Female Squirting / Ejaculation

Http://www.the-clitoris.com/

Hubby found that website.

We played 'doctor' and he found my G-Spot and I gushed.

Up until that point, I was sure it was an old wives' tale, too.

Not any more!

Oh yes, female ejaculation is real. I am a squirter, and let me tell you. When it happens, it is such a sweet release. I am lucky in that most of the time my orgasms align with squirting. My only advice is to have a pad to cover the bed or use a towel that has been folded in order to protect the mattress. Other than that, have fun 😁

I squirt too. I really depends on my mood, but when I squirt I'm usually on top and we have to change the sheet when we're done. 😃

I'm not the one to give you a whole lot of info as I've only had this happen twice. The odd thing for me is that it feels good but doesn't feel like an orgasm when it happens. And I've only had it happen once per 'play session' so I'm going to assume that it takes some time to build up another supply. But this could also just be me and my age, kind of like how men don't function the same at 50 as they do at 18.

And if I remember correctly from the article on tantric sex, the couple interviewed said that they would abstain for a month or so in order to produce more intense orgasms, etc.

Squirting all depends on if they hit the G spot or not. Different positions produce different results. I discovered my G spot after my second child was born. Don't know if having a baby did anything to make the G spot more prominent or not, but didn't squirt before.

Hi all listers. I've had a number of experiences of female squirting. I think that the reason ALL women don't squirt is that many are afraid of fully letting go and having a full orgasm. You will all know that some women feel that the pleasure at onset of orgasm is just to much for them and they push you away or pull away from you 'jus a la moment critique' because they don't want to wake the kids or the in laws in the next room by the almost inevitable vocal noise. I find if the circumstances are right and the woman can just let it happen, most will squirt to some degree or other. For personal reasons my encounters are nearly always with WG's (Working Girls, in the UK) but regardless of paying or free I like to get the woman to orgasm first. Even with WG's sometimes after visiting a few times we've got something of a 'relationship' going (Oh yes I know that sometimes its artificial) and it seems like the lady is enjoying it or at least she's in the mood for a shag anyway. I like to get a woman to orgasm with oral and my favourite position for this is 69 (where oral on you might be a bonus anyway). In this position when your tongue is on the clit your nose is at the lower point of the vagina (You're 'upside down'). More than once when the woman has come I've finished up with nostrils full of squirt! I love it!

The inability to 'let go' can sometimes be cured if the woman will allow herself to be restrained (though with temporary liasons there has to be a great deal of trust on the part of the woman).

Restraint means that she can't pull away or push your head away and therefore is taken beyond her usual stopping point. You won't find many women who don't appreciate you having 'forced' this on them once the've experienced a real full orgasm. There is a caveat here though, at least it applies in the UK and maybe elsewhere. That is that if a woman is having fully consensual sex (even consenting to being tied up)and part way through changes her mind and says 'No', or 'Stop', to continue is rape. Many men have been convicted of rape by continuing because they believed that the 'No' really meant 'Yes'! EVEN IN MARRIAGE! You almost might be advised to have something similar to a pre nuptial agreement though what that would do to a romantic evening I've no idea. Anyway, female squirting DOES happen. In many video clips and many written texts the cum is clear, thin, watery and shoots a long way. I've never experienced that and have a feeling (though I stand to be corrected) that it's contrived or mistaken and is really a squirt of urine. My experience is that the consistency of female cum is not unlike semen with a neutral to sweet taste and probably twice the amount as a semen ejaculation.

As I said I stand to be corrected if others know different and if any lady in the UK would like to demonstrate I'd be happy to take part!

Squirting is different for everyone, but for me it usually takes a combination of clitoral and cervical stimulation to achieve orgasm, however, once achieved, my g-spot will also do it for me. One of the best orgasms I've ever experience was when my bf was stimulating my clitoris with his tongue and fingering my g-spot. He got a nice release with that! 😁 Yes, ladies, you can train your body to do this too. You just have to be open and able to relax.

I only squirt when I am having a powerful vibrator used on me.

Of course it's real, I have experienced it myself, not as often as I would like to, but it does happen and when it does it's wonderful!it's like having a crying orgasm, that kind that takes you to the heights of sensations that are impossible to describe in words...

Who says that women can't ejaculate? I think it is the most wonderful feeling... some women experience it more than others and I have no idea why this is the case... I myself have only done it once and have been looking forward to it ever since but to no avail... I don't even know how it was that it was achieved, all I remember is that is was the best sex I've ever had in my life.

Think back, what was your state of mind, your surroundings, are you with the same person, were you ahh "impaired"? Was there some special music playing, a certain odor in the air, what were you wearing, & anything else that you remember about this enjoyable event. Don't try too hard, just let it flow-----

I recently squirted for the first time a few weeks ago while sharing some intimate phone fun with a man I've crazy about for years. We had an amazing emotional connection that night and I opened myself up more psychologically than I have in a long time. It felt like he was in the bed with me and not hundreds of miles away. I feel safe with him and trust him completely and was able to relax and let go of my anxieties and worries. We talked about what we would do if we were together and I imagined giving myself over to him and taking all he has to offer. Knowing that he accepts me as I am, I felt I could let go. When I orgasmed, I felt myself ejaculate. It was extremely powerful and intense and I couldn't believe how much pleasure he brought me. I was in an amazing natural high for hours afterwards, but coming down from it was rough. I felt naked and vulnerable and unfortunately alone. Had I gone to sleep in his arms, I would have been in heaven.

I had a few lovely squirts last night. I am one of the lucky ones. The first came in the bath. I was rinsing off and had the shower wand on pulse (heavy water pressure single spray). Placing it on my clit, then on my anus, then back to my clit moving it back and forth quickly gave me the most wonderful orgasm! My squirt was small but nice.

You will probably laugh, but I've been on vacation for a while and didn't have a vibrator or my BF with me, so I improvised... I have a Sonicare Elite toothbrush that with the brush head removed is the perfect substitute! The thrust of the Sonicare base along with clitoral stimulation created the most wonderful orgasms. I love being a woman! Multiple orgasms close together are amazing.

When I squirt it is very viscous and shoots across the bed, but I usually have the less viscous squirt. Ladies, if you urinate before sex, your squirting will be less viscous. One more piece of advice, always attempt to urinate after sex as well.

I am also blessed with a very talented bf. His girth and length are wonderful. Size is not my priority, our chemistry is... I've had small as well as large, and they have all contributed their individual pleasures, but my bf is the only one to make me cum without my help. 😮

Raquelcira, clitoral stimulation would probably add to your pleasure. For me it is part of the key, but for you, who knows. All you can do is experiment. Good Luck 😉

I've posted elsewhere in this particular thread, about my experience of ladies who squirt. Since then I've taken a lady friend to a tantric practitioner, Devi (about whom I have posted elsewhere). Devi has several times made me, an elderly male, squirt almost to excess with her unique combination of whole body sensitisation and stimulation (for a full 2 hours) and followed with cock, testicle and prostate stimulation. When she does it you'd best not get in the firing line! Anyway, she did a similar thing for my lady friend who, when I called to pick her up from Devi's, was still shaking. Apparently she had received the same incredible sensitisation and stimulation followed by what she described as the ultimate cum! Two fingers in the vag, presumably on the G-spot, a thumb on the clit and the other hand busy on the breasts. Of course many of you ladies will have experienced the latter stimulation but this comes (pun intended)at the end of a long session of sensitisation of evry other part of you where your whole body is vibrating and demanding release. Both my lady friend and I were taken to the point of orgasm several times and allowed to 'cool' a little before the final drenching. I would really like to have a couples tantric treat but Devi won't hear of it. She says the session is between the individual, herself and mystical beings and the presence of another person, possibly physically coming between her and those forces will block the experience. It may be, dear reader, that you scorn such mystic forces but whatever they are they are real to me. As I stated in my posting on page 2 of this thread, female squirting is dependent on being able to really, really, let go. This ability to let go depends on the female (or male) being able to forget (or not care) that there are kids or the mother in law in the next room who might be woken by the joyful squeals. Some ladies also cannot allow themselves to go fully over that 'edge' because the pleasure is so great they pull away from the enquiring finger or cock. But when they're tingling from Devi's attentions they have no choice. Similarly, as egirlky says, the ultimate chemistry is often not there but when it is and you are both 'singing from the same hymn sheet' then take care not to get it in your eyes! Karma to you egirlky. I know from our yahoo chat that you are a lovely thoughtful and receptive lady

OK I guess I must be an oddity or a freak because I have had a lover who brought me to 18 squirting orgasms in a 2 hour period. He accomplished this by using his fingers stimulating my g spot and also entering me doggie style with fast and hard thrusts. Thank God for towels.

Nope, not a freak 😁 The fact you can do that is FANTASTIC! Lucky Woman.

I haven't kept track of my squirts while with my bf, a little busy at those times 😉. I know it hasn't been 18, but more than I ever thought I could do.

Thanks, Ford. I'm glad to finally be a part of the fold. I don't know when or if it will happen again. There's really only one man who makes me feel the way I did that night and he lives halfway across the country, so unfortunately it doesn't look like we'll be playing soon. Such a shame. I have soooooooo many things I want to do to him.

I will never look at my Sonicare Elite toothbrush the same way again. LOL You really should do a product endorsement for them.

By the way, if you want a really fun toy, get a Hitachi Magic Wand with the G-spot attachment. So good it should be illegal.

Hey, Honey. Thanks for the sweet compliment. You're a doll. The lady or ladies in your life are very lucky indeed to have a talented, sensual and caring lover like you.

There is really no way I can put my first and only squirting experience into words. It is definitely a case of "you had to be there." I've never experienced anything of such great intensity and I'm looking forward to feeling it again. It was so much more than physical, though. There was some kind of spiritual place that he and I were in and it was *magic*.

Wow. Thanks for putting it the words I cannot. That was what it was like for me. Trusting him enough to completely relax and let go. No need to put my guard up, being safe and comfortable with him to be myself and to give all myself and to allow him to take all of me. It was heaven.

I will admit that I am more than glad to be able to squirt. I haven't always been able to, and I don't always achieve it. I had to teach myself to do it. As I have stated in another post, you have to be patient and open to the experience.

Klystra77,

This is just a portion of a decent article about female ejaculation. The link is at the bottom in case you want to read the whole thing. I'm glad you are open and willing to consider a change in your skepticism 😁

You may have heard of female ejaculation, then again you may not have. You may believe it's real, or think it’s a figment of someone’s overzealous imagination. Fortunately, despite your personal beliefs, female ejaculation is real and possibly coming with a woman near you.

Female ejaculation, also known as "squirting" or "gushing" is not, we repeat not urine. It is actually near the exact (minus the sperm) chemical construction as prostatic fluid.

You may be thinking, “But women don’t have prostates!” Not true. Only a couple of years ago the medical establishment admitted the existence of the female prostate. The G-spot is the main ingredient in female ejaculation and it's no coincidence that the female G-spot is in practically exactly the same spot (albeit on a different wall) as the male prostate.

Men are often very proud when they are the catalyst for a "squirt" orgasm in their partner. This is because it takes a certain touch to procure these special ejaculatory functions. A female orgasm may be totally separate to her ejaculating -- they are not necessarily one and the same, and can be experienced at different times. A woman may have always been able to do it, but other women may deliberately learn how to do it, either on their own or with a partner.

If you want to get a squirt out of your lover, you will need to know the precise method. Here's how to achieve the elusive female ejaculation:

Important note: Not every woman can easily ejaculate, so don’t be disheartened if it doesn’t work as you expect. In saying this, every woman has the biological anatomy to ejaculate -- so it is possible, in theory. It may be more difficult for some because of her physical makeup: weak pelvic floor muscles, inability to properly relax, etc. It takes practice to perfect this trick and learn how to relax properly and go with the flow, so to speak. It is also not a bad idea for your girl to practice this on her own -- then she can get the gist of it without feeling shy about the whole pee thing.

http://www.askmen.com/dating/dzimmer/55_love_answers.html

I admit that I sometimes experience cramping in my hip during sex. Typically the cramping/spasms are due to the clinching of the muscle for an extended period of time, or the hip being maneuvered into an odd position. During an orgasm, again, muscles are contracting intensely in the hips as well as the back (if your wife arches her back in orgasm). One suggestion, if there is forethought before being intimate, your wife could try taking the anti-inflammatory, Naproxen Sodium (Aleve). If her stomach is not able to handle this, she could try the arthritis strength Tylenol. I am not a doctor, so she may want to consult her gynecologist or GP for further advice.

Non-medicinal alternatives are: stretching the hips and back muscles daily, Tai Chi, water aerobics, and/or acupuncture.

Whatever y'all decide to do, be safe and lots of luck

My partner has intense orgasms from my venus butterfly kiss which is when a male puts his entire mouth over her clit & stimulates it with the back of his tongue instead of with the tip while kissing the inside & outside of her labia. It makes women explode & is followed by G spot stimulation with a small vibrator which makes her explode again.

As a side bar to female ejaculation:

Right from the beginning with the girl in high school that I have mentioned here to the present, I instinctively (early on, later by choice.) went down on them while they were ejaculating and drank/swallowed every bit of it. Without fail, every one was thrilled that I did so and were always eager for repeats. I ask you men, if we enjoy having them put us in their mouths and swallowing, shouldn't we return the kindness ? It will definitely increase the degree of intimacy between you and your lady or wife. 😃

G.N.

Every time, gentlenozzle.

And again as a side issue to the thread. If we want our ladies to take the product of our bodies into their mouths we should (I do) be prepared to take at least half of it back into our own mouth and swallow together after a little bit of 'snowballing'

And whats wrong, when 'normal' sex is sans condom, with retrieving the same from the vagina, suitably mixed with other ingredients and reheated?

How many REAL people have been a part of a squirting experience, either as the patient or the Dr.? I've found that vigorous massage applied directly to the g-spot will most times bring forth an explosion. The ones that require a towel afterwards are always the best!

An EMate that I play with can squirt across the room. 1st time I saw it, I couldn't believe what I saw. Sprayed with force, clear-not yellow like pee, didn't taste like pee and real watery, not viscous.

It was wild. Every time we play, the tame thing happens.

I was once told that I squirted during an exam. The doctor wasn't entirely sure if it was an orgasm or not, but he suspected that it may have been.

I learned about this ... for the first time ... just a few short weeks ago, in a non-medical sexual context. Since then, I've so very much wanted to experience it in a play-medical situation ... what a turn-on! Not sure I'd ever "put on the paper sheet" without being aroused ever again!

Aww ... who am I kidding ... those paper sheets do it for me every time!

I observed a patient squirt while I had several fingers in her vagina. I was quite surprised as I had heard of squirting but had never seen it before.

Here is a link to wikipedia that discusses squirting and indicates that the fluid originates in the Skene's gland.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation

A good question for the ladies is: Of the women that have squirted, how many could actually feel themselves doing it? The reason I ask is that when I squirted, I did not even realize that I was doing it.

I admit, I'm a squirter, apparently. However I haven't actually felt anything different when it happened. I didn't feel like I was peeing though - I honestly didn't feel anything other than the heat of orgasm.

I squirt and more than once if the penetration continues. The first one is very intense and the volume increases with each time. The orgasms I experience when I squirt can increase as well.

I´ve only been with one girl who did, it was more of a dribble which went on for as long as I touched the right spot, she was amazed.

One of my friends can squirt quite a bit when g-spot stimulation is applied and then when her clit is played with as well