The 69 Myth

Hey Group,

Is just me or is a true 69 more of a myth or what?

I must admit that in many many years of trying I for one have yet to be able to concentrate on licking my partner "silly" while having her give me her best.

The myth the the two of you can mutually orally gratify each other to a simultaneous climax is just that... a myth!

Witness that I wind up mesmerized within moments and basically lose focus then stop gratifying my lady... or vice versa.

It seems that in my case the best end game for 69 is that I roll my lady over and I finish her, knowing full well that a well satisfied lady rarely pulls a 68... and "owes you one".

Comments, suggestions!

Cheers,

Rob

You probably will not have your orgasms at the same time, but the simultaneous oralling is great.

Yes Susie, you are very correct in that. Yummy, yummy, yummy!

I agree with Rob. One or the other, hard to concentrate on both.

You can still have fun without mutual orgasm, which I find difficult to achieve in most positions.

It's great to have an orgasm together and it can work with 69 (prerequisites for us are: have the mindset - a more romantic mood - to completely lose yourself in one another as well as your fantasies, be relaxed, have time, and, more on the physical part, both on their sides not one on top).

But it can be just as satisfying, I believe, to pleasure one another orally and cum after one another.

Everything has its time (well, isn't that wise... :-)

Hmmm ... I guess I never realized that the goal of a 69 was mutual (simultaneous) orgasm. That certainly up's the ante! LOL

Red, you obviously haven't read the instruction manual. (LOL). Who cares whether it's mutually pleasurable? The contemporary rulebook only awards points for a double orgasm, and the elusive double-yahtzee bonus score only comes with a simultaneous earthquake. (Perhaps we've all become a bit too goal oriented, rather than recognizing the enjoyment of the journey.) Play nice! W

We love 69ing He can get me going so fast this way. More often than not, we have mutual orgasms

Sixty-nine is no myth. I know that SHE gets more turned on receiving while giving, and I get more turned on giving while receiving.. we may not explode at the same time but we both LOVE it. Oddly enough, it feels very different, at least to me, being on top verses being on the bottom. Both are very enjoyable, though, for both of us.

I agree with the group. We haven't cum at the exact same time, but close. And it's amazing! The more I know she likes it, the more I do.

Noooooooooooo! It is not a myth. Hubby and I do 69 as often as we can and it's awesome. I can't get enough of it and neither can he. The vaginal sex that follows isn't bad either 😃

Wifey likes for me to be ontop so I can give a little thrusting action but she usually goes over the top before me. That means she usually stops actively sucking me so she can concentrate on her climax. Occasionally If she is really horny and If I can get a couple of fingers inside her as I work on licking and sucking her clit I am rewarded with a nice hot squirt. It is harder than you think when she begins to squirm, twist and push, kinda like trying to suck on a pissed off wildcat.

Cheers

Skybear

Practice, practice, practice...then practice some more!

Bigrob,

While I have certainly experienced over the decades some of what you refer to. Over all though, I have had absolutely positive experiences with 69 and an appropriate partner of the opposite gender, often there has been mutual satisfaction on both parts. For me it is definitely not a myth.

G.N.

Enjoy 69 but do have a problem concentrating on what is most important

Lol...

My first GF and I used to do this all the time. We both loved it. She would be on top, and was not allowed to take me out of her mouth until after she had an orgasm. Hey, that was the price for getting to be on top! I would minister to her from below, usually using toys at her front and back door, and occasionally boith at the same time. When she would get close, she would start moaning, which is not easy with a full mouth. I would start to move, forcing myself into her. When she had her orgasm, she would start screaming - well, sort of. Again...the full mouth issue. That was often enough to push me over the edge. So I can assure you, it is not a myth.

Aaahh...like Springsteen said - "Glory Days".

We love it. Yes, you really can't do both spectacularly at once but it's a whole lot of fun trying to break you're partner's concentration 😜

When we really get going my cock is basically a gag while she's screaming. Works for both of us (and gives the downstairs neighbors a break).

We use it as a preliminary

I have done 69 with both male and female partners, sometime we came at the same time other times one came before the other. we both still had fun doing it and the journey there was the best. even added enemas to a few of those sessions.

So much is made of mutual climax that it takes away from the enjoyment being received and giving of pleasure to one you care about. Mutual climax is lovely, but if it becomes your primary focus then you might be missing out .

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Mutual climax is lovely, but if it becomes your primary focus then you might be missing out .

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You are so right , mutual climax can be the target , must be in sight ,

and is to pick up when opportunity is possible ,

don't loose fun , pleasure , happyness only for reaching an hypothetic target.

Don't miss it when you meet it !

I love 69ing, but it's true that if you are concentrating on giving pleasure you tend to ignore your own bits. Still it's nice to do.

I had no idea the "goal" of the 69 was to have mutual orgasms. not that it matters to me, i am happy knowing i am driving my girlfriend wild while i get to enjoy her awesome head. she has had her strongest orgasms while sitting on my face, and she gives her best head while in such a position.

too bad we don't have a place together, or she'd be in trouble right now. 😉

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I had no idea the "goal" of the 69 was to have mutual orgasms.. . . .

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IT ISN'T.

It's one of our favorite ways to have orgasms. We tried very hard to have cum together at the same time we've pulled it off a few times not an easy task, Mrs. L has orgasms very quickly she is normally on top which I love

I had a girlfriend who loved 69ing she was a multi squirters when she started cuming thats when I could no longer hold back anymore and I started cuming to. you gotta get a rhythm and know when she orgasming is very intense once you get the hang of it. I miss those day as my wife now is very conservative and does not enjoy it as much.

I haven't thought about this in a long time. In our thirties my wife and I used to do it once in a while. We never really were able to get the time right to that we came together, but that didn't really matter. It was intimate, loving and fun. This post is making me think maybe we should give it another try, 35 years later.

My GF and I regularly do it and we both find it really enjoyable (especially her) but we were unable to reach mutual climax. Maybe further practice is required...

Oh yes, p.lewis2. Keep practicing and if necessary, more practice. It is a beautiful act that one should not tire of performing.