What do you look for in a fuck buddy?

When looking for sex with a partner what do you look for and what is your boundarys

say its with somebody your looking for or have just met and you know its going to be a sex only thing with this person .

as in a fuck buddie

I don't actually do it now, as a play doc or in real life but, when I did I would assess the person and ask myself if she would likely say, after the cum, 'oooh, thats messy'.

As for my boundaries - well presently it's no intercourse

Boundaries for me right now are CIM, as I have mentioned in another post on here. With regards to sex, well I work on the principle of "whatever happens happens" in life and I think you have to judge at the time how far you will or wont go with someone and as such whilst I have never had sex with someone I have just met, I will state that its been tempting. As for what I would look for, well that has to be someone I would trust, have known them for a while and feel sexually confident in their presence.

I would say while physical attraction and is a factor I must mention that as I grow older I am now 38 I really really value personality sense of humor intelligence etc just as much. I also find open mindedness, adventure, honesty and kindness qualities which are important. Now speaking for myself if there was a way to combine all of this into a woman age 30-60 who also has a fetish for plastic/vinyl pants then that would be my ideal mate. Well one can dream can't they 😉

When looking for a partner, what do I look for ? Simple, compatibility in multiple aspects.

What are my boundary's ? Again simple, nothing that results in emotional or physical harm to either individual.

G.N.

I'm not actively looking but if opportunity were to knock.......

At this point in my life appearance would be secondary to what was going on in their head .My ideal fantasy lover would be, first, a guy who would be willing to experiment with all sorts of kinks, bondage, pain, CBT, oral and anal sex, dildos, showers, enemas, and E-Stim. I'd like to use safe words and explore my limits with each kink. I'll bet they're greater than I would imagine. What did I forget? Second fantasy lover? A woman willing to do the same. My wife is great but her imagination is not nearly as active as mine and her limits are much, much lower than mine. Given our history of swinging I doubt she would object., especially if it were activities she's not interested in.

First is physical attraction. I feel how can enjoy the relationship if I'm not attracted to them. I did try a relationship once were I had little attraction but then relationship suffered in the bedroom. so I basically stick now to what physically turns me on now and go from there

Fuck buddies were fairly common in college.

A person who becomes a fuck buddy, at least in my experience was someone who had a similar time schedule as yourself and who had a few interests in common with you. Also, the first encounter was not necessarily one where you would have already determined that the person would be a fuck buddy, it was just to have a good fuck between classes, usually intended to be a one time event, and the first time could have been completely accidental. The becoming a fuck buddy happened AFTER you both had a romp in the hay and had a good time together and planned to make it a frequent occurrence. It doesn't make sense to have a fuck buddy you couldn't have a great time with because they [horny college guys] were so readily available to me.

I haven't had a fuck buddy since college, so I can't say anything about relationships ending in hurt feelings or misleading anyone. Fucking in college was done purely for the sake of fucking unless it was obvious you were in a serious relationship--like with my boyfriend, now husband--and at the time, we both knew we were both having sex with other people despite the fact that we loved each other. I can't believe we have known each other for thirty years!

What I look for is first beautiful eyes and ass. She also has to have the same interest that I do. i.e roleplaying diaper loving ect. Also she has to have a great sense of humer and like to e dominated as well as be domient.