The difference between taking and being given an enema

What is the difference between taking and being given an enema?

How do they differ emotionally?

Taking is ok but I'd much rather be given enemas by a friendly lady.

I enjoy taking an enema. I do not enjoy enemas given to me by my mother.

Taking is ok but I'd much rather be given enemas by a friendly lady.

Same here!

I enjoy taking an enema. I do not enjoy enemas given to me by my mother.

Do you still get enemas from your mother?

Would enemas be enjoyable if given to you as an adult in an erotic situation?

Just curious.

Mine are solo sorry to say.

No question about it, one "given" by a caring partner or nurse is the ultimate...for me at least. I'm fortunate to have "both" in one person.

Semper Fi.

the boxcar

Being given an enema all control is surrendered. Taking an enema no control is lost. For example 'you will take it all, just a little more' has more meaning while being given an enema. Certianly a mind game could be played while taking the enema to duplicate this, but...

Also the presence of another person adds to either the enjoyment or embarrasment.

I have enjoyed giving the few my wife has allowed me to give her. I also have enjoyed the few my wife has given me. I enjoy the whole process from preperation through the last expulsion. each part has a different mental high.

I agree that each one is a distinctive feeling, being helpless or being the one in control, I enjoy giving as much as getting, and yes I remember all of my enemas, and that's a lot, my mother was gentle, I have had some from others that were not so, but still I enjoyed them , one Aunt in particular was a little rough and she always plugged me with her finger.

Yes my mother still gives me enemas and if the mood is right being given an enema by an adult can be very erotic for me.

I love taking enemas .. no question about that. But being given an enema is almost a totally different experience. Taking an enema is all about my own touch .. positioning .. manipulation. Being given an enema means that I can totally concentrate on the sensations of receiving my enema .. someone else touching me .. intimately .. very intimately. I feel more exposed when my partner or husband is the one to remove my clothing .. prepare my enema .. enjoy my nakedness .. share it with someone who wants to be intimate with me. Being given an enema means allowing someone to see you at your most intimate .. most vulnerable .. with my most guarded secret.

I enjoy both situations which gibby has nicely summed up. Solo, you can give in to fantasy quite easily. Submitting to someone else allows one to savor being submissive and trusting.

That is a great description gibby, it must be wonderful........

Karma for you "gibby".

Giving is always fun cause it is exciting to position a women oveer your lap and expose her and then insert the nossel and watch it disappear... also nice to know she is enjoying it..............

getting is nice cause it feels so good and is exciting too

Being given an enema is a very intimate experience. Taking an enema is what I have to do in order to maintain my health.

I have been involved with lots of nurses who almost fell out over who could administer the enemas I prescribed. For some reason several of the nurses really enjoyed administering them. I think they had to submit to receiving them when in training school but unfortunately, I was never involved with that

I would be happy doing both. Brian

Alas since i first posed this question i have not had time to follow the comments. All of them are excellent and pose food for thought. I was not certain if anyone here really thought about the difference. Please keep your comments and thoughts coming and I will attempt to be more attentive.

I enjoy an enema solo or being given, but LOVE to give. I am a dominant individual and I believe my mental psyche

dictates which I prefer. As I have had live meetingI have always given, sometimes I dont even get an enema in return but that is okay. I maturbate myself to ejaculation AFTER my emate leaves

Love taking them but hopefully soon will have someone to give me one! Aroused and horny just thinking about it!

I feel from a womans perspective that l enjoy both giving as well as receiving. I have had many enemas from my mother, sister, husband and girlfriends. All very enjoyable to various extents.

I started to masturbate at an early age while being given them over my mothers lap or the tub. Sometimes my bedroom. My mother noticed my state and told me that that was perfectly fine for a young woman to become aroused during such. That it happens to boys and men as well. She told me it excites her as well as my sister when they receive theirs also. My sister told me she secretly touched herself while receiving then unbeknownst that mom knew. I am not sure if that is a plus or not growing up in a medical family household!!!!

But know as swingers, my husband and l have several couples and l have several girlfriends that we enjoy each others company and explore each others kinks that also include enemas.

The difference between taking an enema (self administering) and being given one is huge in my mind! Yes, the physical relief of taking one is good on any level I suppose, but being given an enema multiplies the satisfaction exponentially for one such as myself who craves the submissive side of things. It adds that missing emotional component to the physical sensations of the enema and is the perfect combination in my mind.

As a gay bottom guy, there's pretty much no comparison for me. For me, any time a guy penetrates me constitutes sex. me penetrating myself is masturbation. i have very little experience being given an enema by another guy and tons giving them to myself. Giving them to myself is just prep i do for a Top so He has a clean place to breed. "Breeding" for me is a lot more complex than in the traditional hetero sense. Loosely, it involves anything a Top guy puts inside of me with the desire to make a difference or have an effect... which for me is a sort of impregnation. i feel "bred" by a lot of guys attitude as well; it's all connected for me emotionally.

So receiving an enema is like getting bred and impregnated, and the more the Top is into it, the more deeply that is felt on an emotional level.

I totally agree with @anng, but the barrier to perfection for me is finding a woman partner to administer such pleasure.

Well you're certainly in the right place for that. Good luck.

Well, as all of the previous posts stated, there is a big difference between giving to ones self including masturbating during or after taking an enema. While we all like going solo, I think we all would prefer a partner to share with.

Being given is nice to give the control of your body to someone else to care and nurture you. You have the luxury of just being on the receiving end with no expectations other than just enjoying yourself.

Giving to another is similar in that you are taking control and providing for your partner. You delight in helping your partner benefit the most of the enema. When your partner is having a good time, you are are having a good time too!

Anng (22) is so right on. There are times when I don't feel like flying the plane. I want to relax, be a passenger and not be concerned with working the controls.

My sensations of touch and hearing are magnified when my husband is the pilot. While he is giving me the enema, he knows my non-verbal directions. I love to see the bag hanging next to the bed, but then I turn away on my side and just enjoy the sensations of the flight. At most times in my life, I like to have a feeling of some control. But it feels so nice to let myself go and feel like I'm floating in another world.

As others have said, taking is good and sometimes great, but it is basically masturbation. Being given (or giving) is connecting with another person. It can mean them meeting your needs and you meeting theirs, and that can be better than great.

I enjoyed the analogy of flying a plane vs. sitting in the pax seat. No greater feeling than a pilot cleared for departure and advancing the throttle. But as a pax sitting back as the pros up front push throttles up is equally thrilling. So at times giving enemas is exciting, but receiving opens a whole different set of emotions. Throttle up.

I totally enjoy taking enemas but prefer someone to give them to me. Very erotic to submit oneself to someone who knows how give enemas and relax their bottom.