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My wife is aware of my love of enemas but it took a couple of years to slowly introduce her to the fact that I enjoyed them and intended to find pleasure in using enemas. We have been married for roughly 10 years and I would say it took 2 years to get her to come around and accept that I enjoyed this type of fun...

The thing about women is, the longer your married, the more relaxed they become to the idea of new things. It also depends on the woman's age... When my wife was younger, in her early 20's she was very Up-tight about a lot of things... Very closed minded to anything she had been brainwashed to believe anything erotic was bad... I'm several years older than my wife and I introduced her to vibrators, dildos, etc. and other techniques that allowed her to finally experience a TRUE orgasm herself. This was a real awakening for her because before I used vibrators on her I'm quite sure she had never experienced an orgasm before. Now she is in her very early 30's and she has really come around quite a bit from her former frigid self and learned to enjoy and seek out the pleasure of orgasm.

It's in this newly found joy of sex and orgasm that my wife now is open minded to the concept that I derive pleasure from receiving enemas and using other forms of prostate stimulation.

Now I use enemas while she is at work. She is aware that I enjoy enemas but I'm working towards the day when I can give myself an enema while she watches or perhaps takes part in the procedure.I don't like the fact that I am expected to HIDE my love of enemas... I honestly would like to have a room in the attic that I close off and turn into a doctors office with enema equipment hanging from the walls...

I swear some people are just so up-tight when it comes to things like enemas... I mean why deny yourself pleasure?? Why go through life knowing there is such a amazing way to enjoy such eloquent and sublime pleasure and choose not to enjoy it??

Rocco

Ditto to Larry 688 comments

RedBulb99

From about 10 years old I recognized there was a strange excitement and pleasure when getting or giving myself an enema but it was a private secret. When I got married, my new wife did not bring any enema equipment with her and gentle questioning led me to believe she never had an enema. I had a bulb and a bag hidden away that I used when she was shopping or otherwise out for a while. After the Penthouse Special Preference letters came out I decided to test the waters. I bought a new bulb and put it under the bathroom sink. One day she pulled it out and asked, "Is this what I think it is?" I admitted it was an enema syringe, and I found it way more pleasant to use than a laxative. She put it back with little comment.

Some time later I told her I had read that some couples found it fun to give each other enemas, and I would like to try it. She said something like, "That's gross." One evening after much sweet-talk I suggested that she give me an enema so she could see how it goes. Reluctantly she agreed and after much more sweet-talk she even let me give her a few. She didn't like it. She said she just couldn't get past the worry of losing control and making a mess, so she refused to receive any more.

For a while, she gave me an enema if I asked her nicely, but eventually told me to just do it myself if I had to have one. So now, she knows that when she is out shopping, or whatever, I am likely to give myself an enema.

moliere

I don't completely hide it, but I also don't flaunt it. She knows I take, but I'm not sure if she knows (or admits) that the enemas have become "dual use."

I usually do it when she is otherwise engaged, unless I'm feeling bad from being backed up.

I'd love her to give to me, and asked once when I had some issues going on that made it difficult to give to myself. Her reply was "I'm worried I'll hurt you." Now I have something else going on that can make it a little harder (and will probably get worse) so I'm trying to get my courage up to ask again and point out that I'd be happy to teach her while I'm more able to handle it. Don't know what the response will be to that, nor what the response will be if I get a rather obvious erection during the process (should she consent to give to me). I'm still debating whether I should go out of my way to control my penis at first if I get her to give to me or just let it go and tell her how much having a beautiful woman give me an enema (obviously) turns me on.

Richard D

It may be difficult to address the issue with a new lover, but by all means tell him/her about your enema fetish before you commit! Yes, there's a good chance your partner won't understand or even be turned off altogether. Nevertheless, It can and should be a deal breaker. Finding out later that she/he is not erotically compatible is a recipe for frustration, guilt, and resentment. Don't let it happen. The same is true for any sexual fetish. Honesty is the best policy.

Senecaguy

I feel bad for people that have to hide it my wife knows I do them but it's not a turn on for her. She often knows when I do them and sometimes she asks if I had fun. Hope she will be able to enjoy them with me someday.