Humiliation

Humiliation for the sub is a must

I love when my master decide to spank me but the bigist turn on is when he spits and Cum on my face and doesn't

release my boundage to let me clean myself, asks me to explain how did I became such a dirty whore...,

Love it!

Throughout my youth and, particularly, adolescence, the greatest medical humiliation I suffered was having to pull everything down to my ankles and bend over the receptionist's lap for injections. The abject embarrassment of having a girl watch me get them in the bare bottom was worse than the shots themselves. On reflection, I now realise that the humiliation could have been intentional to take my mind off the jabs. At the time, I feared the embarrassment more than the shots but I wouldn't mind getting them that way now!

You are not by yourself with this feeling

I am longing - longing - to be spanked and humiliated by a Dom. My vanilla relationship is loving and great, but the overriding thought and feeling in my head these past few weeks is finding a safe Dom I'm compatible with who is uber kinky and not afraid to say (and make me acknowledge out loud) the twisted stuff He's doing to me and why it's important that He does those things. I know it'll come soon enough as I take more and more steps to become involved in my local leather community, but in the meantime the waiting is hard as all get out.

Tuls,

I for one would love to read a story like that from you and I am sure I wouldn't be alone in that.

A fantasy based on embarrassing reality would make a great read.

Oh and for the record, I dont have a chart per se but I do pass derogatory or complementary comments as to Penis size, Testicles, Anus etc.

Patients do seem to relish in this.

Humiliation is the basis for my medical fetish. Being under the control of the doctor who is in a dominant position to me and having to submit to the commands he gives during the exam is humiliating and exciting at the same time. Being in my briefs in front of a completely clothed doctor who is a stranger is embarrassing. Thinking about the fact that the doctor knows before he comes into the exam room how the physical will proceed while I have to wait and see how it happens is a real feeling of submissiveness and powerlessness. Having him take me through the exam, step by step, doing what he says and feeling more and more anxious waiting to find out how thorough the physical will be is extremely embarrassing. He is in control. If and when he wants to see me genitals, he gives the orders. He tells me what to do and I am an active participant in my own humiliation. He gets to decide if and when my genitals are unveiled, my penis handled, my balls handled, my anus probed. This is embarrassing and humiliating but gives me excitement when I think back about it afterward.

You just managed to describe exactly what I like about being in the "doctor" role, from the "patient's" perspective!

I am excited to hear more on this topic. I too get very aroused at the thought of being controlled and embarrassed by a doctor or nurse in an exam setting. The power shift that occurs when one individual is undressed and the authority figure is not is indeed a turn-on for me. To be exposed and possibly punished by the medical professional is one that intrigues me. My experiences in medical settings in real life have included a few instances of being inadvertently exposed in very humiliating fashion. Such as having my pants pulled down to my ankles, or my bare butt being seen from an open hospital gown or pants down kind of gives me a tinge of excitement just thinking about it. So This topic is very interesting for me.

For me it's mental. My head used to swim and I would get so weak when my ex-gf (sometimes unwillingly, which makes it more intense) would verbally humiliate me, or even would intentionally say mean things, hurt my feelings, bruise my male ego and my confidence, but then would add an erotic element to it by rubbing my head and face sensually and telling me how wet she is getting from it and how I am being a good boy. The feeling of being lost and weak, the confusion, the humiliation, would make me putty in her hands. I can't even describe how addictive and intense it was, and how bad I miss it. I literally got emotionally addicted to that feeling. Maybe that is why whips, chains or physical role-play stuff don't mean much to me, the mental aspect, her mental control over me and my sense of submissiveness would take me to where I could never go otherwise.

Thinking about being humiliated. Used by many males at one time but not having a say. Interests me. Not something to be done in real life, yet.

I larveeeeee to be humiliated, I'm very submissive and my girlfriend is very dominant!, this doesn't spread to outside the bedroom tho. My gf and I have lots of "props" and she knows to put me in my place!. Love Princess Abi x

I love making a submissive feel humiliated. There are so many great ways to do it, I could write on this topic for days. One thought that immediately comes to mind is making a girl hold a quarter to the wall with her nose, and if it falls, she gets a hard spanking. Repeat, only if it falls a second time, add an enema to that as well.

Nice story! Only one cum per month is pretty cruel, however. No chance for more (even if embarrassing)?

My sexual arousal from being dominated came from getting enemas growing up. I just loved the feeling of an authority figure making me feel helpless, vulnerable, and singled out for punishment. Being forced to lie down naked on a towel on the bathroom floor made me get very wet and horny even before puberty and an age at which I could understand what I was feeling.

My older brother and I would play frequently with pillows and sofa cushions. I just loved when he would cover me up and crush me... making me feel captured, dominated and at his mercy.

In regular life I am pretty laid back but I am completely the dominant one in the bedroom. I'm almost always attracted to very strong women, but it is like a switch is flipped when the bedroom door closes. There is total role reversal. I go through periods when the bdsm is more in the background and times when it dominates. One of my favorite forms of bdsm takes place inside the “Daddy/girl” culture among gay women. I haven't seen anyone else here mention this, but I figured it was ok to bring up in this thread. Even if you google that term, you have to drill down to find what I’m talking about. But, in the sub-subculture of lesbian bdsm it is very common and I find it super hot. All of my GFs have fallen into it with me, even if they started out vanilla. Basically, my masculine/dominant paternal side comes out along with my lover’s submissive side. We each move into different headspace. My GFs go under to the headspace of a “teen”, usually willful and sometimes challenging of authority. So, we play with those dynamics. The girl who wants to be good and please her Daddy, the girl who has been naughty and needs to be punished or taught a lesson, the girl who needs to learn to respect paternalistic, strict Daddy and is caught being bad, gets punished, then comforted and soothed lovingly, etc. Woven throughout all of this D/g play is an aspect of humiliation for the girl, in one form or another.

@captivated I had a GF who always wanted me to lay on her and cover her up completely like that, too.

Being stripped when everyone else is dressed. Having nude pics passed around. Being controlled by young girls

I did a slant on Collegeguy's suggestion by making a submissive Gay playmate hold a £1 coin against the wall with his flaccid penis head.

It was very difficult for my sub as this was following ejaculation and a rapidly softening penis.

I was greatly amused and by tickling his balls and plunging a wet finger up his arse, he was soon able to hold the coin in place once I allowed him to step back from the wall slightly!

I have a fantasy involving being naked, bound, blindfolded and ear plugged. After being prepared, unknown people are brought in to use me as they will. Before I'm released, the unknown people leave the room. Later, they might or might not be present at a social gathering. No one talks but, was that an innocent glance or do they know something?

Humiliation can be simple things like being told to go into the bathroom to pee and then having my master (he or she) walk in and sit on the toilet and continue our conversation.

I guess that's only humiliating if you don't normally go to the bathroom in front of others.

I like being humiluated in my fantasies it looks like, having to sit on the floor, eating from a plate on the floor, being made to go out without undies, having to wear certain undies ( like a thong) back to front.

Having hubby order my drinks and food. Being called slut, little girl and other words esp when others can hear.

Being denied to go to the loo, habing to ask to use the loo. I ubderstand for most these are soft but for me they are a major turn on.

Humiliation is one of my top fantasies..that combined with roleplay..and a bit of pain makes my day!!

Hi, Wet-girl,

You might find some interesting things to do that deal with submission and mild humiliation. Just do a search for "assignment" for User "Dom in Mesquite". Drop me an email and we'll discuss if you find any that are interesting or make you a "wet-girl". ;-)

Dom in Mesquite

Humiliation is to the Diaper Lover is what Nectar is to bees.... we thrive on this! For some of us, it remains a fantasy, hopefully one day to be acted on, for others, it really is essential. Either way, after writing about diapers and such for a while, I've begun to realize just how important it is.

Absolutely! Humiliation is such a big part of punishment. For me, it goes hand in hand with CP. Would love to discuss further...

I guess my wifes humiliation is making me wear the diaper and rubber pants which is not a option as have incontinemce she dose say things in front of people that puts me in my place just like a little boy.

For me the feeling of humiliation and embarrassment is the fuel that feeds almost all of my fantasies.I guess it began when I was forced into a series of humiliating experiences as a child by some older kids. That was my introduction to sexual exploration and the rush of the feelings that those experiences caused in me has stayed with me through the years.

I am always trying to create situations where I can experience the same kind of humiliation that I felt back then, although now it's strictly consensual for everyone involved.

I don't have any experience but would enjoy humiliating a girl somewhat. Not to hurt her, but definitely to embarrass her. It could start with just visible nipples but could progress to public commando and learning to enjoy being the only nude in a clothed group. Except for the whipping and branding, The Story of O has some ideas. Any girl interested can message me. ?