Finally agreed to wear, now what?

My girlfriend told me last night that she would work on trying to get in the correct mental state to wear a diaper around me. She is getting more comfortable of the idea, I told her months ago. Now what should I do? What should I do when she is in a diaper. I think sex might be off the table. We talked about getting a movie and just laying in bed. What are some things you did when you finally got your girl/boy in a diaper?

In my opinion (of course it's my opinion-it's coming from me...) it should be solely about sex, and here's why.

I read your other post, about how she isn't interested in them, so if you are now at a point where she is willing to try them you have to consider where her head is at. For an enthusiast, the diaper is the attraction, as well as all those activities that come with. For the non-enthusiast, well, you will need to convince her that there are attractive elements-for "her".

Sitting and watching a movie while she is diapered is likely going to make her feel uncomfortable and create distance from your interest. A lot of thoughts will be racing through her head during the film, and she may develop stronger reasons as to why she is not interested from those thoughts (examples: does he expect me to use this? what does he think of me like this? why? what am I opening the door to? etc.).

Instead, incorporate it into something she is familiar with and enjoys-sex (I assume she likes good ol' fashioned sex). Be intimate, be sensual, whisper kinky things at each other, make the act of diapering her as erotic as possible (minding powders and creams unnecessary to one who will not be using it-don't expect that so don't use them). Once she is diapered-again, take your time with that making it as physically pleasurable as possible-then continue stimulating her through the diaper, eventually working your way up to pulling it to the side and penetrating her while she continues to wear it. After you are done, be courteous and remove it from her and then cuddle.

The most important thing is to consider her feelings since she is compromising herself for you. Making her uncomfortable will make her reluctant to see anything positive in that sort of interaction afterward. Show her how it can be fun and lead to great sex. The main thing is don't expect her to ever feel the same way about them as yourself-even if you execute this plan and all goes incredibly well. If you ask too often or get pushy, she will back away further and further.

I wish you the best of luck. Be patient and don't expect more than she is able to give.

I propose to have another view about your experience of life .

You speak about diaper fantasy , OK , but it can be another fantasy to .

If both of the members of a couple refuse or deny the fantasy of the partner , after some years the life will be very sad and without pleasure . Saying no one time is not a problem , staying in a negative position when the partner is demanding love and passion will lead the couple to a crash . Partners will become tired from each other.

Saying NO to your lover is a very bad decision , that you will pay cash some years later .

~D~ that was some of the best advice. Seriously. I guess that I need to be upfront before hand before I do it though. I don't think she would go for surprises like that. I think that you are right however in if I make the first experience super positive then it will likely lead to a more healthy relationship that we will have with diapers. Here is another question though. What diapers would be best for sex. The ones we have are triple tape depends and I feel like they would be harder to push to one side. I'm sure its been posted here before and I'll look for tips for diaper sex. Until now I will just be patient.

I apologize if I made it sound as though you should make the sensual diapering a surprise event-you're correct, you shouldn't. If she has agreed to the idea, then you can both determine a time when it works best for her. That you like diapers is already surprise enough right now.

As far as types of diaper for that sort of endurance test, really I don't imagine that it will matter too much (unless the tapes are so terrible that they pop under the added stress). I have found that in doggy-style position it's easiest enough to pull open at one of the leg cuffs and then... Make sure that you pull it back far enough so as not to chafe yourself on the leg gatherers.

So just wanted to give you guys an update, last Thursday night we finally did it and it went great, I mean well beyond my expectation great. Honestly so great that I am sure someone will read this and think I am lying great. We finally set a night, then that night when she got back from work we went out to dinner at new place that we have been wanting to try. After that we went to the grocery store to get some vodka. We came home and did a shot and then she poured her self a drink and we went back to our bedroom. We picked out a movie to watch and then I waited for her to say something. After about 20 minutes into the movie she finally asked when we were going to starts tonight's main festivities.

I told her that we could start them when ever she was ready and she told me she was ready now so we started. She put one on me and then I put one on her. It was fantastic, I have never seen another adult in a diaper not to mention someone I am so in love with and someone so beautiful. We sat in them and couldn't stop touching her diaper I had her moving around in it and showing it off for me. I could tell she liked the attention. Then we decided to do another shot. After that and another 20 or so minutes we were both quite buzzed and she asked me a question that although didn't take me by surprise, her reaction and way she asked it was the first seriously awesome surprise of the night. The question as you might have figured was that she needed to go to the bathroom and wasn't ready to use hers YET. She actually said yet as in "one day I will for sure but not yet. This is the same I'm not ready yet that she said two months ago when she was diapering me up but wasn't ready to try one herself yet, and the same yet that she said a few months before that when I told her about it and she said she wasn't ready yet to diaper me. This was seriously good news for me because I have always fantasized about her wetting but never imagined she would ever be down to do so.

Anyways she was worried about ruining the diaper when it came off and I told her not to worry that I had plenty and I didn't mind at all if she pulled it off. We were wearing depends maximum protection as they are the best we can find. I desperately want some more variety. However when she came out of the bathroom she said that she thinks she was able to save it by pulling it down then pulling it back up like normal panties. It looked okay but the inside tab was kinda screwed up and it was a little loose. After a couple of minutes I asked her to stand on her knees on the bed so I could adjust it.

That's when it happened. As I adjusted it my hand ran along the inside rim of her diaper. Slightly and softly touching her lower stomach. We both looked at each other and then, like out of a movie, we both started passionately kissing each other. (Before this she had said that she never wanted to mix diapers and sex, however a month ago a diaper change turned into sex, but the diaper was never on me and was kicked to the side off the bat.) Then after kissing and kissing we started to rub our diapers together. We probably dry humped longer then the total time we normally have sex. I put my hand down her diaper fingered her for a good while. She was already soaking wet by the time my hand went down there. Finally I started to pull the top tapes off my diaper and then undoing the tapes on one side of hers. I had hoped I could have sex with them on but she kicked hers off so I kicked mine off too. I'm kinda glad we did. The sex we had was fantastic and afterwords she got up and said and I quote "That was the best sex I have ever had in my whole life, seriously the best.

We decided to go on a walk and she diapered me up saying that she wasn't ready to go out in them yet (again yet is really good for me, its way better then a maybe one day) so we went out. We had a great walk and she again said that the sex was absolutely mind blowing and that we would have to do it again. When we got home I took mine off and went to bed. I tried to get her to get in one but I could tell she was tiered so I never directly brought it up.

Anyways it was the best night ever, seriously, I was expecting that she would put them on that she would just sit there. I had no idea it would be so fun. AMA.

Slow and steady wins the race-congrats on the spectacular time.