Cuckolding (for guys with female partners)

Do any of u guys out there fantasize or experience this?

My fantasy is to cum home and catch my girlfriend in bed with another guy, but have her not know that I saw them, like peeping through a window, or hiding along the passage.

All my threesomes have been with my permission. I knew a guy once, who had a friend staying with him, and he caught his wife kissing and sucking his pal one nite in the tv room, when they though he was asleep. Later that night, he bonked the hell outta her, and kept his secret to himself for months until she discussed he knew.

And she was upset. He used to get off sneaking about and catching her and coming home after to bonk her.

Mine is rather with one guy, and she being into it, and ignoring me in a way.

Alternatively, I like the humiliation too, like he's spending his night, and I should sleep on the couch.

That opening scene from Boogie Nights with Nina Hartley, is very arousing for me.

Have experienced this with several guys in the past. My wife is highly erotic, and loves the attention. She has not been into it lately, but that's o.k. for me also. We have created some incredible memories in the past, I have witnessed her having multiple orgasm with others...it puts things in a different dimension. About 4 years ago,since I was sterile(due to childhood mumps), we used the "cuckold" thing to start a family. Our son is wonderful, and everything we always wanted. We have zero problems with that, as the "donors" have no knowledge (and never will). How one makes a child is irrelevant, as long as the love is there. If we desired more children, we would do this again. My wife has considered a polyamorous relationship. but it would probably get really tangled (especially with children). But as far as the sexual part, I find that women are soooo capable of administering vast amounts of pleasure to many men..............as we men......even the most studly....CANNOT equal the sexual power that women attain naturally. I'm jealous!!! Alas, we are wired differently. It is a POWERFUL human experience......watching ones mate create a life.....one that I will never forget. But as far as the "kink" factor...yeah its kinky. Waiting for her at home used to be a very erotic thing. Glancing at the clock....knowing that she is getting fucked , and trying not to come as I stroke my cock thinking about this thing. Wow!!!! And then when she comes home....her wet looseness, and dreamy look is spell bounding. I usually last fewer that 30 seconds at that point.I think we are a fairly balanced couple, but allowing her to sexually explore...serves both of us well. If she never does this again....I don't care. What a gift I have been given in having her to love (and to love me).

About 4 years ago,since I was sterile (due to childhood mumps), we used the "cuckold" thing to start a family. Our son is wonderful, and everything we always wanted. We have zero problems with that, as the "donors" have no knowledge(and never will).

Ummm -- Maybe I'm just reading that wrong, but are you saying that during that session one of the men ejaculated in her and that's how she got pregnant and you're stating that he wasn't aware he was used in that fashion and that he now has a child he is unaware of that's carrying 50% of his DNA?

Jbrauer........To clarify my admission, yes the willing participant (unknowingly) impregnated my wife. Her part was intentional, his was not. Some people may find this dishonest, but , alas, as much as we men MAY NOT want to hear it...................a woman is ALWAYS in command of her reproductive choices (at least in the U.S.) I think that is a good thing, especially for couples who cannot reproduce for lack of a male partners physical limitations. This was planned by us, and the donor has no clue. A bit of a "back story" may be in order... I am a commercial cargo pilot (flt a freighter) ,we have a yearly professional gathering...that year it was held in London, and a certain pilot from Berlin kept "hitting" on my wife, dancing ,etc. As things progressed, she ended up inviting him for "after drinks" in our suite. The three of us became quite "comfortable", and well the next three days were a flurry of sperm injections. The rest is history. She knew she was due to ovulate in the next 2 days. Since he flies the European route, and I fly the Asian route, its unlikely that we will meet again. He retired 1 year ago,at 52yrs old, and is an instructor at a technical university in Germany. We have never kept in touch.

Regarding cuckolding (for guys with female partners),

During the 70's & early 80's, I did some experimentation in that regard to see if there was any eroticism in it for me and found that it was not enjoyable. Also, there have been occasions in the early years when myself and a female partner were in a mutually agreed upon monogamous relationship only to find it was otherwise without my knowledge, I did not like it. There have been other relationships in which we both agreed that there would be other partners and no negative feelings were experienced. In summation, watching a female partner that I might be involved with getting it on with another guy does not particularly excite me.

As to using another guy as a sperm donor without his foreknowledge or consent to get pregnant ? For me, that is just flat out unethical....

G.N.

I just get off watching my partner in missionary and being ravished by another man, or just simply sucking his cock off, while I normally watch from the patio window outside. Its very rare that I join in, and when they are done, she asks him to excuse himself and I go in, and we start fucking like crazy. I get the most intense, close to fainting orgasm.

My girlfriend left her ex for me.

Her ex was a cuckold and she was me in her stories towards him to excite him.

Now she is dragging me into it and want me to become a cuckold too.

I am afraid i will loose her. What should i do ?

Funsy,

Your profile says you are well educated and in to BDSM, hypnosis and domination. How about playing the role of the real dominant and treating her like a true submissive. Hypnotize her and tell her that when she wakes up she will want nothing more than being faithful and subserviant to you. Problem solved! ???

This is what I like doing ... Rimming while she's riding.

Does anyone know where I can get more pics depicting this or vid clips?

http://cuckold-chastity-belt-stories.com/cuckold-picture-stories/page_while_wife_is_having_sex_cuckold_can_2.html

I dig kinky sex, but I'm a terrible sharer. Cuckolding means relationship is over.

I don't mind sharing her just as long as I am in on the action.

I once watched my ex (they were unaware) doing thing with another guy she refused to do with me...i felt so humiliated and horny at the same time, in fact i came in my slacks as i watched without even touching myself. went home after and jerked off all night long thinking about how the broad gave him pleasure she denied me.

Cuckold situation could help ease the nerve of sharing her for first timers. We are unsure how to best break the ice or how much involvement on my part is best???

My understanding of the cuckold fetish is that it involves the male partner being humiliated. No, I don't get into that at all. I do fantasize about seeing my partner getting fucked by me and another guy but there's no humiliation for me involved - in fact I'm the one directing it.

I have the fantasie of catching my girl with another man then being made to watch untill he cums in her then being made it suck his cock clean then to clean her out with my tongue and having to suck out all his cum from her would be a dream come true :-)

I'd enjoy being invited to a session with multiple partners involved.

I recall one night (in my early twenties) the wife of a brother of a friend came on to me after having a little too much to drink. The four of us had just been sitting around talking, so it was awkward to say the least. Just out of the blue...right there in front of her husband and brother in law.

Do any of you guys out there fantasize or experience this? .Experience sadly no, fantasize...yes... a lot. From what I've read there are several varieties of being a cuckold, but mine always involves my wife being taken by a black bull in front of me and having multiple orgasms. Any comments from our lady members?

I don't know if this qualifies for this thread, but some time ago, I had my ex wife used by other men often. I got a great thrill out of it, but, of course, I'm bi. Actually, any man that does that is bi, whether he knows it or not. It's a matter of Psychological Transference. I got enormous pleasure out of displaying her, exposing her, letting men touch her, having her suck other men's cocks, and having her fucked by other men. But, the reason I say I don't know if my experiences qualify, is that there was no humiliation involved. I was in control,and she did this for me, not to humiliate me. It was at my urging, and I was in charge. In fact, while she was having sex of any kind with other men, she was looking into my eyes with her own adoring eyes for me. It was the biggest gift she could give me. I don't think I mentioned, but I'm sure many of you have guessed that she is sexually submissive. One of my favorite activities, back when it was not life threatening to do, was to have her sit on my face after she was finished and full of the other guys cum. I think that was better then caviar and oysters with a Crystal chaser. Mmm, mmm, good.

On a slightly different note; we had a number of gay and lesbian friends. Although she will say that she's not even bi, occasionally she would be attracted to women. We had one Lesbian friend that was VERY attracted to my ex, and she made her desires perfectly clear. We all used to have a good laugh over it. By the way, my ex is gorgeous, about 5'1", 112lbs, size 5 (sometimes a 3), and shapely. Her measurements are 34C-22-35. Very hairy pussy with a huge overstuffed clot, with the hair creeping over her thighs, which I love. Also, in winter mostly she would not shave her armpits much...another thing I loved. Also, she is super sophisticated, wears designer clothes, including Manolon Blahnik, Jimmy Choo, and those shoes with the red soles (sorry, suddenly have gone blank on that designer's French name), Liu and La Perla undergarments too. Anyway, enough of that. I just wanted to paint a picture of sorts of her. One day, our Lesbian friend that admired her, was over for dinner (Her SO had to go home to California on some family stuff). After desert, my wife and her went over to our bedroom. Now I must explain, we lived in very Trendy part of Florida, and our house was 2 buildings with a Koi pond in-between them. I told them I would clean up and load the dishwasher. I took my time and after a while, when they didn't come back, I went over to our bedroom in the other building. I opened the door to find them nude, in each other's arms in our bed. I quietly retreated, intending to leave them to their fun. But, they heard me and asked me to stay, Which I did. Fun was had by all. I guess that's sort of on topic here. I'd love to hear other's stories about cuckolding and whatever might be connected as well.

I have discussed it with my lovely wife often, I am more keen than she is, I would love her to have two or three guys servicing her as long as I never met them.

The thought of her cunt being fucked by others is a real turn on and I would get a nice cream pie to lick out of her sore cunt.

If only...

I'm with Yerl on this one. The thought of my wife going out and getting fucked is a real thrill, but she doesn't seem too keen. I'm not sure i'd want to meet her lovers although trying a creampie would be cool. Sadly in this modern day & age it's not the safe thing to. do.

I am in a cuckold relationship, a very happy one. I love the fact that she sees other men, in fact she has three lovers. One she sees weekly, one a time or two a month and the third several times a year. I treat her really well as she does me. She tells me she is so lucky to have someone who understands her sexuality. She is free to have sex with anyone she wants, She doesn't have to tell me, who, when, or why. With this freedom she prefers to be sneaky about her activities (a turn on for her) Sometimes lovers leave moments before I return home.

Other times she might spend the weekend with a lover. We have been doing this for about twenty years with few if any ill effects.

The Happy Cuck.

It seems that many of you don't know what a cuckold is or what the word means.

To be a cuckold, your wife is cheating on you and ridicules and mocks you when she does it or when you find out about it--for real, not as part of a sexy game. She is an adulterer and scorns you and makes fun of you regarding her extramarital sexual relationships and/or your lack of sexual prowess or ability to completely satisfy her.

Being part of a playful threesome does not make you a cuckold. It makes you a swinger. The thought of your wife being with another man would NOT turn you on if you were being cuckolded.

You guys are role playing, in, or fantrasizing about open relationships.

I would never want any of my past or present partners to have sex with another man, Too much love & perhaps obsession for them. It would result in too much negativity. However, if i began a different type of relationship from the get go with this style of kink, keeping love out of the equation, then that would be a different story.

That said, I would love to be in a cuckold role play situation where I was the guy having sex with the woman while her man watched while handcuffed and tied up..Not only for the power thrill, but also so I felt safe & not having to worry he wasn't going to pull a gun out & kill me or stab me with a knife in an unanticipated jealous rage.

Never got to do it but I have always dreamed about watching my wife fuck another guy. I really get turned on by the thought of him shooting a load in her pussy and then let me eat it out of her.

I’ve always wanted to see my wife fucked by another guy. I want it to be wild and passionate and I want to see her orgasm as he fucks her. Then I want him to cum inside of her. When he pulls out I want her to beg me to clean his cum out of her pussy with my tongue. It would be perfect if she came again as I was eating her cum filled pussy. Alas! It is only a fantasy.

@Funsy

What happened after all? Did she turn you into a cuckold? What were the things she was doing to drag you there when you posted your comment?

I have no desire to be a cuckold as Suzie describes it, but I would love to watch my wife fuck some other guys. I'd love to see her gangbanged by several guys, and I would love for her to have several different guys that she fucked on a regular basis. I told her this and we talked about it years ago. She was open to the idea but hesitant at the same time. But now it's a hard no. She says she wouldn't feel good about herself if she did that and also she doesn't want anything to ruin our relationship. Although it's disappointing I have to respect her feelings.

Now, in the 80s, back when I was young and good looking I had incredibly good luck with the ladies. Playing in a super good rock band surely helped me out a lot with that! One of the other guys in my band served as my "wing man". I loved to watch him fuck my girlfriends or a one night stand that I had picked up. I got him laid so many times. But it wasn't for his benefit, it was for mine, because I loved to watch and take some sloppy seconds. It was a big turn on for me to have a girlfriend who was slutty enough to fuck other guys in front of me.

Like a lot of us I've also had wives and girlfriends who would not fuck someone else in front of me but had no problem sneaking around behind my back. I did not enjoy that.

…I loved to watch and take some sloppy seconds. It was a big turn on for me to have a girlfriend who was slutty enough to fuck other guys in front of me.

@MrBud That is a very hot idea.