Spanking arousal when growing up?

anyway I had to take it bare and over his knee In the movement during the spanking against his lap - got hard real hard----I was totally humiliated he said at the end of it "You've got a baseball bat there"

A sports metaphor ... 😢 how appropriate.

I hope he didn't pretend to be surprised or shocked at your erection. I bet he was looking forward to just that when he had you come to his office (closed door no doubt?) for a naked spanking. Jeez guys. And people talk and get all indignant about priests taking advantage of their position as teachers and supervisors and what not. Good ol' double standard ...

When being spanked or caned now I always get fully erect which adds to my humiliation

@darrenjames: Why are you humiliated when you get an erection when you're being spanked as an adult? Clearly this is a sexual, or at least consensual interaction with someone you're most likely intimate with.

I get wet when i get spanked and the spanker usually knows it. I'm not embarrassed at all because of the circumstances.

If i am getting spanked how I want an erection is the last thing I will have...although a moment or two after it's done it will be hard as steel....

In junior school, one of the women teachers MISS D, regularly took disobedient and/or disruptive boys across her knee. I was only seven and it was embarrassing enough, even though she did not bare bottoms. But, one time, I felt really embarrassed because I thought I had urinated. I think it was an ejaculation of some sort, as fluid definitely passed and it felt like a bucketful, but when I checked my shorts and looked at MISS D's knee after there did not seem to be any wetness: so, do seven year old boys have phantom ejaculations?

Only on my last spanking, at age 13. I was spanked a lot when I was a child, especially before 10 years old. After 10 years old, I was still spanked, but not as often, with spankings occurring with less frequency and further apart.

I had a facination with spanking since I was very young, at least since when I entered kindergarten at age 5. But I would only get aroused when I heard or saw others get spanked, which happened fairly commonly where I lived in the U.S. during the 1970s and 1980s. Paddling was used pretty commonly back then, and I got to hear quite a lot of other kids get paddled, especially in my elementary school (grades K-5), but also during middle school (grades 6-😎. Usually kids were taken out of sight, but you could still see them being taken away to be paddled, and hear the sound of the paddling, and the crying and begging of the child with the teacher sternly telling them to be still and why they were paddled. (Sometimes, what I heard was even more intense than that, with kids fighting their punishment and being held still while they were paddled and screamed and cried. One time, they even paddled a particularly misbehaving boy in front of the class). All of these things made me very aroused and very facinated.

But for me, spanking was very much a feared thing, and didn't make me aroused. I was a sensitive kid and wanted to avoid being spanked, for both the pain and the shame of it. I was never paddled at school, but my father (and sometimes my mother) often spanked me at home. Usually the spankings came suddenly, when either of my parents got mad at me for something, with no "ritual" or scolding happening first.

My last spanking occurred when I was 13. I was supposed to sit down and do my homework. But I was easily distracted, and was goofing off. My last spanking happened perhaps a year or so before, so I was unprepared for another spanking to occur. I guess I expected my spankings to be over. But sudddenly, to my shock, my father, obviously angry from my failure to pay attention to my homework, suddenly grabbed the hard sandal off of his foot (which he used to spank me), and started after me. I was surprised and unprepared, but tried to get away. My father grabbed me and made an effort to pull down my pants and underwear, but I was now too big to just grab and hold down, so my father kind-of had to pin me against the couch with me trying to move away, while he swung at my half-uncovered buttocks a bunch of times. He finally stopped and told me to sit down and do my homework.

I was stunned and speechless. I just pulled my pants up, and sat down, and sat there silently in amazement. The thought suddenly came to my head that, "I just got spanked." By this point, I had finally become aware that I had a spanking fetish, and that it was cool that I had been spanked in the past. But remembering past spankings was a different thing that being aroused or pleased while I was actually being spanked, or in the immediate aftermath. But here I was, at 13, in the aftermath of a spanking, with my buttocks stinging, with the embarrasment of the spanking still upon me, and I was now suddenly aware of how cool it was that I just got spanked. Yes, I did get aroused, as I sat there pondering the spanking that just happened, and drinking it in. That was the only time that happened, and it was my last opportunity, because it was my last spanking.

I get my wife to spank me before sex sometimes. She is usually open to doing it when ever I bring it up and has brought out the 5 gallon paint mixing stick several times without me asking. I am always hard by the time I get my underwear down and get harder. I am kind of a wimp about it , but my butt is stinging pretty good by the time she gets done. I do remember one time when I was in 4 th grade. Two girls had stayed in during recess. When we cam back from recess, both were bent over their desks and given some swats with a thick narrow yard (or maybe meter) stick. I remember getting a hard woody from that. I wasn't even sure what was going on at the time.

Il s happened

Just imagining being spanked makes me wet.

@SawMan

I get my wife to spank me before sex sometimes. She is usually open to doing it when ever I bring it up and has brought out the 5 gallon paint mixing stick several times without me asking.

My GF is primarily submissive and often needs/wants to be spanked before sex. But in my dominant role, I sometimes require her to "switch" and spank me. On one occassion, during one such a "power exchange", she surprised me by having me fetch an 18 inch piece of lattice/lath (similar to a 5 gallon paint mixing stick).

We didn't actually have anything like that around our condo, but she had done her homework. She told me to leave for Home Depot and to expect a text shortly. She texted me this link, with instructions to cut an 18" piece for her to use on my bottom...

https://www.homedepot.com/p/5-16-in-x-1-5-in-x-4-ft-Wood-Lath-50-Pack-234629/206436225?MERCH=REC-_-mobileweb_pip_rr-_-206837372-_-206436225-_-N

I felt totally dominated and vulnerable. They have a self-service sawing area where I had to cut the implement to 18" in public. Of course, anybody could be cutting/purchasing an 18" piece of lattice/lath for any reason, but I couldn't help imagining that other customers and the HD checkout clerk suspected how my 18" piece was to be used.

I was rock hard for the entire time I was in HD and during the 5 minute dirve home! This scenario reminded me of having to go cut my mother a switch from one of the apple trees in the orchard down the drive from our house. The apple trees in that orchard were a frequent destination for naughty boys and girls in our neighborhood and it was always embarrassing to be seen cutting a switch and bringing it home, especially for teenagers. In the 9th grade my girlfriend (also my next door neighbor) and I had to go cut apple switches together for our mothers, and I couldn't hide that I became rock hard. My girlfriend teased me about it, but later admitted that she also became very sexually aroused.

Anyway, on this particular occassion (with my current GF), I really did deserve to be punished severely. And she proved that, even though she is petite and usually submissive, she's very capable of blisterin' my butt if I deserve it.

I was aroused while fetching this "paddle", but all thoughts of arousal were soon beaten out of me. Soon after my butt blisterin', however, I was rock hard again and switched back to dominant mode for sex with my GF. Afterwards, she said that she would have to blister my butt more often if it would "turn me into an animal like that".

This thread pretty much confirms that both boys and girls would often become aroused when receiving spankings.

A young boy's arousal (erection) is typically much more obvious to onlookers than a young girl's arousal.

I was wondering whether any women can provide feedback regarding witnessing boys' spanking erections when growing up?

If so, was it a brother, a cousin, or even a friend/acquaintance? What did you think the first time you experienced this? Did somebody (perhaps the disciplinarian) explain the erection to you... and if so, what explanation was given?

When u was spanked as a teenager; I usually had some unwanted discharge. My dad told me to go go the bathroom before he would spankings me. I guess he wanted me to madturbate but he never said so

My girlfriend invited a couple other girls and I over for some fun with her boy-toy. He's a submissive whom she spanks on a regular basis. When we got there we had a drink and discussed various issues related to domination and discipline. She told us that her boy got erect when she would tell him to prepare for a spanking and he'd stay that way. Today she told us he was going to get a reward after the spanking. We went into her parlor and she left for a moment and brought him in and he was on a leash. She told him to go fetch the strap the would use. He obediently brought it and we could all see his cock was hard. He had on thin white trousers with pantyhose and panties underneath. She told him to stand in front of us and prepare for the strap. He took his pants off and then the pantyhose. Now all he had on was a thin t-shirt and pink bikini panties. He then went to the chair she used and bent over it. He then pulled his panties down and asked my girlfriend if they were down far enough. He certainly had a hard cock.

She faced him with the strap and said "well." "Please spank me now and help me be more obedient." she told him to grip the other arm of the chair and then gave him very sound first stroke. "Thankyou mistress. Please give me another." She gave him 20 strokes with the strap and then told i him to stand up. She allowed him to pull his panties up and then told him he would now get a reward for being submissive. "Go lay on the couch, pull your panties down and start stroking your cock so we can watch. I want you t give us a very strong orgasm." If its satisfactory I will spank you again later.

He did as he was told and started to stroke his cock faster and faster. As he started to cum we could tell because he arched his back and was shaking al over. Finally after a couple of final strokes he started to cum and it spurted out all over his panties.

After he calmed down I put his leash back on and et him sit on the floor while we chatted. I admitted to the girls that I always got very wet when I spanked him and they in turn admitted they were wet from watching,From then on they came over about once a week to watch the spanking and my boy jerking off.

I got hard when coach spanked me over his knee in high school the spanking hurt very much but the fact i got hard was even worse

I wasn't spanked growing up, but from a very young age I remember feeling nervous, tense, when I overheard spankings happening in neighborhood homes. That nervousness eventually changed to sexual arousal pretty early on with anything having to do with spankings, like when friends spoke of their spankings, or the topic appeared in books or television. Most of the spankings I heard growing up were administered with a razor strap so when mom stopped giving haircuts at home and I had to go to a barbershop, seeing the strops hainging from the barbers' chairs just a few feet from where I sat waiting for my haircut, especially if the strop was put to use to hone a razor, that was a big time sexual turnon and has been all my life.

Haven't done a whole lot of spanking adventures as an adult, but when I have, I've been hard before, during and after, whether I've been "dad" or the "bad boy".

If I'm ever at a flea market and spot an old strop for sale that too provokes an arousal. It's a "fetish" I guess, and I've collected quite a few of those old strops, from E-Bay and elsewhere, and each holds a hot story for me I guess.

I wish I had gotten lickings with a strop like all of my buddies did, I certainly did a lot of the same bad boy stuff like they did. They frequently paid the price at the business end of a razor strap, I never did, no fair. Oh well. Glad to have Zity available to continue exploring what's been a big-time hot adventure for me.

I wish I had gotten lickings with a strop like all of my buddies did, I certainly did a lot of the same bad boy stuff like they did. They frequently paid the price at the business end of a razor strap, I never did, no fair.

You probably have no idea how lucky you are. You now have fun of the fetish nonetheless, without having had to go through the agony of pain and humiliation, especially when punishments weren't deserved or out of all proportion.

I used to get aroused from a very young age. I always got my spankings over my dad's lap. I was around 9 when i started getting "wet" during my spankings. My father told me not to worry about it and that is a "normal" reaction.

Girls can be bitches!

One of my school friends told me how her younger brother would get an erection when he was being spanked, we were giggling about it all day. I had never seen a boy have an erection and so she said the next time I came to her house she would get him into trouble and I could see. Well, you can imagine I didn't leave it very long!

She waited until he was ready for bed, in his pjs and allowed to stay up a bit to watch TV. She started to tease him about the last time he was spanked, saying things like " is your botty still red!" and "that's what happens to naughty little boys". She knew exactly how to enrage him so he would stand up and scream at her. It did not take long before their Mother came in and caught being extremely rude. She grabbed hold of him, just pulled his pj's down and began smacking his bottom whilst he was standing. My eyes almost popped out of my head as I could see his erection start to grow.

His Mother just stood next to him telling him off and delivering hard smacks to his bottom. We kept nudging each other and could not stop ourselves from laughing. My friend would chip in with his Mother and say things that would make him even more enraged so his bottom would be smacked harder. At one point his Mother noticed how erect he had become and looked over at us and smiled too.

Girls can be bitches!

I don't ever remember getting an erection when I was the one being spanked. However, when I saw, heard, or even heard about someone else getting a spanking, that was a different matter.

After the fact, replaying a spanking in my mind would definitely give me an erection. Then it didn't matter if it was my spanking or someone else's that I was reminiscing about.

My husband gets aroused immediately as I place him over my lap prior to the first spank!! Denise

I forgot to add the same goes for me. 😃 Denise

At the first hint that I am going to spank my husband he gets an erection and maintains the erection throughout and after the spanking. This is always a prelude to sex. He shoots his first load almost a soon as his cock is in me, and then we can go on to a long hard fuck until he come again and I am really satisfied. He tells me that it is not just erotic. Whenever he got a whipping from his dad he was always erect.

Whenever I got a whipping from my father I had to strip naked and bend over his desk. Before I stripped I already had an erection, and the whipping did nothing to cause it to go away. I usually got rid of it after the whipping by masturbating.

I was only 7 or 8 when my neighbour who was maybe 13 would spank me.

In those days we were all naive and both of us were fascinated

Suffice to say the last time she spanked me I was 17 and we knew more then!!

Everytime I was grabbed and had my pants pulled down, I was always hard. I think my mom noticed but she never said anything

I became wet a few times being spanked while growing up.

When my wife decides I need a spanking I am sent to the bedroom and told to get naked and wait for her. Most times I will get erect in anticipation but once the spanking starts I quickly go soft.

I was spanked by my aunt when my sister and me visited for vacation. I had to Strip nude and got very hard when the spanking started. My aunt smiled but didnt say anything.

I was only spanked or caned up to the age of 11 and at that age I didn't really know anything about erections and I was still a little boy down there. I hated being punished at the time but I found on the few occasions I saw others getting punished I found it very exciting but I couldn't honestly say whether or not I had an erection. Once I was about 13 though I used to fantasise about spanking and I most certainly had an erection then.

I got a raging hard on during my first ever caning from my Headmaster. I ran to the boys toilets after and just had to relieve myself. The rest is history now I suppose! I loved it and went back a load more times and I know he knew that I enjoyed it as the bulge in my school trousers was clearly evident for him to see and he frequently cast his gaze down to look at it looked at me and gave a knowing smile!