The 69 Myth

What I have found is that I tend to get into licking harder and more intense the closer I get to my moment. Because I'm getting close I get more horny and I tend to be more spontaneous and accept things I normally wouldn't. For example if she's just laying on her back and I'm giving, I tend to shy away from the lower part of her hole and concentrate on her clit. This is because the thought of licking her juices kinda grosses me out. If we are 69ing and I'm really close to my moment, I could care less and the thought of having her juices all over my face gets me that much more closer. This experience with past gf's. My wife doesn't really like giving oral so she feels kinda guilty if I give her oral so we don't really ever do it.

I tend to get carried away horny when 69ing and start fingering and licking her pussy and ass before settling on her clit and sucking until she cums. Usually need towel when in done.

I only came with my partner at the same time just once during my sex adventures, been too hard to synchronize it . oral is the easiest to get there and 69 is fun when partner is on top. One time I liked oral when I lay on my stomach and she took my cock and sucked me off while between my legs. PJ

My wife and I have had some really good 69 sessions and usually cum at the same time, i have gotten pretty good at waiting until she is cumming then i do, if i do my part right it doesn't take long. I am really hung up on her cumming and sometime i get a face full. Towel definitely necessary

Best not to worry about mutual climax... sounds very clinical..but it does happen, and can be great. when the 69 works its like you're licking yourself. There's a great transference when your face in a vagina.

"Best not to worry about mutual climax ..."

In fact, best not to worry. Certainly not during sex 😃.

I find it difficult to reach orgasm doing 69, but I adore the position. I love rolling over. When he rolls over on top the first initial jostles of the movement cause his member to really press deep I to my throat. The initial shock is a "omg, chocking" moment, but it really get blood flowing

I like 69ing but I've never had an orgasm with my fiance during it, he always gets off and has to finish me off afterwards with me laying back because its too uncomfortable of a position for my to get off I guess...

Work on it some more, figure out what works best, what doesn't, whats comfortable and what's not. The biggest joy of sex is learning what works best for the both of you. And while it's work sometimes, that kind of work is fun, entertaining and actually has more heart benefits than one might think. Sign me up, hehehehe.

Mashie

69 is overrated. It can be sexy on occasion but most of the time, I'd rather focus on my lover or lie back and let him take the reins.

Besides, even in the best of health and physical condition, it isn't easy to really get in there and please your partner.

Egirlky, thats how I feel about it... Its fun to do for awhile at first, but then I'd rather just have full focus while pleasuring or being pleasured, and thats kinda hard to do while 69ing I think...

69 is a good start, but truly, I like to lie back and get it or give it without getting it!

My husband Marvin and I enjoy doing 69 on our sides while taking a final enema (we have usualy given each other at least two and often three during the day) a little before bedtime while slowly taking a quart wine enema, 1 part wine to 3 parts distilled water. To enhance the experience we use clear vinyl EZEM bags and hoses and EZEM inflatable barium nozzles.

Marlene

Me and my wife do 69 as foreplay prior to intercourse. I don't think we have ever taken it to full orgasms. I certainly could have an orgasm but my wife wants me to penetrate her before I cum. I would say she gets close to cuming but she is the one who motions to switch to screwing. Depending on how close we were to having orgasms during 69 we usually can reach an orgasm without too much effort while screwing.

69 feels amazing because you are getting to taste and lick your partner while having your cock sucked. I am always on top with my cock hanging down while I eat her out. Sometimes she plays with my anus- that really gets me going. So no, we haven't done 69 to simultaneous orgasms but it would not be hard to if decided to do it.

My wife and I have had some really good 69 sessions and she cums alot and some times I get lucky and will get a face full of squirt. Most of the time she is on the bottom and I am on the top. We use the 69 as a form of foreplay. There is something to be said about man on top, my wife love me to slap her clit and it gets her really wet if I get the timing just right as she starts to cum she will squirt. AS for me the harder I slap her clit the deeper and the harder she will suck my cock. The other thing here that get her really turned on is that with our five by five foot mirror above the bed she can see every thing that is going on. If she squirt's in my face that is like a light going on in my head and I just lose my load right then and there. But not to worry this is just foreplay, I am just one of meany men in this world that will stay hard after cumming by way of oral sex. The 69 is awesome just take your time and see what works best for you be it top, bottom or on your side. Just make it as fun and enjoyable as you can.

Never was much for getting B/J's. Tried 69 a few times with my wife, but I just couldn't get into it, because afterward, kissing her would be like sucking my own.... well, you get the picture. However, never let it be said that I wasn't a good mons muncher. She would literally loose it if I went down on her. And after all, isn't pleasing your partner just as important as getting pleasure.?.

Years ago, when I was first married, I tried 69, but found the mucous that I was licking and getting into my mouth totally repulsive and I have never done it since.

hankb

Years ago, when I was first married, I tried 69, but found the mucous that I was licking and getting into my mouth totally repulsive and I have never done it since.

hankb

Do you find the same issue with oral sex in other positions?

I like sex, and try to have as much as reasonably possible. But over the years I've discovered that if I just concentrate on giving my partner as much pleasure as I can, then I'm likely to have a lot myself. (If that's not the case, then it was a one-time event with that lady.) While mutual simultaneous orgasm (69 or otherwise) is great when it happens, and it has many times, I find a better approach to scorekeeping is to see how many times she says "enough, enough... I need to rest." That's true with any position / technique / etc. And a good lovemaking session has lots of variety and is not rushed. Just find what works for her that moment... and keep making her happy.

[I've never believed I owed, or was owed, any particular sex act. But I have been heard to say "Young Lady, you should realize that you are owed a good spanking when we get home!"]

69 is a position my wife and I tend to 'pass through' in the course of a sexual encounter. It's not anything we set out to do toward the objective of orgasm. From time to time one of us will happen to cum while in a 69, but it is rare and it has never been simultaneous.

She tends to loose focus and let her eyes roll back in her head sooner and more often than I do while doing a 69. That's fine with me. I just love to munch on her snatch from that inverted position. It gives me great access to her bunghole as I slurp and slather down there. It frequently leads to her getting a rim job.

Furthermore, oral sex isn't always being dished out by either of us in a 69 position. There is a lot of manual stimulation and body exploration being conducted by one or the other or both of us.

All in all it is a great way to lay and we both enjoy it a lot. But a mutual suck-fest is not the end all be all for us as we happen through a 69 as part of a good romp.

Truly, it all about the Woman, she must be pleased, I just get so much from pleasing ,its just better

I've engaged in 69 with multiple partners. The only time things aren't equitable is when one or the other of us were in orgasmic delight. Right after, back to 'work.'

Jds4--I have never tried any other oral sex, so I cannot tell you whether I might enjoy it.

hankb

I can't concentrate giving while receiving-it's too distracting!

969 or 696 (you figure it out) is even more fun.

Hubby and I both love oral sex, both giving and receiving, however, we have never been 69 fans. Like others have said, I want to totally concentrate on pleasing or being pleased.

I've attempted this position a handful of times and only achieved simultaneous orgasm the first time. I think that had more to do with the excitement and novelty of the position, not the performance between my partner and I. Since then I can't recall either of us staying in that position until orgasm. Can't ever get comfortable.

I do like the 69. Of course its hard to keep that on for long, especially on top. I look at it more like a forplay act.

For me its more a brain thing. I like getting my penis in her warm mouth and the stimulation there. But its even betther to lie there and getting that blowjob while playing with her pussy. The best part is to realise something like "whoa I get a blowjob from a hot girl ling on me while I see and lick her pussy and ass". That realize feeling while getting worked on as well feels so great.

I don't know that I'd call it a myth, but that doesn't mean it is easy.

My experience is more like the OP. Either I'm focusing so on my work that I forget to enjoy what I'm getting, or I focus so much on what I'm getting that I'm not dishing out anything worth having. It is a classic effort at multitasking. And multitasking means none of the tasks are done well. Taking turns takes longer, but it is so worth it.