Men, do you Wear Panties? How did it start?

@fretter, I think so many of us have had similar opportunities . I find that if I am in anyone's house alone, I can't help but find the lady of the houses underwear draw and have a look through. I love seeing what women I know wear. There have been a few times, in various cousins houses, I have taken a pair of their panties and kept them to wear at home. I think I have at least 4 pairs from cousins. I wonder if they ever noticed missing panties and if they did did they wonder what happened to them. I have certainly never been asked about it.

Yeah, I do.

when I was a kid I only wore panties. sometime in my teens I then switched to boxershorts but still kept my panties. after becoming an adult, I kinda went back to preferring panties. they make me feel pretty. boxers and briefs are way more comfy but panties are my go to when I want to be looked at

In my mid-40's when I began collecting girdles and full-cut panties; as my collection grew (avoiding temptation to make cheesy pun) , it became hard not to try on what I was collecting.

In my 50s now, but I remember when i was about 6 or 7 y.o stealing my sisters panties and dresses. Captivated by the pretty patterns and fabric compared to my ugly y fronts.

I loved wearing them

Got caught sometimes…. and no that was not fun like the stories 😢

All through my life I have been doing it.. Its part of me now.. I just yearn for someone to share it with

As a young teen I regularly tried on neigubirs, friends, cousins, Aunts. If I could find an opportunity I would try them on. Now as a married adult Im wearing panties exclusively during the day.

Bozo, would you like to tell us how you acquired these panties to try on early on? I love going through women's draws looking at their panties. I'm a terrible guest sometimes , but I have never been caught. even when I steal a pair for my collection

@Arewefree - a few different ways

Neighbors - growing up we had a key to their house. They often went to their lake cottage in the summer and as a teen I was home alone during the day. Would go in an try on Mom and Daughters panties. Some of my favorite experiences.

Cousins and Aunts - sleepovers at their house gave plentt off opportunties to raid laundry hampers.

Family friends - At one particular house I would ofteb play “Hide and seek” as a teen with some od the younger kids. I would alwyas hide in the hamper which gave me lots of goodies to look at.

Never tried wearing girly panties, but I DO LOVE wearing girdles and bras. I love the support and flattening provided by a nice girdle and I wear bras because I have rather ample breasts for a guy. I wear both virtually all the time under all my regular clothes. If you look at my member profile you can read more about my girdle/bra wearing.

I started wearing panties when I was 14.

I used to masturbate to the lingerie section of JC Penney and Sears catalogs while pretending the lingerie models were diapering me.

For some reason it occurred to me that I would love to try on panties too.

I tried on my mom's panties, but they were a bit big for me, so I ordered some from one of the catalogs.

When my panties arrived, I couldn't have been more exited.

I ordered six pairs of nylon bikini style, and three of them were pink.

I came almost instantly when I slipped them on!

From that day forward, I've mostly worn panties unless I'm playing with diapers and plastic panties.

Sometimes I wear panties over my diapers especially when I wear diapers like Luvs and Pampers.

Pampers and Luvs don't really fit anymore, but panties can help keep them on even when I wet them.

I had a girlfriend that suggested we swap clothes one afternoon at her house, we must have been 16ish, so for a laugh and a bit of an experiment we swapped cloths and then she wanted to see how i looked with some makeup on. So as I thought there might be a chance of sex I went with it. ;-) Her parents were out so all looked good, we tried loads of different outfits on (well I did).

It was the start of me wanting to wear lingerie and women's clothes. Later that day i met her parents for the first time in full make up, this was the early-mid 80s. I'm really not sure what they thought but were very cool about it. lol We broke up a little while after, not sure what she's doing now.....?

I do sometimes but I always wear them when taking an enema.

I love my pink silk panties! I started wearing them when I started using hormones to develop girl breasts. My GF loved me in a picture of them! We went pantie shopping together! I wear them under my boy clothes and when we are making love. I no longer have boy underpants I love the smooth feeling of the silk on my cock and balls. Their tighter gusset holds my cock and balls tighter - they have shrunk from the estradiol I took to develop small breasts. I like the smooth bottom they give me. My GF loves my new body!

In answer to the original question: sometimes.

For me wearing panties is always connected and responsive to another Man's desire for me to wear them. i experience it as a form of bondage, and experience "bondage" as attraction/connection and 'bonding' that happens symbiotically when opposites attract. lol... yeah, i know, i'm complicated, but i don't think all that unusual.

my first experience was with a Man Who wanted and saw me as the yin to his Yang and experienced that in masculine/feminine contrast. Essentially, He already saw me as feminine and panties were a sort of label or packaging to declare that, make it more of an announcement and affirmation. Wearing them doesn't make me feminine, it opens and surfaces what is already there. Some Men want/need that more and differently than others, and that is what exposes and draws out that part of me.

I don't remember how he got started wearing the first time. But he wore his first pair and it has grown. He finds them comfortable and they feel nice on his manly bits.

They are also sometimes cheaper to find in our area. Cheaper than his normal bikini mens drawers. So that is what is in his underwear drawer.

I try to stick to cotton because satin can be slippery and then they might show. I do try to keep the color selection a bit muted just in case they happen to peak out of his jeans if he bends over. The dreaded plummers crack. It happens when one works on things.

The dreaded plummers crack. It happens when one works on things.

lol... i don't "dread" this at all... To me, i think a Mans ass is the most beautiful part of His anatomy. Which i find odd as a total bottom who has no desire to use a Mans ass, but visually? And touching? It's an aphrodisiac for me. i have to be careful not to gawk at the gym. No "dread" here. ;-)

@tallslenderguy For me wearing panties is always connected and responsive to another Man's desire for me to wear them.

Wow - same here for me as well.

Wow - same here for me as well.

i'm not surprised. i think we all do a lot of things to attract the desires/needs of those we are attracted to, but i think a lot of that flies under the radar... especially if one is 'normal.' Open discussions in forums like Zity, where we not so normal folk can feel safe to open up and express what we know about ourselves, also generates deeper and new insights into ourselves and others.

As i see it, we discover, see and 'know' ourselves through self reflection, but no ones 'mirror' is perfect, so our self reflection can contain the real and distorted perceptions reflected by our imperfect mirror. In relationship, others also 'reflect' what they see in or about us (and their mirrors are not perfect either, eh?). But that is how i saw this about the panties thing, and other things about me as well. i'd probably have never known or discovered how i feel in panties (in this case) had it not been for the first Man Who imagined and wanted me in panties.

While not a total sissy I do harbor a lot of sissy. As I posted a while back, I love panties and love to wear them... as long as my penis is stiff. As soon as my hardon subsides, in spite of his rather small size my little dick still finds his way out of the narrow crotch... along with my disproportionately larger testicles.

Many years ago, as holloween was nearing my wife and I were invited to a party. My wife said she would get our costumes. She wouldn’t tell me what I would be wearing. The afternoon came for us to get ready, and my wife first said shower, then she shaved my legs, chest, and face. Next came the pink satin panties, pink bra with gel inserts, open bottom girdle and tan nylons. Was feeling really sexy, next a see thru blouse and a plaid skirt, plus a pair of women’s shoes. Complete make up job and a blonde wig. I couldn’t believe the transformation. At the party no one believed it was me. That night my wife seduced me, and it was some of the best sex ever. Now going on 80 , I wear women’s incontenent panties, and some times with a Kotex pad. My girlfriend approves.

Don’t wear them. Unless of course I am feeling extremely kinky.

But, their smell makes my Willy go all stiff

I started being fascinated by panties as young boy, probably before I really understood what masturbating was about, I discovered my mommy’s panties drawer, I can’t tell you why, but like so many others, I put on a pair of shiny nylon full cut panties. Well the sensation was amazing. I became a bit fascinated with panties. One day I was asked to empty the car after my mom went shopping. As I was bringing in the groceries, I spotted a pair of pantyhose in the package. They had fallen down between the trunk and the spare tire. I took them and that night put them on. Well that started my love of pantyhose.

Anyway, fast forward......

When I was in my early thirties, my wife was in hospital for an extended period of time. I missed her terribly. So one night I’m putting away laundry and I’m folding some of her clothes. Long story short, I found and I put on a pair of her panties and it was amazing. At first it was a comfort thing. Wearing her intimate items made me feel close to her. Over the next couple days, I ended up trying on more items. In the end I was most interested in sensation, the two things I was

“addicted” to wearing were pantyhose and panties. This was before the internet so it was really confusing for me. When my wife came home I told her that I liked to wear her panties. She wanted to buy me my own panties but I think it was more about wearing hers. She said she was ok with it but ultimately, without the support of the internet I slowly stopped doing it. I could tell she didn’t know what to make of the whole thing and I’m not sure I could explain it. How did you get into it? You started much later than most people I’ve read about.

I have been a pantie wearer for over 30 years now..it started in my teens and has developed into wearing 24/7 over the past 20 years now at nearly age 60. What started as an attraction to the silk and satin has become a fetish. Not to mention they feel much more comfortable than boxers or briefs. My wife accepts my little fetish but does nothing for her intimately. I do love watching her fold my panties after the wash. Lol. Just ordered a 10 pack and on line because they don’t sell a whole lot of nylon bikini briefs in the stores anymore. The pantie drawer is getting pretty full.

When my wife and I were dating , she left a pair of satin string bikini panties in my laundry. Not sure on purpose or not but I put them on and they felt wonderful. I have been wearing satin panties ever since.That was over thirty years ago.

My lovely said to me one time, will you wear my panties when you go to work today? I said sure, she smiled and said great, I hope you’ll be thinking of me all day! And I did!

My lovely said to me one time, will you wear my panties when you go to work today? I said sure, she smiled and said great, I hope you’ll be thinking of me all day! And I did!

There must be a backstory on this. After all, this isn't the kind of request a spouse usually makes of their SO. There must have been some reason why it was made in the first place.

I'm certain those reasons would make for interesting reading.

I’ve never been (much) of a panty wearer, but now that I think about it, I’m not sure why. I am a butt man, and I particularly love butts in panties, and panties to the side, or panties either on or off. I even love the words “panty” and “panties”!

I clearly remember being infatuated with my little sister’s opaque vinyl training panties as a toddler. I would wear them over my pants, and sometimes upon my head- (I believe Polaroids of that still exist). On several occasions I managed to put them on my bare skin after getting out of the bathtub. I also remember being scolded for doing so. I recall how they would instantly fog up over my warm wet skin, how they felt cool and smooth against my penis, and how I really liked that.

Teen drivers used to use our farm’s gravel back driveway for making out and for vehicular humping due to its low traffic and relatively close proximity to town. More often than not, a pair of panties would get left behind in the driveway for me to find while waiting for the morning school bus; they would then unbeknownst to my accompanying little sister slyly and casually find their way into my pocket to be much thought of while in class, and to be enjoyed later. Even during my ‘pre erection’ years, I would secret away to put them on because they felt wonderful and very naughty. When erections started happening for me, just picking a pair up would be enough for cause. As a teen, I tried wearing a pair for a day once, but had to remove them due to them causing me an almost continuous difficult to conceal teen stiffy.

I’ve also put on my girls’ panty after sex just for giggles a time or two, and found several ladies to find it as much of a turn on as I!

I am a very natural born dom, but donning lady’s panties can help to slip into a sub’s headspace with quite impressive ease, and they are about the only thing that can help allow me that freedom.

So being scolded by a mother who also acted like the word “panties” was a dirty word is how my above average interest in them likely began.

Every confident man who’s ever tried panties would probably prefer them! Maybe we do, and just don’t discuss it much?

I have 3 new Manpanties from Ania's Poison. There wonderful and comfortable. Why, I very been jealous of woman's clothing being softer and sexy.

The first time was about age 13 when I found a pair of of my mom's silk bikini panties. Through the years I have worn all types of styles depending on my mood. I've wore men's string bikinis, boxer shorts, tightly whites, men's thong panties, and boxer briefs at different times in my life. Now, I wear mostly panties made for men or boy short style briefs. I recently put on a pair of my wife's panties when were playing truth or dare and we had to switch underwear for a turn. It was a huge turn on and I hope we can repeat it in the future!

Sniff? Occasionally. Wear? Never.

Borrow them from my girlfriend and still wear them.