Primary Reason for an Enema

It has been suggested that the primary reason for an enema is the stimulation and excitation caused by the insertion of the nozzle. I feel that although that may be a portion of the practice, it certainly doesn't comprise the whole experience. For me, every enema may be quite the same while at the same time it might be quite different from insertion to euphoria.

K2MMW, I think there isn't any part of an enema that isn't exciting, be it the anticipation, preparation, insertion, filling or ejaculation. Sometimes the mere thought of an enema will almost get me shaking.

I second that, Willyum. I don't get the opportunity to indulge myself in an enema very often. The images that come to mind when anticipating my next enema...I too get an erection just thinking about them.

My primary reason why I just love enemas to death and everything that goes with them - I feel super after a session.The next day, my body feels energenic and ready for almost anything. Enemas make me happy and always in a good mood. Enemas make me feel sexy. Let the good times flow. w/m73yrs/Western Ma

Our primary reason is to be clean for anal sex and play.

My primary reason for taking enemas is all the erotic pleasures and helping to keep my body much healthier. A double bonus!

It has been suggested that the primary reason for an enema is the stimulation and excitation caused by the insertion of the nozzle.

It is not 😃 there are plenty of toys around which provide more stimulation by inserting them then the most common nozzle! You can't compare it with a good enema though. 😉

I agree, just the thought of an enema makes me hard!! But its the whole thing for me, the visual, the feeling of the nozzle against me, the filling...especially when its done right...WOW!!!

I think the comments here are right on track. If the insertion of the nozzle were the primary reason for indulging, then why go through the effort of the solution prep, and why even release the clamp? It is the experience as a whole, not one portion of it. (In my honest opinion) 😁

I agree-- I have had times driving home just thinking about lying on the floor looking at websites while being filled, and my hands start to shake. Even shared sex gives a different feel--that feeling of getting filled inside---oohhhhhh. that's a big part of it for me!

The sensations, the vulnerability, the intimacy of the whole cleansing act... There is just something magical about it all.

Just thinking about an enema is a turn on. Such an intimate act.

My primary reason is for the pleasure of an enema! So intimate, so sensual, so erotic! The health reasons are extras! I love the whole idea of getting an enema! The anticipation is such a turn on! Actually, the whole experience is the most satisfying sexual act; from start to finish!

I have never been given an enema by someone else.

Well maybe when I was a youngster. I can't remember if my mother ever gave me an enema. I started to do them myself as a kid and I enjoyed the feeling of the water and how good I felt afterwards. Now to me enemas are just about as good if not better than sex. I love the feeling and the warmth of the water, the feeling of being full and then being clean. To me enemas are very sensual and satisfying.

My primary reason is the feelings; but anticipation of the feelings is almost as good. It starts long before the enema, with looking forward to it. What nozzle shall I use? Perhaps I could make a new one? What would feel best? An inflatable one, mmm? Yes, that would be great!

Mustn't make it too long, now (at least the inflatable sleeve) - about 5" should do. I'll will need some firm plastic tubing of the right diameter to fit inside a cut-up mountain bike inner tube loosely (but not excessively so because I'm going to lash the two together and hope for an airtight seal). Here I will use electrical conduit tube, which is freely available in hardware stores. The bike inner tube is about 25mm (one inch) deflated. I'll buy one with a valve of the Schräder type. After some experimenting I have found out I can comfortably insert an object like a banana about 120 mm up my rectum; so I cut the plastic tube about 50mm longer than this. Next I will carefully mould epoxy putty over one end of the plastic tube to form a rounded nozzle end that will completely cover the rough end of the plastic. To keep the hole open, I use a roll of paper in the end of the plastic tube. My epoxy fairing will only be wide enough to smoothe over the hard tube end, and about 20mm long.

Now comes the hardest bit. I am going to sleeve the hard plastic with the neoprene inner tube from the bike! I am aiming to lash a cut end of the inner tube round the firm plastic with dental floss. I push it up behind the epoxy nozzle end when it has hardened, and lash it there firmly with dental floss to make an airtight seal. Then I make the inner tube to fold over itself so that there is an 'S' shape to cover the lashing. When it is inflated, the rubber will overlap both the lashing and the back part of the nozzle, leaving just the tip poking out.

BEFORE I cut my inner tube I judge where I want the valve stem to be on my finished homemade inflatable nozzle. This will rest against my anus outside, and prevent the nozzle from being drawn into me any further than I want. I cut enough inner tube, with the valve positioned about 40-50mm from the outer end and sufficient for the inner end for the amount that will be inside me, plus an allowance for the 'S' overlap and the lashing. The outside end of the nozzle is again finished off with a lashing of dental floss that will seal the inner tube to the firm plastic beneath. I cover this with a further sleeve cut from the same inner tube, doubled (I have lots left over!).

To make this affair comfortable, I make a further sleeve of a doubled layer of inner tube, about 40mm long. I slide this over the completed nozzle from the business end, using some talc to lubricate it to get it to go easily. I slide the sleeve, cut ends first, up hard against the valve stem of the inner tube. Its purpose is to stop the outer bit of inner tubing (the bit that stays inside my anal sphincter) from inflating along with the rest.

My nozzles are about 120mm long from valve stem to tip. If you try this, you must not make it longer than you can manage with comfort, and human rectums come in two sizes - short and long. Mine is long! The nozzle will easily inflate to hold 800-900ml of air. and I promise that you will not leak a drop! I fit mine with Gardena hose fittings because you can buy these with non-return valves in them, and then you can disconnect yourself from the tubing and bag and just leave the nozzle in place for the trip to the potty!

Making the nozzle is filled with pleasurable anticipation. Actually sliding it in for the first time is awesome! I attach the pump (ordinary bike pump) before doing this. Even deflated, the new nozzle distends my rectum a bit; but when I pump it up, the feeling of fullness is fantastic. How far can I go? Six strokes of the pump and my rectum begins vigorously trying to expel the invader! Ah, more pleasure! I rest for a while and the urgency passes. Two more strokes, then four! Wow, really, really full - and I haven' even got to the enema yet. Disconnect the pump, and enjoy the sensation of walking around with the nozzle stuck up your bum! Very naughty feeling...

The nozzle is so long that its inner end is squeezing my prostate, and I'm leaking prostatic fluid through a hard erection. But it is also constricting my urethra. If I forget to pee before inserting this, I can't do so with it in at all.

Now for the enema itself, the bit I've been waiting for... I like seawater, and I have five litres of it in my bucket which will be delivered through a siphon (1/4" clear plastic hose stiffened with 12 gauge copper wire at the siphon end so it will hang securely over the rim of the bucket and reach comfortably to the bottom. I start the siphon, snap the hose connectors together and await the stealthy increase of pressure inside me (Ah!).

After about one and a half litres are in me, the cramps start. Now I know the seawater has come to the sigmoid flexure of the bowel, and is seeking to go further. I let the pressure rise some more. Now I am really uncomfortable; but not a drop is leaking from my anus, stuffed with this tight-fitting monster nozzle. I stop the flow and wait. Presently there will be a loud gurgle, and the pressure will drop. I enjoy the relief and start the flow again. The water is past the sigmoid and now keeps it open. For the next two litres all goes smoothly, and my stomach swells steadily. The it starts to get genuinely full, and the last litre or so goes in increasinlgy slowly.

Now I can disconnect the hose and waddle around full of seawater, perhaps to look at my swollen belly in a mirror somewhere. Presently the cramps start in earnest, but I can hold this for at least ten minutes. While I do this, I anticipate the eventual release. Shall I deflate the nozzle, or try and push it out? It will be almost 3" wide by now, but of course I can squeeze it smaller to get it out!

I wait and wait for a nice strong urgency (like a surfer waiting for the big wave!). Tonight I will push the nozzle out! This takes a lot of pressure, but the sensation of the nozzle starting to move is exquisite, stimulating my prostate and stre-e-etching my anus (ah, ah, aaahh!!) until all of a sudden everything comes loose with a rush!

The first rush is nearly clean water. Quick, flush the toilet and retrieve the nozzle. Just looking at it is exciting all over again. I had THAT big thing up me?? Now I settle down to enjoy the rest of the expulsion. I like the feeling of large quantities of water and waste rushing from my body, and there will be at least four of these, all different. I will enjoy every one!

Hope you all do, too!

Johnny

I got my first one age 12.

Was restrained in bed and was having trouble using a bed pan. After three days my mother told me that I was going to have to have an enema that afternoon. The waiting and anticipation was scary with an exotic flavor. When the nurse appeared with the equipment and a rubber mat for the bed it became worse. Finally she administered the enemas and told be to use the bed pan every thing became better. That's when I got hooked.

The sensual feelings and the health benefits are a plus.

While I do use enemas for health purposes the primary reason is pure eroticism.

The anticipaton is a real turn on. It's exciting going solo, but having a giver is even better. I love having preparations going on behind me as I lay submissively on the bed, feeling things being moved around and coverings being adjusted and the lubrication container being snapped open and closed. Then the hand gently separates my buttocks and the nozzle presses against my anus before being gently pushed into me. In a second comes the snap of the clamp and I begin to feel the the water begin to fill me.

My primary reason is colon health.

Other reasons: relax, sexual pleasure...but the primary reason is always health.

I love thinking about an enema when I know I'm going to take one later, I think the psychological pleasure is as good as the physical pleasure.

Primary reason?? it feels good. soooo...if it feels good do it.

A bit of background on where I speak about this subject from in life and experience:

I have been an instructor in the local BDSM community in Norfolk, VA and the surrounding area for over 10 years, invited to all the local groups to speak

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I have been requested to be a speaker at Black Rose, the annual BDSM convention in Washington, DC, unfortunately my day job interfers with speaking there

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I have been involved personally and with others into enemas as an adult for over 34 years,

I have been actively involved in enemas personally since I was 11 years old, when I discovered the use for my mom's enema syringe and douche syringe in our own bathroom,

I have no prior memories of my mom or dad giving me enemas as a youth or child

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The desire to receive enemas is ultimately very simple, it is a form of rebelion. The rebelion stems from our youths and childhood, having been taught that poop/feces is dirty, that touching ourselves down there is wrong. We explore anal or enemas for non medical reasons because it involves what was forbidden, we stay because it feels good.

The receiving of enemas from another is even simpler, enemas remove our overall control over the most basic of our bodily functions, functions that we have been taught our whole life as being dirty. This is submission.

Someone administering an enema, depending on the equipment used:

Can make you go whether you want to or not,

Can use retention equipment and make you wish they would let you go,

They can use mild solutions,

They can use cramp making solutions,

They can use strong evacuants,

They can make you beg to go,

They can make an enema crawl over you like a warm loving caring glow,

They can make them the most intimate thing you have ever experienced,

But almost all desire to receive enemas from another person are a form of submission to another person....one of the ultimate forms....the surrender of our most basic bodily functions to control by another person

It might not be the only definition, but with over 41 years experience with a lot of people it has always ultimately come down to being that simple. Submission and Trust.

Submitting to an enema from my wife, having her take control, is a real turn on. Before my prostate surgery, seeing her approach the bed holding the bulging red bag caused an erection big time. I still get turned on, but there is no outward sign. Oh, well. I still enjoy it.

Yes, the primary reason is for fun and relaxation. I do go down on the lady giving to try and give her some fun too.

I had to think about this for a while. Sure there are the medical reasons such as relieving constipation and for easing PMS symptoms. Then there is the general health reason of ridding yourself of toxins. What I like best though is the psychological and physiological aspect of pampering myself especially when I feel that I'm too overstressed. Just retreating to the bathroom for up to an hour of personal time is such a feeling. Preparing, taking, and expelling a nice warm baking soda (I save soapy ones for other times) enema followed by a nice long soak in a bubble bath has no equal.

Oh, yeah.

After too many years of feeling shame about my kink, I now revel in it. The whole experience is a turn-on. Receiving or giving. The anticipation, the fulfillment, and the afterwards.

I love my bags, hoses, nozzles, gut, the rush....

Oh, yeah.

Just thinking about enemas gets me excited. Then there's the preperation -- where possible I will get the enema equipment out well beforehand and be 'excited' sometimes for hours. Then there's the insertion, the taking of the liquid, the holding and the expulsion. And the "icing on the cake" is when I might throw up as well, as happened last Sunday night. Man, it all felt soooo good!

I am already tingling in anticipation of my next enema.

I only use enemas for health reasons, and I don't find them particularly "exciting" in and of themselves - it's a bit of chore to give one to myself, a hell of a chore to give one to anyone else.

The only exciting part is that, when I'm giving myself an enema, for a nozzle I use a customised vibrator.

I've only done them at home, but just preparing the enema makes nervous with anticipation, and wet and ready, like when you know you're going to have sex.