I had transitioned, left home and was living with a friend.
We were both doing sex work. I would only do hand jobs and blow jobs.
I was constantly being asked for full sex, but because of me being trans it was too risky.
We had both started working for an escort agency and I had been offered work in a flat as a trans girl.
One evening my friend quite bluntly said to me, now that you are working for the agency , and when we work together, and also if you work in the flat, men are going to want to fuck you. You can't go on forever just giving blow jobs and hand jobs, you will need to have men fuck you.
I knew she was right. We went to Amsterdam for a long weekend and bought back lots of various toys from the sex shops over there.
Things that were unheard of in the UK. We were scared of getting stopped at customs, but we got through ok.
I had bought many various size and shape dildos, plugs, beads, and eggs. I was about 17 I guess at the time.
I practiced on myself, and my friend practiced on me with my toys.
Eventually I got to the stage where I could take an average size strapon ok.
Jenny, my friend said that she had asked a friend of her ex boyfriend to come round one evening to fuck me. We both knew each other , and after a few drinks one evening Jenny asked him to fuck me.
It was a little strange and perhaps a bit uncomfortable at first, but Jenny kept us both well lubed, and she prepared me with some dildos first.
It was a little strange when he finally came in my bum, but was an experience that I grew used to over the years, and something that I got to like.
From then on, I have been fucked by many men and have mostly enjoyed it. There have obviously been some occasions when I didn't enjoy it, but I believe that applies to all types of sex.