"I can feel your heart beating"... No reaction from girlfriend

So the girlfriend and I were in bed the other day fooling around. I had my hand around her breast and I could faintly feel her heart beating. I said "I can feel your heart beating" and didn't get much of a response. This is something I'd like to discuss with her but was hoping to get a different reaction out of her.

I realize this fetish isn't everyone's cup of tea, but how have others gone about introducing steth play/listening with their significant others?

I don't think your statement made it clear that you were thinking of her heartbeat in a sexual, playful or medfet manner. That is why you didn't get much of a response. You could have said something more to the effect that you would like to listen to her heartbeat more closely with your ear on her chest or with a stethoscope. A stethoscope isn't exactly invasive as medical instruments go, so even if she declines, she won't think you're a nut case. 😁 😁 😁

This is a common issue and that some of other members had posted before: desiring very much to introduce to their girlfriends or boy friends the medical fetish or simply starting by introducing their passion about listening to the heart...

concerning this last one "listening to the heart" you can allways put your ear ay her chest and say something like" I love to hear your heart beat is beautiful". She will like that and maybe still find it romantic and some time later you may start opening a little bit more the game telling that in fact you allways had that small fetish and it has been growing since you're both together . that you fantazize a lot about listening her heart beat namely before or after or during making love ( and for that you'll need a stethoscope... and I agree with susie "A stethoscope isn't exactly invasive as medical instruments go, so even if she declines, she won't think you're a nut case").

The problem with the stehoscope is that sometimes the pretender to examiner is afraid of looking ridiculous with the steth at ears in front of the girlfiriend that why you can add an amnother extra to your sexual life: use a blindfold some times during sex. Start for using the blindfold only and make love normally introducing some unexpected sensations using your hands your body and your imagination : Then later with a blind fold I'm sure she will like the touch of the sethoscope during penetration heart rate goes higher lung sounds are better audible than asking to take deep breathes you can ear all that and can be very sensual to both.

Later you may talk about your medical fetish and desire of examining her outside a sexual intercourse. It is also important that all this will be a pretext for you to ask her about her fantasies and then you both developing all that enriching mutually your sexual and love life.

I had this problem, I would leave my sethoscope out in the open. I remember doing it for the first time, to see what what happen. My boyfriend at the time came over...looked at it....by the end of his visit, he had picked it up, and listened to his own heart, then he asked to listen to mine...saying yes ( of coarse)..he did, after that everytime it was in sight, we would play!!

I started exactly as amaral suggested. I simply put my head on my girls chest and let her get used to it, then I told her how beautiful it sounded. I playfully suggested I'd like to hear it with a stethoscope, and how I simply reveled in it. She thought it was so cute, she accepted. This has opened the door to my medfet with her, and I've slowly been introducing her to the range of wonderful experiences medfet offers us. She's since let me attend her yearly exams, and been a willing patient when I suggest a little roleplay!

I just leave the medical bag out and let their curiosity do the work

Most women like to lay on a guy's chest while snuggling or sleeping. That's a pretty good start right there if you explain how it's erotic to you. I've done this before and it usually works out well.

Maybe she just didnt know what u had in mind? of course her heart was beating she was there with you enjoying

With my very first gf, it was very easy to introduce her to my MedFet. She once told me, that her family GP had placed his stethoscope directly onto her left nipple. And her little sister agreed, he had done the same with her, too!!

So, the terrain was already well prepared. When we had sex, and after it, I took out my stethoscope and listened to her heart pounding over her nipple with the words "I'd like to know, what Dr X heard here...". She didn't have anything against it (she just was astonished that I had a steth!); to the contrary - she stethed me while she masturbated me.

That was the beginning of a very nice period of time...

Yes. A couple months ago, I got a girl alone in my bedroom. She wasn't really my girlfriend, but we knww each other pretty well. I don't remember exactly what we started talking about, but it lead me to say something like "There's still something you don't know about me". She seemed interested and promised not to tell anyone. I was really nervous, and it took a lot of courage, but I explained my heartbeat fetish to her, pulled out my stethoscope and handed to her. She gave me a nice long stething, asking for deep breaths and all! She even lifted under my shirt to listen! It was a really fun night!

We've seen each other quite a few times since then, but we have not yet engaged in another exam. Guess it's not really her thing. Oh well, at least I have the one good memory! 😃

Congratulations! Good start - carry on !!!

Excellent , "The auscultotationer"! I'm sure that in time you will find several girls oe women that will allow you to ausculate them, it's a so nice and inocent thing, sensual and that don't even have to include sex!

I can tell you from experience that just because she had no reaction, does not mean that she has no interest in it. My boyfriend is always feeling my heart or listening to it and I show no reaction. I can't bring myself to tell him how much I love it when he does those things. I would keep doing it and let her get used to it.