How do you feel about being placed in a corner with panties lowered?
I usually place my spankee in a corner, panties lowered, nose touching the wall, hands at her side, heels together for 10 minutes prior to her spanking. It gives her time to anticipate the spanking and by the time she is ready to go over my lap for a hairbrush spanking she is already sniffling. After the spanking it is back to the corner by her ear to stand until she calms down,