Hiya .
thanks for the posts and the answers to my mmother in law problem .
last wednesday my partner was dragged tot he ground by his mum as her legs went from under her .
it took him an hour to pick her up and lay her on the bed before he could get her in to the lounge chair.
he was really fed up and his back was put out but the sheer weight of his mum . she is only 13 stone at that time
she has lost about 5 stone .
so his aunts turned up and was bollocking him as they was worried about their sister .
which they have not seen her since last summer .
they never write or ring so its their own fault . they treat her like this as to her having a different father to them .
she is a chapman and they are clarke .
also they are gold digging now but thats another storey .
so my partners brother turns up in the middle of the 2 old witche's having a go at him and my partner stood his ground and said i think you lot should mind your own bussiness and let me sort mum out and get her to the hospital .
to which the younger sister did st johns and decided to give his mum a quick check up and she was not happy .
my partner was not happy with the doctor the couple of days before and was arranging a trip to the hospital .
but as his auntys where there he said your so bloody cleaver you ring the ambulance .
so they paramedics came and they said well she looks ok and has all her marble's and just has a bad arm and back .
but as we was called we have to take you to a hospital ...(thus what we all wanted )
so off to a and e in margate .
now they saw her and said your not drinking enough and put her on a sodium cholride drip . and within 15 mins her colour came back and she was looking better .
they booked up for a check up and the doctor gave mum the once over and he was not happy at all so he said lets do and ex-ray .
also we know a top person in the hospital who turns out is my partners brothers wifes step mom .
so she said family comes 1st and they got the xray fast .
when it came back the doc said she had a extra large organ in her tummy area . maybe a liver .
ok so not a problem that can be helpped now days with tablets .
so they booked her in.
she was put in a ward and they nurses said to my partner and his brother to go home and come back int he morning .
mum was moved to a different ward in the morning after a better nights sleep than since january .
the doctor rang my partner before he left to go back up the hospital and he said he wanted to see him .
the shock on his face was bad .
as its always never good news .
now i started this post with mum having a anal problem .
and a loose bladder .
so next morning as we know this person in the hospital mum was given a mri scan and she sufferd as she cannot lay flat on her back .
think again.
this poor woman has cancer all over but in little dots they told us they cannot count how many .
but one doctor was all doom and gloom saying we cant give a time limit on how long she will live cos it could be 2 days 2 weeks 2 months 2 years and so on.
so we asked how this started . they put it down to the click int he back which was the start of the tumor in the lower spine in january ., when she got stuck at the kitchen sink .
now we have possative news the oncologist was very possative and said lets get you better in here and get you home .
so wednesday morning tomorrow the 20th aprill we are takign a hospital bed in our house and oxygen and commode . also a hoist to help move mum around.
as if mum has radio therapy on her lower spine they said she will walk again.
but mum said she just wants to be with us and not leave us .
this is bringing tears cos this is the only family mother i have as such due to me not speaking to my own mother .,
but lets hope she does have the treatments cos they think they can put it on hold for a few years.
now monday the 18th we was going to the train station to get a train 2 stops down the line to the hospital and my partner had a phone call sayhing his sister was to go to our house and get mums phone and address book .
jell got on to his neighbour to go and lock the bottom chubb lock .
ok not a problem they said .
we got on the train and jell couldnt breath he had forgotten his asthma pump and not having a attack for a few months he stopped carrying it wiith him.
so he was oko on the train and thought it was easie . it was hot and the air was stuffy . he said when we get off the train he would be ok .
no he got worse and we walked the half mile to the hospital and went in to his mum and said pummp pump who do i ask . they got a nurse and the nurse took him out side to the cooler air . then matron went out and gave him the pum and a right bollocking . saying she thought he was going to die .
but he agreed to carry the pumps with him everywhere yet again and matron said to get his arse in to see his mum cos she dont want to see him die in the hospital .
so i nearly lost my parter too . he was very lucky .
but on mums wish she wants us to get married again in the garden so ill be posing the dress i have just bought tonight online .
and here is a laugh for everybody . our car died a death during the week . it finally blew up and the onbord computer went pop. so to day we spent a fortune and had it brought back to life the poor vw .
so we can now get up to the hospital easier and faster .
ill post more as time goes by .
love sherrie xxx