My man is doing a lot better in the spanking department. He still hasn't made me cry yet, but I don't think it has anything to do with how hard he is spanking me, but more about the love he puts into the spanking in the first place.
I want him to be mentally strong enough to make me his total submissive, and I think I am actually ready for that. I want him to have me stand in front of him, preferable with me standing only in my panties, nothing else. I love it when he tells me first why I am going to be getting punished, but love it even more when he tells me things like "you knew my rules and what I expected from you."
One day I am going to actually convince him to "man up" a little bit, and while I am being made to stand there facing him in nothing but my panties, nervous about what he is going to do to me next.
So next I watch him un-zip a little bit so he can pull his belt off. Not sure what position he would want me in for that spanking, and I can't say that I really have a preference in this case either. But long story short. I want to be spanked at his hand, with his belt. He's always been sort of afraid to hit women, and it's taken him 4 years to be able to even slightly spank me. I am very proud of him for that.
However Doc, it you are out there listening someplace, read my next few words. I want you to take your belt off and use it on me, and not the love taps either. I want to be totally your sub and have no question in my mind that I am not in control, you are. And then when you have gone over my infractions, I want you to take your belt completely off and spank me with that same belt. And make it like you mean it too. That's what I want my love. And by all means, bruising and other such various marks are highly a sought after thing for me these days. So, let 'er rip