Wife's Examination

My wife told me about her experience being examined. I was waiting in another room. She told me she was naked, in the stirrups, with only a paper gown covering her chest area. The head doctor and two other doctors came in she said. The old doctor examined her while the other doctors and a nurse observed. She said what really surprized her was that the old doctor got frustrated with her paper gown and sort of just pulled it all the way off leaving her completely naked and exposed. She pretended to be embarrassed by it but I think she was secretly aroused. She seemed to like telling me about it anyway. She also told me the doctor had her get in the doggie position and inserted speculum in her anus. She said that WAS embarrassing. Eveyone took a look. She said she'd never had to get on her hands and knees on the examination table before. I was wondering if that is common or not.

Yes it'common in complete exam but , in my experience (of true) french Dr , the Dr and his patient are generally alone ( except sometime with students in hospital if the women agrees)

The most common position in the US is the lithotomy ( on back legs in stirrups ) ...but students are also taught other positions...usually when the woman has difficulty on her back. On her side you can use a sims retractor or a graves speculum and there is also knee chest...on hands and knees as you mentioned. I've done a pelvic this way a few times and it's actually very easy to perform the exam this way for the doctor and the patient. I think maybe the embarrasment factor is a reason it's not done more often

I have never went along but I like to know the time she is to be examined and I stop what ever I am doing and think about what is happening. After she gets home it is so much fun to have sex I just slide in so fast and smooth the fore play is done and I can just go for it.

Why do the French not have gowns and others do?

Hello

I don't know why, in France, we don't use gowns but,as I said in otherrs talks, it's great !

Gowns are ugly but female undergarments are often very beautiful and exciting.

So the exam (especially roleplay one of course) becomes a wonderful medicalfetish strip-tease . First removing outergarments, then chestbare and finally totally nude!

Friendly

What do guys do while their wife is being examined, do you read a magazine or watch?

Definitely watch, but very discreetly so that my wife or the doctor can’t see that I am intently watching everything that is going on. The last annual exam I went to for my wife had the visitors chair positioned on the wall on the end of the exam table which gave me an excellent vantage point, unfortunately the room that the doctor has been using recently has the chair to the side for a less than ideal viewing angle.

I would have loved to have seen my wife get the examination she described to me. It wasn't even mentioned if I wanted to observe. I doubt if my wife would have been very comfortable with me watching anyway. I would have loved to have seen the doctors' reaction to my wife's large vagina, if there was one.

I think having a spouse or lover participate or witness the physical examination is a great idea, although it might be a little threatening to the doctor (it shouldn't be). Just think of how this kind of sharing would help facilitate communication and intimate relations. One of you might even learn a thing or two.

Of course, turnabout is fair play. I you get to see her get her examination, it is only fair that she should get to watch you get yours. A lot of women I know complain that they have to go regularly to the doctor to get their birthcontrol pills and PAP smears done -- but they can't persuade their husband or boy friend to go get a checkup himself. This kind of tit-for-tat sharing might be a way to even the balance. What do you think?

I love going with my wife to all of her exams.

Specially gynos.

I love to stand behind the doctor and look through the inserted speculum into her cervix as he does the Pap.

At the beginning I noticed that her doc was not at ease but now he got used to us, even let me video one full annual exam... I love it.

I have been lucky to sit in on a couple procedures, but wanted to see more. I witnessed one pelvic after a miscarriage, but did not see anything other than my wife scrunching her face. During a pregnancy checkup, I wanted to see some vaginal swabbing but missed that. I was present for the start of a full annual and watched a breast exam. The speculum came out and I had to go because the kids were starting a disturbance in the waiting room. I go to see suppositories put in, but was asked to leave for a rectal after a nurse came in and opened a small pack of KY. Damn!

I have gone with my wife to her Dr's. appointments for years. the last one the Dr. told me to leave, so i fought her and finally i left. My wife was mad that i fought with her but i convinced my wife to change Dr.'s, this Dr. was an old lady. The other Dr.'s all female would let me be in the room and observe the exam. She has never had a rectal exam but i still love watching.

Never had such an experience. I was once completely naked only for a minor surgery when transferred to the operating table. I wasn't sedated yet. I was so worried about the operation I had no other feelings about being naked. But in a regular exam in such a position I am sure I would be aroused

I have always been asked at the clinic if I minded other students or doctors watching my exam. I think they have to get your permission before they let them watch. I find it exciting having other doctors or resident watch.

When my husband watched my exam, we ask the doctor, and he did not mind. The doctor did not seem to have a problem with my husband standing behind him watching the exam. My doctor pointed out things to my husband, and talked to both of us while he was doing the exam.

I agree, there is something quite powerful about another man seeing everything your partner has between her legs, in fact more than you have ever seen. The power starts when she is firmly told to remove all below her waist and you watch as she takes her jeans and finally her kickers off before climbing onto the table and spreading her legs

I am so disappointed. For three months I have been looking forward with anticipation to my wife’s doctors appointment because I had scheduled mine right after hers so I could accompany her. Three months earlier at a routine follow-up appointment for her I had mentioned that my wife was a red head with numerous freckles and moles and at 55 had never had a skin check. So her physician put her down for a skin check and a physical in 3 months. Now in the past her physicals have been a very comprehensive physical so you can see why I was looking forward to attending her examination. Things started going downhill when we were taken in 40 minutes late and the nurse was obviously in a hurry. After taking height, weight, temperature and BP, the nurse told my wife to get undressed, put a gown on but she could leave her bra and panties on because since she had a hysterectomy they didn’t need to do a pelvic exam this time. About 10 minutes later the doctor comes in and with the gown still on looks my wife over quickly including in her head but does not ask her to remove her underwear. She checks her eyes, ears, nose, throat and abdomen. Then they discuss some lab results and she is done. This was not what I had expected. I really like our Family Practice doctor but I think that when they get far behind on appointment schedules, they look to save time and don’t do as thorough a job as I would have liked. Sorry for the long diatribe but I just needed to vent my frustration.

I can only hope some day my wife will be up to having me along with her examination. I'd be there for her, and she would make me real happy at the same. Real life and play is not the same thing, though, so its her call.

I always found that real medical exams are not very exciting once you are there... I guess there must be a strong difference between fantasy and reality... at least for me. In a medical surrounding, there is always a risk to hear that there is a health problem.

aasti

I went with my wife both times she was pregnant for most of her exams because I wanted to know everything was going ok. But, it was a real turnon seeing the doctors examine her while I stood right beside her. The first time was an OB clinic with 4 doctors, 3 male and 1 female and they rotated who would examine her so she would be used to all of them. The second time was our family doctor, male.

My wife is now 40 and I have witnessed 7 pelvic exams. 3 by the PA that we now go to. 2 by her old gyn. and another 2 by different family doctors.

So far I have declined the invitation to enter the exam room to observe my lovers "well woman" exam. I often take her to the office of her male doctor but remain in the waiting area thinking about what is happening in the small room just a few feet down the hall. She is very skillful at telling me all the details of the exam when we are in bed that evening. She has invited me to attend the actual exam but I am afraid this might ruin the magic.

I got secretly aroused once during an exam. I consider myself to be hetrosexual but this nurse who took care of me was beautiful.She was blonde with large breasts and a cute face. She performed an ultra sound of my vaginal. I got so hot and wet I almost came right there on the table. I told my husband about it and he really got turned on hearing my story.

I went with my wife one time and the I sat beside her as the female doctor opened her up with the speculum and then put the spot light close so that she could see deep inside. Then she asked me if I would like to look up my wife along with her. Of course I said yes and then she explained to me the different things inside there and what they are called. My beautiful Filipina wife just layed there waiting for the medical lesson to end. I loved it!

My Wife always lets me attend both her yearly GYN exam and her yearly check up at her Family doctor.At her GYN office her doctor who is a Female is real nice and always ask if I have any questions as well. I am able to see the entire exam with the exception of the mammogram.For this part of the appointment the X ray tech comes and gets her from the exam room takes her down the hall to perform the mammogram.My wife then comes back to the exam room and her Doctor comes in a few minutes after that to perform her exam.At her Family Doctor office I am able to stay for the entire exam as well.

I have gone with my wife when she was pregnant. I have not gone with her to her other regular doctors. Would like to go to the skin check at the dermos, that would be cool.

Where were all you lovely men who love to watch exams when I was finding a husband??Mine, though I adore him, could not care less.

When the doc asks me to put my feet in the stirrups and slide down, I love to watch his and the nurse's faces as I keep my knees together and never slide quite enough, so they have to ask me to slide further ... then remind me to let my knees fall open, and just relax. The only thing that would top it off would be to see my significant other watching as well. S I G H!

Read this: I also find when he puts the speculum in her vagina exciting. I like to watch my girl friends body motion. I know when he sticks the speculum in. My girlfriend will tilt her head back and her lower back comes off the table."

Very much same as when I view my wife in exam room, which has been at 10 times. Always very erotic.

I am in the military and my wife and I recently got assigned to a new base. She has had many pelvic exams in the past by male military doctors but now she that she is at the new base with me she has to change her regular doctor again. I saw that she got a letter in the mail from her old gyn saying she was due for her annual exam. Before my wife could make the appointment at the military base hospital, I called to make it for her. When they asked me if she wanted the appointment at the gyn clinic or the regular family practice I told them the regular family practice. Then they asked me if she wanted a male or female doc and I told them that she wanted a male. The lady making the appointment said that the only male doc available was a new young Lieutenant. I said that it was ok. I thought that my wife might be upset with me because she is shy to do the pelvic exam but when I told her that it was a young guy going to do it she sounded kind of excited and said sure. I have not told her that I am going to meet her at the hospital on this Tuesday so that I can watch. I know that she says that she is shy but i know that she gets excited thinking about spreading her legs in front of another man and not being able to say no when he fingers her. Last night she had me kind of go through a practice appointment before we did it. She was very hot. I can tell that she has a lot of anticipation about it and maybe some of the exams that she has had in the past at other military hospitals now fuel her anticipation. I have written a story about all of the times that I believe that military doctors have done procedures on her just to see her naked or spread her legs over the past 15 years. She is very very sexy and beautiful! Oh well. I can't wait (and I don't think that she can wait either) for Tuesday to come.......

Continuation of my last post......

As her appointment day camecloser I noticed that she had moved the appointment back a day and I asked herwhy. She said that the clinic had calledand told her that her new PCM noticed that she was scheduled for herannual pelvic exam/PAP by the Lieutenant. So he requested that her appointment be moved to him instead. Why? Idon’t know. But I was ok with it becauseI know that he is a very thorough doc.

She would not let me go into her appointment so afterher appointment, I asked her how it went and this is what she said: She said that there was an E4 girl as theassistant and she was training an E3 guy who was about 21. They were both in the room during the entireprocedure. After the formalities ofintroductions by her new PCM and a lot of questions he had her lower her gownand he inspected her breasts. She saidthat everything went easy and fine. Thenhe had her put her feet in the stirrups and scoot her but to the end. She said that as soon as her PCM took a look ather pussy, he started to stutter and stammer. He almost completely stopped talking except to tell her what she wasgoing to feel as he opened her up or put his fingers in. Then as soon as he wasfinished, he quickly left the room and never really said goodbye. Then the female assistant helped her withwipes and getting her legs down. Shesaid that the male trainee assistant was there the entire time and just kind of stoodand watched. She said that her legs werepretty much covered by a towel but there was 2 times that the male assistant wentdown around the bottom of the table to see under the towel where the spotlightwas. The first time was when the doc wasopening her with the speculum and the second time was when he had his fingersin her and was pushing on her abdomen. She said that he was also able to watch the entire breast exam. So needless to say he was probably a veryhappy guy.

We thought that this was going to be the end of it for another year until we got a letter in the mail a few days later from the hospital that said that her PAP results were inconclusive and that she is going to have to call the OB/GYN clinic and schedule to have it done again. (my lucky day) But I thought that this shouldn't be any real big deal since it is the GYN clinic and not the regular Family Practice clinic. They probably don't even have any male docs there. I told my wife that I would like to call and make the appointment for her and she refused. She told me that she wants to be the one to make it and get the doctor of her choosing. So I asked her today if she made the appointment and she said that she did for next Wednesday. I asked her who it is with and she said that when the secretary made the appointment for her, she asked my wife if it is ok if the doc is a male and my wife said "yes, that would be fine". So, there again is another military male doc who is going to be able to give her a PAP. I am willing to bet that her PCM knows the male doc at the GYN clinic and intentionally messed up the PAP test so that she would have to be seen by his friend. I don't know but stranger things have happened. I mean, there are not that many doctors at that hospital. I am curious to see if he only does a PAP test or does a complete pelvic exam because the only part of the test that should have to be repeated is the PAP since it was the only part of the test that was inconclusive. We will see. More to come after next Wednesday.......