Realistic Play or Fetish/Fantasy Med-Fet Play

I like play exams to feel realistic to the point that any over examination feels like a proper medical procedure. I've been receiving DREs in play exams since my early 20s when I know that's not actually needed till a later age but because ithe was done in a clinical way I've always gone with it as part of the borderline abuse I'm up for as a med fetish patient. The point is never to cross the lune where anything is clearly an abuse, keeping the scenario as medical as possible.

As I have posted elsewhere, I prefer to use a clinical protocol and techniques, but add erotic elements according to the patient's desires.

Clinical play for me. The eroticism is laced within the professionalism.

Realistic uniforms of course. I cringe when I see those phony platex uniforms. Especially ridiculous are those silly nurses caps. I would prefer a white jacket or scrubs. There can definitely be fetish elements, as this is all in fun, so the exam should start realistically and evolve from there.

Real masks are a must for the patient. None of that PVC stuff (although silicone cartridge respirators are OK. Stanford does require its patients to use them right after transplant. See http://med.stanford.edu/news/all-news/2012/01/lung-transplants-save-lives-of-two-teenagers-with-cystic-fibrosis.html ). The nurses should have real scrubs, and maybe masks, and the doctor should be dressed up nicely for work, with a labcoat over her outfit.

I prefer a realistic setting, nurses wearing a lab coat / apron, head caps, disposable mascara and of course the gloves.

I prefer more realistic play. I don't like the rubber/latex uniforms. I like more realistic exams with scrubs, actually medical tools if available, and no sexual acts involved except maybe a collected sperm sample.

The more realistic the play exam the more excited I become. I prefer real procedures (giving and receiving) and real medical devices. Towards the end of the exam, after the tension has been built up and the subject and patient are thoroughly stimulated, then the exam can end with orgasm based on the predetermined method. In my encounters this has mostly been manual stimulation of patient by doctor and doctor by patient. However, in one experience the female patient was open to receiving oral stimulation to end the exam, which I was more than willing to oblige.

I´d prefer a mixture of both. The clean and bright atmosphere of an examination room, mixed with toys and gadgets from the bdsm scene like dildos, plugs, cuffs, gags, estim for example.

Definitely realistic with the appropriate clinical terminology being used and a professional demeanor throughout.

I like it both realistic with real scrubs and gowns as well as in vinyl and rubber outfits.

Either way, at the end of the procedure I have to be given a royal fucking.

Defo I would prefer more realistic play. I not the big fan of the rubber uniforms. I like more realistic exams with scrubs, actually medical tools if available, and no sexual acts involved. Less fantasy than better.

I like realistic-ish. I mean, in real life, a pelvic exam doesn't take more than 5 minutes. And certainly my real doctor does not examine my clitoris, pinch my nipples, insert a butt plug, or conduct "sexual response tests." So I like mostly realistic with definitely a few things added in there that stretch the imagination a bit.

However, with the right person, I definitely enjoy less realistic scenarios. Incorporating BDSM elements or penetrative sex can be fun too as long as it's the right person and the right context. No cheesy porno type scenes for me.

I am into both. I prefer an exam to start out very clinical but that can lead to a lot of places and it is fun either way.

I do however much prefer realistic dress and settings. I would rather a Dr./ nurse wear realistic clothing than a skimpy outfit.

I would only prefer a chat based online play exam so scrubs and instruments don't come in picture atleast at my end, but the scenerio should definitely be real and should make sense in reality.

For me I want Live Play thaT is as realistic as possible.

I like it as realistic as possible, but with a little bit of creative freedom 😉

Realistic for the exam itself with scrubs, gloves, metal speculum but then fantasy of having to sexual arousal check- up.

I like my play to be as realistic as possible

Realistic in every sense. Not just the setting (location, equipment, clothing of practitioners, possibly other people coming and going, etc) but also in terms of the patient. Very average looking...I'm not sure how to describe what I mean but I guess I'd say there are porn stars that LOOK like porn stars. Dr Tushy would be the worst offender here). Also, demeanor. Patients who seem less than happy to be there and younger patients (college age) who are borderline hostile and frequently state things like "is this really necessary...". So in short, being a fly on the wall at an actual large practice or hospital. It would be much more exciting for the play to be so realistic that it doesn't seem like play! For me this would also describe ideal video content.

Realistic for me. It doesn't have to be in a realistic setting but the examination has to be carried out as close to the the real thing as possible. My ideal is for my patient to feel that she is having a genuine gyn exam

Realistic play to start with, that evolves into fetish/fantasy play for me. It's the realistic side that prompted my fetish in the first place, but I love to make the experience sexual in the end (primarily as a patient) which typically involves masturbation and collection of a semen specimen.

I absolutely agree with Falcon that the more realistic the exam - even if it is by text messages or Skype, say - the better. After all, any such exam that is not a real one between doctor and patient is fantasy by definition, isn't it? So you aim to make the fantasy as convincing as possible. And a corollary: the more you go into detail (e.g., have a real-seeming consulting room, with real instruments, and the 'doctor' adopts a professional medical manner throughout the exam) the more satisfying for both parties. At least, that's how I see it. I detest many porno 'medical' videos that quickly become the mere sex act itself. If nothing else, it shows a lack of imagination!

The more realistic you can make the play the better , proper gowns , patient gowns , and a realistic play room if at all possible

I much prefer having as realistic of an exam as possible. That's not to say I don't appreciate 'sexual elements' (rectal temperatures, for example) being added, but nothing's more of a turn-off (for me) than to be having a play session and the patient be like "Oh Doctor I think I'm having some swelling you should take a look" and they whip their dick out. Or, vice-versa, if I'm the patient in the session and the Doctor whips his dick out and says "I think you need a dose of medicine. Anally."

I don't like doctor porn, I like medical play. Medical Fetish is more (to me) than just dressing up in a lab coat and stethoscope and having sex.

We are in full agreement, Joseph Malik! Keep it real and give/enjoy authentic medical practice! There is a real art to appreciation of this, I think. If you're a medical professional or a patient in hospital, you don't really have the opportunity to stand/lie back and get a frisson from what is going on. But enacting it later with a fellow med-fet person is a different matter. Mind, I'm a slight exception to what I've just said, possibly. When I was a boy approaching puberty (roughly aged 12), I spent 7-10 days in the childrens' ward at a large hospital, 'for observation' (by the doctors/nurses) of my skin condition, mainly. But as I had no actual infirmity, and hadn't had an operation, I was allowed to move fairly freely in the ward and outside it. After a while, I became almost accepted as part of the [mobile] furniture. So I took the opportunity to observe as much as I could: for example, of children coming back from theatre unconscious on gurneys (mainly from tonsillectomies and appendectomies) and being lifted into bed; also, several times, I remember peering around or through chinks in the screen placed around a patient's bed as the nurses gave him/her a shot (injection) in the buttocks. Yes, I was a real sticky-nose, or worse. But hardly anybody said anything to me about it (a couple of nurses attending a patient once mildly remonstrated with me, one saying to the other, 'What's he doing here?'), probably because I got on fairly well with the nurses and even some of my fellow patients, and the nurses were busy most of the time anyway. I'm practically certain that that time in hospital contributed significantly to my later interest in med-fet and to various fantasies of mine.

General consensus seems to be realistic and that is the same for me. I've conducted one examination which I tried very hard to make as realistic as my knowledge allowed and have received two exams again both realistic from obviously knowledgeable people. The first conducted by a female with her male partner present for her own security and the second by a male in a very realistic well equipped examination room. On both occasions the examiners were dressed in real uniforms and that really added to the effect on me. Both included detailed genital and rectal examinations and the use of speculums the main difference being the presence of a second person in the room during the first which added to the feeling of exposure and in the second the testing my ability to ejaculate. That perhaps, I suppose not strictly realistic for a physical examination but did relieve the build up of sexual tension and was a welcome extra I wasn't expecting.

My only other variation from the strictly realistic would be, like in my first examination, the presence of one or more chaperones/observers just to give me a heightened sense of exposure as I progressively undress as the examination is conducted and perhaps the other parties having my examination explained to them and being allowed to ask questions.

Just to follow up my last, where I wrote: 'If you're a medical professional or a patient in hospital, you don't really have the opportunity to stand/lie back and get a frisson from what is going on.' That reminded me of when I corresponded a few years ago with someone who had just retired as either a theatre orderly or a male nurse at a large public hospital in Melbourne (where I live). I think he told me that he had recently developed an anaesthesia fetish, which may have been what brought us together as correspondents. He told me that although he had often been involved in intimate procedures, or potentially arousing ones, he had not been aware of them as such, or at least never allowed himself to indulge them as fantasies. Day in and day out, he had always been very busy on the job, and tired afterwards. The fantasising had all happened only after he retired, and he found himself catching up for time lost: e.g., by corresponding about his feelings. He sounded very surprised at how the fantasising had come upon him. (But, as I say, we role-players and med-fetishists have the opportunity to take such a perspective more readily, i.e., right now, and it has its own qualities and rewards that we can cultivate!)

Realistic, all the way.

It is the context that gets me horny, not the toys.

Totally depends on my mood.

Normally I prefer the latex-fantasy variant, but I like 'realistic' settings to.

But anyways some non-standard equipment should be included.