Who likes to just sit back and watch?

I am a combination exhibitionist and voyeur. So I guess I like to show off and watch at the same time. For me, being nude is a turn on.

I think many people feel the same way and some are afraid to admit it. I love to go to nudist resorts and see the obvious and not-so-obvious sexual activity.

Know what I mean? Anyone else like to watch? If so, can you share some of your observations? What have you seen that was a turn-on?

I like to watch other men being barechested. I like to watch construction workers doing their job at summer when it is hot weather. They work barechested and I like to watch them and to take pics of nice men with muscled / hairy chests.

For a number of years I would make at least one trip a summer to Toronto beach on the island. It is interesting to watch the "hung" guys strut their stuff up and down, up and down the beach. Talk about show offs! Then there are the real people who go there simply to enjoy themselves, play volleyball ect. And then there are the others, mostly guys, that stay up from the water and watch and play with themselves or others. I guess I fit in with the latter, I really like being without clothes (makes me feel free) but it is always nice to enjoy the view.

I have always liked to watch, as a little boy looking in car windows seeing fucking. sometimes if you are just observant in public places it is amazing what you see. I also like being naked outside, when I had a boat it was standard practice.

I consider myself a true exhibitionist. I've always enjoyed being the center of attention.

I moved into a small apartment shortly after graduating from high school. I was on the second floor. Each apartment had an enclosed porch area that was interconnected with stairways which lead down to the ground floor. A girl named Jamie lived in a ground floor apartment around back that was perpendicular to our unit. From my back porch, I could look down into her apartment because she oddly didn't use curtains or blinds on her windows.

One night I went on the back porch to get my broom. I happened to look down, and there stood Jamie naked as a jaybird with her back to me. She was standing at her bathroom sink, because the bathroom was adjacent to the kitchen. Anyway, she had a gorgeous ass, and I got in a good 15 minutes worth while she stood and dried her hair. She closed the door for something briefly, then opened it back up and was turned around this time with her panties on, but still topless. Her tits were big and natural, but I only caught a glimpse as she went to her bedroom out of sight. I couldn't stop thinking about what I had just saw, because Jamie was a pretty girl. I don't consider myself a peeping tom as much as Jamie as a voyeur. I was on my turf, and she placed herself in such a way for everyone in the unit to see her naked big as day. She had to know it, or perhaps she just didn't care. That wasn't the last time I saw her naked either. I found out she was a "true blonde" a few weeks later. Standing at the kitchen sink naked with the lights on. She only had a little tuft of hair down there. She couldn't have seen me or anyone else in my unit looking down because the lights are always out on the porch. I guess she felt out of view because the complex is flanked all the way around by tight spaced leyland cypress trees. She also had the only occupied unit around back. I ended up watching her for the next 4 years from time to time. I discovered tattoos she'd gotten, piercings, etc....always a treat to see her naked though. I talked to her several times casually walking about, and she was nice as she could be and full of humor. She never even hinted to me "like what you see from up there"....and I didn't hint back either. If my girlfriend would've came in and saw me looking, she probably would've gotten pissed and told Jamie. Then I'd have some real explaining to do. Either way, I've always wondered if Jamie knew and was just playing some sort of voyeuristic game. She moved out about a year before I did, and I haven't seen her since.

A great post. It reminds me of a nice period I spent visiting by girlfriend. Will do a separate post.

First post from a newbie.

When I was back home after getting out of the army, I moved into a multi-ethnic neighborhood in east Dallas. Next door to my duplex there lived a Mexican-American family.

I came down from New York with my car full of my stuff but had to wait on the government paid shippers to bring the rest of my belongings.

I had a futon, my clothes and a few other things and that was it. I was waiting to finish setting up my place. So I had no curtains at first.

One cool September morning very early around 5:30 a.m. I was awakened by a bright light reflecting on the far wall in my bedroom. After getting my bearings, I turned around and looked out my window to see where the source of the light was.

The houses on the block were pretty close together. I peered through my window to see the light on in the room directly across the yard from my bedroom. And then to my astonishment I saw the Mexican teenage daughter of the family walk into the room naked (except for white panties). She stood facing the window. Mind you I could not see her face. There was some sort of large moon shaped window decoration hanging down to around her chin level. So I could see her from knees to chin basically.

She had the loveliest budding breasts. I was mesmerized! I realized that she was getting ready for school. Apparently the fall session had just begun.

So this became a daily ritual for her. She would stand half nude in front of the window while she dried her hair, apparently oblivious that this mid-30s single white male was thoroughly enjoying looking at her perfectly taut young body.

Of course the weekends were different. She slept in. But I looked forward to the new week!

This continued for a few weeks. But the exhibition drove me crazy! I could not get this girl off my mind...and mind you we had never so much as spoken, nor had I met the mother and father. It was to say the least a delicate situation!

A buddy with whom I had confided my good fortune suggested that I video tape her naked shows. I declined, telling him that I felt like a peeping tom already. He assured me that since I was inside, that was not the truth. Still I felt a little smarmy...but not enough to stop looking while I had the chance!

One morning as I watched - masturbating of course - I became convinced that did actually know exactly what she was doing. I figured that she knew she was giving this poor horny sap a free show, and she was getting a rise out of it....I know I was lol.

So I decided to see if she could actually see me. I flipped on my light and proceeded to walk around the room naked, giving her a show this time, all the while sporting a healthy erection.

Suddenly she drew her shades shut. End of exhibition (on both sides)! Bummer. I blew it.

For a week or so I was afraid that her dad would come over and try and kick my ass. Nothing ever became of it.

But I have my memories at least!

Thanks for a great topic!

What better place is there than the nude beach for watching and being watched. Here in the netherlands about a quarter of all the beaches are nude beaches so there is a lot to enjoy.

Agree with that - there's no better place than a nude beach for watching and being watched. I prefer to watch but I reckon that provided you're naked as well nobody can have any complaints. You tend to hear a number of complaints on nudist forums about watchers but I can't see any issue if everyone on the beach is naked and if you don't want people to see you nude then you probably shouldn't be there.

I do object to fully dressed people on the beach watching though and I do find it annoying that on some beaches you'll find people in swim suits when they could move a few hundred yards down the beach to the clothed section. I know on some French beaches they do enforce nudity and perhaps that should be more widespread.

Generally though I've found most people on nude beaches seem more than happy to display everything and I guess that's why a lot of them are there particularly with some tattoos and piercings which otherwise wouldn't see the light of day.

My earliest recolection was when I was about 10. I lived in a neighborhood where the backyards connected. My friends and I would be in the backyard after dark playing football or something. One night we saw a light go on in a neighbors house a few doors down. We saw the woman of the house undress for the evening and get into her night gown. She wasn't super young or super hot, but it was real live nakedness. My friends and I would always be out there playing football and waiting. When the light went on, we would say to each other 'It's Showtime'. We were super daring and even a few feet from the window. Since it was dark outside and light inside we didn't think she could see. For us, the closer the better. So that is where it all started for me.

When I lived in Paris for work, the flat I was in was across the way from an office building. At night, I would shower and walk around my flat nude just getting undressed after a workout, nothing out of the ordinary. I noticed in the office building across the way, a cleaning lady saw me. I pretended not to notice and carried on nude. This would go on almost every day for a few weeks. I could see that she was looking and it turned me on. One night I had a girlfriend over and thought here is my chance to show off. I got my girlfriend naked and we were having unbelieveable sex in full view of my cleaning lady friend. I would glance up and knew she was looking. I was set out to have a great performance. I took my friend out on the balcony and I am sure others saw that as well but my focus was to show the cleaning lady. The next night, i was there by myself, I got up enough courage to sit in a chair near the window and stroke myself in front of her. She saw me in full action yesterday so at least now she won't think I am hard up or anything right? She watched me stroke myself and we made a clear connection where she was virtually making eye contact with me at a distance. I motioned for her to pull up her shirt and she did. She had a decent pair of breasts. She started touching herself a bit but was clearly nervous of others seeing her, especially other cleaning staff in her office. That was about it. I had no intention of trying to meet her. That connection at a distance was plenty for me. I still bet she thinks about me.

I love to watch 2 girls that are really into each other as they make out and fool around. As the action intensifies if they ask me to join them I am all over it.

I would get really wet if my husbabd where to ask me to sit or stand naked in front of him and him taking great care in " inspecting" my body and remarking on my nipples getting hard or my pussy getting wet. An other fantasy is to be made to clean my windows whilst naked

Nothing better than being on a nudist beach and eyeing up the male talent. Hey if you've got it flaunt it and let others enjoy themselves watching!

I do love people watching in either a textile or sky-clad environment.

I live in a very old part of the city, built during the late Middle Ages. As a consequence the streets are narrow (3 to 6 meters around my house) and so the houses were built very close together. On the narrowest side of our house, no one is living for the moment, but on the other side, at around 6 meters remove, the opposite house is divided into several apartments, one which is slightly higher than the floor I sleep on.

Now since I´ve never liked (or been able to) waking in darkness, I have no drapes or curtains on our windows. The streets are narrow enough as is and sunlight scarce. So, I go to sleep without ever drawing curtains.(which we´ve never installed on that floor anyway). Our across the street neighbors are about my age and the husband sleeps naked and likes to open their curtains and window and in the morning greet the new day by staring out the window straight towards my bed. He gets up far earlier than I do and I know he knows I am watching but still he does it - mainly I often think for his wife´s benefit. A bit later in the morning she too opens the windows, looks around, does some window cleaning, all the while knowing I am undressed in my bedroom just across the street. For fun, I often get up and fiddle around in my room without dressing.

During the day it´s not uncommon for us to meet on the street, but nothing is said or indicated about either our showing off naked or looking.

When I looking for a house to buy, we came across this one that had an 7 foot wooden fence around it. I didn't think anything of it at the time, but when I got back to the apartment I checked the internet for nudist in the city and sure enough the club met at this house.

When I looking for a house to buy, we came across this one that had an 7 foot wooden fence around it. I didn't think anything of it at the time, but when I got back to the apartment I checked the internet for nudist in the city and sure enough the club met at this house.

And did you perchance end up buying that particular house and maybe a large telescope to go with it ... ? Ha ha

On a nudist beach with a small group, one young guy dozed off on the sand and woke up exhibiting an erection.

Started to reach for a towel, but an older Dutch lady told him not to cover himself.

Said his condition was natural and part of his character. He did as he was told.

It completely removed embarrassment for everyone - we could all watch and/or enjoy his exposure but no feeling of voyeurism.

Back in the day when I had access to a great nude beach I loved sitting back and watching. And as much as everybody says there are no sexual overtones at nude venues, there most certainly are. It is amazing how many people will drift form the beach to their tents in the day to release the tension and walking around at night, man you could hear a lot of good sex. I try and be discrete but I really enjoy the female forum and there was no place to enjoy it in all of it's wild beauty than by the lake.

On another note, wet girl, if your fantasy is to come and do nude housework, ping me off line and I can send you a ticket over here (smile) How would you feel about painting the outside of a house, and/or helping to shingle a roof as well? Just kidding, but I got a good chuckle out of your desire to do windows in the nude...

There are still several beaches on the Atlantic in E.Central FL. where few visit most of the time and as long as you have someone to keep an eye out for visitors you can sunbathe or swim a long as you like.

I love to show my body and my ass. Am very fit and my ass is so hot. I enjoy tanning and keeping myself looking good. I love to be a exibitionist. When my pants hang to low and u see half of my ass. Is my ass hot? What do u think? Would u think it was hot if u saw my ass in public. If I had ripped jeans and my ass was showing?

I love watching but I get a real kick out of being watched . I have watched people doing all sorts of crazy things nude and been watched as well. My wife and I had a very varied sex life and attended many adult parties .We also had close friends we used to play strip games with and we also enjoyed being given dares to do the riskier the more of a rush it was .

I live in a very rural part of the south and my driveway is very long and secluded. My pool is on the other side of my property and I must cross the driveway to get there. The mail lady usually leaves everything way out at the box on the street. About two months ago she brought a special delivery down the driveway right as I was coming back from my pool. I was totally naked with a towel around my neck. I started to dry my hair and pretend I didn't see her and extend the show. I did not plan that but took advantage of the situation. I put the towel around my waist and signed for the package and all the while just feleling flooded with excitement. I can't tell you how much that stuff turns me on!

Been to a couple of nudist beaches, and i enjoyed them, to see all the different shapes and sizes of men and women,

it is nice just to sit back and people watch.

I love to watch my lover getting dressed when I know she's going to fuck someone and let me watch....or when we are hoping to turn a meeting with one of her female acquaintances into a threesome by having her seduce the female.....watching her give the third person an enema makes me cum like crazy!!!

My Asian friend is running a BDSM studio, and a couple of times I was invited to his sessions as an observer to increase the "patient's" humiliation.

It was pretty interesting.

My boyfriend went to an adult toy store to get a male masturbator. After making his purchace he noticed a video previewing theater. He paid the fee and entered the theater. He sat down and after a bit, his eyes and ears adjusted to the lighting and sounds. He noticed commotion behind him so he turned his head and there were multiple men performing sexual acts on each other...There were sounds and smells of sex, blowjobs, handjobs, and guys having intercourse. Stunned at the realization of what was going on behind him, he turned around to watch the movie however he could not focus on what was in front of him. After a few minutes of sitting there he started to get excited knowing that the guys were sexing each other no more than 5 ft away, he got up from his seat and went to the opposite wall. He watched them and noticed they were going from partner to partner. After 15 to 20 minutes he left stunned and excited. When he got home he broke in that masturbator really good, three times. ?

Welcome to zity @Sexjetta. I hope you have fun here and find what you are looking for. I also hope you helped him break in that male masturbator, LOL.

Thankyou @easy123 My boyfriend and I have been looking at this site a couple days and we like it. And no, unfortunately I didnt get to help him out that night. ? We didnt know each other when he experienced that. We do know each other very well now, and that story was something he shared with me a few times. He has gotten me into strap ons and pegging him which I'm extremely happy to do to him, very sexy and enjoyable. ? New to both of us