Yes, when I accompany my wife, I sometimes feel a hardening.Do you feel any jealousy that someone is fingering your wife and looking closely at her vulva and related parts? Or are you ok with that?
I obviously can’t get an erection 😋, but I have gone with a friend who is also a medical play partner to her annual exams a few times now. I definitely can feel myself becoming aroused by being there and watching her exam, but in real time it is all so intense and goes by so quick that I don’t really get the full sexual arousal until it’s over and I have time to process. I’m not quite sure how that would translate for a guy seeing an exam, but to me it felt like there was way too much going on all at once to get all the way aroused.
I accompanied my 18 year old girlfriend to her first gynecological appointment ever. The gynecologist was a man. I remember the gynecologist telling my ex-girlfriend: "don't worry, the exam doesn't hurt, the only thing that can bother you is having to be naked". I had a nice erection there
I definitely got erect the first time I saw her get a full exam. Watching the (male) doctor open the gown and examine her breasts was just the start of the turn on.
I was fortunate enough a couple weeks ago to get to go with the wife for her annual exam. As mentioned before there was so much going on so fast there was no time to enjoy the experience. So, no I Have never got an erection at wife's exams.
Never, as my partner at the time hated them, so I couldn't find anything in it knowing she was uncomfortable. She really enjoys the dentist though, so definitely during those, and as a bonus she was always very horny afterwards.
Yes, I've been there in the examination room several times with my wife and I used to get erections watching her being examined by the Gynecologist all naked
Unfortunately, my wife's gynecologist, who is a woman, doesn't allow me to attend the visits, so I stay in the waiting room. But I get very excited imagining the visit.
My wife never let me tag along, afraid of what the doctor may think about my intent and probably be correct. Maybe just as good though she always allowed for a reenactment exam at home while discribing her experience. Of course things always went further.
@Cuoreitaliano surely it should be a matter for the patient. If I wanted to have my husband in the room it shouldn't be the doctor who gets to decide. One person for support if needed should be allowed.Personally I am happy to go alone, when younger my husband liked to tag along if he had the time and yes he would get an erection.
My ex wife and I used to go to each others appointments if there was something concerning, and yes I did get erect at a couple of her exams because both her PCP and her gynecologist were young and beautiful and if I saw a breast exam (she had a benign mass) or internal exams it was difficult to hide the level of arousal. I would try to go home right after so we could have sex but she got no level of arousal from a woman touching or examining her nor any medical staff at all really so I never shared what it does to me.
Interesting to read all of this. When I had a partner, I would ask her if I could join. I was intrigued to see how exactly she was examined. Of course, she knew of my fetish. She would decline, though, which is understandable, of course. She didn't really liked the thought of me getting aroused when the doctor was at work with her.But hey, never say never. I might just meet someone who is into this sort of thing.
@silvfox "she always allowed for a reenactment exam at home while describing her experience. Of course things always went further."I never went with my wife but I'd get her to recount the experience totally on her return. As she was telling me all the details (and I do mean all) I'd be masturbating on the bed. I've got an erection now just thinking about it.
I agree with Sopaysophie, it should be up to the patient. If they want someone there the dr. should honor their wish. My wife and I go to all of each other's visits to the Dr. It is better to have two there hearing and seeing what is going on. We also see it as a test. If the Dr. won't allow someone to be there with you then they probably aren't going to be willing to work with you on treatment options. After all they are working for you, just like going to an auto mechanic. We are not concerned about the staff's comfort of having someone watch what they do.
That's my girl:https://thisvid.com/videos/only-with-a-male-gynecologist/She never had a pelvic exam because she is a virgin. We haven’t been sexually intimate yet, so I’m very excited about the idea of taking her for a pelvic exam after her hymen is broken.I asked her about her preference for the doctor’s gender, and to my great delight, she insisted that she only wants to be examined by a male gynecologist. I also asked how she would feel if there were students present during the appointment, and to my absolute joy, she said it would be fine to have one male student perform the examination as well, as long as there were no female nurses in the room. She made it clear that she doesn’t want a female nurse present at all.I mentioned that I’d like to see her being examined without wearing a gown, and she agreed to that as well.After discussing gynecological examinations and expressing my interest in the topic, I am currently seeking a male doctor who is willing to accommodate her appointment according to our specific preferences and in a unique manner.Can you imagine how turned on I’ll be if everything we discussed actually happens? From my perspective, what do you think about this?
I got to go with my wife when she was pregnant with our second child to all her appointments. Always looked forward to when the nurse told her to removed everything below the waist, except her socks. Always got hard when the doctor examined her. Even goto have a quickie after the doctor left with her still on the table.
I've been to almost all of my wife's appointments and at first I think I was sort of nervous maybe the first couple times. From then on I get hard as a rock in an odd pattern. The instant we go into the exam room it hits me and especially when they tell her to take everything off right before they walk out for the doctor all the way through her getting into the gown and sitting there on the table. I lose it entirely though during the actual exam, I think because I'm entirely focused on what is happening at the time, but it shoots up again as soon as the doctor leaves. There's been a few times I could not go with her and we usually text. The instant she texts that she is in the room I'm quite turned on running everything in my head until she says she is finished. It's interesting how the excitement is different when I'm not there in person.
I was only in my wife’s exams and she was pregnant. It was interesting being in the room while I know she was naked under the gown, exposing herself to the doctor. Unfortunately, couldn’t really see anything and I don’t remember getting an erection
I've had male partners with me during plenty of exams before. Most said they were semi/full hard during my exam and usually the erection was stronger when it was a male doctor vs a female doctor.
Never mind being there, just thinking about it is enough. My partner hasn’t had a vaginal or breast exam for a while, but the first time she went she told me everything that happened and I was so turned on.The idea of a nurse and doctor both touching her vagina was really hot.
When I get the chance to go to my girlfriend’s exam I can probably guess I would get an erection. I’ve never had the opportunity yet but I want to go to my girlfriend’s exam.
I am reasonably certain that this happens if one is permitted to observe a well patient exam! I think as men we are so visually stimulated that it takes over and we likely are not thinking about her experience of the exam. I think that it takes a special partner to allow one to observe a very intimate exam. On the other hand, and I think that this is entirely fair, have you allowed your partner/wife to observe your full exam? Yes, one where the doctor has you fully exposed and subjects you to a complete genital exam and DRE? Better yet has a nurse been there to observe as well?
Yes, my wife has been there for my genital exam and dre. We both go to all of each other's medical appointments.