Sex Therapist

Anybody ever have a fantasy (or better yet, a reality) about a Psychologist/Psychiatrist/Sex Therapist?

Or better still, a sex surrogate under the direction of a Therapist?

IMHO, that would be really hot, having a Sex Therapist order you to have sex with some hot little surrogate

while the therapist watches and directs the two of you....

Cid404 said:

Anybody ever have a fantasy (or better yet, a reality) about a Psychologist/Psychiatrist/Sex Therapist? Or better still, a sex surrogate under the direction of a Therapist? IMHO, that would be really hot, having a Sex Therapist order you to have sex with some hot little surrogate while the therapist watches and directs the two of you....

You mean while the therapist watches and directs you so you can get your little dick up????

You wouldn't be having sex with a surrogate in front of a therapist unless you were having a sexual problem.

I also venture to say, it wouldn't be very hot for a male surrogate to have sex with a woman who was having a sexual problem in front of a therapist either.

That sounds like it would be a great scenario, Susie!

A man who has trouble getting it up is directed in how to pleasure a woman by a somewhat dominating therapist.....oooh!

Thanks for the idea!

I have a good friend who is a well-known sex therapist. She would tell you such an action is unethical and could lead to a criminal complaint being filed against the therapist.

Speed

Sounds like this thread belongs in the fantasies/dreams section. Just my opinion.

I agree. .

I wasn't clear that this section was for legit psych talk.

My apologies

I have heard of several sex therapists who have gone beyond the call of duty and gotten away with it.

If the patient does not complain or brag to his/her lose mouth friends, all is well.

I would welcome some tips/help from a sexual surrogate on how to achieve a more powerful orgasm. I have difficulty even when masturbating solo.

I posted yesterday that I found a classifieds ad in the Village Voice or New York Press looking for sex surrogates and applied but never heard back. The pamphlet in the office looked professional but who, of course, knows.

I have seen theas and read with confusion, I had no idea they were legal...or what they were for that matter..hmmmm....still a blurry line I think and is it really worth gooing there when so many other fun things exist?

I yhink I will avoid for now and see what comes up later! : )

Totally not my style---the switch thing or the sex therapist thing.

But the direction element sounds pretty cool and that is something I would like to see!! Ytr!!!

I fancied mine, but it was a completely professional arrangement. Ho hum

After reading a number of things I wrote about sex on the Internet, a professional female sex therapist emailed me and asked if I would be a surrogate for some of her female patients. After some thoughts, I agreed. I agreed because I realized that many of the women I'd dated all my life had sexual problems, and we had usually worked on them -- so I'd been one all along.

She never did contact me with a referral, and later I asked another one what she thought of the idea. She said it was officially banned by all the professional societies, and could lead to the person losing their license. She said that's probably why I had never been called upon again. And there is the question of prostitution. If the surrogate is paid money to have sex, then most states could surely criminally prosecute for that. My thought was to do it for free. Why not? I've been doing it all my life.

What has developed though, is that women who have read things I've written on the Internet have contacted me directly and privately, and asked for my help. I've turned down some, but taken others if I liked them. It's usually a nice sexual date, and as I do with all my dates, I help her to have the best, most, and longest lasting orgasms she's ever had. Isn't that a man's job?