Sex During Menstruation.

During my last period, my boyfriend went down on me while I had a tampon in. I've never had any other boyfriend do this before but I was happy b/c I knew he would probably be open to other things. A few nights ago when I was on my period, he asked if he could earn his red wings. I asked if the thought of that bothered him, and he said no. I was hesitant at first- more because I thought he really would be turned off by the blood. I got an old towel out of my linen closet and he laid it down on the bed. We got started and everything was fine. It felt really good and made some of my cramps go away. It did get a little messy- especially when I turned around for reverse cowgirl. For whatever reason- that really made a mess more than any other position. Afterwards we went into the shower together to wash off. He bent me over and we went at it again. It was a nice night!

Sex during menstruation was never a big issue for me, even in high school. I'd just throw down a towel and keep a washcloth nearby. Of course, depending on how frisky we were feeling, the room could end up looking like part of a Manson family crime scene.

Often my cervix and vaginal walls were softer and it was more comfortable and pleasurable to have sex on my period than other times. The orgasms helped get rid of cramps, so that was always a nice benefit.

I only had one lover who had issues with it. It was about ten years ago. He was a law student I hooked up with from time to time. Real cute guy, preppy, sweet and baby soft peaches and cream complexion that was so fun to put a blush on. What can you say, I tried my best to corrupt him. Before we parted ways, I gave him an experience he never forgot; his first and only rimming and prostate massage. I ran into him a few months ago and he still remembered it lustfully. I'll have to see about a repeat performance if he's game.

So anyway, he and I were having sex in his single bed in the dorm. I was at the end of my period and you know how it is, girls, three days on, then the flow stops, you think it's over, then BOOM, it hits again on the fifth day. So it was the fourth or fifth day and I thought it was over. I was having fun riding him and teasing him. I lifted off him completely and was going to slide him back in, but something didn't feel right. It turns out that I had stripped the condom right off him. (I told you I'm tight.) So, no big deal, I'd just pull this one out and slip another one on. There was a tiny and I mean TINY smear of pink near the tip of the condom and he freaked out. Apparently, the kid was one of those squeaky clean squeamish types and afraid of blood. I thought he was kidding because well, that's just stupid. But his phobia was strong, so that was the end of the night. The big baby.

Of course, there's a slight twist of fate to this story. When we had arrived at his dorm, he went off to the little boys' room and I was going to go to the little girls' room. However, it was not a coed dorm, so I had to stay in his room and wait it out. I had put a tampon in before I left the house and checked it while he was away and it was completely clear. I had left my purse in the car and there was no place to put it, so I slipped it between the mattress and box spring and was going to retrieve it when we were through. But his call of bloody murder unnerved me and I forgot about it. He probably found it at the end of the semester and probably had no idea how it got there. Poor guy.

As odd as it sounds, I turned out to be squeamish once when I encountered another woman's menstrual blood. My ex-boyfriend and I used to swing and he'd invited our girlfriend and one of her male friends over to play, but I was tired and decided to nap and let them have at it. I got up to pee and they beckoned me to join them. The room was candlelit and Christmas music was on the stereo and nothing says orgy like Feliz Navidad, so I joined in. The four of us had a great time and when the lights came up hours later, I noticed blood under my nails. Then I noticed bloody handprints on the wall. I knew it wasn't my blood, so I took her aside and in a whisper and told her what I found and asked if she needed a tampon or pad or anything. I was trying to be discreet and she thought it was just precious that I was worried that the boys would find out. She said that they already knew and it wasn't a big deal. After she left, I spent several minutes scrubbing the blood from my fingernails, but I couldn't help feeling like Lady MacBeth. For days, I kept thinking that I could smell blood on my hands.

Wouldn't sex during this time be somewhat like the first time a girl has sex and her hymen breaks and there is blood? So it can't be a bad thing. 😉

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Wouldn't sex during this time be somewhat like the first time a girl has sex and her hymen breaks and there is blood? So it can't be a bad thing. 😉

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I didn't bleed when I had sex for the first time. I hate to admit it, but I don't even remember what it was like. I remember my first French kiss and the first time I was fingered, but the sex was rather unimpressive.

It's been nearly 25 years since I lost my virginity. Ladies, did you bleed the first time you had sex? Guys, did you have any bleeders back in the day?

My bleeding days have been over for a few years now and I'm very glad to be done with it. I had a hysterectomy in 2002 and I was worried that sex would change, that it wouldn't be as good as before, that it would feel different or that I wouldn't enjoy it or want it as much as before. I'm happy to say that isn't the case. In fact, after I healed, I was like a girl with a new car, ready to test drive it and see what she could do. It's awesome not worrying about spotting, bleeding, cramps or pregnancy. So as much as I didn't mind my period so much, as far as sex during it was concerned, I'm glad it's gone.

First time I ever had sex was with a girl that had never been with anyone either. I almost freaked when it was over (5 seconds later)that I had bllod on me. Didn't help either that we were on my grandmothers bedspread. :O Only bleeder I have had except for the VERY few times I could get the girl to have sex while she was on her period. So many of them seem to be against that.

It is unfortunate that many women and even more men don't like to have sex during a wouman's menstrual period. I have always enjoyed it (even more than when she isn't on her period). And I have always been quite happy to go down on the woman during that time.

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Wouldn't sex during this time be somewhat like the first time a girl has sex and her hymen breaks and there is blood? So it can't be a bad thing. 😉

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Ladies, did you bleed the first time you had sex? [/quote]

Eleven days before I turned 12 years old, my babysitter took my virginity, I bled a few drops then. Three days later I had my first menstrual period. Having had sex later on in life while I was having my period I would have to reply, No, the little bit of blood from a broken hymen is nothing at all compared to sex during regular menstruation.

I dont like my pussy touched during a period so the only sex hubby gets is anal

I'm sure he doesn't complain too much in that case 😮

My lady friend actualy craves sex more at that time

As I'm in a long distance relationship, we have to take what we can get. Having said that I always get much more aroused when I'm on my cycle...

I also get more horny than usual when I'm on the rag. Some months though, I'm really really suffering from painful cramps, constipation and fatigue, and therefore not feeling sexy. While I've never found an orgasm really stops the cramps, a nice hot enema does. I'm always feeling sexy after that, I can promise you. Especially if it's followed by a nice warm (vaginal) douche.

And kudos to all you guys who are not only willing but eager to go down on your lady while she's bleeding. I think that's awesome. You rock!

I do find that an orgasm helps to alleviate cramps, and this is because the reason we have cramps is the same as labor pains--something large is trying to come out through the cervix. In the case of menstruation, what is coming out are pieces of the uterine lining that is sloughing off the uterine wall, because it is not needed to nurture the egg that did not get fertilized that month.

When we orgasm, the uterus contracts in waves and the "mouth" of the cervix "pulses", opening up a bit more and letting the larger pieces of lining through.

That is the time of the month my ex loved it the most. She wanted it more often at that time too. Very enjoyable.

Vinyl or rubber sheeting is easy to clean up when you make any kind of mess. just wash and wipe after your little messy romp. We use the sheeting for those "just in case sub leaks" moments. Though he knows he better not. 😁

Having sex during my period never made a lick of difference to my ex. It never bothered him when he pulled out his "red" penis from my vagina. A wash cloth and a tampon were always at the ready. I always seemed to be extra horny during my periods.

One he asked about anal sex during my time of the month, but I was just not ready to have his penis inserted up my ass at that point in time. It eventually did happen but we really had to work slowly up to the point where it was comfortable enough for me. Once we perfected the technique, it was "gangbusters"...I loved it, and with simultaneous clitoral stimulation, I had mid-blowing orgasms!

However, I always insisted on an enema before anal sex. I learned my lesson the hard way! The very first time we did it, I honestly thought I was cleaned out;...I had a couple of bowel movements within twelve hours and felt confident. Wrong ! When he pulled out of my rectum, along came a coating of smelly poop ! God, I was mortified ! He was very surprised and not happy either. Never again did I trust myself;...always cleaned out from then on. It added another sensual part to the whole process, as he loved to give me the enema and both of us enjoyed wathcing me expel the semi liquid poop into the toilet or if we were camping, into a hole in the ground.

Sex during her period never mattered to me. we both like to put lots of towels down whenever we make love anyway.

My wife and I always enjoyed sex during menstruation. Just planned to change the sheets after and the feeling was different on your dick. Highly recommended.

I never had a problem with sex during her period and I usually thought it was extra sexy. One of my gf said after we were in bed "we can't screw as I have my period." I said "I don't care if you don't care" and we continued to have great sex together since then. I did have one chance to have oral sex with a gf during her pleriod. She told me that she was having her period, and so I told her that I would just stay at the 'top.' So I did just lick and suck her clit, with the string hanging out, and she had an enormous orgasm. She was clean and I had no problem and enjoyed the new experience.

There was never an Ewwww factor for me. I loved it and there was never any need for any kind of lubrication. The blood never bothered me and she seemed to have more intense orgasams which she said helped with her cramps.

The very smell of menstrual fluid may be my favorite scent in the world 😃 I'm only talking day 1-2 blood before it gets clotted up and gross

I admit that the first time I had sex while on my period seemed a bit odd, but it wasn't long before I decided that I really like it then. When I first tried it my bf and I used condoms and it wasn't all that messy as he would remove my tampon before sex and insert a new one in me afterward.

Things are a little more messy now that I'm married because I'm on the pill so no condoms but I also use a Diva cup instead of tampons. But we just make sure to take a big towel to bed with us and everything is fine. I love sex anyway, but during my period it makes me really happy and over the blahs that I sometimes get.

I just put my diaphram in and no messy discharge. And sex during my period is great!

I have been married almost 25 years and my husband and I have had sex on a regular basis whether I was having my period or not. There was a time when I used a diaphragm and it did make things less messy. The only thing is that he won't do oral on me during that time of the month.

Wife & I have had sex several times while she's on her period, but usually in the shower. A couple times, she didn't know she was bleeding, & I was doing oral, I didn't find it so bad.

Several times, we had a long, hard "session", and she started a heavy flow soon after.

I would be fine with 'messy' sex, but she doesn't care much for it.

My boyfriend has never complained about me having my period. We always have made the best of it. As a matter of fact, he liked licking me at that time. I haven't had my period since Thanksgiving and really don't miss it. This past week must've been my "week" since I was so horny I could've jumped a broom handle! I jumped HIM every chance I got!

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We have a red towel in our night table, just to protect the sheets! I find I am much more sensitive, and the orgasms are incredible...All it takes is some cleanup afterwards, but worth the rewards!

I admit to doing it with a condom "on". Some women like to f**k during their period while others are ashamed or apologetic. It depends on the woman.

In a high School Sex Education class a lad asked the teacher, "Can you have intercourse when the lady is having her period?"

The teacher replied, to our delight, "You certainly can if you don't mind a little ketchup on your meat!"

It brought the class down to their knees.

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