Submission and enemas

"I am still anxious, nervous, make that terrified to receive them from someone else. "

Have you given yourself clean-out enemas before having you lover give you an enema?

Yes, I have. But I like to do it until everything is clear and that sometimes leaves me too sore to have a lover give me any.

When you are ready you will find a way that works for you - happy e's

This is very much a trust issue for me. I have only been able to relinquish control to three people in my life, my first and third husbands and my lover, Kate. I don't include my mother on this short list because I had no choice. Perhaps I will find someone else that I trust that much. They would need to be a very special person. I can wait...

Many individuals on this thread do not believe that I can take as much water as I do, but my wife knows. I know that to show others would take guts, but I would do it just to prove it.

I want to explore being submissive and receiving enemas. Ideally I would like to meet a woman who as experience and understands this would be my first time. I want to know how it feels when its done right. These recipes that you guys mention gets me hard reading them. I want the enema for the experience then I wouldn't mind being pegged afterwards. I also like what Mr. L said when Mrs. L give him and enema then lets him eat her while he is receiving. So want to try it...

I find I get feeling very "Dominate" while giving an enema, whether to my lover or my daughter. It is simple control, having him/her hold position, receive the flow, expel upon command. I think it is a natural feeling for the person receiving the enema to feel a bit submissive to the person administrating the enema.

I am and always have been submissive. The one reason of wanting to submit to enemas is because I find it humiliating,but also erotic. I need/desire the humiliation because I am submissive and sometimes crave his control over me. I am shy about exposing my body, and by having my partner give me an enema he is stripping me of all control and inhibitions. And I find it erotic, because I do enjoy anal and I know I am being given the enema to give him pleasure by using my bum after it is properly prepared for him. I will also admit, I would find NO pleasure in self-administering an enema. It needs to be done to me, for him( or possibly her).

While receiving them as a child, that was submission. That was then... Now, I consider enemas as a sensual, relaxing experience which I enjoy with my wife as the prelude to anal sex. At no time do either of us consider it submissive as either can say 'stop' and that's the end. We enjoy different positions and solutions. The act of allowing another person to see, and interact with the most personal body parts and activities is one of trust and pleasure. Just my opinion and perspective. Enjoy...

One of the most positive erotic effects of having an enema given by another person is the humiliation of receiving the enema and the submission by you to please that person. That person no matter if they are giving you an enema or penetrating you are in control of you, causing you to submit to their control for your pleasure and theirs.

I have loved enemas since I was a young man. Nothing quite like being on one's back with knees raised and slowly inserting a nice big nozzle. I almost always masturbate at the end of a series. My orgasm is enhanced by the enemas.

Submission is one of the reasons I love enemas. The fact that once the flow has started there really is no stopping it. I love watching the water level in the bag or can dropping and the realisation that you are helpless to prevent it.

The next level for me would be to be held in tight bondage and have an enema administered 'forcibly' by some authority figure. Now that really hits the spot!

Submission is definitely not my feeling when I receive an enema from my GF.

But from her side, she told men and keeps telling that she enjoys it very much, because it gives her the feeling of dominating me, and she finds it highly exciting ! We are not in a SM kind of Relationship, and I do not try to explain any further, as it pleases both parties, so why should I disagree ??? it is just as pleasant when for different reasons we agree that it is so good for the two of us, is it not ?

The submission is part of what makes an enema so intimate. Submission can come in many different forms. At it's most basic, I think both parties have to submit to their respective vulnerabilities. The receiver having to trust and accept that the partner will take care of them and read any signals given. The giver has to accept to the responsibilities given and the expectations to keep the receiver safe and respected. Without this mutual trust and respect, a positive experience may not happen.

I am a in Dom/sub relationship and when slut was given the opportunity to speak to Master I asked about being a submissive and getting an enema. Master stated that enema play is very erotic but Master has not decided if he want to do that with his slut. I am kind of disappointed. From what I hear and read about enemas letting Master administer one is very submissive and shows Master his slut gives up total control. So how do I convince Master to give me an enema???

As a submissive enemas provide me a release like no other

Renee-Tell Master you will prepare and clean up and all he needs to do is put it in you :-)

@Renee Captivated's idea is pretty good if he isn't into it yet. When I have a sub, part of the thrill for me is making her hold it past what she thinks she can, just to please me. Maybe he would like that idea.

As a gay man, I like guys that are masculine and taller and stronger than I am, and I love nothing more than having a very masculine guy submit to a large hot soapy enema!!!

The submission aspect is, by far, the most enjoyable part of the enema experience. Being completely naked on my elbows and knees in front of a fully clothed woman who is about to push a colon tube deep into my backside and unload 2 quarts or more of a hot, soapy enema into me give me chills as well as a powerful erection. When she whispers in a soft but firm voice that I going to get the whole bag and that I better not ejaculate until she says OK, I know she is truly in control.

By golly, e-mate, you've hit the nail on the head! Couldn't have said it half so well myself, but I'm with you 100%! Mom's enemas' post hits home as well: "my mom was in full control" - which was where I first experienced those "helpless", "vulnerable" (etc) feelings. I'm with superlotus too: respect is key. My mom was doing her very best to do what was best for me. As an adult, I love submission as erotic play, but only where the underlying relation is mutual respect and self-worth.

BarryB1963: you said it! What a great feeling of dominance to have a guy like that strip down and offer his most private area to you...

Yes, barry is quite to the point... its definitely an act of submission

I think it depends on the scene that is set as to whether or not the enema is an act of submission. Is being the patient in a play exam an act of submission? How about allowing your play doc to cath you?

Submission is one of the key elements in an enema. No matter how self willed you feel initially, eventually you will have to submit to the tide of water in you. "As relentless as an enema" Receiving an enema from someone else is particularly hot. Turning your back on the giver and exposing your anus, allowing the insertion and submitting to the inevitable after being filled is exquisite! There is the element of humiliation and embarrassment also. "Can I hold it, can I avoid making a mess?" This is what makes an enema from another so sweet. I have observed the same in the women I've given enemas to. The downcast eyes, the grimacing, even the sweating which sometimes occurs. Later the embarrassment of expelling in front of another! I think submission is the core element of any enema. No matter what one does, the enema will win in the end. Now I'm all hot and bothered...

I have loved enemas since I was a kid. I was not one to get them from a parent. Since I was always anal erotic at such a young age, the idea of an enema was a natural interest to me. I love every aspect of them. They can be romantic and loving and they can be so kinky and naughty. I love it all! To me, there is most definitely an element of humiliation and submission that can be involved in almost every enema situation in one way or another. I have always loved that part. I'm not one who is into humiliation in an extreme way but there is a part of it that turns me on. This post hit the nail on the head! It's exactly what I love about it. Knowing your lover has full control over your most private part and knowing that they control what nozzle, how deep, how much you take, when you start and when you stop. How long you hold. Mmmm......It's just a major turn on! On my knee's and not seeing him. Knowing he's seeing it all and knowing I'm at his mercy. Wondering what he's doing to do. It is a big thrill and even a little spanking sometimes. Ahhh.....Sounds so good. However, being on my back and watching him but not talking is just as big a thrill. Only listening to him and watching everything he's doing to me while he's got full control. Seeing how full that bag is knowing he's going to make me take every drop. Then to think of him making me do it all over again after releasing really gets me going but not as much as the thoughts of me holding that final bag of clear water and having him tell me that he's now going to put his erection to use and I need to try not to let it leak out. Anal sex while holding.......Ohhhhh yes!

I enjoy the submission that occurs with an enema. I have no control over a basic bodily function. Being naked while he is fully clothed, in a vunerable position. Sometimes while I am holding the enema I get get a harsh spanking.

Totally agree, it is a very addictive feeling. Lying on my tummy or on my back with my legs pulled up into my chest and spread wide so I can see the very full bag and the nozzle being prepared for me, then, not being able to hide my reactions to the enema as the solution flows into me. 😃

Being told to lay over a lap, and waiting and listening in anticipation of what you know is going to happen. Remembering the sloshing of the water in the sink, the air being expelled from a bulb, the water being sucked in the bulb, and then the metal lid from the Vaseline jar being put on the sink, and then -----

I believe that there is a connection to submission when I am given enemas. To be given enemas by another person is my need and desire. Submission is, for me, giving control of the situation to someone else.