Your first prostate massage

Whether it was done by yourself, by a playmate or with fingers/toys I want to know for how long did you persist with your first attempt? Ten minutes? An hour? Did you produce any pre-cum on your first attempt? If not, how many times did you try it before you did?

Bearing in mind that this is without penile stimulation, but please feel free to add comments if you can only gain pleasure from a prostate massage when combined with penile stimulation.

"How long is a piece of string?", I hear you ask, but this is a genuine question and I'm interested to see the wider picture.

. . . . Bearing in mind that this is without penile stimulation. . . . .

I think very few if any men want an erotic prostate massage without penile stimulation as well.

Ultimately, it's the orgasm they want at the end of an exciting massage.

I tried to give myself a prostate massage the other night. After rummaging around back there for a while and hitting the spot, I massaged for a couple (2 or 3) minutes. I could feel fluid pumping up into my dick, but nothing dripped out. As Switchablesusie guessed, I decided to finish myself off with my other hand after that.

My F/B has often fingered my anal orifice while we are doing 69, & I'm looking forward to a prostate massage next time! She's just a bit worried that she might hurt me while doing it. any suggestions for her guidance? We always have enemas before sex. AND she uses a strapon on me.... ideas please!!! C & C

As a doctor once described to me, it should be done from "distal to proximal" or from far to near, and "lateral to medial" or from the sides to the center. gently.

Enemas first, of course.

It takes ten or more minutes for me to cum without penile stimulation but(t) it is worth it!. It feels good the entire time and then the orgasm is felt almost entirely there!

Start teasingly sliding your finger around his rim for a few minutes and that will cause arousal. Then either just do it or get him to beg that you go deeper. Then slide your (well-lubed) finger in and out of his anus and around in circles. Barely touch his prostate and again just do it or make him beg you to slide your finger around his prostate. (OMG! I am getting SO aroused just typing this!!!)

Again, I'll bet he will cum without penile stinulation but if not, I'll bet he will look forward to the next time and maybe then.

My gf gives me one every now and then if she wants to be cruel and make me wait awhile before I cum but it is the most intense orgasm you can experience and as far as time it just depends it varies every time she has done it it doesnt take longer than 30 minutes and lots and lots of precum before the big eruption hope this answers your question ms hkm.

My first prostate massage was from a lovely lady that I found in an advertisement offering enema and prostate massage service. I called her and set an appointment for the prostate treatment. She was a somewhat older lady though she looked lovely in a black outfit that was somewhat see-through which wonderfully displayed her pendulous breasts. She led me to a room and told me to take my clothes off and climb up on a massage table laying face down. She started with a basic body massage before beginning work on my anus. She took long strokes down my spine to my anus and up the backs of my legs...it was a truly remarkable sensation. She then told me to relax and that she was going to slide me down, closer to the end of the table. She continually reminded me to relax and enjoy the hillside view out of the window. She sat on a stool at the end of the table and gently massaged my anus for what seemed like an eternity gently relaxing and lubing it up. She then had me take deep breaths as and on an exhale slipped a finger in my rectum. It was a wonderful sensation. My penis was over the edge of the table and pointing toward the floor in a very firm erection at this point. She the spent much time rubbing my prostate from the inside with one finger and through the perinium with another. There was periods of thrusting a finger in and out of my rectum and manipulation of my scrotum and tesitcles for another 15 minutes or so. I did not have an orgasm from this and was not in a position to see the amount of fluid that was likely dripping from my penis. At the appropriate time, she wrapped her hand around my still erect penis and began stroking it while continuing with the anal stimulation. She could tell when I would approach orgasm and would take steps to insure that I did not come to rapidly. She finally allowed me to have the most intense and glorious orgasm that I ever had up to that point of time. When I am back in the area,she is one of my first calls. She got me hooked on the joy of prolonged prostate massge.

My second girlfriend gave me my first when I was only 20. We were having sex, and right before I came she snuck her finger in all the way and hooked back. I gasped in shock because I wasn't expecting it, and she gave this mischevious little giggle. It hurt a little and felt great at the same time. I orgasmed like there was no tomorrow. I'm not so sure it was so much a prostate massage, but a rectally enhanced ejaculation. A really great prostate massage is a slow, gentle process that gets more vigorous when you're comfortable with it. The first time a girl does this to you your quickest reflex is to squeeze your cheeks together to block entry, even if she's already managed to get her finger well inside you. That's how quick and suddenly unexpected it will happen. I felt like I'd been raped for a couple days, then I got over it. There's worse threats to your manhood than having a chic's finger stuck up your rear, right? Besides, it happened from a girl I love, not some stranger or another dude, and it was her idea to do it anyway. She got better at it and I started to really love having it done. Now she does it for me every now and then and we've been married for 5 years. Getting a prostate massage from you're wife or girlfriend is probably the most intimate gift she can give to you, so enjoy the hell out of it when it happens.

I had my first prostate massage when I was around 20. I don't get them as often I would like now, but the orgasm is the most explosive I have ever had. I'd give it two thumbs up! (pardon the pun, LOL)

Maybe I'm missing something here, but I find my annual DRE to be somewhat uncomfortable for the 30 seconds or so it goes on. It's uncomfortable enough that I don't really desire to seek any extra outside my annual physical.

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Maybe I'm missing something here, but I find my annual DRE to be somewhat uncomfortable for the 30 seconds or so it goes on. It's uncomfortable enough that I don't really desire to seek any extra outside my annual physical.

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Hey, not everybody likes everything. You're entitled.

Besides, for many, it's an acquired taste.

When I was younger I was able to push my finger in quite a ways and feel the prostate. I have not done it for some time letting other things move along the glad and making me cum. It doesn't work everytime but if I think about it when my doctor is doing his thing I always get a little stiff.

I experienced my first prostate massage a couple of years ago. I had read about them for some time, and then I happened to see an ad in a local newspaper for this Asian "holisitc" massage clinic that specialized in tantric and prostate massage. So I decided what the hell, you only live once, and made an appointment.

I had the most amazing massage therapist! And it must be true what they say, that "the smaller the chili pepper, the hotter the flavor", because she couldn't have been over 4'6" or weighed more than 70 lbs., but WOW, was she GOOD!!! She had me disrobe and cover myself with a towel, lying on my stomach. She began the session by giving me the most incredible back massage ever, then she had me turn over onto my back, as she proceeded to massage the front of my body as well as my legs and feet.

Just when I thought that it couldn't get any better, she removed the towel that had been covering me, noticed that I had become VERY "AROUSED", and asked me if I was ready for the tantric/prostate portion of the massage session. I somehow managed to formulate the words to signal that I was ready and she then asked me to spread my legs for her. I could then hear her putting on a pair of latex exam gloves, which she lubricated with K/Y.

Next thing I know, she has my penis in one hand and her finger from her other hand pressing against my anus. She tells me to get ready, take a deep breath in through my nose and out through my mouth a couple of times, and then she told me to "bear down" as if I were having a BM. I had no sooner started "pushing" when she inserted her finger all the way. At first I really thought it felt weird and maybe this had been a mistake, but then she struck oil! The very second she found my prostate and began gently massaging and pressing on it, my erection went from rock hard to a friggin' titanium rod!!! I didn't know that it was possible to have an erection that large without bursting blood vessels all over the place. And then came the moment when I had the most amazing and powerful orgasm EVER. I swear that the earth's rotational axis had momentarily shifted.

It was absolutely amazing and heart stopping. Absolutely the most intense orgasm/ejaculation of my life.

(Sorry that this story is so lengthy, folks! I just hope, for anyone who may be on the fence about trying this out, that after reading some positive reviews, that you decide to give it a shot. I promise, you will not be disappointed!!!)

I went and saw a mistress who always did the medical with me and she would examine my prostate , but i never ejaculated from it i can only dream it sound the most intense experience , hopefully one day

I have had a prostate massage but had penile stimulation to finish me off, it was a strange feeling at first, a little uncomfortable but eventually started to improve. I think a little bit more experience would help but will defiantly try this again,

My first (and only to date) was done by an ex-girlfriend who actually suggested it.

I have never been lucky enough to have a prostate massage, I bought something to help give it a try but no such luck in cumming. I dont think I did it right lol but hey one day im sure

I'm still looking for a good provider ... haven't quite found one yet.

I don't remember my first one, but since have had a number of prostate massages. Some were no more than having the provider "stick her finger in my ass" and several others were wonderful, coupled with a great massage. I am still on a quest to find a provider in my area.

I gf tried it once, and it felt good, but i don't think she got the prostate. Would like to try again, but with someone else now, and that's a tough subject to broach... You always hear that it is the most intense.

The 1st time was by a girlfriend in college who introduced me to anal play; best thing she ever did for me. Lately I go to a dominatrix about once a month and she usually includes a prostate massage/milking as part of the session. I enjoy it and she says its one of her favorite things to do if the guy is very clean.

Doctor Proctor:

In this particular case, it was just a typo. As Freud said, sometimes, a cigar is just a cigar... 😄

The wife did it a very long time ago while in the 69 position, and "oh O what a feeling"!!! Didn't even have to ask. I'll never ever forget it. She certainly made my evening, and I repeatedly told her so.

I use my nexus neo prostate massage toy. It hits my prostate just right. I usually put it in me and immediately begin to leak preucm. I usually leave it in for a half hour or more while slowly stroking myself. After awhile, I'll feel myself getting close to orgasm and stop stroking. That's when I feel my prostate swell in me. With the toy in me, i feel it push against the prostate more than ever and i begin to pour cum. No orgasm, just a long stream of cum like pissing it. Gobs of it. I then know I have been milked good.

The first time I had my prostate massaged was by my urologist. I was shocked when I felt something coming out of my penis as this had never happended to me before. He took a sample of this. He had done a vasectomy on me and I was having some irritation that turned out to be nothing.

Bill

I've never been blessed with a prostate massage. It sound's wonder ful. I see a doctor once a month about bladder problem's. She uses a scope and examines the bladder scar tissue. The doctor continiously move's my penis and testes. I have never had an orgasim, but I do drip/come profusly. It's a sufficent ammount that she catches it in her glove. She rub's it into my penis and testes telling me it good for me. There is a technican in the room (female) but she never says a word.

My first prostate massage was done by a female urologist.I was sensational and produced some incredible results.She wanted a semen sample and did not want me to masturbate.I bent over, she thrust her KY covered fingers up my rectum, felt around and hit the spot,with resultant semen.Fantastic.

Prostae massage from your Woman its a wonderful....Mommy knows what her naughty boy needs)...Quickly drop your panties, sweetie and relax...

You'd normally think prostate stimulation is something only the more experienced women know how to give to a man, but even teenage women are doing this to their boyfriends more and more these days. Where in the hell are they learning this stuff at such an early age? And where are they getting the courage to actually try it on guys? Girls back when I was in high school wouldn't come anywhere near their boyfriends' butts with their fingers.

My 18 year old cousin and I were working on the swimming pool the other day, and his girlfriend showed up with lunch. She's 19, and extremely pretty with a personality to match. After she left and we resumed work, I told him what a lucky little shit he was. I took her for a very prim and proper church going girl from the few minutes we all sat and talked at lunch. But my cousin just flat out told me "she can get horny and kinky as hell". I said "nah, you're full of shit". He said "believe me, just the other night she was giving me a hand job. When I was about to come she shoved her finger up my butt all the way to the hilt, and I nutted all over her tits and the bed. It went everywhere." I laughed like hell and said "congratulations son, you've just been sneaky fingered." He held his head like he was embarrassed, but I told him it happens to just about every guy eventually. At some point in any healthy relationship, there's going to be a time where the female is going to be extremely worked up during sex, and she's going to be much more prone to doing something kinky to her male partner that she's never done before. A woman who enjoys giving head is more than likely going to stick her finger up her male partner's butt at some point during a relationship or marriage. Where sex is concerned, many more traditional or conservative minded individuals may think it's "gross", "unholy", or wrong for a female to do this to her male partner. I myself think it's perfectly normal for a female to do this. It's not sodomy, just another form of manual stimulation.