Remote control 'punishment'

Has anyone ever gone out in public with a remote control vibrator and had it used by their Dominant partner to control them? I have a fantasy of being made to wear one when my Dom and I went to a party, and if I strayed too far from him, he would buzz it and the only way to make him stop would be to go back to him immediately.

I use to insert a remote controlled egg up my late husband's butt. If he strayed too far or did something I felt was wrong I would hit the button. He knew if I had to hit it too many times he was in for a punishment session when we got home. Loved to watch him try not to react or squirm when I turned it on.

Wow that is an exiting new fantasy. maybe the device can be inserted during an exam.

That's a hot fantasy, perhaps an electric butt plug would be good as well. Much harder to try and maintain composure!

I find this idea scary and hot

Sign me up - I have a remote controlled wireless vibe that hasnt been used yet - looking forward to trying it out for that very reason! Hopefully soon. 😉

I would love going out in public with a remote vibe in me.Not knowing when or where it would be turned on would be really hot. Trying to maintain composure when it comes on unexpectedly. Knowing that cummimg would make it worse.

My lady and I have discussed this and even bought a remote controlled egg for this very purpose. The problem we have is the remote and the egg don't talk at all, I have to have the remote within 6 inches of the egg for it to respond. terrible shame all sales are final at sex shops in my area. $40 out the window.

however she likes that idea, especially for long roadtrips since her car has leather interior that is easily cleaned. 😄

One can only dream

Strict Lady -

Do you recall the kind of remote controled egg you used on your husband. Was it large small? How far away from him could you be and still see he responded to the turn on. Where you ever the recipient ? It would be fun to share this experience while attending functions or visiting friends and neighbors.

Ilove taking my wife out wearing a remote vibrator, love watching her trying to control herself when she is talking to others when I turn it on, have made her cum while trying to order desert from the waiter in a resturant

I have always wanted to do this. My question is, does the vibrating make a noticeable sound at all? if so, what type should I get that would be the quietest?

I did this once with a girlfriend. Once it was inside the vibe made no noise at all.

Can anyone recommend a good model for remote play? also, what kind of range do these have?

I've never been with a partner who shared my fantasies and could be a good candidate to be on the receiving end of my... tendencies. This remote control "punishment" is absolutely something I will be delighted to try when an opportunity presents itself. I am just out of a twelve-year relationship, so new horizons will be able to be explored.

I certainly can imagine myself being perfectly calm, hands in pocket and talking to somebody while my partner is either beside me or further away; acting casual and normal while I press the buttons of the remote(s), the person I am talking to would be totally oblivious to the torment I'm inflicting to my sub.

Of course, the range of such toys is limited, but then, what would be the point of activating them if one couldn't see his partner's physical reactions and/or how she tries to fight them?

The vibrations would also depend on various factors, namely whether the sub is sitting down, squeezing their muscles, etc. (And of course, whether the batteries are about to die!)

We spent $60 on one and were very disappointed in the range. With the 6" wire antenae dangling from her pussy it could only controlled from about 2' away. With her legs together it was even less.

I bought a remote control toy car just for the parts. Disassembled it and re wired it to control a bullet vibe. Packaging the frankensteined parts was challenging, and it only gave us about 8' of distance. Still disappointed. I'd be willing to pay double for a top quality toy with a garentee, but I don't know which to get or who to trust.

I heard of one with a reverse setting, that would turn the vibe on when it went out of range, and turn the vibe off when it was close to the transmitter. Although the transmitter went thru batteries more often, it was perfect for keeping your sub close to you. If they strayed too far they got a continuous buzz until they returned to your side.

Hookajoe,

Although $60 isn't exactly a huge amount of money, I totally understand what you mean about range disappointment: it's a matter of principle. I think the best way for you to find the perfect remote-controlled toy (no matter how much you have to invest in it) would be to read the comments section of your favorite online sex shops. Customers are bound to write a review for a purchased product they hated or loved.

Furthermore, I do believe this very site has a couple of sections about toys where the community exchanges tips, advice, good deals, etc. I'm new here, so I'm not sure where I saw this section, but I'm fairly sure I saw something about that.

Sounds like you are a DIY type. Check out this for ideas

http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=gallery;ox=showalbum;ax=4421

You could also use this to turn on or off a "TENS" unit for some high powered fun.

The uses are unlimited!

Cheers

My girl friend had s girl friend that was between guys and she spent a lot of time with us and spent many nights with us. Soon i was fucking my girl friend and her girl friend . The girls encourage the other one to have fun.We started doing every thing together.Dinners out, parties, trips.i had a remote for my girl friend so i bought a second for her girl friend. i used them mostly at parties or on trips but best was when we were dinning out and they were ordering dinner . They were good for up to 15 feet. Each knew when i buzzed the other and the three of us had a ball till she met a guy and that was 5hat.

I have thought a about a shock collar for a dog. Not necessarily for the neck and not necessarily in the form of a collar. Could use it in the panties or attached to nipple chains

I would think that dog shock collars are the answer as some have 100yd range

If you did not use the shock bit it self I would think it could be used to turn something on .

For me it would be fun out side with the shock bit round my balls or bum . There are u tube videos of students messing about with them .xxx

Years ago I read a story about a Domme who took a message pager, put it on vibrate, inserted it a hollow dildo and inserted the dildo in her submissive and strapped it in place. Then made the submissive wear a tight panty girdle over it. They would go to a party and the Domme would give out the pager number to a friend (or friends) who would dial it randomly during the night!

In some cases the slave was to be the server at the party and would be punished harshly if she(he) dropped any drinks when the vibrating pager went off!

The pager turned internal vibe is an excellent idea. With the proliferation of smart phones I expect there is a decline in the pager market. A clever entrepreneur could make an internal vibe that is driven off pager technology. A combination of different characters in the message could translate into pulse patterns.

How about Bluetooth? Or those items that light up or buzz whenever a cellphone within 10' rings? Oh so many possibilities. I'd be willing to pay handsomely for a toy that worked really well with good features.

I used to "punish" my wife by making her drive with a dildo up her..... Of course you have to make sure that it is slightly longer that her insides.

We had a stick shift back then, and you should have seen the look in her eyes every time she had to shift; which of course drove that thing even deeper.

Oh what fun it was to watch her drive!!!!!

I've never personally had this done, but I have come across some interesting videos from some bridal showers where the bride to be had to wear vibrating panties and the bridesmaids were in charge of the remote. I think it could be fun. ^.^

That is an excellent idea for a bridal party or bachelorette party. Oh how I wish I could be invited to one of those.

It looks like fun! Any ideas were to buy a toy like that? Any suggestions on toys that you used it?

I have spoken about this with my hubby and hoping when we do buy one he will actually have the balls to use it. It would be great to go out for a meal or a walk or watch him play cricket etc. My fantasy would be to use it when we go for a meal and he takes the remote out and placed it on the table whilst "looking for" his wallet.

I've had both an egg type remote vibrator in my butt and a dog shock collar around my sac.

The more effective to me was the shock collar. The model used on me had the option of single shock or continuous. The intensity was variable although it could only be set once per session. When it was activated, it definitely could give you a 'drop you in your place' shock. You will double over and be begging for mercy if you can find the person with the controller. The range on those things can be hundreds of feet. I was at a mall at the time and doubled over trying to hide what was going on. Luckily I was near a bench where I could sit, otherwise I would have been on the ground. You will behave after one time. I think my dome at the time just wanted to see me suffer in public. I really did not want to do the higher settings again. The milder settings were better for an e-stim effect. That setting was more of a buzz or tingling effect and could be very pleasurable.

The vibrating egg didn't really do much for me. I could definitely feel it vibrating inside, but nothing that I couldn't handle easily. After a while it wasn't even that distracting. It became more effective when something else was in there for it to vibrate against. Had two vibrating eggs in and that was very intense. Also had a couple of those metal Chinese hand exercise balls in and that created quite a sensation. With all of these setups there was enough stimulation to cause a dribble of semen, but usually didn't cum. Came only a couple of times with the exercise balls in and while I was sitting on a bench for over half an hour. I guess the additional pressure of a hard seat pushed them all up that I really felt the vibration and maybe some prostate action. With the vibrating alone, I never did cum. Maybe in a vagina with more sensitive tissues closer to the clitoris it would be more effective.

Even more fun when the remote item is LOCKED on and removal is not an option. The Dom or Master determines the time and the place and the intensity of the punishment.

Imagine a nice walk in the park or perhaps a mall and suddenly - the punishment message is delivered - and there is absolutely nothing one can do to get relief except to beg

for it. If sustained for a period of time wetting and other uncontrolled actions can be initiated with outward embarrassment or if wearing one's own personal porta potty well that

is what wearing diapers is all about. Another amusement is having to ask for the key to change one's wet and/or poopy diaper.

Have I got your attention ? - Answer me !

Oops forgot you have that pacifier locked to your baby pink rhinestone collar with bells !