Shave vs no shave

Personally, I like to keep grooming on a personal level of obedience. I take extra pride and care into being presentable daily. This is something that I would allow as a sort of special event of exploration or maybe a sort of bonus but only if he really enjoys doing it himself.

I prefer shaved as well. As a male sub, makes me feel more exposed. It also makes me look and feel less masculine, which I like as part of the play.

My ex-mistress would have me waxed every six weeks. We would go together, Mistress would dress me as she desired which usually meant that I was completely pampered, stockings, garters, corset, lacey panties, demanding that I lay my girly items out neatly to be seen. The sylist became an aquaintance as we visited her throughout the years. Soon she began using my Mistresses´s language, refering to my penis as a clit and my ass as my vagina. My Mistress would assist the sylist and torture me if ever I were to whimper and show any signs of pain. I love being freshly waxed, being submitted to the humiliation of being presented as a woman and being physcially and verbally abused by Mistress and an almost perfect stranger who I think may have enjoyed our visits as well. By all means I suggest this adventure and would love to be submitted to it again soon!

Ever since about ten years ago, when we were playing, and my then wife tied me down and shaved me from collarbone to upper thighs I have kept myself that way. Now, when I begin to grow stubble, I feel unclean. It doesn't make me feel either more or less submissive, though.

I like being shaved.It does make me feel more submissive,but I suppose that is an individual thing.I only wish my wife was more into the dom role.She will give me a good spanking.I would love for her to give me enemas.

I shave my face, chest, pits, balls and shaft and trim(#1) the rest. this gets less attention in the lockerroom but still is obvious and reminds me that I am not a real man.

Wife and I both shave each other's pubes in the shower. I love opening her up, and getting her really smooth. She does the same to my ass.

I'm not a full sub, but sort of heading that way in that I'm always a patient or the one nude.

I'm usually fully shaved, occasionally I have a very small tuft of hair above my cock, but not often. My ex was very hairy and having me shaved bald was her way of saying who was the boss! Other girlfriends have been shaven, but still wanted me smooth. I do still feel very exposed standing there naked, shaved and erect.

I do not think that it has an impact on how you feel, but more of complying with the master's wish.

Clean-shaved genitalia, so sexy...

It's cleaner even whith any kind of lubricant.

Once in a great while my husband will shave himself for me.

I LOVE the feeling of his penis where it joins the rest of his body as I lube him up and stroke him to jerk him off. I also enjoy the sensation of no hair between us during intercourse.

I wouldn't describe my wife and I as in a Dom / sub relationship but the Times we fully shaved each other it was very much a Dom / sub thing. It only happened twice with roles reversed and some time apart and neither of us at the time wanted or even expected to be shaved. In both cases it led to subsequent embarrassment and from my point of view it was really good to see both sides of the coin. I felt very much in control wielding the razor but was really horrified and felt helpless when I realised my pubes were for the chop. Ironically my wife then decided that fully shaved wasn't for her while I've preferred to be fully shaved ever since.

At the age of 24 I was shaved by a former lover and remained that way for over 18 years. My husband had always seen me bald and 2 years ago he asked me if I would grow my bush so he could see what it looked like. I did, he loves it and I love it. While I may trim it for my bathing suits in the summer, the bush is here to stay.

Count me in as one of the women who has returned to the full bush, never again will I be shaved.

Tillie

I always shave any submissive, that i feel, will enjoy the feeling and the look. They seem to be closer to me afterwards, and want to please me. I shave, because they like to watch me do it, we call it a bathroom party. I always , watch, their embarrassment rise, as i do it.

Its so natural why wouldn't one want to shave?

Being both shaved either males or females or married I have found allows for closer skin contact during sex,but u need juices flowing so no chaffing takes place.When i,m shaved i get baby oiled around y pubes to make me ready for any contact whatever it my be.

I feel that when i am with a Domme and she makes me shave it does. feel in a way it takes away some of my manly characteristics and makes me more of what she wants me to be.

My dear one has always kept herself shaved clean....she has always done a beautiful job. Not long ago we met after she had just been discharged after a 7 day hospital stay...she was rushed and anxious to see me....I told to come as she was and that I would take care of her. She was embarrassed to be seen with stubble...and tried in the most adorable way to hide herself from my gaze. I was having none of that and laid her on my bed naked from the waist down....bum square in the middle of a snowy white towel. A fresh razor..shaving gel ready I could not resist taking my baby's temp...her cute little rosebud pouted for it. Temp taking is always a quick way to establish her submission...and I took it in the diaper position with little one holding her legs up and quite wide....I started to apply the shaving gel thinking I would be efficient in managing our time but got a panicked "please hold it" "I don't want it to get lost up there"...I played with it...twirled it...slid it gently deeper and watched it get slowly squeezed out...this had a predictable effect on me. The most perfect pink vagina tried to hide in that short field of stubble...a wet excited vagina. I enjoyed shaving her bare...so careful not to allow anything to sting the pinkest bits..the careful stretching of the delicate lips to ensure a close cut....my kink list is growing

My boyfriend prefers me shaved, even though I hate it. He'll let me get about two or three weeks until he looks at the forest on my legs and hands me a razor and tells me to go clean myself up.

Who thought shaving down there in the first place? I know women in other countries do not shave so what made it popular? Is it really that exciting to fuck someone who looks like they gavent hit puberty? (I know this isnt the case, but it used to be my argument against it when i first started having sex) I'm wondering if the razor companies subtly introduced shaving for women in the arm pit, genitals, and legs to increase their sales. They knew the sheeple of the world wouldn't resist if they were viewed as unfeminine because their legs or their pussy weren't shaved. Even my younger sibling, barely 13, has to suffer because her gymnastics leotards require her to shave herself in her privates so she wont show any hair. What's next, men shaving their legs?

I wouldn't mind it so much if it didn't irritate my skin so much in my lower extremities. It takes forever to fall asleep at night when all the hairs on your genitals are prickling and itching. Work becomes a battle of wills between an embarrasing itch and making sure my coworkers dont see (i dont get to sit behind a desk, i have to deal with the public at all times). It also doesn't help that I'm practically blind without my glasses so I tend to miss spots.

If im feeling generous, (and if i want to be eaten out) i will shave myself for him. he never returns the favor though.

Dont get me wrong though, when i am shaved and i know i have done a good job it feels so good and sexy, especially if i wear soft pants.

I started getting waxed several years ago around Christmas time when we went into NYC for the day. My husband had a few things he wanted to do and so did I. That was one of them. Since then, I have been waxed about once a year at that time. More recently, I got a professional wax pot and decided to do it myself. I got used to the hair pulling sensation and it is much less painful after doing it a few times.

I even waxed my husband a few months ago all around his penis and scrotum. We both loved the completely smooth feeling of our skin. Sunday I was out for the afternoon, and later that night we went to bed, and he had waxed himself! I won't ask him to do it, but I loved sucking his hairless cock and balls.

The good part about waxing is there is no stubble when it grows back The new hair shaft starts out fine and tapered, not cut and square edged from a razor.

Shaving or waxing only makes you submissive if you do not want to do it.

I'll have to give waxing a try. I've only ever waxed my eyebrows before. I've been nervous about getting waxed down there because of the pain of ripping all those hairs out in such a sensitive spot.

I shave when told to do it by a person controlling me. However, I do like the look and feel, so sometimes I shave just because.... Shave less often in winter than other seasons. Usually shave on my own, but have been watched.

Shaving is a mutual and intimate thing to do. It's hygienic for instance possibly one is receiving pleasure or giving. You need to be clean to keep bacteria to a minimum. It doesn't matter how you remove the hair but, how you keep your self sterile. If you make anyone do anything for you it makes them submissive, you are dominant. Someone pleasuring you by shaving. Makes you more confident, be assertive all the time never bow down to the idea of reassurance. That makes you weak...

It absolutely does.

If I hear this hygienic argument for shaving ones twat or nutsack again I think I am going to puke. Do you know anybody who has ever died from pubic hair? Really.

Why not just come out and say shaving is a good idea because, well, golly gee, darn it, I *think* it is a good idea.

There really are no other sound reasons.

Who thought shaving down there in the first place? I know women in other countries do not shave so what made it popular? Is it really that exciting to fuck someone who looks like they gavent hit puberty?

It´s not only pubic hair that indicates that people haven´t hit puberty. There are lots of other bodily indicators and factors that change after puberty. This rather outdated negative argument about shaved pubic hair being a longing to regress to pre-puberty is full of shortcomings.

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But about pubic shaving being popular: it is something that has been in and out of style throughout virtually all recorded history. Historians, travelers and cultural commentators from the time of Herodotus till modern times and all periods in between have regularly described (intimate and erotic and religious) customs of foreign peoples and cultures. The differences between cultures and customs is a fascinating thing to study and often helps to put ones´ own cultural practices into perspective. Besides, most open-minded people have always been fascinated by the sexual practices of other cultures, making books and publications on the subject popular.

Descriptions on the state of pubic hair often crops up in these kind of books, with for instance Herodotus describing removal of body hair in certain castes and professions in Pharonic Egypt. Romans and Greeks also regularly changed their minds about the desirability of pubic hair, it going in and out of fashion for no real discernible reasons - and they also had their defenders and detractors of the custom, just as we now also have. Also well known are stories of Crusader knights in Outremer becoming enchanted by local practices of pubic and body hair removal, not only while residing in the newly conquered lands, but also bringing the practice back to Medieval Europe via use of razors or various creams or hair dissolving poultices and so on ...

In our modern world it´s probably safe to say that the widespread availability of ´pornography´ and erotica is reason for the newest more or less widespread adaptation of shaved body hair. People see it in sex magazines or tapes or on-line and it strikes many people´s fancy. Uncharitably you could call it a ´monkey see, monkey do´ thing. Charitably you might call it the diffusion of a good idea by example. It all depends on your point of view.

I think being shaved for both parties is wonderful! As has been mentioned, no hair in the teeth. I think the smoothness feels very good. But also, the act of shaving and being shaved can be extraordinarily sensual.

I've been shaving since I was 20 my girlfriend ( Mrs.l ) started me shaving ..first just trimming slowly she had me fully shaved With a small strip like her .. we both like it. recently She waxed me much better. . Yes it stings !!! 😉 but it's worth every ounce of pain

I've done the shaving thing, but my hair just grows back way to quickly for that, so I am going to venture into sugaring as soon as I have the alone time to really take my time with such a delicate area with it. But in general I am all about being smooth. It's really psychological for me, when I am not smooth I tend to find myself in more depression like moods etc. and the lack of hair makes me feel cleaner all around.

In terms of if it makes me feel more submissive... To an extent probably but my lack of domina to either do the sugaring herself or praise/punish me for not keeping up with it takes away from it.

I shave now and then but prefer it when I get waxed.