... in my bottom? Holy shit her fingers are both places.

“You feel a bit tense. Try to relax”

At this point I made eye contact with the nurse. She gave me the worlds most awkward smile.

“Bare down one more time, like you are using the restroom”

I did what she asked. My toes cringed.

Then her fingers came out. It was maybe 15 seconds. It felt like an eternity. My mother didn’t warn me that this exam may happen. I had a friend that joked about it calling it the shocker. At the time I didn’t think it was a real test. It sounds so ridiculous.

I told a friend what happened afterwards and she joked that the doctor had double penetrated me. This became a running gag with my group of friends. “Mandy got DPd by her doctor”. And the shocker was brought back up.

I've never experienced that.

I just turned 51 and I had my first recto/vaginal exam last year and it was with an oncology/gynecologist. She was trying to get a better placement of my uterus because it is introverted and causing my cervix to face upwards instead of out. She even tried to manipulate my uterus to try to be able to get a good pap smear. It was not painful but a bit uncomfortable.

I love them and i get them all the time in my play exam but in my real exam maybe once if I remember. I did get a finger only in my bottom at my last one.

I remember the first time a doctor ever did that to my wife. I was in the room with her and I don't recall if she was pregnant. at the time The Dr said he was going to do something different and shoved a finger up her ass. She was shocked/surprised, but said it did not hurt or anything.

I’ve had it once after recovering from a fairly difficult birth.

This procedure is beyond exciting to me to fantasize about. When in the stirrups for an exam, the level of complete vulnerability and having my most private parts being fully exposed and at the liberty of someone else’s decisions is the most intense feeling of nervousness and excitement.

However, while I haven’t had one and so cannot speak from experience, I find myself increasingly aware of the desire to keep my fantasies and fetishes separate from a clinical space. Which in reality is good, since there’s so so much more time for me outside the doctors office compared to the 1-2 hours per year I spend there!

I have never had a recto-vaginal exam in the setting of an actual doctor’s appointment.

Update:

I was overdue for my physical, but went today. After the gyn/PAP portion of the exam, after we had been talking about mental health and migraines, out of nowhere the NP asked if I have ever had “Fit” testing which, she explained was optional. So I asked her what it was and she explained that it was a quick rectal exam.

So after several questions more than were actually necessary because I had already mentally consented, I agreed.

She asked me to lie down on my left side and so I did. Then she explained step by step. First, she applied lube to the anus with her glove, then very slowly, she inserted her finger. A couple of times, she turned her finger around, a couple of times she asked if I was okay. I was.

It was over in a couple of minutes, painless, and a milestone for me. And apparently I was in just the right mindset too because it was difficult not to enjoy.

I've had a recto-vaginal exam done during almost every annual gyn exam I've had. There have been a few where the doctor didn't do it. I have a retroverted uterus, and as one gynecologist explained to me when I was younger, that was the reason she was doing the exam. It has always been done with me in the stirrups and is the last part of the pelvic exam, although sometimes it's immediately followed by a single finger rectal exam.

From what I have read, a recto-vaginal is most always done on women after 35, and often on women under age 35 when there is a tipped uterus. Is that pretty much the case with what the women here think/have experienced?

Is a separate rectal exam ever done, and if so, why?

I get a recto vaginal exam every year

I posted in this thread three and a half years ago saying I’d never experienced this. Whelp. That is no longer the case. Let’s just say I was surprised. It was very intense, and not what I’d call pleasant. I just remember two little tears leaking out of the corners of my eyes and hoping no one else noticed. By the way the doctor kept checking in and asking how I was, and asking for verbal responses, I’m pretty sure he knew I had a hard time.

Once a year I get it done. But gyno twice a year.

Ladybug, apparently the "FIT testing" is Fecal Immunochemical Testing, which is used to check for rectal bleeding.

It looks like it's often an at-home procedure, but it sounds like you lucked out.

https://www.nbt.nhs.uk/severn-pathology/pathology-services/clinical-biochemistry/fit-testing/fit-testing-clinicians

The "FIT" testing kit is sent out to everyone in Australia when they reach whatever the regulation birthday is at the moment (I think it's 60), so imagine most of the elderly bent over their toilets scooping vigorously... It also means colonoscopy has become a growth industry, and the remainder of the elderly are planted on their toilets after drinking several gallons of foul fluids. The price we pay for the perfect health system...

Annually at my GYN appointment with my pap and the bimanual exam, etc.

My NP is gentle but I will say being in stirrups leaves me feeling VERY exposed!

The rectum and Vagina lay right up against one another, making it easy to detect anything abnormal in either of these areas. Other than for vanity's sake, it is what it is, ans no intruments are necessary.

Males are not immune, since a rectal exam is routine for both rectum and prostate checks.

I had this only one time several years ago at a female gynecologist