Fetishes you indulge your spouse in

I'm wondering, is there a fetish that you indulge your spouse in or that they indulge you with? One that maybe they don't particularly get off on but do just for you?

Med-fet is one that my Wife indulges me on, as well as photography and a few others I've mentioned before.

My husband and I do just about everything together. The list is too long to write here. See my profile. We're just a debauched, lascivious perverted couple who should probably be institutionalized.

My regular play Doc allows and even encourages me to spank his handsome white English bottom because he knows how much I enjoy it. I always spank him on the bare bottom while giving him a stern lecture.

I will also spank him for missing words in the monthly "Readers Digest" column, "Test Your Word Power". It makes it exciting when my Readers Digest magazine arrives in the mail and knowing that I will soon be spanking his bare bottom if he misses anything.

He also encourages me to play with others, so he is the perfect partner for me 🌹 .

Lady Teddy, always open to new ideas and adventures

I'm not married, but would be for the right woman. One of my huge hang ups is finding someone sufficiently kinky. She doesn't necessarily have to be INTO everything I am, but she would have to indulge a few key fetishes, like light bondage, enemas and some anal play. As i've considered this issue, i've struggled with "prioritizing" my fetishes. So far, Enemas are #1. It's been incredibly rare for me to meet anyone outside the fetish community who is into them. Surprising since every corner drugstore sells red bags. Has anyone ever made a list of their most important fetishes, in descending order to the ones they could do without, if a spouse were adamantly opposed? I'm sure that in fetishes as all other things, marriage requires compromise.

Doctor Tom

Other than indulging in mental fantasies, which most everyone does, I can't imagine acting on my fetishes outside of a trusting, honest, respectful relationship. It just wouldn't seem right, and I would feel as though I was betraying the one I care about. But being honest about my desires and kinks, keeping a lightness and sense of humor while showing respect for the other person and her boundaries has meant a world of difference in finding a woman who actually looks forward to trying different things in order to please me--and generally ends up pleasing herself as well.

Im ashamed to say..but i used to indulge my ex in his sci fi fantasties. (star wars, star trek) used to hate it, but i knew how much he loved it. used to involve dressing up and acting as the character while having sex. yep.

Oh dear maddie, that must have left some images indelibly burned on your mind. The things we do for love, eh?

I've taken more than one enema for the one I love. Although finding the eroticism in them thus far eludes me, we keep working at it.

I am sorry to say she has no fetishes of her own..or at least in the 40+ years we have been married ..never mentioned one. She does however let me indulge... on occasion my medfet fetish on her.If she had any type of fetish...I would be more then happy to indulge her.

My wife enjoys my gyno exam fetish and likes me examining / playing with her on our exam table. She likes feeling exposed and vulnerable during hours of being eroticially stimulated. She is not anal erotic, but acquiesces to being rectally examined as part of the exam play. My wife doesn't find anal sex exciting, but she knows that I enjoy it and indulges me to have it with her about once a month.

I am certainly more kinky and depraved for sexual exploits than my wife. I can be pretty kinky to enjoy doing perverted and depraved things with a gyno patient while restrained in my exam stirrups. I also like to be Dominate at times that involves Bondage and Discipline playing. My wife is really great because she knows that I love examining women; and she allows me to examine and play with other women to experience my gyno and BDSM desires .

What is kinky after all ? if it pleases and keeps a relationship going then thats fine,just recently I have taken the decision to enjoy a few things every morning with my partner,she fulfills my fantasy to examine her intimate parts,as she spreads her legs her clit is massaged and lubricated,her breasts are examined in detail for any lumps as last year she had signs of cancer thankfully arrested by tablets,her nipples are engorged with a breast pump,a few tingles with a rubber whip across her breasts redden them up and fially I play titty baby and get her to sit forward as I suckle her breasts,the whole thing is very intimate and beautiful.

Mine indulges my photography fetish but she actually loves it once we get going.

Maddie, you rock! That's awesome. :-)

Thanks dr phillips, i know i do!

I am very kinky and sexual and I get off mostly by pleasuring others. So, most of the things that girlfriends had kinks for I wound up enjoying. When you enjoy something it is really not indulging.

For the most part anything kinky a girl has brought to the table I have thought was pretty cool and I have been happy to go along with.

If nothing else it leads to an interesting life. I look through the forums here and have at least some interest in most of them.

My wife is very good to me and goes along with most anything I throw at her. Recently, she has put a stop to enemas. She rarely wears a diaper for me anymore😢 She's top notch at medplay though😃

I would indulge her near anything, but she has no fetishes of her own.

The girlfriend is big into BDSM. CBT, choking, impact play, and all of it I gladly indulge her in.

She's also the first girl I've had that lets me give her injections, and wears diapers for me, and enjoys being in heavy restraints.

She'll be my wife, hahahaha.