Your first prostate massage

I can get myself to start leaking pre-cum, but it gets overwhelming. After about 10 mins, I have to take matters into my own hands.

When I was 25, I had come home from work dead tired. I showered with my girlfriend and while she was still drying her hair, I flopped down on the bed face down and promptly zonked. Presently I was awoken by her lying across my legs pinning me down, spreading my cheeks and tonguing me until I thought I was seeing St Peter. When she finally let me up and I flipped over, she began to suck me off. In the middle of this her finger found its way up my already slippery back passage. I've been hooked ever since.

I had a session with a pro, wow I wouldn't believe a full hand could get up my usually tight bun; guess again, done slow and easy is the trick, one, two, thr-- you get the idea. Lots of Lub.

Try it once if you can

My first was just a couple of weeks ago. The whole story is on the nude massage page here. I hate Dr. Dre, but she massages my cheeks, crack, teasing my anus till I was up on my knees, dripping with oil. She pushed on my anus gently and asked ready. Yes I replied. She put on a glove and oiled up her fingers and slowly slid in. The best feeling ever. I leaked a lot, she reached around and pumped my penis until I exploded. She slowly stopped and released my penis as I sank back laying down, still massaging my prostate. She went to get a hot towel to clean me up as I laid there

I never had a prostate massage, but I would like it

I'm going to be honest here, I've never had a woman quite find the spot.

I've had a lot of women's fingers up my butt (as well as plugs and strapons), some of them looking to induce a prostate based orgasm. Have yet to feel much of anything.

I get regular physicals (and am recovering from rectal cancer, so my butt has been examined plenty) and there's nothing wrong with my prostate. Just can't really find that magical spot.

I have to say I am with pmoi here, I have had prostate exams, both real and and play ones, but it has never done anything for me ?

My first time was with a lover when I was in my thirties. She sat cross-legged and had my legs over her knees. She inserted a well lubricated gloved finger into my anus and began rubbing my prostate. She used her other hand to slowly stroke my erection. Several minutes later I had an intense orgasm, spraying semen every which way. Made her chuckle at my reaction.

I started doing this for my husband soon after we got married. Prostate issues runs like wildfire in some of the men of my family. I read up where many urologists think regular prostate massage can help a man avoid trouble there later in life. I'm not squeamish about sticking a finger up a guy's butt. I have to do it all the time being a nurse anyway. So I have my husband lie on the bed in pretty much the same left-sims position for getting an enema. I lube up and spend time rubbing and relaxing his anus. When he's feels ready I enter him with my left middle finger up to the second knuckle, then gently press forward towards his belly button. I never poke at his gland, but more or less try to roll the prostate in a kneading motion on the pad of my finger. When I do this for a couple minutes, I start kneading his perineum with my thumb.....use lube there or it can hurt. When you stimulate a man properly you'll be able tell from his body language if you're doing it right. The first time I gave my husband a prostate orgasm, it scared me. There were goosebumps all over his body and he was quivering and shaking. When he ejaculated, his anus clenched super tight and he cried out like he'd been shot. And he had a really big ejaculation. If you really want to send him over the edge, use your own vaginal lubrication to ease the entry of your finger up his rectum. And let him see you do this to him. Works as good as K-Y and it drives him insane. Do this for your man regularly, and he'll stay happy, healthy, and faithful.

Seminal Vesicle Massage - A Leap Beyond the Prostate

Have your boyfriend/husband/whatever lie on his back. Straddle his legs so you are facing him or you can have his legs over yours, whichever is better for the two of you. Facing each other makes for a wonderful experience as you can see each others faces when you do this. Lubricate your fingers and your boyfriend's anus, butt cheeks and rectum. Get the sphincter to relax and to accept one, then a second finger followed by three and four fingers. Keep working the anus and rectum until you can insert your entire hand in him which is by far the best. Hold your palm facing upward, and make the "come here" motion with with your fingers. You don't have to go in very far to reach the prostate. If you insert your fingers all the way (you don't have to jam them in and reach for his ribcage) and make a stroke with your fingers from an extended position, pulling forward to his inner anal ring, (you will feel it from the inside) you will have well covered his entire prostate and he will thank you for it! If you can get your entire hand inside at least to the wrist, you can reach farther inside and massage the seminal vesicles. If you are masturbating him at the same time, try to time your penis strokes with the rectal/prostate/seminal vesicles strokes. They can be in sync with each other or alternating with each other. My husband likes it best when the forward stroke on the prostate and seminal vesicles coincides with the pull stroke on his penis. My husband says massaging his seminal vesicles feels even better than the prostate alone.

@SwitchableSusie Wish my wife had seen that post about 20 years ago. ?

@SwitchableSusie how long did it take your husband to the point you could insert your hand? And have you tried while going down on him? And once you 'trained' his anus and rectum how much preparation or warm up time does it take for following play sessions?

What about afterwards and the time it would take for him to return to normal size? I may have one or two men in mind to experiment on, I mean with. ?

My first and only one prostate massage in play situation I had last year. My no strings attached girl friend did on me on my request. I was on bed in her room on all fours aka doggy, she even wondered if that is proper position, and I replied to her that's the position I want it to be done. Anyways she put on glove/lube and slowly began to play with my anus/entrance and then pushed finger fully in. She hit prostate straight away, I could feel it. We talked about prostate massage few days before that, and she said that she was reading about it online just to get info about it. Once her finger was in, she began turning and twisting her finger, I could feel her touching sides of my prostate. That was a very interesting feeling.

I haven't ever had one. My wife was never shy of fingering me, even from the first times we met and fooled around. But I would never have called it a dedicated prostate massage.

Once at a Chinese massage parlor in Brussels, the masseuse, after giving me a very nice exterior anal and perineum massage started talking about health things and how beneficial such massages were and all. I agreed only half listening, but only later did I wonder if she was waiting for me to ask for more? Which is typical of me I fear, my penny takes long in dropping, like I am in zero gravity or something ... ha ha

In the red light district in my city, there are a few working girls who advertise prostate exams (among other kinds of activities like an sm massage, oily handjobs, face sitting etc). It's all nicely painted on signs they take along with them to work and then place in whatever storefront they are working from that day (brothel storefronts are rented out per 8 hour shift per day).

@SwitchableSusie how long did it take your husband to the point you could insert your hand? And have you tried while going down on him? And once you 'trained' his anus and rectum how much preparation or warm up time does it take for following play sessions?

What about afterwards and the time it would take for him to return to normal size? I may have one or two men in mind to experiment on, I mean with. ?

After my husband's first anal intrusions beyond a few fingers in high school it took about six to nine months or so to go from a few fingers to a full hand insertion to the wrist. I never specifically measured the time span. It could have been a year. I was slow and deliberate. I didn't want to hurt him. I have fisted him while going down on him.

Once his anus was trained, the amount of warm-up time necessary over the last twenty five years has depended on how recently his anus and rectum have been invaded. The first night can take 10-15-20 minutes, to get inside. I don't want to rip him. If I do it two nights in a row it takes about five minutes of massage to dilate him on the second day. If there is a week or more or even a month between episodes, it can take 20 minutes or so to get fully back inside.

Afterwards, he closes right up and can hold a three quart enema if I give him one. He does NOT gape at all---and that's really the healthier way to be. You don't want to stay open or have a flaccid anus after you're done playing. I know that goes against the fisting pornos, but the way it is for us IS the healthier, better way to be. The muscle should close the anus as soon as the object is removed.

I really needed to know this.

Thank you.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seminal_vesicle#/media/File:Male_anatomy_en.svg

This is something that another member here wrote to me about as being very enjoyable and almost addictive. I want to do this with my husband, especially, but also with another. From the anatomy I don't see this as being something of a lark to undertake as there are many structures deep within a man that can be harmed if done improperly. I don't want to cause any harm at all and I want to do it properly and with time.

I was NOT expecting it to take so long to prepare the anus for a fist but I can see that there is a lot more care that needs to be taken. I am of the opinion that the time and care needed exceeds my own anal sex introduction is far greater. I have not been 'fisted' anally and I do not believe I would have nearly the desirable sensation a man would because of my lack of a prostate gland. Still it would be an interesting experience as I do enjoy anal penetration, it's just that I am not sure how a fist would feel.

It's a bit more complicated it seems and the trust factor would have to be there for both of us. I would also have concerns about diverticulosis, fissures and the like and how safe it would be for my partner. My husband does not have these issues as far as I know but the other gentleman I would love to involve in this does have some issues for whatever reason.

It's just that this looks to be a very intimate act and some of the descriptions here make me believe it is something the male receiver would and does enjoy if done properly.

GO FOR IT.

First experienced prostate stimulation with a prostate massage toy several years ago - nothing like it and have been hooked ever since! No penile stimulation involved but randomly experience a jo session at the end of several hours of prostate stimulation! best intense orgasm a man can experience! feeling grows more intense as the massage progresses! favorite toy in my nJoy Pure Wand as it really hits the spot!

Oh, Susie, you are so right, seminal vesicle play is amazing. I have a dildo that I can use to stroke them and ... oh wow... It hits my prostate too, so I can be a very happy boy.

Still have no clue how to bring up much beyond a simple finger poking around haphazardly though 😢 Wouldn't mind trying fisting but I'm pretty sure that it would be hard to have it seriously considered.

@Ms_Lila said

This is something that another member here wrote to me about as being very enjoyable and almost addictive. I want to do this with my husband, especially, but also with another. From the anatomy I don't see this as being something of a lark to undertake as there are many structures deep within a man that can be harmed if done improperly. I don't want to cause any harm at all and I want to do it properly and with time.

I was NOT expecting it to take so long to prepare the anus for a fist but I can see that there is a lot more care that needs to be taken. I am of the opinion that the time and care needed exceeds my own anal sex introduction is far greater. I have not been 'fisted' anally and I do not believe I would have nearly the desirable sensation a man would because of my lack of a prostate gland. Still it would be an interesting experience as I do enjoy anal penetration, it's just that I am not sure how a fist would feel.

It's a bit more complicated it seems and the trust factor would have to be there for both of us. I would also have concerns about diverticulosis, fissures and the like and how safe it would be for my partner. My husband does not have these issues as far as I know but the other gentleman I would love to involve in this does have some issues for whatever reason.

It's just that this looks to be a very intimate act and some of the descriptions here make me believe it is something the male receiver would and does enjoy if done properly.

Fissures pose a Big problem. There must be no anal or rectal lesions if you intend to fist somebody. Going too fast can tear the anal ring which will then require surgical reconstruction and that will permanently end most anal play.

The prostate as a single entity is over-rated as far as the pleasures of fisting are concerned. The prostate does feel good in the fisting massage, but the pleasures of much deeper pressure farther inside the colon cannot be ignored.

My first was with a play doc. It wasn’t very long and more a part of a rectal exam. But as a primer for being stimulated in other ways it was an interesting first experience.

Perhaps the most pleasurable one was the doctor had me on my knees and elbows and was massaging my prostate and listened to my heartbeat during it. I didn’t cum but it was more lengthy and focused.

My first was by an older man that I got into relationship and became his boy for about 3 years. I was 22 he was 56.

My first real prostate massage was performed on me by a very nice much older man I happened to meet on a clandestine late-night visit to a gay bathhouse in San Francisco back in the early 70's, before AIDS. I was in my early 30's and had played "back there" by myself and with others when I was younger, always a brief experience. We happened upon each other in the steam room and eventually ended up back in his room where he offered me a general massage. One thing led to another...I was on my back, legs apart, he was massaging the inside of my upper legs, going all the way up and back and then retreating....teasing. Finally, he knelt between my legs, put my feet up on his shoulders, put some stuff on his right index and middle fingers and my anus that proved to be extremely slippery. Had me take a deep breath and hold it. As I let it out, he pressed his finger against my hole and slipped it in. There's no way I could have resisted even if Had wanted to. He had me in heaven for a good ten minutes at least, when he had me get up on all fours, head down on the cot, bottom up in the air, and resumed giving me these exquisite sensations. There were times when I swear it felt like his finger was actually all the way up inside my penis, going slowly in and out, pressing on the "special place" inside me. Finally, he milked my penis with his other hand and the slippery stuff until I just exploded all over the towel he'd laid on the bed under me. It's a good thing the background music in the house was on loud, because I was quite vocal throughout the experience. We cuddled and dozed off for a few minutes afterward. I slept like a baby when I got back to my hotel.

As my GP just retired I was referred to a new local doctor and made an appointment for my annual physical. Having not seen me before he went through all of the customary check points until he told me to take off my underwear and to get onto the examination table. First on my back he examined my testiclese and penis with little incidence but then he had me turn over and get on my hands and knees. I'm not sure what he stuck up my butt but there seemed to be several objects with which I was not familiar. I sensed that he was aware that I did not mind his probing. I thought he was going to spit me apart with the last instrument that he used. After the myriad of scopes and who knows what he told me to relax and he proceeded with a prostate exam which turned into more of a prolonged prostate massage. I am sure he sensed my enjoyment and was not bothered when he felt me contracting around finger and shot.

An after - hours Sunday afternoon play "physical" at a doctor's office. The doctor explained he'll be taking a sample of prostate fluid, which had to be extracted by massaging my prostate after a semen sample. The physical was very quick, the doctor required me to produce a semen sample within about 5 minutes. Sample in cup and me slightly spent he pointed at a chair in the corner of the room and told me to bend over it, legs at front of the chair, chest to the back of the chair. The doctor instructed me to tell him when I see a drop form at the tip of my penis.

I was spent and slightly soft after producing a semen sample, but I bent over the chair all the same, the doctor snapped on the gloves and lubed up. The doctor slid his finger into my anus and started what felt like a routine prostate exam. As a play patient I've had many of those since me mid 20s, they usually last a minute or so. This being a massage the examination didn't amount to feeling the extend of my prostate gland and a quick retreat. The doctor's finger kept going round stimulating my prostate, occasionally pushing at it. A minute or so in I was rock hard. I was holding tightly onto the back of the chair, the massaging kept going on, the tip of my penis absolutely throbbing from the prostate stimulation. I'm not sure how long this went on for, perhaps 5 minutes or more that felt like an eternity. At last a drop started to form on the tip of my penis, "a drop is forming Sir!". Finger still in me the doctor reached out to get a sample dish with his other hand and placed it on the seat of the chair, under my penis. He kept stimulating my prostate, the drop started to drool down, still attached to my penis with a string of precum. The doctor raised the dish to catch the drop and lowered it down to the seat, viscus precum stream linking it all the way back up. "We'll see if you have another drop in you" he said, crushing my expectations that the first drop was all that was required of me. Perhaps the doctor should have re-lubed because by this stage his finger started to feel rather hot. He kept massaging my prostate until a 2nd and 3rd drop came down, then a slightly larger discharge of precum completing the sample. This was about ten of fifteen minutes in and he finally pulled his gloved finger out, wiped my anus with a paper towel and told me to stand up. I was visibly erect so the doctor checked my testicles, took out a cup and asked me to produce a second semen sample. Second sample produced he told me to get dressed.

I felt very humiliated and abused as I was getting dressed and getting out of the office, but that's the point of medical fetish. By the time I was at the train station to go home I was gagging for the next time. When the second time came along I was shown my various samples on a microscope.

I think my first such massage was just using a sex toy, but it did feel great and did not take but a few minutes to produce results. It is done in most play exams I have had or have given, but never in a real medical setting.

I found this one interesting.

https://www.bubbaporn.com/video/routine-penis-exam/

My first one was with a lady that was advising in good old cl came pretty fast i only had few times with visible precome fluid one was with a glass toy

Had countless prostate. Massage with Victoria

She's very good i always have strong finish with her very few precome with her but it happened

Ahe always put me on all 4 head down

Fun stuff

My first time was my wife when I was maybe 24 or 25. She had me shower and lay on a sheet that we didn't care about and then gave me an erotic massage with flavored oil. She started with me laying face down and did my entire back and legs, then she massaged my buttocks and made her way inward to my anus. She rubbed my anus for with her thumbs, but didn't penetrate it. Then she switched to her tongue and rimmed me until she got her tongue just past the anus for a while. She had me flip over after that onto my back and massaged my chest, penis, and testicles, so I thought she was done with anal play, but to my surprise at the end of the probably hour long erotic massage she put on a latex glove with some lube and inserted her middle finger into my rectum until she found the prostate. I think she only curled her finger for a few minutes before I ejacuated.

We don't do prostate massages as much as I'd like, because I think it's less fun for her to give than a blowjob, but it certainly is an amazing experience when it happens.

I'm about to find out if my prostate is working after it has been malfunctioning since august. Time to put it in gear and rev up the motor. Getting ready to head out to the highway and make some love