How many men like to play with men?

When I was a kid, all of my best friends were other boys. Tree forts, skinny dipping and the typical young teen things were all great. There was about 6 of us that would all go exploring each others body for changes. Then all the grab assing games would start and see who would get hard first. Havent done it as an adult but if any of my old friends showed up some day, I might try to re-live my youth again. Those were the times of my life. It all kind of reminds me of the movie out a few years back called "STAND BY ME"--(of course "PORKYS" brings back some great memories too.)

Enjoyed it ever since my early 30s & acknowledgement of my bisexuality.

Am currently trying to start something going with someone in these little bitty cow-towns.

I enjoy playing with men. First had my cock sucked on in Boy Scouts by a classmate who promptly made me put his cock in my mouth probably to make me scared to tell on him. The next time was with another friend and tried anal sex. Unfortunately we tried soap as a lubricate and was not a pleasant experience.

Again another time with another friend was during a sleepover and we jacked each other off. In college I was hitchhiking and got a ride. The guy stopped at his place on the way and while I was sitting next to him he kept slowly reaching over and putting his hand on my leg then working it towards my cock. I kept pushing his hand away but each time my cock got harder and harder. Finally I figured if I came then so what. Once I stopped pushing his hand away he eventually unzipped my pants and started stroking my cock. Then he had me follow him into his bedroom where he proceeded to sit on the edge of his bed and give me a BJ.

That was the first time I had ever had a guy suck my dick to climax. Eventually after getting married my wife at the time and I had a threesome with a roommate of mine. They were in the 69 position and I was watching her suck his cock. It was so erotic and I started kissing her all over her face. She took her hand and pushed my head over to his cock for me to suck on him and the rest is history. We sucked him to climax and took turns draining him into our mouths. I have enjoyed sucking cocks ever since.

Had a next door neighbor with the 2nd wife who was constantly making sexual comments to me and exposing his cock through his shorts. I started exposing mine to him and then one day he wanted me to try on some pants of his that did not fit. At the time I did not have on any underwear and during the changing of pants he commented on how nice a cock I had. He then came over and grabbed my cock and stroked it. He pulled me over to his bed and as he sat on the edge he started sucking me off.

After that day I would go over on a regular basis and we would tease and taunt each other till one of us ended up sucking on the other. I have found over the years I have enjoy many threesomes and enjoyed sex withe both sexes though I prefer woman. Making the other person feel good creates a snowball effect where each person is getting pleasure and enjoys giving pleasure back. Why limit yourself to the opposite sex only?

I don't now, but the camping and the tree forts and the skinny dipping is definitely a part of my past that I'll never forget. And Porky's - one of the most iconic movies of our generation!!

I have always enjoyed playing with my own sex, right from being a pre-pubescent boy. At secondary school the opportunities were many and I loved it. Since I became an adult, I haven't changed!

I like to play with men but only in the last year or so. Maybe it has to do with lack of sex from my wife. But I've met lots of guys and done almost everything you can do with a guy. I don't enjoy kiss a guy though. I don't know why. Maybe it's the beard.

I still fantasize about touch and playing with another man dick. I love dicks and want to hold them and suck them, but too shy and afraid to go about it. I am very selfish I know because that is all I want to do, just play with it and suck it and make it cum! Absolutely no anal, cuddling and kissing, just the dick. I know this sounds strange, but dicks just turn me on. I love looking at them and seeing them cum, it make me hard thinking about it..... Anyone else feel this way?

I am gay so I obviously like playing with guys, but I would love to find a straight guy whose wife is done with sex, not because I am interested in harming his relationship, but because I love giving a guy what he needs, i want help out an older guy on a regular basis.

Not my thing. But the others can enjoy.

I would love to find a straight guy whose wife is done with sex

That seems to be the case with my wife. Interesting.

I would love to find a straight guy whose wife is done with sex

That perfectly sums up my relationship status right now.

I would love to find a straight guy whose wife is done with sex

Seems that way with me too. At some point, i gave up, and maybe i'm not interested to do it any more with her. And I have been chatting with a lot of gay & bi men lately, & consider myself bi curious. Though now still questioning if I have it in me to get sexually involved with a man or not.

As you can see, this list of straight married males no longer getting any is growing quickly.

As you can see, this list of straight married males no longer getting any is growing quickly.

Yep. More and more, this place has become a support group for guys no longer getting any from their wives.

Love the idea of a fetish exam from another man. And I'm even open to the idea of returning the favor with a hernia check and prostate exam. (I'd really like to know what it's like to be on the other side of that Dr./patient relationship.) But I don't think I'd ever be interested in actual sex with another male.

dicks just turn me on. I love looking at them and seeing them cum, it make me hard thinking about it..... Anyone else feel this way?

Definitely. I try to see as many of them as I can in the gym locker room and public restrooms.

I know this sounds strange, but dicks just turn me on. I love looking at them and seeing them cum, it make me hard thinking about it

Definitely. I try to see as many of them as I can in the gym locker room and public restrooms.

I think it's a little different for me. Sure, I like to check out the other guys at the gym. And I think a lot of that has to do with comparing myself to the other guys, trying to reassure me that what I have dangling between my legs isn't so bad after all. But I really don't have any desire to watch another guy cum. That just doesn't do it for me.

Love the idea of a fetish exam from another man. And I'm even open to the idea of returning the favor with a hernia check and prostate exam.

Now, that's more in line with what I want. I'd prefer a nice fetish exam from a female, but if I found another guy that was willing and seemed to be "safe", then I'd be willing to give that a try.

I came as close as possible to getting my ass fucked when I was 13. My 16-year-old cousin and his mother were visiting my family. He and I slept under blankets on the living room carpet. Everybody else slept upstairs in our four bedrooms. In the middle of the night, my cousin started playing with my cock. I woke up erect and it felt good, so I let him continue. He put my hand on his cock and I got him hard too. We played with each other for some time.

Then my cousin begged me to let him fuck my ass. I said no several times, but I finally gave in. I was very anxious at first, but I then I began to enjoy how he got me ready. He pulled off my underwear. He rolled me onto my stomach and pushed my legs wide open. Then he used his fingers and a lot of spit to get my ass slippery inside and out and slightly stretched. Then he lifted my hips up to get me on my knees, and I felt the head of his hard cock pressing hard on my asshole. I was still too tight and insufficiently lubed for him to penetrate me. After more spit, more fingers, and a minute or two more pushing, I felt a little pain as his cock was just beginning to open me up. Suddenly, we heard footsteps on the stairs, and my cousin instantly rolled away from me. It was my dad. He turned on the lights just after we covered up. He seemed to know we were were doing. In a low but angry voice he warned us to stop what we were doing and not to make another sound. We obeyed. My cousin and I never got another chance to finish what we started.

For decades since then I longed to know what it feels like to have my ass fucked. I came so close. My wife and I love everything anal. I love her to fuck me with a dildo and her little fist. We both cum when I really pound her butt with my cock up her ass. If she had a cock, I'm sure we'd love her doing that to me too. We have done the next best thing. She's fucked my ass with a strap on dildo, which I find intensely pleasurable. I think I might love the real thing with a man even more.

If I ever do have a man fuck my ass, my wife has to be there. I'd never do anything sexual behind my wife's back because I don't want to do anything that might harm our relationship, and it would be so hard to get away with it. I'm a lousy actor and liar, and I swear my wife can read my mind now.

I'd love to talk my wife into a threesome with a another man or a foursome with another couple. We'd have sex in lots of ways. I would fuck the other guy if he wants me to, but mainly I want to have my wife (and the other woman) watch the other man fuck me. Then I'd finally know how it feels.

@WildBill2 I'd LOVE to be in a threesome with you and your wife, I think it would be soooooo HOT!!! 😜

I like playing with both men and women. It's more about the personal chemistry and whether we are on the same page mentally about the scene than it is about what genitals they have.

Count me in!!

I would like to play with men too, but only in case if I can do that by taking them as irritated sissyfied cock creatures as special fetish objects, but not as direct men.

Do I really need to answer this? 😉

I'm not romantically attracted to men, but am very attracted sexually. I played with guys from 13 to 20, had one weird experience, and then I stopped for a long time. Now very curious, especially about medfet.

Im attracted to dick but not to men, its weird. No desire at all to be romantic with a man but i love to suck and just this afternoon had the first cock in my ass! It was an amazing experience, went to a theater but it had closed down since the last time i’d been there. There is a sleazy(er) place next door i don’t frequent so i figured i’d go watch a couple bucks worth of trans porn and call it a day. Place is still a dirty shithole, video rooms are in a hallway with no light and no way to know if a booth is occupied, I tried 5 booth doors, all were occupied (no locks, hi!) but i wasnt sure if i wanted to play anymore (im pretty conflicted with this behavior, I'm married and don’t feel good about cheating but my wife has 0 intrest in sex and I get horny. So, conflicted.) and I found a big booth with a chair and put on some nice trans porn. Several guys looked in but left when they saw the booth was occupied, one guy looked in, left then came back inside and shut the door. Without saying anything he latched the door at the top (oh, there is a lock!), undid his pants and started to gently tug at his pecker while watching the screen, not looking at me at all. I keept peeking at his cock, thick, meaty. Shaved balls and trim pubic hair, clean and smelling great. His cock was not long but very thick and nice, he had some kind of underwear/cock ring on bringing the bigest, plumpest sack of balls I have ever seen front and center. After a bit of watching him I figured out i was going to play and asked if I could help, without looking at me or saying anything he put his cock in my hand. i stroked and sucked him for a long time, i’m really envious of guys that can last, I would have blown my load in 1/3 the time. He asked if i get fucked, the first thing he said to me, I got a condom on him (putting a condom on someone else is harder than on yourself, i found), stood and dropped my pants as i told him i have never had a cock in my ass before. He licked my ass for a bit (another first, loved it!) and I lubed him up with spit. We had a heck of a time getting started, I'm a little taller than him and have a big ass, and we only had spit for lube so it was difficult for him to get all the way in. After a long time trying he pulled off the condom and I went back to sucking, i ran my mouth and face all over his cock and balls, covering him in saliva, he grabed my head and gently fucked my face. After a while he stood me up and bent me over to try again, I asked him to finger me and we were able to get him inside me. Fucking amazing! Felt better than any toy, warm and squishy and perfect. He never got rock hard so it wasn’t very vigorous but his hands on my back and hips, along with his fat prick in my butt, felt fantastic. I am wearing a chastity cage, he didnt seem interested so he didn’t touch my bits much, just what i wanted! I kept thanking him and telling him how good it felt, he played with my nipples and kept his hips against my ass as we fucked. We went on for a bit before he pulled out, i went back to sucking him, content to do whatever he wanted me too. He pulled out of my mouth and showed me his precum leaking form the tip, I rubbed it onto him and pulled him all the way into my throat. A bit later (while doing every porn trick I could think of to get him off) he asked if I swallow. I shook my head and really started jacking and sucking, he finished in my mouth a minute or so later. He pulled up his pants and left, and that was that. I cant describe how happy I am, finally having done something I have dreamed about for 20+ years, and the reality was as good or better than the fantasy!

My only experience “playing” with another male was with a cousin when were kids in bed one night at our aunt and uncle’s house. I was maybe 10 or 11 and he was a year older. He started it in bed one night by spooning with me then reaching for my penis inside my pajamas and rubbing it. I let him and it felt good, too. And I played with his for a minute. Then he put his erection against my bottom and began humping me against my pajamas. It didn't last but maybe 10 minutes altogether and he stopped, not sure why. Looking back, I would have let him go further if he had tried, but he didn’t. We didn't talk at all during it and it was never mentioned at all afterward, even though we slept together and played together for the rest of the week.

I would never go out looking for a male to play with, but would like to do a play exam with a male "doctor" that involved an full exam, hopefully an enema, then a rectal exam with prostate massage and masturbation. Anything else I would have to be very comfortable with the person and the situation before deciding to go further, reciprocate in any way or not. I'm not romantically or sexually attracted to men, but am curious about what it would be like in a med-fet play exam.. But I know that will probably never happen. Too hard to connect with someone. Still, one can dream about what it would feel like.

About five years ago I was really looking for an enemate and I was in a chat with a guy who lived in the next town who was also into enemas. We chatted for a while and he asked me if I'd like to play, to which I answered no. However as the conversation continued, my thoughts changed. It had been a long time since I got an enema from another person and I really wanted one, so I decided that gender really shouldn't matter, and we ultimately set up a play date.

We met at a shopping center and drove to his house and it was a very short time before we were both naked in his bedroom. We exchanged enemas and then I left. Although I enjoyed the physical part of it, I found it too clinical and I never felt any emotional or erotic feelings. It's probably not fair to use just this one experience to judge my preference, but old conventions probably die hard. We're still friends, but not enemates.

For me, playing with men is pure sex. No attraction, no romance. Its intense and provides a great release. Highly recommended when your wife has lost all interest in sex.

I'm with tcman on this one. Not my thing no matter how long I've been solo (going on 8 years now). Lots of men here seem to be excited about it after their wives stopped doing much or any sex, but not for me. I did a threesome twice many years ago with a married couple where the wife wanted complete medical exams with enemas followed by fucking her in front of her husband. We really enjoyed it, but the husband also wanted sexual contact with me and that's what made me stop seeing them. Actually with him in the room, just knowing he wanted contact almost turned me off to not be able to enjoy what his wife wanted. I guess I'm just old-school, that's how I'm wired, and at 65+ I've no interest in changing anything. Until I find another partner, I'll just enjoy solo with my fantasy Domme. I'm glad the others have something they enjoy.

Eric

I don’t. Not judging, but I can’t imagine it for me. I have a lot of fantasies, but doing anything with another man while either or both of us are naked is not one of them.

I will admit I admire a nice cock or man bum, but it’s purely from an aesthetic perspective. An athletic physique is attractive to me, whether male or female. But sexually, it’s strictly female for me....

I enjoyed my only two experiences, both at a young age. At about age 13, my best friend and I got naked in our tent on a Boy Scouts camping trip. We cuddled, got on top of each other, and gave each other hand jobs. I did the same thing with a college budy who turned out to be gay and talked me into it. He wanted us to do oral and anal next, but I felt weird about that and bailed on him.

I'm not turned on looking at hot male bodies anything like I am looking at hot female bodies. However, as I've become more anal erotic in the last 20 years, I've become more bi-curious and started to become somewhat attracted to a lean, muscular, clean shaven, male bod. I fantasize about anal sex with such a guy, both giving and receiving, although I'm squeamish about kissing and cuddling with a guy.

I've learned never to say never. But, I don't see that in my future. The closest I'd come I think is to have an encounter with a MTF transsexual. I cannot under any circumstance penetrate. However, I think I'd really like to suck her cock and then have it in my ass. I don't know what the difference is; but, I doubt I would do that with another guy. But, as I said, I'd never rule it out.