What does prostate massage feel like?

A prostate massage is probably the most pleasurable experience you will ever encounter, whether it’s done by a toy or masseuse. Unlike a penile orgasm, a prostate orgasm can last an indefinite amount of time and has no recovery time. It will give you an immense amount of pleasure again and again!

I'll tell you about an experience I had...

I met a guy here in my town who said he liked pleasing younger men. He was in his mid 40's, I am in my mid 30's. He undressed me, massaged me all over. Head to toe, both sides. Then had me get on my hands and knees and started riming me. Then he slowly used lube and started to enter me with his finger. He then started slowly hitting my prostate. Keep in mind as a gay male, I am a top.

...as I would squirm and move around he would say, "hold still." He kept slowly massaging my prostate. I continued to move and squirm around. He lightly spanked me and said in a more firm tone, "I SAID, hold still." Then finally he let me turn over and lay on my back. He began to orally pleasured my cock for several minutes. I felt like I was really close to orgasm. Then he put his finger back down there and started to enter and then hit my prostate again. I jumped a little as I felt a jolt run through my body. Then I started to squirm around again. I was done with the prostate massaging. I had this before, but I was kinda over by this point. He then told me to hold still again and relax and take deep breaths.

As he continued I tried to relax and have an open mind. But it was a bit much for me. I told him I was done with that! He listened and stopped massaging my prostate and turned his attention to my cock and began to solely focus on oral pleasuring me. At one point I reached down and grabbed my cock and held it at the base and arched up to make him deep throat me! After a few minutes of me directing him he stopped and put my hands behind my head and told me to keep my hands there. He then went back to pleasuring me.

Without thinking I reached down to play with my balls and he quickly grabbed my hands and turned me over. He spanked me a few times right on my ass and told me to STOP and to submit to being pleasured. at first I was kinda stunned. But yes... I am almost always a dominant type of male who doesn't submit to these type of things....

Then he turned me over and began to pleasure my cock once again. I was so close. Then he reinserted his finger and started massaging my prostate yet again. I was doing everything I could to hold still. He then removed his finger and continued to go down on me. I gave him a split second warning that I was about to bust. He removed his mouth and I JIZZED a BIG LOAD!!!!

I was ready to get up but he told me stay laying down and left the room. After a minute he returned and washed me with a warm cloth and held me in an affectionate way that was so soothing. Then he let me stand up and as I did... he put me in a soft robe and had me lay back down as he cuddled me for a few more minutes and told me how he was happy that I resisted and let him pleasure me with an open mind. He said he could tell that I was the type who didnt submit to these kind of things.... and he was right!

Then he took me in the bathroom and let me shower. I took a warm shower. He left the room and returned a few minutes latter with a warm towel that he had placed in the microwave for a few minutes. I used the warm towel to dry off before he took it from me and finished drying me off. It kinda left me with a pampered feeling.

....thats my story.

A prostate massage feels great gives me the strongest orgasm I can have get totally lost in the bliss.

I'll tell you what it feels like when receiving oral and done properly, IT'S FANTASTIC!!! I've had a couple ladies from the past who knew how to do it well and really enjoyed it. They wouldn't lose a drop, and one would say she needed her protein shake. 😉 😜 😜 😜 I'd have explosive orgasms. God I miss those two. 😢

He spanked me a few times right on my ass and told me to STOP and to submit to being pleasured. at first I was kinda stunned.

I love this story because I'm similarly a top who has discovered over the last few years that I like to be dominated sometimes, given the right person and the right mood. But in an age of consent, it's sometimes hard to discern when I want to let someone overpower me in the moment. Still a question I'm wrestling with personally.

@theretheresimian : its good for you to relax every now and then and be pleasured.

When done correctly its a strange feeling. Not the orgasmic goodness you'd be lead to believe. The initial feelings are often more like slight discomfort and pressure. If the giver is skilled and you have patience that soon starts to become pleasurable.

If the prostate is healthy and normal, it's a strange yet pleasurable feeling, almost like you need or are going to take a piss/urinate. And from what I know, it's a similar sensation that most females feel if massaging/rubbing the 'g-spot.'

A female licensed massage therapist ("Sirena," whom I've posted about elsewhere), who was *very* open-minded, introduced me to a variety of erotic practices that I enjoy very much, to this day. Given the boundaries that she set, and I agreed to, she and I never had intercourse, or oral sex (though she did let me kiss her pussy, once)... but we did just about everything else, including a few things I hadn't dreamed of.

On one occasion, when I was face down and naked on her massage table, with the sheet already gone, and she was massaging my hips, which was always heavenly, she surprised me by saying, "I'd like you to raise up and get on your hands and knees."

I remember thinking, "*This* is new!" But of course, I complied.

I heard her put more oil on her hands and rub them together. Then I felt her place her right hand on my right hip, then use both hands to spread my cheeks. I felt my anus open and let in the cool air.

I could feel Sirena leaning in, and for a moment, I wondered if she were going to kiss it.

She didn't, but she did blow air from her lips, to caress my sphincter in that way. Then I felt her oiled fingertips touch my ass lightly, then start making circular strokes there. It felt so good that I couldn't keep from rocking my hips a little.

She whispered, "Let me know if this is OK," stroked my anus again, and then gently and slowly dipped an oiled finger inside me, with a slight corkscrew twist. I remember that it burned slightly, and I spasmed, but it felt wonderful, as she dipped her finger in and out, and I told her, "That is VERY ok."

We fell into a rhythm, with her penetrating me, slipping out and back in, me rocking slightly, and she soon started slipping two fingers in and out, and using her left hand to stroke and tug on my oiled balls, with strokes to my perineum, at the same time.

I was breathing hard and rocking against her firm oiled fingers as they came in, and felt a few drops of pre-cum dripping from my stiffening cock onto the massage table. It still burned a little (it made me think briefly about a novel I'd read, where the American male hero is raped by a ninja, and how the penetrations burned), but unlike Nicholas Linnear, I was in heaven.

Deep inside me, her fingertips found and circle-stroked, then pressed against my prostate, which felt electric, though somewhere halfway between pleasure and discomfort, at first. Yes, it did feel a little like I needed to pee, and I spasmed against her fingers, again, but she kept stroking and whispered, "Shh. It's OK."

More pre-cum leaped from my glans. I felt her left hand catch the drops and use them as lube to start stroking my cock, as she continued to press rhythmically at my prostate.

I usually didn't cry out when cumming, especially not at her clinic (she didn't want her secretary to know what was going on), but I did that time. I came against her fingertips in my rectum at the same time that I came with my penis, shooting all over the sheet. I dropped down and she held on while I did so, her left hand smoothing my hot cum across my belly, squeezing me there, and then sliding up to insert one cum-slicked finger into my ass.

I was literally gasping, and I said something like, "That was like being male and female at the same time." She "mmmm"ed in response, then patted me on the hips, removed her finger, stroked my ass one last time, and went to wash her hands... then returned with hot washcloths and wiped and scrubbed me down.

The way I remember it, she had stayed dressed (shorts and light blouse) the whole time, but before finishing the massage, she unbuttoned and took off her blouse, then her bra, wrapped her arms around me, and held me against her naked breasts for a while.

That was the first time she penetrated me, but certainly not the last.

Weeks later, thoroughly hooked on our new 'routine,' I asked Sirena whether she would fuck me with a strap-on. She said that she would have to draw the line, there, but recommended that I try a prostate massager, while masturbating. I ordered one, and found that the climaxes that come with having my prostate vibrated while I jerk off, are orders of magnitude more intense than usual. Highly recommended.

I wish I had thought to ask Sirena to take some photos of me receiving her prostate and scrotum massage. Or better yet, asking her young assistant to take photos of both of us while it was going on. The assistant in question had quite a sense of humor, and knew about Sirena's "extra services," so I'm guessing she would have been fine with it... but probably Sirena, who was very discreet, would have said no.

I had looked forward to asking for a prostate massage (from a specialist in same) on an upcoming trip to Bali, but of course, all I can do at the moment is dream about that.

I use a very firm, actually very hard, stainless steel anal toy called a PureWand for my prostate massages because of its length and smooth hardness. When you put it inside and contact the anterior low rectal wall below/distal to your prostate, it just feels rather pleasant, rather like "that stainless steel toy I just pushed into my anus felt really good," like a nozzle or butt plug, but strictly anorectal, not primarily sexual. When you move the massager up higher on your front rectal wall, the sensation changes dramatically from anorectal to frankly sexual, which tells you that you've found your prostate. To me, it's a mixture of feeling like I need to pee a bit plus I'm just about to orgasm if I massage this any more.

As you keep massaging, every stroke of your massager feels like you've found the ultimate sexual spot to stimulate because it feels like this is the center of the spot that spasms during a regular penile orgasm. When you're masturbating the usual way, stroking your penis up and down, you eventually climax, including a feeling of ejaculation spasms way down inside around the base of your penis. Stroking your prostate feels like your directly in contact with and stroking that very spot, but without the need for any outside (penile) stimulation. So you just keep massaging your prostate because it feels so intensely good, and it usually starts to feel like you are leaking some fluid out the end of your penis. To me, the whole prostate massage feels so good in itself that I'm satisfied. However, if you're lucky, with continued prostate massage you may actually feel some. spasms with extra semen being pushed out, which I gather some people call a prostate orgasm.

And an additional bonus is that after I've had enough prostate massage, I've usually been stimulated enough deep internally that it then helps me have a much easier regular penile-masturbated orgasm, with or without the SS PureWand left in for more stimulation. Since I really don't get decent erections anymore from ED, this is a great satisfaction.

Eric

This video on prostate massage is one of the most erotic things I've ever seen.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=f8mAOtMnvOY&list=PL15LTKyqbt3MtzIkGb5qUZ6xZuZO1FqpG&index=1

I would have been in seventh Heaven if I'd been the patient... the woman with the rubber gloves pulling down his underwear slightly in front, with all those students watching and taking notes (!) as she palpates him, then starting to massage his prostate internally while the doctor holds his just-covered penis up and out of the way, eventually exposing his shiny balls as the prostate massage continues, the doctor lecturing all the while... Simply incredible.

It's lucky for the doctor that I *wasn't* his patient... there's no way I could have gotten through that demonstration without climaxing.

Massaging or pressing on my prostate digitally only gives me a sensation that I need to urinate. It would be nice if I found it stimulating, erotically. But, unfortunately, I don't. Any body else like this?

Massaging or pressing on my prostate digitally only gives me a sensation that I need to urinate. It would be nice if I found it stimulating, erotically. But, unfortunately, I don't. Any body else like this?

Morty,

See my note below, #71. If you keep massaging all over your prostate it should change from just feeling like you need to urinate to actually feeling erotic, very erotic. To me it feels like I'm massaging the exact spot where my very deep pelvic orgasm spasms occur during a regular masturbation or PIV orgasm. Now if you press too hard it can actually hurt until letting up on the pressure, but experiment and vary the level of your massage pressure and you should find a pressure that works for you. My post below also gives you some guidance on how to find the right spot inside your rectum. Post again here if you need more help. Enjoy yourself.

Eric

Sorry. Not my cup of tea, as they say. Not really interested in developing the knack for it, either.

Does nothing for me , just feels like a loose golf ball in the trunk / boot of the car. Either that or my prostate is in my ankles

You probably never had it done properly to get the pleasurable aspects of it.

I usually massage it externally which takes longer and yields the same very satisfying result.

You probably never had it done properly to get the pleasurable aspects of it.

you maybe right Suzie....but i dont get the option too often

Ask Suzy what it feels like. She knows everything.

@EnemaAndIvory said

Ask Suzy what it feels like. She knows everything.

Yes, I do.

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I've never had a man that didn't want it done again after having a screaming orgasm, because I know how to do it and I have posted how in a few posts.

Next time if there is a next time, @Marty, pee first.

@Parker said

This video on prostate massage is one of the most erotic things I've ever seen.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=f8mAOtMnvOY&list=PL15LTKyqbt3MtzIkGb5qUZ6xZuZO1FqpG&index=1

That was about the worst prostate massage I have ever seen and NOT EVEN CLOSE to being erotic.

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I would have been in seventh Heaven if I'd been the patient... the woman with the rubber gloves pulling down his underwear slightly in front, with all those students watching and taking notes (!) as she palpates him, then starting to massage his prostate internally while the doctor holds his just-covered penis up and out of the way, eventually exposing his shiny balls as the prostate massage continues, the doctor lecturing all the while... Simply incredible.

It's lucky for the doctor that I *wasn't* his patient... there's no way I could have gotten through that demonstration without climaxing.

If I ever gave a prostate massage like the guy in the video, my husband would say "FORGET IT, DON'T BOTHER" and kick me out of bed. That looked positively awful.

External prostate massage is lousy. You MUST do INTERNAL/RECTAL prostate massage to feel good.

You must be a premature ejaculator if you can't contain yourself for such a horribly done prostate massage.

Yes, it's a great feeling. I'm 68 with severe ED, so I like to use it sometimes to feel near-orgasms and sometimes orgasms by prostate massage without requiring an erection. For me I occasionally generate the screaming orgasms Susie mentioned that she gives her partner, but mostly it's almost a semi-continuous feeling of near-orgasm during the massage between full orgasms. Every stroke of my sex toy/tool (SS njoy Purewand) across my prostate feels like a little mini-orgasm almost identical to what as a male I feel deep in my pelvis near the base of my penis during a masturbated orgasm. It's really an intense wonderful sexual feeling right at the heart of where I normally feel it. The other nice thing about prostate massage is that after I'm done with my prostate, it usually has stimulated me enough that it's much easier for me to have a standard masturbated orgasm, a nice perk.

Eric

I don’t see how you could give yourself a proper prostate massage. Half or more of the experience is the interaction with woman who knows what she’s doing. Video looks like a holistic quack trying to sell something.

Plumber70: I can't think of ANYONE better than "Mr. Stiffler" to show what a prostate massage feels like!!!!!!! lol....

I have been going to a m p ...for about ten years now......i wanted to try this.........most places will do it espsecialy with an older lady......many times they dont bother with a glove on the finger. some oil to get it going.i have had some amazing orgasims like this.....and the amount of pre-lube thats leaking is like a broken pipe..............dont be afraid to try this guys....

I’ve been missing that part of my anatomy for about 20 years due to prostate cancer, which, on a positive note, was encapsulated, thus did not spread and thus far, not returned. There are a few nerves left, despite having a radical prostatectomy. So a deep anal massage can still feel really good. But, many years ago when I was completely intact, I traded some massage with a lady perhaps 20 years my senior, who had trained in Lomi-Lomi massage in Hawaii. She was a great believer in the health benefits of massage, enemas, and prostate massage- in that order. She had one of those colema boards, where you laid on your back, a slender tube about 5 inches into the rectum, and water flowed non-stop into the bowel and ran out into the toilet bowel. I also kept a fountain syringe at her place for more conventional enemas. I enjoyed a lot of quality time with her.

Years ago I found the joy of a prostate massage by using a duesch nozzle that I could insert into my anus when I masturbated. I have been able to milk my prostate very easy, and also slide it it in and out against my prostate and the result is much stronger when I orgasm at the same time,

I performed prostate massage on myself just two days ago with a plastic anoscope to the hilt doing clenching onto it at times. Plenty of lube with in and outs along with the clenching onto the scope. After a period of time a sensation began which felt like a tingling of the penis and a inner warm somewhat burning feel at the prostate and i with my thumb and first finger began rubbing my penis head and then with the same two grabbed skin below penis head and began to flail and shake the penis about which resulted in a very intense orgasm and ejaculation. Very pleasurable climax. Fretter

You know when you're having a nice usual penile masturbated orgasm? You hit your orgasm and among the other pleasant feelings in your penis and around your pelvis, you get an intensely pleasurable spasm down deep near the base of your penis deep inside your pelvis. Massaging your prostate with your fingers or firm massager (SS PureWand for me) is very much like feeling that deep pelvic spasm every time you push on your prostate. Very pleasant.

Eric