Explaining wetting.

Righto. My fiance knows about my diapers, and has decided that she's ok with me wearing them every so often, and is curious about wearing clothe ones herself. However, she does not want me wetting them, which IS something I do enjoy. I do enjoy a thick, heavy diaper. Here's the thing though. I agreed to her demands, including no wetting(she's fine with being a tease and dumping a big glass of warm water down my diaper front) but I want a decent way to explain why its so enjoyable... Anyone have this experience before or have a good way to explain it to her?

-Tag

Try asking her to give your cloth diapers and plastic pants a try for only an hour and only once and ask her to tell how it feels and she still not into the cloth diapers you will let go back how it was and hopefully she will,at best take to the diapers or at least continue allow you to keep wearing them and not get turned off the diapers completely. Good luck

First, Bless the girl for letting you wear at all. You are in an enviable place compared to many.

I would get her used to seeing you diapered, and at least at first, not let her have to deal with the wetting. You wet, you change, no problem. She need never know. She is likely of the mind that urine is 'dirty' which may be why she demands no pee. Remind her that its natural, its sterile, and she really shouldnt knock it till she tries it. You love it for the tension/release feelings I assume. Over time, you will have to explain that it's just part of the diapers, and the sensations are very important to you. Let her get comfortable with the diapers, and the wetting will come. Make it as painless for her as possible. (dont ask her to deal with any urine contact) and you should be well on your way. Good luck!

I've explained that it's sterile, and from a informed standpoint, she understands that. Her explanation of it is that she'd never HEARD of adult wearing diapers until I told her about how it was one of my kinks after we had dated for a year. Its just something that she's not used to, and "she wants a fiance, not a baby". I'm not pushing it on her, but I had to push me wearing a little bit, telling her its something that I really enjoy, and that I don't want to hide from her. But yeah, thanks for the advice James. It was along what I was thinking, and you solidified my thoughts on the subject.

Hopefully this will be of some help to someone else? If not, oh well =3 it helped me out.

First, Bless the girl for letting you wear at all. You are in an enviable place compared to many. I would get her used to seeing you diapered, and at least at first, not let her have to deal with the wetting. You wet, you change, no problem. She need never know. She is likely of the mind that urine is 'dirty' which may be why she demands no pee. Remind her that its natural, its sterile, and she really shouldnt knock it till she tries it. You love it for the tension/release feelings I assume. Over time, you will have to explain that it's just part of the diapers, and the sensations are very important to you. Let her get comfortable with the diapers, and the wetting will come. Make it as painless for her as possible. (dont ask her to deal with any urine contact) and you should be well on your way. Good luck!

Sound's like good advice to me James, karma point for you.

Here's mt thought's on the subject.

Taggers, show her this web site so that she can see all of the other people that like to wear diapers and maybe even the other kink's that people are into. Explain to her the difference between DL's and AB's, let her know that your a DL and that is just part of being a DL for some people, and a wet warm diaper is an enjoyable thing for you. Hopefully she will come to understand the difference and still be able to accept you as an adult. When you say that she enjoy's poring warm water in your diapers and likes being a tease that makes me think she's not that hard core against wet diapers and might even enjoy embarrassing you when you wet your self and watching your face turn red. As to her wearing cloth diapers be kind and considerate to her and tell her that some women really enjoy the erotic feeling's they get from the thick cloth diapers rubbing them between their legs and suggest that she be open minded about it and give it a couple of try's! Any way I'm glad that she's open minded and accepting about your diaper fetish, you make her sound like a swell gal!!! Good luck buddy.

jonjon

Tag,

There are some good replys. First keep a good open comunication with her and don't only talk about diapers. When the timming is right you can explain that being in diapers and acting like a baby does not make a person a baby. You might let her know your need to be in diapers and you need to be able to wet them. You had stated she had an intrest in trying diapers give her a very good experance being in a diaper let her see how diapers can be good and helpful. I think with time and allowing her to experment with diapers that in time she will also grow to love being in a pee soaked diaper. Good luck and keep us posted as how it goes.

Floodingpants