Submission and enemas

I believe that having someone give you an enema is your submitting to them.

I find it very erotic to fantasize about submitting for an enema. Would be nice to have someone to help me live out that fantasy.

My wife gave me an enema I needed before taking a prostate test and I will never forget how good I felt with her seeing me completely submissive

I had all those feelings... when I was very young my mother gave them to me and all I could do was wait for the nozzle to get pushed up in there...

I have been given enemas several times while restrained in some way and I find it makes it more of a challenge to keep from leaking

and even harder if I am spanked or receiving some form of CBT at the same time.

I actually like not knowing what will be included with my enema submission.

Submission is part of the deal for me. That's why the giver needs to be experienced: to assert responsible authority and earn trust. My doctor boyfriend was probably the best - maybe because I trusted him because of his training - but also because his enemas were large, fairly soapy and his technique (he used a pump syringe) on the very edge of the pleasure zone - stopping just short of pain. When giving an enema to some constipated young men (with medical research training) who had asked for them, one said "I trust you completely" which was incredibly sexy to hear (he noticed with pleasure, my erection and precum) which he brought on.

Most times I am either tied down or over a lap, basically unable to move. My latest mistress blindfolds me too so I can't see it coming. Kind of interesting because with eyes closed, you focus more on whats happening. One time I was tied in a "all fours" position. It was great because while I was being filled up, she would shove a breast in my mouth. Really exciting.

With an enema, force is a euphemism for disaster. If you want an effective enema, the receiver must cooperate fully. They have to understand the need.

I like receiving enemas. I love to be submissive to a man. I want him to be in control, of what kind of enema he's going to give me, what size nozzle, he going to use. It's very exciting. My boyfriend would put me over his lap, and give me a 2 qt enema.Plus i'm small, and petite.

Mrs L will typically blindfold me and please me on all fours on the bedroom floor lube up my asshole she will insert one of her large inflatable dildo enema nozzle into me and inflate it as much as I can take. unsnap the enema clamp and let's the thick soapy enema solution flow into me slowly .she'll sit and lay in front of me and has me eat her pussy .squeezing the in line enema pump sending a hard rush soapy water into me .

Mrs L enjoys me moaning with a mouth full of her pussy

Anything submissive turns me on. I guess that's why I'm a sub. I can't say the flow alone can make me orgasm though.

Absolutely. Being bent over and on my knees I am in full submission to my e partner is a real turn on. Although I want my partner to insert and flow as I like, I have no control with the process. It is a practice of relaxation, submission and trust. A wonderful experience.

Do sometimes very large enemas add to the domination factor when a man receives an enema from a female-maybe a masseuse who takes "control" and forces retention of a large-3-4 quart enema?

Submission is a big part of the emotion of getting an enema. The receiver must submit to nudity, penetration, injection of liquid, retention, then the ultimate loss of control, the expulsion. Unlike other sexual activities involving submission (caning, spanking, bondage, S&M) enema submission is not necessarily painful.

I think you called this just right. Being given a good enema by someone who understands it is as submissive as it gets. It's as intimate as it gets.

Submission is difficult for a person who tries hard to be in complete control of everything in her life. I have has severe asthma for many years and although I try to lead as normal life as possible I do have limitations. The meds that I take cause severe constipation from time to time especially when I increase them during an attack. My mother, a nurse knows when things are not going well for me and comes over to check on me often. She has known my doctor for years and has spoken with him often.

Last week I had another attack and yesterday morning I was up very early and called my mother to ask if she could pick up a prescription for me. I did go to church but came directly home from there. When I arrived my mother was there waiting for me. She said I should have skipped church and stayed in bed. She also said that I needed a good cleaning out. I protested but there was no stopping her and in the back of my mind I knew she was right.

Mother was already preparing a castor oil concoction which she handed to me and she watched while I gulped it down, I was then told to get ready for bed with nothing on below the waist. Normally castor oil will take about three hours to work but for some reason this time it started working in an hour and continued working strong for over another hour. I then rested for about two hours until my mother came into the bedroom with a very full 2 qt sop suds enema. This is the part where it is hard for mt to be submissive. I don't know why but I don't like being given enemas when I am sick. I don't like being put in positions that are uncomfortable and being exposed in whys that are so embarrassing.

Three enemas later I felt much better and was glad that my mother does not take no for an answer.

Submission is a important part with enemas for me, the trust and willingsness to give up the control over your own body is something special

I feel that I am a submissive person and prefer the enema giver be in control.

I agree. Getting an enema is as submissive as you can get. Like it or not, when the process is happening, your mind goes into another place and even though you might be concentrating on every detail, your imagination kicks in and you try to visualize yourself in a compromising position and what it must look like to be so exposed.

Submitting to someone else's control to receive an enema is very submissive. you are usually naked, fully exposed and allowing someone else access to your most private areas. You willingly allow another person to penetrate your body and accept the liquid that is injected into your body. This especally true if the person giving is the same sex as you. Some people use various positions but I perfer to use the diaper position when i give enemas. I want to see the effect that it is having on the receiver and to look into their eyes to see the submission there. They understand that I am in control and they will do what they are told.

I love the total feeling of submission and giving up control when I am given enemas. I have a thing for forced punishment style enemas and like to have a dominant take charge and force me into submission to take high volume enemas.

Submission is the best part. Its liberating for a man to give everything up and be at the beck an call of the person who is about to administer the enema.

LisaK summed it up the best its' pure submission. No ifs and or butts.

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It is so exciting to surrender yourself to another.

It would be a great turn on to watch a session happening while being present, seeing the recipient surrender control, while the giver attends to everything.

It isn't submission for me but rather being pampered in a naughty way by a mature woman that I dream of.

As with ronema, I like to pamper my partner and be pampered in turn, if she enjoys giving, as well. I often fantasize about exploring a submissive role, but have limited experience, as most of my partners in play have preferred a neutral role, if not submissive themselves.

Sometimes I make my husband submit to giving me an enema (which isn't hard to do)!

Early on, many years ago, I resisted others giving me an enema. Today I deeply regret those decisions. Now I would like to have it done to me. Then I could decide whether I would like the experience is one of submission or just eroticism. With luck it will be bottom(s) up!! And in!!!

Although I have given myself enemas since my mid-to-late teens, I am still anxious, nervous, make that terrified to receive them from someone else. I have never been able to lie back and take a full two quart bag without a violent need to expel quickly. I worry about an inability to hold an enema, about my lover seeing me strain, squirm and sweat from cramps and pain, about not keeping my composure when I feel I need to expel NOW!

I know these sensations are normal and natural but I've always been shy about bowel movements due to having a father who made me the butt of his scatological jokes.

How does one go about relinquishing control of such an intimate act and submitting to another? What can I do to erase the embarrassment and shame I feel? How can I relax and accept what happens without worrying about all the what-ifs and fearing loss of control? What happens if I do lose control?