Expulsion etiquette

My other answer was about enemas between partners.

My wife received enemas from her mother. Usually, her mother would depart the bathroom before expulsion (or, if the enema was given over a bed, mark the bathroom as "to be left available"). Yet at times, my wife had to either try to have a bowel movement prior to the enema while her mother was preparing the bag, or to expel the enema while her mother cleaned the bag or prepared another enema.

And, yes, she disliked that.

Myself I prefer to do in privacy and do not care to see anyone else expel one either. I can give or receive but when time to expel I want privacy

Depends on the participants and what both are interested in doing and okay with doing.

When my siblings an I were taught personal hygiene as preteens, it didn’t take long for us to start giving enemas to one another after school in the afternoon. Likewise, a few years later, my girlfriend and I started giving each other enemas once a month during her period, thanks to my sister. And we never thought twice about expelling in front of one another. After my wife an I got married, we occasionally did enemas during foreplay, while having sexual intercourse, or after sexual intercourse and used the toilet in each others presence. Like, my girlfriend an I, my siblings an I never thought twice about using the toilet in front of one another. It was a non issue, an I don’t recall anyone ever bring the subject up. Why would we? We were taught, not too be ashamed of our bodies or our bodily functions...

Growing up my sisters and I received enemas on a regular basis and mother taught them to do period enemas when they started menstruating. We had no hangups about our bodies and would often see each other nude or receiving or expelling enemas or even douching. It was no big deal for us. My girlfriend enjoys sitting on the toilet facing the wall and expelling her third or fourth enema with myself sitting on a chair behind her and lightly touching her clitoris or using a vibrator on her or in her while she expells. She always finishes with an eneorgasm.

If I give someone an enema and watch the solution flow inside them, I sure as hell am going to watch it come back out.

I can stand around and wait for them to expel it for longer than anyone can hold it in.

How about cleaning up the toilet and bathroom after a good cleanout.

Welcome back Switchable Susie, haven't heard from you in a while, hope all is ok.

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If I give someone an enema and watch the solution flow inside them, I sure as hell am going to watch it come back out.

I can stand around and wait for them to expel it for longer than anyone can hold it in.

Some ( 😉 ) find expelling to be the best part of the enema experience. Especially with a partner. The intimacy, the closeness. Sexing, being sexed. What a way to say, I love you…

While my wife and I will give one another enemas, the expulsion is usually a private affair. When you are married there are so many personal elements of life that get shared, but none compare to the sounds and smells associated with an expulsion. Giving someone two quarts of warm soapy solution is one thing, being around when it comes out with all that it was intended to remove is quite another.

I enjoy watching videos of women expelling enemas. The sight and sounds they make, also their facial expressions. 😉😃 Although I'm not into scat.

I would sure love to find a female partner that loves enemas and wants me to administer them, and be with them while expelling them. The sights, sounds and vocal expressions are just so wonderful during the whole experience.

I do NOT like poo… when I give an enema the luck recipient gets to use the bathroom all by themselves, coming back to me after being sure they're empty, cleaning up thoroughly, and spraying a bit of air freshener. I once had someone who insisted on watching me expel… didn't quite get it but she felt being watched was part of the experience. To each their own!

I've enjoyed some “other activities” with other like minded partners while one of us was expelling. It just depends on what both enjoy and are comfortable with.

With my girl friend I like to take her to the bathtub and watch her poop the nozzle out then release standing or squating. I am gentle and help her with a finger and tummy massage with lots of kisses to finish her business. After that it is my turn. When we do it together it is just a big gigling mess.

I do NOT like poo… when I give an enema the luck recipient gets to use the bathroom all by themselves,

I don't like poo either but watching someone letting out an enema can be very embarrassing for them and also very intimate. I always accompany them to the potty and on occasion have gotten lucky as well. to each their own but the blush on her cheeks tells the story very nicely.

When my Husband decides to give me an enema things can be very strange . It is just recently he has started taking an interest in this part of my daily things. I never know what is going to happen when I start to get up to poop. I do not like him watching me poop but he does like playing with me. He has no etiquette. Sometimes he leaves me alone othertimes he watches me and gives a commentary like its a sports event. I admit it is very funny and embarrassing. Other times he picks me up so I am on my back with arse in the air so I shoot it out in a wierd position. It is fun for us. After he gives me a good one up the arse in the shower. I really like that

I definitely like the stick around for the expulsion because it is the best part of the whole deal

For my wife and I, it really depends on the mood. If we are playing, then watching each other expell may be included as part of the play. She has given me a blowjob while expelling because she was being “punished“.

If one is really focusing on the element of control, or lack thereof, the giver's choice to be present during expulsion fits into that narrative. I am always present during expulsion when giving, and despite my complaining, I ultimately prefer to have the giver present when I'm the receiver, although it really makes me battle internally with elements of privacy, dignity, and control.

In my limited experience, I want privacy and will give my partner the same.