Wet dreams

No full on wet dreams for several years, but since starting enemas and prostate stimulation on a regular basis - my nocturnal erections are accompanied by a lot of pre-cum secretion. Drives my wife nuts (not in a good way) on the rare occasion she lets me spoon her.

As an adolescent boy, I had wet dreams several times, but after I had revealed the secret of masturbation, and after I had got married, I never had any wet dream. Yes, I have sexual views in my dreams, of course, often with erection, but never with spontaneous ejaculation.

My wet dreams subsided as a teenager because I was masturbating several times s day. As an adult I would have an occasional wet dream when I didn't have a regular sex partner even into early 30's.

I am not sure if this is a wet dream or if women can have a wet dream.I have awakened in the middle of an orgasm. I can remember the dream and love the feeling!

Women definitely can.

There are times I wake up in the morning with a very lubricated vagina and wet thighs.

My take is that to have a wet dream one has to accumulate semen and prostatic fluid enough that some minimal "mental" stimulation is needed to reach ejaculation. I'm married and if I'm at home, well, I have sex with my wife and semen does not accumulate... and if I'm travelling I tend to masturbate daily.

So perhaps if I stopped sex and masturbation I would get wet dreams instead, but I'm unsure I want to run this experiment for the sake of Science.

The last "Wet Dream" I had was 14 years ago at the age of 44.

I had been Circumcised due to Phimosis and Balanitis as a result of type 2 Diabetes.

Due to slow healing I had gone 5 weeks without a wank and I had one night, a very copious wet dream and an erection that caused one of the stitch sites to split and bleed.

Prior to this, my last wet dream was when I was in my mid teens.

I'm 40 and have had two in the last year but probably only had two in the previous 5 yrs....

I never had a wet dream. Not once. I'm not even quite sure why that was, as I was certainly capable of significant semen accumulation before my sex life with girls properly began.

My wife makes it her mission to keep me too well emptied for that to be even a remote possibility now.

Past girlfriends were also quite proficient at the same thing.

I would get them occasionally in my teen years. Can't remember my last one, but I think I was still in high school.

Usually an old boyfriend is in the dream, and yes wet and squishy or at the very least extremely horny.

I am 36 now and still have wet dreams. oddly I didn't have my first wet dream until I was around 17.

Since age 21, I only had 3 or 4 wet dreams.

Last one was at age 33. I'd gone through much mental stress, trying to study for the final re-take of my last doctoral exam, and I was taking a break from studying (I took many of those--I had to bomb the exam). I was watching some program on the Animal Planet or National Geographic channels, and it was about beavers. There was a very long underwater photography sequence where a beaver was having a swim. I thought it looked so peaceful and placid, I wished I was free like that beaver.

That evening, I dreamt I was that beaver swimming, a really, really nice feeling, and that was my last wet dream.

Unfortunately, I haven't had one in decades. I could really enjoy one.

I recall having two or three in my teen years, but nothing since.

I used to masturbate two or three times a week, that kept the pipes cleared out in my twenties into early thirties. Then I got married and my wife enabled me to clear the pipes regularly for many years.

In recent years, diabetes has rendered those pipes useless. Oh could I use a wet dream.

I've had many erotic dreams, but never actually had an orgasm or ejaculated while sleeping, probably because I've masturbated pretty much every day since I was 11.

I have come close, though.

I've had many erotic dreams, but never actually had an orgasm or ejaculated while sleeping, probably because I've masturbated pretty much every day since I was 11.

That's exactly the reason.

Am I the only guy here who has had a wet dream in my 60's.

I was so happy to wake up and feel what had happened.

Come to think about it maybe it says I need to have sex more or wank more.

In analyzing fetishes and fantasies I've had since my teens, i trace back to the onset of puberty. For a few years, i had wet dreams that troubled me. As good as the spurting sensation felt, having to get up in the middle of the night and deal with the ensuing mess quietly in secret was bad enough. What was worse was I felt i did not have control of my own body with these involuntary nocturnal emissions.

It was until i was 16 that i learned i could take matters into my own hands. Haven't had a wet dream since. Figure, i cum 40-50 times a month. Once daily during the week, 5x on the weekend.

But in that period that lasted a couple of years, as I struggled with lack of control of my body, there were some highly revered, highly respected authority figures around me who seemed to carry themselves like doms. This would serve to shape a lot of early sexual fantasies, some of which i still hold to this day.

I responded to this post in 2012. Things for me have not changed. I have a wet dream 2-3 time a year. Not as frequent as I did when I was younger. I'm in my sixties now.

Without a prostate, a wet dream is a thing of the past; but, I do have sexual dreams about 6 times a year that would otherwise be wet dreams. The last one woke me up and I wondered if I had actually been thrusting my hips in my sleep as viciously as in my dream. Whoever was on the receiving end had my dick filling her ass. Loved it. BTW, I'm 71 so wet dreams are not the domain of only the young.

Wish I still had them. Came close (!) a few times over the years after waiting a couple weeks between "releases" when I have an erotic dream where I'm bedding some good looking woman but she never quite pulls the trigger before I wake up or the dream changes scene...

I have never had a wet dream (unfortunately). Guess I take care of things often enough to preclude them. Oh well!

This is a interesting follow up. At late 30's I'm still getting sum wet dreams 3 or so times through the year. I'm still regular at ejaculating and a fun sex life

I still get them at 40 .... not often but I'm partnered now so get it pretty regularly

At late 30's I'm still getting sum wet dreams 3 or so times through the year. I'm still regular at ejaculating and a fun sex life

I'm in a similar boat. I'm in my early 30s, have a great sex life, but also still get an occasional wet dream. Tho I had two this past week, which was really unusual. (And why I looked around to see if there was a thread on this topic.) One, I definitely remember having an erotic dream. With the other I guess I was just subconsciously hitting my sheets the right way.

I'm in my mid 20s and can count on less than one hand the number of wet dreams I've had. And for the past year or so, I'd say I only ejaculate once a week on average.

I think this is one "metric" where guys can vary wildly. For some men, it's a regular occurace, for others, it's never happened.

I wouldn't mind them happening more often, but the cleanup isn't too much fun in the middle of the night...

I am now 72 years. Until now I have never had wet dreams because I've started already before the semen production with 9 years of masturbation and since then have not exposed day.

I am in my late 50's and as far as I can tell I have never had a wet dream. I have had very erotic dreams and for a while I was doing some experiments trying to seed ertoic dreams with some luck, but I have never ejaculated because of one. Must be an interesting sensation for those who have experienced it though.

Must be an interesting sensation for those who have experienced it though.

Um, I guess, maybe. I'd take a conscious orgasm over it any day, though. Generally I've just woken up to a mess and a dim recollection of the dream.

Must be an interesting sensation for those who have experienced it though.

As a chronic wet dreamer in youth, @moliere experience generally was like mine, it could be a soaked and embarrassing mess. However there were times when it was INTENSE with a huge build up and release, different from a wide awake orgasm and hard to describe if you never had one. It's strange because even if I remembered the dream, some were not even overtly sexual.

I am not a good sleeper. I think of my many projects and they spin around in my head. I can not tell you how many times when I decide to go to bed, if I had good light and heat in the shop, I would go out and play. Decades ago I found that listening to old radio shows tends to give me something to break out of the circles my head spins in and are also short and mundane enough to fall asleep to. I also know when I tend to dream. For a while I was lining up old radio stuff until about the time I would be dreaming, and than inserting real sex sounds into the mix. When it worked it was unreal. Better that sex as it would go on and on and just be incredibly hot. But, I would never ejaculate.

BTW, if you are having dreams you don't remember and wake up with a mess are you sure you are not just pissing yourself? I ever found a normal amount of come to be that big a mess.