Orgasm by intercourse or oral

I like to cum being fucked. I dont like to cum while being licked or sucked on my clit .

Ladies whats the favorite way for you to cum, oral or fucking?

Well, that's a bit more complicated than just asking which one.

I can only speak for myself here. The simple answer is that I love to cum anyway he makes me, and as often as he wants, lol.

The more complicated answer is the following.

When he makes me cum via oral, it's very very intense and by far the hardest orgasm of them all.

When he makes me cum via fucking, it's hot, it's wild, it's animalistic in nature. There is something to be said for that, especially if both people are in the mood for that sort of thing. This I feel can also be broken down further into vaginal and anal, again, both can be done while fucking, and both can be equally hot, wild and animalistic.

But if I had to pick probably my over all favorite way to cum it would have to be during love making. While it's not, "fuck me till I'm raw", or "rip the sheets off the bed", or "OMG baby, stick your huge fat cock deep in me and make it hurt" kind of sex, which is fantastic in it's own right, it's different when you cum during love making.

I may not cum as hard through a vaginal orgasm with his penis as I do through clitoral orgasm, (which may I add is quite normal), it's not always about the strength of the orgasm, but often the meaning behind it.

When two people are in love, especially in love, and they can orgasm together at the same time, looking into each others eyes, whispering each others name, moaning in pleasure, softly, and sweetly as you please the other person you love, there is no better orgasm in the world. Nothing as sensual, as fantastic, as special.

So while I love to cum anyway he wants to do it, hands down my favorite will always be missionary position, either him or I on top, slowly riding each other, looking into each others eyes, kissing each other deeply and passionately as we can until we both make each other cum. Actually, this effects us so much it usually makes one of us cry, or both. Lol, crazy as that sounds.

Oy, I so very much miss my man.

My most intense orgasms are by my husband oralling me or by my husband or myself manually masturbating me--not by intercourse.

This however is DIFFERENT from the most EXCITING orgasms. I would rate the sexual acts creating the most exciting orgasms in the same manner as you rate Olympic diving. Excitement is the product of orgasm quality times the difficulty to perform the act. For example, if my husband and I are fucking while suspended upside down by our ankles while getting enemas, the act would be difficult to perform (giving the quality score a high multiplier), and while the orgasms would probably not be as intense as doing it doggie style, the excitement would be very high because it would be difficult to perform.

Excitement = difficulty to perform X orgasm quality

Hi Mashie,

You said it all about orgasms during love making!! As you said,"Nothing as sensual, as fantastic, as special." It's as though your two spirits are trying to become one. Need I say more?

Keep smiling!,

highwater

Do I really have to pick one because I love both. Cumming while he is giving me oral is really the more intense of the two, but also cumming while he is cumming inside me at the same time has always been really awesome. I love that feeling especially when he is especially full.

I like oral until I'm almost there, then I love a good hard fuck.

I just love the feeling of cumming and it doesn't make any difference how I get aroused. Oral is just plain awesome, but a good hard fuck feels so good too.

Yes to oral sex while getting a full-volume soapy enema held in place with that double balloon. Couples and women, I need your help. wink/nudge!

I'm with lvmy_clit on this one! It awesome to get sucked to the edge and then bang it home!

I love giving oral whether it is to my wife until she cums all over my face, or to a male friend. I also love the feel of a really hard cock in my mouth, both ways with me as the sub. My owne satisfaction is not so important as I like to last as long as posable to be able to please my partner before my own release.

I prefer normal sex or with the fingers

I prefer oral

As others have said before, I enjoy cumming no matter which way that is brought about. I prefer GIVING oral than vanilla sex, but for receiving it really depends on what I have done recently and what I am in the mood for.

Some days I just need a good fingering while they rub my clit to cum, and cum hard, no big production.

Other days I'll want to make it last, make him cum by sucking his cock and then immediately go to vaginal sex. This obviously takes longer as he has just cum, so I have more time to enjoy 'my' cock.

Oral sex is one of my favourite things to do, but when I cum from oral about 90% of the time I IMMEDIATELY want to cum again, there is really no satisfactory end-game for me there. Or at least not one I have found yet. So it is always followed by me giving oral to the other person, or sex, or manual play, but it's never my 'one and done'.

But the one thing I never want to be is BORED. If I've cum 3+ times from one thing over 2 or 3 days, I'll want to switch it up. Just sex? New positions. With a girl? Switch who's wearing the strap on. Fingering? Rub or thrust or add some tongue, make it different. Oral? Bite, get rough, just teeth, then switch to soft licks and flicks with your tongue.

I can have an orgasm if I am getting fucked and from getting oral sex. I can have an orgasm from getting fingered as well. But really I like to have orgasms from doing all these things. They are all different and I really like the variety, I do not want to just have it the same every time. Some times I really want my husband to give be an orgasm by oral sex and I love it. There are other times too when I have an orgasm getting fucked, especially when doing it in the doggy position, and when I have an orgasm like that it is really satisfying if when I clench his penis it makes him squirt inside me.

...especially when doing it in the doggy position, and when I have an orgasm like that it is really satisfying if when I clench his penis it makes him squirt inside me.

OK, now you've done it. I'm hard just from reading that. 😃

I have better orgasms when I'm fucked than I do when I am being given oral. Not to say that I haven't orgasmed from oral sex, but it wasn't that mind blowing (I saw have seen no stars).

I will say oral does take the edge off so that I am not quite so cranky from lack of any orgasm. So for my sub it is a way to keep the "monster" at bay.

When I was younger I preferred oral, but as I've gotten older I now prefer the kind from a good lovemaking fuck.

I've wondered if that's not untypical, i.e, that youth tends to prefer oral and it changes as we age.

The best ever is when I'm just about to orgasm, but she beats me to it by seconds - no faking here, I can feel the fluttering and spasms in her vagina - and her orgasm then triggers mine, which in turn seems to keep hers going, which in turn seems to do the same to me, until we're like a couple of earthworms writhing in the sheets for what feels like forever. That doesn't happen very often, but it's the best - ever.

When I was younger I preferred oral, but as I've gotten older I now prefer the kind from a good lovemaking fuck.

I've wondered if that's not untypical, i.e, that youth tends to prefer oral and it changes as we age.

It varies among people. Tastes change as people age and the preference for oral over intercourse can change too.

Oral with the use of fingers and toys at the same time.

Oral.

I have never particularly cared for oral orgasms, not even when I was young. Mind you, doing 'it' was more than fun enough, exciting and pleasant and it was especially quite satisfying the first times when I had to coax my gf into doing something she didn't 'dare' do.

But afterwards, while part of regular sex play and petting or foreplay or whatever, I had to conclude that I much preferred a tighter kind of orgasm, a way in which the penis is clenched more tightly and firmly. A hand comes to mind firstly because it can apply pressure more easily and also vary the strength of squeezing and which part of the organ is touched or stimulated more or less.

Had I become too much of a 'hand-raised boy' that I placed an oral orgasm last on my list? I know a bj is supposed to be the ultimate sum of all sexual experiences for a red-blooded American boy and CiCs in the WH and all that, but whatcha gonna do? The prick wants what the prick wants ... ha ha

...but whatcha gonna do? The prick wants what the prick wants...

That's the most profound statement of truth that I've read here in quite a while.

Orgasms are mostly about my wife, and it used to be only with me giving oral, but my favorite, is when I sit between her legs and watch her masturbate to a wonderful orgasm. We purchased a "Magic Wand" and that seems to be working pretty good, but she still says that my tongue between her legs, is still the best for her. I think she is just trying to inflate my ego.

I like oral best and my guy is very good at it which makes it even better.

Getting sucked to orgasm has always felt amazing, if she let me cum in her mouth. Intercourse has been the main form of orgasm in the past 10-15 years though. I was lucky enough to have a woman fist my ass and after a few times, she would suck me while fisting me, let me cum in her mouth, then she would kiss me and give me my own cum to swallow. I would trade that for vaginal sex ANY DAY!!

I often do not come when being penetrated. I experimented having gay sex with a friend of mine which I knew to be lesbian. She did me orally in the most extraordinary way. laying on my back she used her tongue directly on my clitorous very gently and put a finger in my bum. This sounds strange but She could feel when I was about to orgasm by the tension in my rectum and she would slow down with the oral. In this way I would be on the edge of orgasm for the longest time. Eventually the orgasm was unavoidable and it felt like my bottom was exploding. It was the most intense thing I ever felt and I would often weep after such an extraordinary climax. I don't think I was ever as good for her but she seemed to enjoy doing it to me.

Oral for me and my gf.

she used her tongue directly on my clitorous very gently and put a finger in my bum. This sounds strange but She could feel when I was about to orgasm by the tension in my rectum

Nothing that strange. A rhythmic clenching and tensing of the anal sphincter is apparently an uncontrollable physical sign of orgasming. Both men and ladies experience it. I could tell when my wife was on the verge and over the top whenever I anally fingered her.

I find vaginal penetration really uncomfortable and somebody cum from anal alone, so definitely oral for me. There’s nothing better than having my clit sucked off like it’s a mini dick while being fingered anally. I do enjoy feeling others cum in me during anal (almost always in a condom, but still good)

Can I tell you what my wife's favorite way is? Without a doubt, she likes to cum when I fuck her pussy. I love to make her cum with my lips, tongue, fingers, a vibrator, and a little anal play, but she always makes me stop just when she starts to cum the first time, which only takes a minute or two. "Stop. It's too intense. Stop!" Then she always pulls me on top of her and grabs my cock to pull me inside her. She starts cumming almost immediately, over and over again. It's ridiculous. She can have a back to back series, of who knows how many violently bucking, screaming orgasms that last for five minutes--and then do it again a few minutes later. I get exhausted just trying to hold on for the ride.