Spanking arousal when growing up?

Got spankings with my leather belt from mom, always got an erection. Maybe it was the adreneline flowing and combonation of nasty verbage!!

If I got a boner when my dad spanked me as I often did, he'd just push it flat against my tummy so as not to hurt my little member and then proceed to instead 'hurt' my bottom which he wasn't anywhere near as concerned about! My older male cousin often babysat me and he DID pay lots of attention to the hard on in my pants before and during his spankings. He induced the erections and then scolded me for getting them, he also oftentimes took care of them 'for my own good'! Not so much fun for a little guy but his actions now form a large part of my fetish.

I always got an erection when my mom spanked me. I was always very embarrassed by it but she never said anything. I especially hated standing in the corner with the erection.

As a boy raised by a strict Christian mother I was often spanked. Most often bare bottom with little to no concern for my modesty even if others were insight of my spanking. Occasionally my boy parts would get hard during the time Mom would be lowering my jeans and underwear and scolding. Mom just ignored this until about when I was 14 and about to be spanked in front of a lady from the church we attended. The lady commented how disrespectful and disgusting it was for me to be enjoying myself during the time of my discipline. Mom was in agreement but told the spanking would solve my excitement. With that the lady told how her boys grown now had been handled when they became excited at such a time. She told Mom to fetch a rubber spatula and spank the tip/head of my penis. Mom was unsure of this and before She could really say much the Lady found the spatula in a drawer and grasp my penis while telling Mom how it should be done. She held my penis with only the head showing tapped it about three times firmly followed by a sudden hard spank. It was like tap, tap, tap. SMACK! tap, tap, tap, SMACK! By the time she did this a few times My penis was soft and I was crying. The lady then asked for and was given the Paddle from Mom and I was taken across her lap and spanked until I was a crying squirming boy across her lap. After that day Mom used the spatula on my penis before using the paddle on my bottom. Mom often commented how it helped in my punishment. It was embarrassing for sure.

Mom was unsure of this and before She could really say much the Lady found the spatula in a drawer and grasp my penis while telling Mom how it should be done. She held my penis with only the head showing tapped it about three times firmly followed by a sudden hard spank. It was like tap, tap, tap. SMACK! tap, tap, tap, SMACK! .

May I share my thoughts that the Lady was something of a hypocritical disgusting old biddy who was probably in need of a good rogering or more likely some extended sex spanking herself. Talk about being sexually repressed ... ha ha.

It's good the read that so many boys and girls got aroused when being spanked. I sure did 😁 (and still do).

My spankings are always about allowing me to be exposed and to enjoy myself in front of men.

Every time I am spanked my pussy pours forth her juice without fail. And I am definitely what you might call a dripper, so there is no way that the men watching me wouldn't know I was turned on by it LOL x

(I later progressed to having my pussy spanked - all I can say is WOW!!)

Just reading in this topic gives me the start of an erection and after reading detailed experiences I am hard,and after about 20 minutes of reading there is pre cum on my penis as I am at the 'edge'

What a great site - it is good to know there is a great number of fellow kinksters out in the world

Not when my dad spanked me,but for some reason I did when Grandad did it.

I got extremely hard during my very last bare bottom spanking from dad,it gave me ‘blue balls’.

I just Love it when a woman calls her vagina a pussy ...I think that is so freakin hot....... @Katex

I remember being at a friends house and his younger brother was being very naughty and he got spanked. His underpants and shorts were taken down and he was pulled across his Mothers knee. When he got up he was erect. There was no allowance made for it, he was told off standing there in front of me, his brother and sister (all older than him) with the door open to the garden with other children playing there. His brother and I were exchanging glances and thought it was funny. He was sent to the corner and we could see it was still sticking up 10 to 15 mins later.

When I was spanked at home up to age 14 it never happened but when I was at University after I turned 18 every time I had to strip before a spanking I got erect which added to the embarrassment. It would be gone after a good spanking.

@badbrian : you were spanked at 18, at a university????

@badbrian : you were spanked at 18, at a university????

Pledging for a fraternity perhaps? A nice sophisticated and experienced girlfriend maybe?

The idea of being punished for getting aroused by a spanking is a hot fantasy.

From a young age I had been getting spankings. In front everyone and I was usually naked...

I can get erect from thinking about or the anticipation of a spanking, butt not from the spanking itself.

I can get erect from thinking about or the anticipation of a spanking, butt not from the spanking itself.

Exactly. The anticipation is very arousing, but if a spanking is properly given, the pain takes over. If it's really erotic during the spanking, it's probably not being given hard enough.

Nope. Never have, never will. I'm 68 and the level of pain from a real spanking is high enough to qualify as pain that is an immediate turnoff or arousal and erection killer. If I had another switch partner who was interested in spanking me because it aroused her I might let her try it mild to moderately especially in combination with an enema. The anticipation of the spanking as a part of her being a Domme might be a bit arousing as we used to enjoy her giving me enemas as Domme with me as her enema sub.

Eric

@sundaybrunch To take it a step further, the eroticism and sexuality usually comes from being told you will be spanked, or being told to pull down your pants or having your pants pulled down for you. Also, being told to lay across a lap and present your bottom for a spanking.

@sundaybrunch To take it a step further, the eroticism and sexuality usually comes from being told you will be spanked, or being told to pull down your pants or having your pants pulled down for you. Also, being told to lay across a lap and present your bottom for a spanking.

That's close to what I meant too, also applied to my other kinks like enemas and other things. Having my Domme explain what's about to happen to me is a great stimulus and arouser since I enjoy her sexual and fetish domination of me. When the event actually happens, it's even better, for example her actually sealing me into my rubber suit or starting the flow on an enema she's forcing into me.

Since I tolerate very little pain before it suppresses my libido, the warning of a spanking and then a mild to moderate one designed to just make it more humiliating and challenging to hold my enema would be the best. My ex-wife-Domme thoroughly delighted in filling me to near my limits and then adding every other kink we had in order to make it harder and harder to hold onto my enema. Great sport.

Eric

@sundaybrunch To take it a step further, the eroticism and sexuality usually comes from being told you will be spanked, or being told to pull down your pants or having your pants pulled down for you. Also, being told to lay across a lap and present your bottom for a spanking.

It can get heightened, too, if the spanker senses arousal, and punishes you for that. It's like being punished for masturbation. Having someone see your crack is both embarrassing and erotic. That moment of surrender when you know the spanking IS going to happen and it's going to hurt. The very thing you fear is sometimes what you need. But you take it, because you know it's good for you, and you need it. (And you will have a ton of memories to masturbate to, later on.)

Not when my Mom did, maybe I thought about it, but after the first bite of the strap it was just to paiful.

Guys, when I say, "hard", I don't mean "brutal". Just to clarify...

During adolescence I had an erection during spanking and sometimes during preparation for spanking. I wasn't sexually excited, spanking wasn't exciting for me at the time. It aroused fear and great emotions and this was the reason for the erection.

When I was a to receive a spanking during my teenage years, an adult at home would remove my clothes while discussing my anger outbursts and rebellious behavior as well as how I was to be spanked. My dad, mom, adult woman friend of my mom, aunt, and uncle each had preferred ways to spank me. I would feel aroused when I was spanked when laying over an adult's lap, when standing and being held around the waist by the adult, when leaning forward and placing my hands against the wall, when on my knees on a chair with my bottom facing the spanker, and when spanked when laying on my back in a diaper position on the bed that was covered by a plastic sheet and towel. The latter would usually occur if I was to receive an Ivory soap and warm water enema that the doctor had recommended when an adult suspected that constipation may have a factor in my anger outbursts. I would feel anxious about receiving the enema because it caused cramping and my anus would tighten up around the enema nozzle which felt uncomfortable and caused me to feel submissive. Spanking of my bare bottom by hand or a hairbrush at times would cause my thick circumcised penis to become erect. The spanking of my bare bottom would cause my erection and low hanging balls to move back and forth which resulted in my erection growing wider and longer. The women would usually stare at my erection while the men would ignore it. I would feel embarrassed when my mother or aunt would look at my erection, but I would become more aroused if the adult woman friend of my mother looked at it because I felt an attraction to her due to her warm personality, friendly manner toward me, large breasts, big bottom, and blonde hair which was the color of my hair that I wore down to my shoulders in a manner that was similar to some of the surfers whom I would observe at the beach in Los Angeles where I lived. As I grew older and was craving the feelings of pain and pleasure during the spanking, my penis and low hanging balls had grown larger and my erections would occur with greater frequency when spanked on my bare bottom. At those times I would worry that I might ejaculate While being spanked and aware that I had an erection, I would try to distract myself and prevent ejaculation by thinking about playing softball at the park, working out with weights for muscle growth, or going surf fishing with my best friend who was on my softball team. If anyone would like to discuss this topic further, feel free to message me or chat with me at this website.

When I was a to receive a spanking during my teenage years, an adult at home would remove my clothes while discussing my anger outbursts and rebellious behavior as well as how I was to be spanked. My dad, mom, adult woman friend of my mom, aunt, and uncle each had preferred ways to spank me. . . .

Why did your mother's friend, aunt and uncle spank you?

Why did your mother's friend, aunt and uncle spank you?

When reading some of the accounts here, I often wonder the same.

Usually I can't come up with any real rational explanation for cases like this except that perhaps these older people just liked hitting someone who probably couldn't defend themselves. It might very well have been a way of expressing their anger/frustration at heavens knows what onto someone else. When one older person starts, then others jump on the bandwagon and they find reinforcement of their notions.

A sort of (small) group dynamic of the worst kind. A ganging up on someone weaker.

When I was 15 my dad gave me a OTK bare bottom spanking ,he wasen’t spanking hard but he spanked me for while,it started to feel good and when he let me up I had a wicked hardon,he told me to go to my room and take care of it. That was my last spanking unfortunately!

Why did your mother's friend, aunt and uncle spank you?

Back in the late 1940's and early 1950's when I was young, I would steer clear of certain adults that I knew who liked to spank a kid for any reason they could find. I did not know about spanking fetishes back then, but thinking now about it, I'm sure these people got off exposing a rear and spanking it crimson red. Seeing these events both scared and fascinated me, and I'm sure planted the seeds of my interest in spanking these days.