I always tell my man to lower his trousers and pants - but first, I tell him to fetch the cane, which hangs up in my side of the wardrobe. We're still in love, after fifteen years.
Our routine started when we were first together, we would spank each other's bottoms for fun - just part of sex, really.Then I found out that he'd cheated with a girl at work. I didn't want to ditch him and he was terribly sorry & he asked if I wanted to slipper his bottom. I made him bend over and I whacked his bare bottom with one of my sandals, when it was really red, I dropped my knickers and ordered him to go down on me, then we fucked and it was the best ever.
Later he told me that his mother used to cane his bare bottom. We bought a proper rattan cane - like the one she used, a real school cane - and I made two discoveries.
1. I discovered that I enjoyed caning him. I loved the way his bottom cheeks tensed as the cane whistled down and twitched when it landed. He'd gasp, a thin white indentation would cross his buttocks turning into a pink line.
2. I discovered that it gave him the biggest hard-on I'd ever seen. Now, I cane him whenever he steps out of line - or just because I feel like it.
He knows when he's in for it because I'm wearing my dark blue business suit. I tell him to fetch the cane then I tell him to drop his trousers and pants. He's required to bend over with his bottom facing the light, that way I can admire the view - and, of course, my aim is better. I tell him how many strokes he will receive, usually the traditional six - but sometimes up to twelve, then I cane him - hard. It hurts with every stroke, his scrotum gets tighter and when I've finished he has an enormous erection, then I tell him to replace the cane & then I sit down, pull my knickers to one side and order him to pleasure me with his tongue. Eventually, I tell him that he may now remove my knickers, the sex that follows is wonderful.
I was never caned as a child, though my head mistress slippered me a couple of times and my father was going to beat me with his belt - before my mother stopped him.