Humiliation

Come to think of it now after rereading a couple of my earlier posts, one of the peak humiliating times is when I'm lying on the bed sweating under my rubber enclosure and sneakers, full of rubber rectal balloon and large enema. Then she demands that I hold my enema and crawl over to her and start giving her PIV or oral sex until she's satisfied. Enduring everything she'd done to me so far without letting me orgasm and then having to work hard and sweat even more to watch her have her moaning orgasms would indeed be deliciously arousingly humiliating. Getting her intensely aromatic juices all over me while already wearing and smelling my rubber would be heavenly. If I wasn't satisfying her erotically enough or fast enough, then she could also add even more delicious threats of more enema, more rubber clothes or bondage or longer holding, delaying my own orgasm even more. Fantastic.

Eric

Humiliation is the fuel for my submissiveness. I love sucking cock. Always have. But it is still humiliating to me because it's a "bad" thing to be doing according to the way I was brought up. Also according to the system I grew up in, only a submissive person would such a dick. So the simple act of giving a blow job makes me feel submissive and humiliated at the same time. Put me in woman's lingerie and I feel even more submissive and humiliated. Put someone watching me give a blow job, especially a female and I am in humiliation heaven.

There are things I don't like to do, like rim an asshole, but when told to, I never say no because it is very submissive and humiliating to me.

Something I like to do, like watersports, I mess around with myself, because the real thrill for me is to have someone tell me to do it and watch me.

Humiliation is the fuel for my submissiveness.

Well said. I feel the same way. I've recently been on a journey of discovery to explore my own likes, dislikes, fetishes and desires. And what I've discovered is that at the core, all of the fetishes I enjoy seem to boil down to submissiveness. And humiliation is a key component of that for me. Closely related for me is exhibitionism. I've discovered that one thing I crave is for people to see my unclothed body, and even better, see it in humiliating positions and scenarios.

humiliation is a key component of that for me. Closely related for me is exhibitionism. I've discovered that one thing I crave is for people to see my unclothed body.

Humiliation, loss of control, being naked except for briefs, and exposing my genitals and anus to a fully clothed stranger are the keys to my medical fetish. Being under the control of the doctor who is in a dominant position to me and having to submit to the commands he gives during the exam is humiliating and exciting at the same time. Being in my briefs in front of a completely clothed doctor who is a stranger is embarrassing. Thinking about the fact that the doctor knows before he comes into the exam room how the physical will proceed while I have to wait and see how it happens is a real feeling of submissiveness and powerlessness. Having him take me through the exam, step by step, doing what he says and feeling more and more anxious waiting to find out how thorough the physical will be is extremely embarrassing. He is in control. If and when he wants to see me genitals, he gives the orders. He tells me what to do and I am an active participant in my own humiliation. He gets to decide if and when my genitals are unveiled, my penis handled, my balls handled, my anus probed. This is embarrassing and humiliating but gives me excitement when I think back about it afterward. I love recalling the incredibly anxious feelings I have when I am told to lie back for the abdominal exam and the suspense of waiting for the doctor to instruct me to stand and drop the shorts is a huge rush after I get home and ready to masturbate. I love recalling his exact words!

Today I was challenged by a fellow zity user to go outside without any underwear on. I agreed I would do this this afternoon whilst walking my dog.

The weather in south england has been unusual hot lately but today was windy and wet. During a break in the rain I decided to walk my dog.

I choose a white blouse. And a pink mini skirt.

I took a big breath and stepped outside

I am lucky that I live in the forest and do not have many neighbours. However I felt very unsuitable dressed.

I had trouble keeping my dignity as the wind played havoc with my skirt and as I shaved my usually hair pussy last night to complete bare I could feel the fresh wind on places I don't usually feel it. My pussy was very wet and half way through the walk the heavens opened again . I arrived home soaked in more ways than one . Now I feel so horny.

My submission goes hand in hand with humiliation I to have been tasked to do certain things which can be very humiliating....go out and do errands while plugged with panties or no undies at all....take the dog out late at nite in nothing but panties.....getting caught would be very humiliating to say the least.

Hi Again Everyone, I love some humiliation , especially if it comes while in the midst of a series of enemas....I have been made to go out on my deck in the back of my house, under the threat of being given a sound dose of the leather belt if I didn't comply, while an enema hose and nozzle were left trailing out of my thick, full sexy bottom.... I have been ordered and made to do this more than a few times during an enema, or enemas, and also have been made to kneel in a dining room chair placed in front of my big bay window in my living room with my bottom facing out towards the street in full view, so that anyone and everyone can see my ultimate humiliation of being given enemas like this who either drives by or walks past my house....Not too sure if I have ever been seen , but the humiliation aspect of all of this is a wicked and massive turn on and usually brings forth several very intense climaxes for all that I endure during these types of sessions .... I have even been spanked while being totally nude out on my back deck, and I am sure some of the neighbors heard me wincing, but if they did, they either did not pay much attention to it, or never really investigated all that closely as to why I was making those whimpering sounds......A few of them do know about my enema habits, and just leave me to my own affairs .... Enjoy the waters everyone ....

@Enema-loving-mature-woman, those are really humiliating things you had to submit too,. It does add a delicious element to the scenes! Thanks for sharing

I like the 'humiliation' of having my bum bared for a spanking, or being exposed when I bend over. But the feelings are a world away from the genuine, painful humiliation I felt when spanked as a kid.

I've sometimes started to feel attracted to male bosses at work, only after they told me off. It's like I have a sexual response to humiliation.

I like the 'humiliation' of having my bum bared for a spanking, or being exposed when I bend over. But the feelings are a world away from the genuine, painful humiliation I felt when spanked as a kid.

I've sometimes started to feel attracted to male bosses at work, only after they told me off. It's like I have a sexual response to humiliation.

Like you, Jilly, I now enjoy the painful humiliation of bending over bottom-bare I dreaded as a child but, unlike you, my fetish is getting buttock injections rather than spanking.

About a month ago, I received a message on my inbox on another website. It was from a woman about my age who had read about my desire to do home invasion play with a couple. It turns out, she had been having those fantasies about an intruder, among other things, causing humiliation for her and her husband (who apparently knows nothing about her fantasies).

We've been conversing back and forth about how we imagine it playing out. I had asked her if her husband ever shared any info with her about when he goes for annual physicals. He told her once "he feels a total loss of dignity when he pulls his pants down in front of another man and has to have a man put his finger up his anus." She's given herself orgasms from merely knowing he's been to the doctor, what goes on, and how it humiliates him.

So when I discuss what i would do, I mention tying him up on their bed and sticking my finger up his inguinal canal and ordering him to cough, and performing an exaggerated check of his genitals while she watches. She is really into seeing him be humiliated, like being tied to a chair and forced to watch me violating her. So we each discuss our own versions of that. As well as things to do to and with her husband to further humiliate him as well.

Then i got this other lady on there who wants to role play getting strip searched. She enjoys the humiliation of that. I would rather chat with her first about it, to kinda see where she's at in terms of specifics of what she likes. But it seems she's open to anything.

It's great to find these people online that you can chat with, who share common ground to the same fantasies, and to set free some fantasies that you can't discuss with ordinary people.

Another lovely submissive enema humiliation scenario I've dreamed up many times is going SCUBA diving with my partner from a Dive boat full of young women friends of hers who are also divers and rubber/enema/sneaker/bondage/humiliation fans. I'd be made to go on a morning dive in full wetsuit, Converse sneakers and butt plugged along with my girlfriend. Just after surfacing before getting on board the boat again, she'd tell me what was in store for me when I got back aboard. I'd have to take my dive gear off except rubber suit and wet sneakers, then bend over as a female crew member helped my partner unplug me but substitute a fat rubber enema balloon hose. Then they'd make me take an enema standing on the dive boat with a bunch of other women divers watching and laughing at my predicament all wearing wetsuits and sneakers. They'd let me go get some lunch still filled with enema as they watched me struggle around the boat full of water in my wetsuit and sneakers. After lunch my girlfriend would ask everyone to come watch as she laid me down and fucked me still full of enema after pumping in another quart or two of water. I'd finally have to service her including PIV in front of everyone, all still dressed in rubber suits and sneakers as she made me give her as many orgasms as she needed before finally making me lie there while she took her post-orgasm nap. If I was lucky she'd give me an orgasm after waking up but still make me climax in front of all her rubber-suited friends. Then they could keep watching me as i struggled to waddle off to the commode to finally let my water empty out. Repeat above scenario more than once a day as she saw fit. What a day that would be. I've had this fantasy play out many times to help with orgasms.

Eric

I guess my biggest humiliation was being put back in diapers per my wife because I was wetting the bed. I have been diapered for almost 30yrs.The one time we went to get a mattress and the man ask if we needed a protector her answered very bold YES that is where the whales are.

It is something that I have only just discovered about my sexuality but it really turns me on to see my girlfriend in humiliating predicaments. We have concocted several exciting scenarios where she has had to be stripped completely naked in front total stranger and thoroughly inspected and or examined. It gets me rock hard as soon as she is instructed to undress by a stranger and present herself for detailed examination and inspection. I am a natural dominant and usually like to be in control in role play situations so I still find it surprising that I find it so much of a turn on to hand over control to another Master or Doctor. I should add that my girlfriend also finds this roleplay equally as exciting, for her it is the nervous anticipation that she is going to have to completely undress and expose the most intimate parts of her anatomy to a total stranger.

I find humiliation somewhat inscrutable. True, real humiliation in real life I absolutely detest, with a vengeance. There's not much worse I can experience. However, I'm a switch who loves being sexually submissive a good deal of the time, especially regarding many kinks, including rubber, enemas and sneakers. During my submissive roles I adore being submissive and especially humiliated, with my Domme partner. I regularly moan, groan, squirm, complain and beg for leniency from her when she's telling me what she demands I do, including more enema, larger numbers of enemas, stronger solutions, longer hold times, more or heavier rubber enclosure and heavier sneakers. I have no qualms and in fact enjoy the submissive humiliated feeling during our D/s kink sex when I'm with a trusted Domme. I guess it's because I know it's confidential, strictly between us, and we trust each other to stay mum with others while acknowledging all of our own fetishes and how much we enjoy them between the two of us. That way I can thoroughly enjoy submission but still have a respectful relationship when we're not doing D/s. I hope this makes some sense.

Eric

It makes perfect sense Eric. You did good.

Mashie

I have been diapered for almost 30yrs.The one time we went to get a mattress and the man ask if we needed a protector her answered very bold YES that is where the whales are.

That seems unnecessarily mean and purposely callous.

DrPervie, this is wonderful fantasy...of mine. Thank you for sharing.

It is .....exciting scenarios where she has had to be stripped completely naked in front total stranger and thoroughly inspected and or examined. It gets me rock hard as soon as she is instructed to undress by a stranger and present herself for detailed examination and inspection. .....it is the nervous anticipation that she is going to have to completely undress and expose the most intimate parts of her anatomy to a total stranger.

Consensual non consent, being "made" to do certain things is a powerful turn on for me.

BDSM, Kink, Fetishes, Vanilla relationships, or scenes, including CNC relationships or scenes, belong only to the people in them. However you choose to form your relationship, make sure it is yours a d the trusted person you are with.

Jen95 said:

For me, it really has to do with being made vulnerable. There is something about the vulnerability that I find very exciting. It's hard to put in words, but it's a real turn on for me. Everything has to be right for it to go off with a hit, though. I have to feel safe, yet controlled. The demeanor has to be serious and not jolly. A doctor with the right attitude, one where he is very nonchalant but direct, is very important to me.

Very similar to me taking enemas as a sub with a trusted Domme. If I know her and know I'm safe, I can and will be very aroused by acting extremely submissive and humiliated, vocally with moans, groans and begging for leniency. Once we're done, we can go back to our normal non-D/s relationship of being switches on equal emotional footing.

Eric

The humiliation of having to wear a diaper has become exciting for me, usually I complain when my wife played mom with me, I am also very excited now at the thought of being controlled and embarrassed by my wife during my diaper changes, she has pleasure in forcing me to obey. Like being told that it's time to go on the potty to make your poop, besides that she started talking that I had to get spanked, especially when my diapers leaked on the couch or bed. Last week, I experienced the ultimate humiliation, it punished me severely, I did not fit my plastic pants properly on my diapers and failed to put my protective pads, result a huge round of pee in the bed, when she is up and sees the damage. Furious, she sat on the edge of the bed and made me stand in front of her, and told me ordered to drop my diaper to my knees then hands behind my back and told me to go on his lap. Already much bigger and stronger than me, she started by giving me a hard spanking using her hand.I was so embarrassed that I thought I was crying. My buttocks gave off a heat and I felt intense pain, when the tears you look up because it hurts! The punishment was over, but the humiliation was not. The humiliation continued when she made me kneel, nose in the corner, and keep myself in my diaper wet the rest of the day!???

I enjoy humiliation. I fantasize about my wife stripping me naked in front of her best friend. Spanking me. Inserting a butt plug deep into my ass. And then being forced to cook them dinner and serve them. I’d be dressed in an apron and either woman can fondle me or bend me over at their pleasure. After dinner, my wife would fuck me, with me on all fours on the counter.

When I first lost my health ,my aide was a woman ,an attractive one even though i emptied my disposables and washed my reusable ,she could not see me in a diaper .with disposables she would sit down with a ruler and pre-taped diapers that i would figure out how to wriggle in them . Of course my health has changed as have my needs , now I have been diapered a thousand times by people I don't know ,i get rectal medication! Have catheters inserted and removed ,get my butt wiped and bed baths and don't think about it , having my diaper checked or changed, just isn't a barrier for me anymore, as someone who used to be a carer ,i guess I lost the mindset of i'm all right " my bodily functions are private .

I’ve been thinking about this subject on and off since I last posted here. I truly believe that being a diaper lover automatically involves some desire for humiliation. I also believe that most of us would love this involve more than just one person, but are quite rightfully afraid of consequences. A spanking in a diaper? Having your diaper checked, changed or otherwise exposed publicly? All very thrilling, but too risky. Bigbbwet’s account last week is probably the best kind of humiliation - real but safe.

I’m still trying to think of ways to feel humiliation without it ruining things for me...

Dual submission. My wife and I practice a bit of humiliation on each other about one night a month ( at least it is humiliating to us!) We take turns.

Last night we did the following:

We both got naked. I had her get on bed sideways, knee chest position. Knees on edge of bed. Me standing beside bed. Told her to reach back and spread her cheeks so I could examine her anus and vagina. I then took her rectal temperature and gave her a light spanking of about 10. Rubbed her cheeks in between smacks. At this point I had a hard erection. We then exchange positions and she takes my rectal temp with another thermometer and spanks me. My balls hang down so she pulls them while spanking me.

She gets back into position and I put on a lubed glove and I give her a slow insertion of my gloved finger into her rectum and then tell her I am going to give her a 360 degree rectal exam. Her anus begins to loosen. I change gloves, relube and now tell her she will be experiencing a rectovaginal exam. One finger in her vagina and slowly up her rectum with the other finger. Tell her to squeeze while I wiggle fingers in side her.

Again we switch and after I am back in knee chest position she tells me than she is going to give me both a rectal exam and a prostate exam. She inserts and rotates her finger 360 and then palpates my prostate. Some fluid slowly drips from now semi flaccid penis as she presses down on it. She reaches under and milks my penis. Says fluid is now dripping in more volume. Tells me to squeeze and can feel a bit of a spurt of prostate fluid exit urethra onto her hand. She then inserts 2 glycerin suppositories up my rectum. I get erect again.

Another exchange of positions and I insert 2 glycerin suppository up her rectum. We are both ready now to orgasm. She is still in knee chest and I penetrate her vagina from behind with my firm erection . I reach under to massage her clit as I thrust into her . Try to time our orgasms. I hold cock in deep as I ejaculate into her. Good volume of seman spurts into her. Some of the glycerine comes out of both our rectums and seman from her vagina. so we wipe each other. Great sleep after that! ( trying to let me butt fk her but still hesitant .)

Susie I'm quite surprised after reading your old Post of kidnapping and sexual abuse that any of you agreed to it. Surprised you are still friends and they are still married. I would have been terrified too. There was a very fine line of going to far and this was way over the top. Everyone is entitled to there thing but consensual is safer. And it bothers me some of the thoughts you and your husband have in life . I'm not judging you. I'm kinky too, but not like that? If it had been me in that situation being hooded and kidnapped for 24hours I would have gone straight to the police, divorced my husband, moved so I never had to see you or talk to you again. There is such a thing as going too far and I don't think you have a filter

Responding to the OP's query.

i feel like i only grasp pieces to the puzzle of why types of humiliation or embarrassment can be so erotically powerful with me? my best experiences are when a Dom sees me and doms me without their being any agreement, He just leads me into the situation and i willingly follow, it's a sort of dance where He leads? (i may have written about this elsewhere, but it was a profound experience for me, so i'll share it here).

A Dom picked me up when i was staying at a gay resort in Palm Springs. There was no discussion about D/s. We met outside in one of the lounge areas. This is a clothing optional, private gay resort, so it's not unusual for sex to happen outside. At some point things got to where He was standing in front of me and i pulled the front of His shorts down so i could suck Him. He gently, but firmly held he back of my head and guided me... but only briefly. He commented that He was not used to having sex in public, so i invited Him back to my room. As we walked there, i casually mentioned that He seemed to have some Dom tendencies, and that was the only time the word was ever spoken between us. He didn't really respond when i said that.

When in my room, He sat up naked against my headboard with His legs spread and asked me to lie between them on my stomach and take His penis in my mouth. It was big and it was thick. i'm not a natural at deep throating and i hate gagging. i'm afraid of vomiting. He once again held the back of my head with His hand, sending a message, but not forcing. But He never stopped talking. His talk was all positive. There wasn't a hint of force or bullying. Instead, He used encouragement and praise. He'd encourage me to take all of Him and say things like" "that's it, that's great, just around the curve." And when i would try and get more of Him, He's literally gush: "Good boy!!! I am so proud of you!" When He'd say that, like He was praising His puppy or a kid, part of me would think: "i'm not a kid." But emotionally, i found myself blushing with pride and redoubling my efforts. As i did, He would increase His praise, always telling me what a "Good boy" i was. It always made me feel embarrassed, but proud and happy at the same time.

He did other things too. He'd ask me to look up at Him and look me in the eye. That was awkward in that position, and the more i gagged, my eyes started to tear and my nose started to run. i must have looked a mess and it made me feel even more like a little kid. i don't have any fantasies about age play, but it seems He managed to regress me to some degree because i was really enjoying HIs obvious pleasure with me and what i was doing. He'd ask me questions when my mouth was full and i obviously couldn't answer, but He'd look at me fully expecting a response, which i could only mumble. Usually it was a question tagged onto His praise, like: "I'm so proud of you, aren't you proud of yourself?" Or "doesn't that feel good?" And even though i was gagging and tearing, i found i was really enjoying myself and honestly answered "uh huh" with a full mouth and runny nose.

After He came and was so obviously happy, my emotional response was one of adoration. And that too embarrassed me. i felt used, and sort of found out too, but i also felt so good and happy with Him that i couldn't help adoring Him, even though it seemed strange to me to feel that way. He forever changed the way i suck a guys cock, even to this day, it sort of triggers something in me.

Yes I love the feeling of embarrassment/ humiliation for me there is not much difference but I know in English there is.

I can not explain why. But I guess it may be because in real life I need to be respectable as I work in care and I have always been taught you represent your school and your workplace where ever you are. Also as a Christian I represent my church.

It is a way of " escape" from real life I think.

Also it may also be a way of me dealing with sexual abuse and bullying in my teens, . Who knows how our mind works. All I know is that I get excited and wet at the thought of doing as I'm told or the thought of being" made " to do things, being punished, being name called, etc.

I am on the other end. I like to embarrass and humble my sub. I don't do this publicly, though. Privately yes. Such as: she wears a "plug," but no underwear. She has to expose herself on my command. I use "objects" on her. She gets examined while I video her. She gets enemas at inconvenient times...with no choice. Mild, I know, but she gets to retain personal dignity & space while receiving her training.

As a patient, I prefer the medical staff humiliate me before during and at the end of the exam ! Having to undress in front of a bunch of nurses and no gown to put on ! When 2 doctors enter to my embarrassment ! Standing in front of all of them at first !