What does prostate massage feel like?

Can't comment on what it feels like to receive obviously, but having given a prostate massage, I found it from the female perspective to be very arousing, not only the actual massage, but to see the Male recipient respond and enjoy it was just as exciting for me.

I have or should say we have discovered that a prolonged prostate massage also increases the amount of ejaculate that is produced during the orgasm. When stimulated several times during sex it seems the build up of intensity is also a buildup of fluids I dont know why this is but the force of the orgas is stronger as is the hardnes of my penis as well as the voulume of fluids.

When my wife massages my prostate, I'll occasionally get an incredible sensation of her finger being 'inside' my penis. I know it's crazy, she's not even touching my penis, but the feeling is there. It's an amazingly wonderful sensation, but not strong enough to bring me to orgasm.

I love having my prostate serviced by my woman.she has got the magic touch.i love getting up on all fours and having my ass up in the air for her to finger asshole to get to my prostate while at the same time she is stroking my cock and massaging my balls.its such a turn on that she was having her way with my ass, prostate and my cock.then it felt like heaven when i started to cum.cum was just pouring out of my dick.i really love have having my prostate and my asshole serviced.its a great feeling.

I have read a lot on this forum where guys are getting a prostate massage from female therapist? How do these women know where to find your prostate when they don't have one? As a rule of thumb prostate massage can be but does not have to be sexual. For the most part it is therapeutic. I see a lot of guys on here and it is all about the woman getting them off lol! As a massage therapist of 17 years I can say prostate massages are great and can be performed by either sex. Example: Just like you go to either doctor "man or woman" you should view prostate health the same way. Ok keeping it real we know it is the male G spot but when it comes to your health why make is sexual? Example: Men usually master hair-cutting, cooking(chiefs), concierges, and massage therapy. Take care of your prostate Therapeutically by all mean possible. Wrestler I do have to agree with you from a sexual stand point but from a therapeutic stance this could create shock in many guys. LOL! Wickedrub

Prostate massage may just be a well guarded secret that deprives many women from an ability to establish absolute control over their male partners and counterparts. It's hard to imagine that any guy could resist that most intimate of pleasures. If women mastered the art and employed it on a regular basis, many of us guys would be loathe to explore sexuality much further.

That being said, my affection for enemas is inextricably tied to the pleasures of prostate stimulation. I learned a great deal as a small boy, that the enema nozzle and the gradual increase in pressure, create sensations and tingles that were difficult to duplicate. While my fetish is likely more centered around enema and feminine hygiene equipment, the enemas produced sensations that had a profound effect on my body in terms of pleasure, relaxation, and a general sense of well being. Those sensations were directly tied to stimulation of my prostate.

Orgasm or ejaculation was significantly enhanced when direct prostate stimulation occurred. Any orgasm or ejaculation is fueled by the prostate, along with input from the psyche. Both heads have something to do with it. The one containing the brain is the control center and likely increases adrenaline or endorphins that affect heart rate and respiratory function.

Direct prostate stimulation may be a bit uncomfortable for some, if a degree of sexual arousal hasn't already been triggered. I suppose the same is true for G-spot stimulation in women. A gradual build up is most enjoyable. The movie that demonstrates massage and anal stimulation, along with an enema, would be the ultimate in my book. It works for the gals in the movie, and would rock my world to have someone incorporate all 3 aspects.

An enema or douche nozzle is a convenient implement, especially if attached to a bag full of water. Warm or cold produces a variety of sensations. A willing and enthusiastic partner or therapist allows for relaxation on the part of the recipient. Absent a desire for enema play, any dildo or prostate massager is great also. Different sizes work for different preferences. A good massage and clean playground, can set the stage for a great experience.

Digital stimulation with a finger is heavenly as long as fingernails are trimmed. A glove can aid in the process. Fingers can provide varying degrees of pressure both outside the anus and then with penetration. I find that anticipation builds with circular teasing before actual penetration. One drawback is that a finger may not reach far enough into the anal canal to provide direct massage to the prostate and all the surrounding tissues. This is where a dildo, douche nozzle, or similar instrument can be helpful.

Movement over and around the prostate gland provides wonderful sensations, and sometimes, some strong direct pressure enhances the build up of energy preceding orgasm.

I have found that I am quite sensitive from the head of my penis all the way down to the perineum where the muscles of the penis can be felt before turning inward and into the anal cavity. While I'm not as well endowed as many, I believe the total length of my penis includes that entire network of muscle and tissue between the prostate and head of my penis.

While many only consider stimulating the traditional protruding aspect of the penis, attention to the entire complex can enhance and trigger far more explosive orgasm/ejaculation. This added attention and stimulation requires time and patience and doesn't work if a "quickie" is the only desire.

There is some psychology involved also. Much as many women desire cuddling, kissing, and other types of foreplay, a good dose of attention to these other areas of the total sexual complex, can really provide a profound experience that gives the prostate the chance to empty fully. This may be where the fetishistic aspects of enema or medfet play become closely entertwined for many of us. For me, the nurse or masseuse is sure to provide the utmost in care, especially if she knows how to give a good enema along with other treatments. I suppose that others find some degree of stimulation with a doctor, mom, disciplinarian, or other type of figure.

To me it feels amazing. I bought a massager a few years back and have worn it out! Once you get over the fear and the feeling of 'this is wrong' and get used to it, then it becomes amazing.

It is much better then just masturbation. Especially if you have waited quite a few days and built yourself up, using the prostate massager means it is all over very quickly and gets very messy!

You can see more about how it works in the graphic on this page: http://www.manstuffworld.com/male-prostate-massagers-good/638/

Well worth trying it out.

It is an intense feeling. You feel like you have to pee, but the vibrations of the prostate being massage. I call it milking the prostate because you sort of cum without even touching your dick.

I've not actually had my prostate massaged but have certainly had it stimulated both with toys and anal sex.

The feeling is as others have described, intense, as though the penis is rock solid and that you are at a certain point during an orgasm, sort of like the point before release (both internal and external).

Especially during the first few times receiving anal I have felt like i was on the verge of orgasm for almost the whole time and i can particularly remember one occasion where the guy just seemed to be hitting the spot for a good 20 minutes all of which i had my eyes closed in pleasure. Once finished I looked down to see a rather large pool of fluid on the bed below my penis, which was still 'drooling'. Never been able to replicate that but am certainly keen to get 'milked'

I have yet to have the pleasure of a prostate massage although I have experienced "incidental" stmulation of the prostate. It just seems that playing with a man's arse seems to have been either too disgusting or too "rude" for any of my previous partners to contemplate. There was one exception and she had no qualms about it, but enlightened as she was, she didn't know about prostate massage and back then neither did I. My most recent ex was really very self-centred in the bedroom and simply would not engage in anal play as a giver on the basis that "it's something you do to a woman, not a man." Consequently she loved receiving but would not give. I never pushed the issue, of course but it was somewhat frustrating.

So, still waiting to discover, basically!

I have posted many times on this forum about the wonderful and powerful sensations of prostate stimulation. I like doing enemas as a way to prime my prostate for an anal toy after completing a session of enemas. I almost always masturbate using a prostate vibrator (Rude Boy).

For me an orgasm obviously feels great as it does for all guys, but when the prostate is stimulated when you are getting your penis stimulated it is like going from mono sound to ll surround sound. The sensations are not just in your penis but flow through deep in your ass and into your stomach area. It is simple amazing. There are orgasms and then you can turn on the supercharger and magnify and expand the intensity and area within your body that feel the waves of each contraction as you ejaculate.

It's amazing, for example I use '' Lux male stimulator LX-1 – prostate massager '' from Edenfantasys. It gave me a lot of pleasure. Actually, some time ago I didn't think that was cool and had a lot of doubts about buying this toy, but when I've tried it I discovered it's cool ^^

Try it, you'll like it!

My most intense, incredible, and depleting orgasms have been the result of prostate massage in some manner. Any orgasm I have is great but the most body encompassing experiences always involve direct contact with my prostate. I am left limp and exhausted following an orgasm that is induced with prostate stimulation.

It can be very intense. Prostate exams don't do it for me but a massager can blow your mind. deep pulsing orgasms is how to best describe it and as you are blowing your load your ass grips tighter further intensifying it.

Last nigh it finally did happen, me and my husband achieved full hands free prostate orgasm. We have been chasing it for almost a year now, and had many things to learn and discover, The experience was so powerful and amazing that we did decide to share key points for other couples to hold on this long jjourney. Me and Tim are both in our mid 30s, fit, not into bdrm or any type of domination, humiliation or any type of those things, but we do like to experiment and chase kinky pleasure. As for prostate I do use only my fingers(1 to 2), no toys, because I can feel it better. We use only doggy because of easy access and great sight that I get. I wont talk about basic stuff here like lube, gloves relaxing and so on...

First things first, not everyone is made the same way, so we can't promise the things we did discover will work for other couples as well. By saying that I also should mention that we do love each other very much and can talk about every single detail about sex with open minds, for us this experience first of all was an emotional one(we can't imagine how someone could have prostate orgasm without 100 pro cent trust and strong emotional bond both ways).

1)As from above, the first and most important key point is emotional bond and state of mind, we did struggle with this a lot, because Tim needed to overcome his masculinity and bee the receiver, and the constant stress”Is this gonna bee okay? What to do now?” later turned out for us to bee devastating progress wise. We both needed to learn not to stress and just let everything happen and enjoy every second. Tim knows that I love his prostate and everything with it, and him knowing that makes everything a lot easier. Also, you both must bee comfortable knowing that in every human being there is masculine and feminine side, and that's its completely normal for hetero male sometimes to embrace and enjoy the feminine side as well.

2)Conditioning. As I mentioned above we are not in any kind of bdrm relationship, but for last month we both agreed “nono" to any kind of penile stimulation, this did help a lot, because pleasure zone slowly transferred to prostate, could even feel the changes with my fingers. The Hardest part for Tim was to deal with constant hornyness, he did get sexual attention whenever he wanted, but it was “ass only”. After first week his balls started to hurt, because he has been used to cum at least 3 time s a week and was horny all the time, we did discover that soft testie massage helped on this. The looks of testes have changed as well, you could tell that they did hang lower and seemed looser, bigger, softer and fuller on touch. Things work out much better with high arousal, and full testes equals high arousal.

3)What to focus on? You both should forget about prostate orgasm and focus ONLY on relaxing, sensations and pleasure, it took some time for our sessions that ended without ejaculation to feel normal. As a giver you should focus on observing partners body reactions and reacting to them. As for Tim, when his cock loses erection and shrinks abit staying semi hard, that's when i do know that he's prostate is ready for more intense stimulation (faster, not stronger, because if you push too hard pleasure goes away and you are 1 step back), if Tims knees start to clench, I know that his pleasure is high but he is for some reason holding it back. Verbal encouragement and positive feedback here is the key. Say anything that gets the boat going - like “Give it to me. You are doing great. I can feel your prostate filling up, but you need to relax more”, or any kinky stuff that turns your man on. If you are very open minded and kinky, you can even put on some porn in background and give it some wiggle from time to time.

4)Time. Same as for woman, pleasure buildups take time. If you rush things, you will hit the wall pleasure wise, like Tim says, its one point that feels good and you can't get better. By time our sessions did last longer and in the end the pleasure Tim did get was much more intense. Sessions should last at least 30 minutes, the longest session we had been 3 hours, with some brakes.

5)Breath, never let your partner to hold breath, encourage to breath deep and long breaths, right breath equals pleasure waves all over body, which is required for anything to move further. It's ok to moan 😃

6) Opening up. Not only relaxing but inviting anal pleasure in mind as well. Focus on emotional bond that you both have, let it overcome you both and overtake your pleasure. During orgasm Tim was focusing only on giving his trust to me, breathing and “not shaking too hard”.😉

As for giver it has been one if not the most intense and pleasurable experience i have ever had in my sex life. The emotions where overwhelming for both of us and the sight was amazing. The orgasm itself did last about 35 seconds, cock was semi hard, but quite small and I could feel the prostate pulses with my fingers, but semen did not spurt out, for first 15 seconds it was long slow stream of cum that ended with 8 more squirts and few empty ones after that as well. Tim told that he's body just radiated with pleasure waves and at the point of no return the waves just all blended and it was nonstop bliss.

So keep your hopes up, enjoy the process and good luck to you all. As for us, we are staying open minded and on my bd as a gift(my initiative) Tim will present the sight where he is taken anally by another male for first time. So we are practicing for it so that Tim gets maximum pleasure out of it as a receiver as well. Can't wait 😃

Just WOW !!!

Let me tell you, my X used to start playing with my anus and then after she lubed her finger, began inserting it into my bottom. I got so hard (OMG) then she would play with my penis, rubbing it, and eventually putting it in her mouth . I t is hard to explain, but it feels oh, so, good. When I did finally cum, it was like an explosion. Every guy should have it done to them at least once.

It depends upon the context, among other factors whether it's an invasive medical procedure or an intimate sexual session, the emotional and physical state of the man being massaged, and the skill and attitude of the person massaging. Feelings range from intense pleasure to intense pain, from "How soon can I experience that again?" to "I never ever want to even think about that again."

I agree with curiousman. I depends on the context, who's doing it, why they're doing it, and how they're doing it. If it's your lover, they're probably doing it to pleasure you and it can be amazing. But if it's your male urologist, chances are he's going to be very firm, vigorous, and unfriendly about it, and it can be quite uncomfortable. I've experienced both of the above.

Have not experienced an actual prostate massage but do use prostate massagers and would highly recommend you try one. The feelings you experience are awesome and can go on indefinitely unlike actual ejaculation. You experience growing pleasure in and around the anal canal and prostate similar to penal masturbation except you get to enjoy them endlessly!

I agree with curiousman. I depends on the context, who's doing it, why they're doing it, and how they're doing it. If it's your lover, they're probably doing it to pleasure you and it can be amazing. But if it's your male urologist, chances are he's going to be very firm, vigorous, and unfriendly about it, and it can be quite uncomfortable. I've experienced both of the above.

I've only had it done by my doctor and he shoves his finger up there and to me it doesn't feel good and is a bit humiliating. I know this won't end as I get older. I know my prostate is starting to enlarge as my urine stream has reduced from my younger years and I have to get up to pee as well.

RULE #1 IT SUCKS TO GET OLD

Moppy, had the docs finger and have BPH so can relate. Doc's finger and partner's finger are completely different. I know you don't like butt stuff, but it seems as though regular prostate massage might be helping my flow. Anecdote instead of data though.

What's partner's finger like? Amazing when she hits those spots (plural intentional) I've been trying to be more vocal during sex, but when the prostate is done right I don't have to worry about trying ... 😁

Not very coherent though.

My other complaint is not getting it enough!

My wife liked long finger nails, so she used the douche nozzle to massage my prostate. Sometimes while giving me an enema, and other times during sexual intercourse. Every now and then, she’d break a finger nail and cut them all short. Then she’d used her finger for a prostate massage, while I keep my penis deep inside her virgina hardly moved back an forth and around while rubbing her clitoris, as she worked on my prostate. The times we did this produced some of the best orgasm’s we ever had together.

After a number years, happening on a happenstance basics, I was able to get her to keep her nails short most of the time. In fact she willingly did it, because she loved the stronger orgasm’s had as direct result of a finger message of my prostate. From then on, we had a choice, and at times, did both.

@Nurse_Nikki Your post makes it seem like you really know your way around a prostate. Your husband is quite lucky - enemas AND prostate massages!

A few days ago, I went for my typical monthly massage, but my regular therapist wasn't available. I was introduced to a new therapist by the receptionist who said "She will give you great massage." The new massage therapist was an attractive, conservatively dressed, asian lady about 30.

So I paid for the massage and followed the therapist back to the room. I disrobed, lay face down on the towel covering the massage table, and pulled another towel over my butt.

She started by repositioning the towel over my entire back, still covering my butt. She then began the massage over my back through the towel with just some firm pressing & stretching.

Moving the towel over my butt again, she dribbled warm oil over my back and began to massage. Firm hands kneaded my tight back muscles. Her technique wasn't exactly Swedish or Shiatsu. It was more broad and flowing, but still firm. She surprised me when she jumped on the table and straddled my butt, massaging from my neck down to my far lower back in long, smooth strokes. Every time her hands went from my neck down to my lower back I felt a welcoming tingle in my groin.

Without releasing her touch of my back, she dismounted from me, flung the towel off my butt onto the foot of the table and moved around to the end of the table by my head. She continued with that wonderful long smooth technique from my neck down to the small of my back.

Then she surprised me again by climbing onto the table, positioning her knees on either side of my head. She continued with the long smooth strokes down my back, with each stroke venturing a bit farther from my neck onto my most lower back and then inching down onto my butt. Cupping my butt cheeks, her strokes went all the way up to my neck and back. Every time it resulted in that tingle, warming and intensifying.

I was in heaven. It was the most sensual, stimulating, and at the same time most relaxing massage I'd ever had. I'm quite hairy, so she mumbled something about more oil and she dribbled more of that warm oil on the small of my back and onto my butt cheeks. A few drops fell into my crack & that tingle in my groin increased as the drops ran down between my cheeks.

She climbed back onto the foot of the table and spread my feet so she could sit between them. More oil was dripped onto the backs of my thighs and calves. She duplicated those long flowing firm strokes on the back of my legs, from my ankles, through my calves, over my hamstrings, and up to my butt cheeks. Sometimes, her hands moved farther out and massaged my hips, and sometimes moved farther in and massaged my inner thighs.

Then her hands slowed down and made lighter and shorter strokes over my upper thighs and cheeks. The tingle intensified even more and my dick began to grow, pushing down between my legs. I spread my legs a bit more and her hands would "accidentally" brush against my balls or penis.

She stopped and asked "More Oil?" I said yes and she went back to the stand against the wall, opened a different container, and used a waxing stick to get a glob of coconut oil and shared it over her hands.

Spreading the coconut oil over my cheeks and upper thighs she resumed the massage, but with more pressure and intensity. Her hands massaged deeply inside my thighs and moved up to my cheeks, ever more closer to my crack. She began spreading my cheeks, opening me up and exposing my crack and anus. Keeping a hand on one of my cheeks, the other hand started at the top of my cheeks and slowly worked down my crack.

Then she did it, she touched my anus. No one (other than a doctor) had touched my hole before. My dick jumped and the tingles intensified throughout my groin. She slowly drew circles around my anus, gently and patiently massaging and waiting for permission to enter.

Then suddenly, her finger pressed more deeply inside me. Fireworks exploded in my head and my entire body was tingling. Continuing drawing circles, she was now deep within my rectum and the fireworks continued.

I pushed against her hand and she slipped a second finger in and buried them both as deep as she could. My dick was rock hard and pulsating by now, and even though I was still laying on my front, it was comfortable pushed down between my legs.

The two fingers inside me began stroking my prostate, curling and alternating the incredible pleasure she was providing.

Her other hand was flat against my cock, rubbing it back and forth.

I raised my hips off the table slightly which changed the angle of her hand and fireworks again exploded all around me. She pressed deeper and harder against my prostate and encircled my rock hard pulsating member with her free hand.

That was all I needed. I gasped and exploded, releasing my pent up tensions. Again Fireworks in my head, in technicolor, with Dolby sound all around!

I collapsed onto the table, relaxed as Jello, as the fireworks and sound faded.

Intuitively, she stayed with me through this time. Her hands were still inside my rectum and around my penis, but were perfectly still. We enjoyed the intimate glow of coming down after an amazing prostate massage. After what seems like a couple of minutes, she almost imperceptibly began to alternate stroking my penis and my prostate. The movements were incredibly small and gentle.

She asked permission to remove her hands, and she gently and slowly removed them. The towel under me was a messy mixture of oil and semen, but she expertly slid it out from under me without getting any on either of us. Getting a hot towel, she gently cleaned the oil and semen off of me. I check the time and all this had taken 45 minutes. She completed my hour with some gentle effleurage.

With my legs still weak from the massage, it was hard getting off the table and getting dressed. She offered a bottle of water and a lingering hug. Although I never asked for it, that was an amazing massage experience.

What does prostate massage feel like?

I have absolutely no idea, but I would love to get one sometime. As many prostate exams as a doctor has done on me over the years, there is no way it could ever be called a massage of any kind. It's just a quick push of a lubricated gloved finger into my rectum and a quick single swipe of his finger across my prostate and them he pulls his finger out.

I would have loved for my wife to try massaging it, but she never would do it for me. And I think that going to someone and paying to get it done is probably a crime in Texas, if you can find anyone who advertises that they do that.

I have read that it feels really great to have someone massaging your prostate when you have an orgasm, but she never would do that for me while I masturbated.

I have read that it feels really great to have someone massaging your prostate when you have an orgasm.

What is even better is having someone doing both the handjob as he is doing the prostate massage. That way, you can just relax and enjoy it and focus on the orgasm. I have found the best position to be lying on your back with knees apart and bent slightly and the person working on you standing or sitting between your knees. He can use his left index and second finger on the prostate with the right fist doing the masturbation. It also feels great if the person has on exam gloves on both hands.

Well a good prostate massage will have me leaking precum and cum. It happens when I use my NJoy pure wand or one of my dildos. I have had ropes streaming out of me at times

I don't know... yet.. but am eager to find out.