I am a DL, but I have never told my wife. When I have a rare day of working from home and she is out for the day, I take out my diapers. I always start by drinking a lot of coffee or tea and keep drinking water. I love to flood my Tranquility ATN or Molicare and wear it while I am at the computer doing my work. I always take a break to check out Zity. I love the feeling of flooding the diaper and then peeing in it for the rest of the day.