Lost interest in enemas.

I used to be really into enemas. I would take at least a few a week, which I considered a lot. Then I'm not sure what happened but I just wasn't into enemas like I was, but I would still use them two or three times a month for erotic purposes. Then not too long ago I went through a serious bout of depression. I haven't felt like the same person since I got the depression sorted out, and now I have a complete lack of interest in enemas. I inquired about an alcohol enema a few weeks ago, but haven't even been motivated to go through with it.

I know not being interested in enemas anymore is a insignificant detail compared to everything else that has changed, but I wanted to hear what other people who are interested in enemas have to say or suggest.

I am no medical expert but I have read that anti depressant medication tend to supress ones libido. Are you taking such medication? If so, ask your doctor.

I'm agree with GAtransplant, any way i think what is better is to have some precepts or external factor that can help into doesn't fall into the groove of alternative sexual pratices.... this can help with desire, that i belive to be base for sex. I don't know but to be usual in alcohol enema don't ring very well .... Some experience have be more unique

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I have found that my interest or drive to do enemas come and go. Right now I'm into a "Good" Ivory and plan water follow-up every other day thing. I may go out of town for a week to visit my son, and not get back in the cycle again for 2 or 3 weeks until have a shitty feeling day and end it with a "Good Enema" ( Ivory ) and peppermint tea rinse, then I fall back into the cycle again. Humans are creatures of habit, I'm sure I am not the Lone Ranger on this. First thing in the day is my preferred choice.

Amber, I just noticed your post below and wanted to offer my recent experience. I am always a solo enema person, and I do it for relaxation, erotocism with myself, and occasionally just to feel cleaned out.

I am generally a very happy, satisfied and high-energy person.

A couple months ago I was just feeling down, not sure I would call it depressed, but nothing seemed exciting to me for anymore. Then one day the idea of a relaxing enema just came into my head. I put it off for a couple days because I was too busy feeling sorry for myself.

Then one morning when I was home alone, I just decided to do it. Almost as soon as I began filling the enema bag, my spirits lifted, I started to really look forward to relaxing on my back and just enjoying an enema. I picked out a cute, somewhat smallish white plastic nozzle with a slightly sounded and gently bulbous tip.

Well, as soon as I started inserting the nozzle, it was like everything changed for me. I instantly became incredibly excited and aroused, not completely sexually at first but just very glad to be doing this, and almost out of my skin with anticipation of the enema that I now knew was about to happen.

After a short while, when maybe a third of the bag had flowed inside me, I started fondling and pleasuring myself.

Without going into detail, let me just say one thing.

That enema experience truly seemed like a turning point for me, emotionally and mentally. Not to say that you will be missing anything without an enema, or that an enema will do the same for you. But for me, I am so glad I tried it again.

Hope this helps, and good luck!

Amber, I have fought depression for many years and have noticed that my interest in/desire for enemas varies over time. Sometimes, like you now, the interest seems to be gone and yet it has always returned. You might find it interesting to start a journal of your situation and see how your comments change over time. I know from experience that depression dulls one's interest in life in general. I hope things work out well for you.

I wouldn't be the least bit concerned about your interest in enemas. Interests and hobbies do come and go. It is rare for someone to enjoy all the things they did when they were you as when they are older. You will gain new interests. I would stay away from alcoholic enemas if you are depressed. They will only be counter-productive.

What is important is your overall feelings toward life and the people you have around you.

Spend your time with people who are happy and helpful. DO NOT hang around with people who could bring you down.

I "Lost" my love of enemas for a while and still have yet to get it back 100%.Most of my life I was the one who gave myself my enemas.When I found a partner who was great at getting me all worked up both before and during her giving them to me everything changed and I seldom took them myself during that time.When me and her split going solo was boring all of a sudden and months went by before I gave myself one.To this day they still just are not the same but I have came to the conclusion that untill I find another partner im going to have to just enjoy them for what they do sill do for me.I do still enjoy a series every now and than,just not as often and when I do its not as fun.

As far as your depression goes,I have both a depression and a panic disorder and have been on just about every medication imaginable for both,with the exception of mirtazapine and wellbutrin nearly every anti depressant is an SSRI and (At least in my experience) absolutely destroys any interest you could have in getting turned on by anything.If your lucky Wellburtin will work for you,with that one the only thing bad was waking up feeling like you gargles with sand all night your mouth is so dry,never run out of biotene.With Mertazipine you may gain massive amounts of weight.It zaps all your energy so you never burn any calories and makes you nearly always hungry so your calorie intake skyrockets through the roof.

Naturally I am extremly ectomorphic and low body fat,the cpomplete oposite of the guy I lift and train with,whenever we take off for any extended period of time im always like "We have to get back in the gym im getting skinny" where as he has to get back because he gains weight so this like so many other things is probably effected greatly by body type just as its very dependant on your brain what anti depressant will work for you,for me Wellbutrin is the only one with side effects im willing to deal with and to be honest sometimes I wonder if its effective at all.

I like to be on the least amount of drugs as possible and am always looking for ways to deal with symptoms,it seems that most drugs do not effect me the way the effect most people and im quite a challenge to medicate.Go online (Torrent Omega will usually find you anything) and look for Lucinda Bassett's coarse called "Attacking anxiety and depression" by the Midwest center.It is a great compliment to any plan to help you feel better,continue with your medication and therapy just add that too it,I found some it very helpful.Good luck,and always get out of the house and do something when you get a chance to,it helps enormously.Also,as far as your alcohol enema,I for one stay as far away as alcohol as possible when im feeling depressive,it makes everything a BILLION times worse.Again good luck,ive been battleing this for years and have probably heard and been through it all.Feel free to contact me directly if you would like.I check in here several times a week and I will answer when I see it,in the meantime try and force yourself into a good mood,it will actually work when you get used to it enough.Sorry to ramble so long in this post,but I know how depression is and unless you have been through it there really is no way to explain just how bad it is so I had to throw my 2 cents in.It just so happens my 2 cents took 4 paragraphs lol

I definitely have ups and downs with enemas. I sometimes can't wait to get home from work for an enema. i plan out everything in my head, how much solution, how long im going to hold it and so forth...however when i get home i am just to tired it seems to get out the bag and go through the whole set up.

Losing that interest (urge) would be very sad indeed. I do have my ups and downs, can go for weeks without even thinking of an enema and suddenly the urge comes creeping and then I can hardly be without one. Right now I'm into one of my more intensive periods; the need to go to the loo nature's way is fairly rare during these periods.

I am a true anal erotic, in younger days my "pussy" would be penetrated by all sorts of toys, including huge buttplugs, but with age I have lost some of the sensations from such insertions. Left as the main activity is a nice nozzle, not too big, and the wonderful feeling of a colon gradually being filled up. I used to take a gallon easily, but find it harder to accommodate large volumes without spilling. These days the scene is more of a colonic rinse, filling and expelling until clean and empty.

There is a good feeling after a cleanout, but the question is what to do with the urge for some more anal sensations when there is nothing more to be cleaned?

Any good suggestions out there?

I think there is some seasonality to all this also. Warm sun, that dried out feeling. It's another way to end a perfect summer day.

Amber, maybe you are not completely over your depression (and isn't that a sign of depression--losing interest in things that were previously meaningful? I think that this is a great forum to communicate about enemas but maybe you are really asking for help with your depression; you should a medical provider.

I really appreciated reading all the posts in this forum. I, also have had a few ups and downs and dwindeling interests. There are many thoughtful, intelligent and caring people in this group. I learned a little about myself and I suspect Amber did, too.

Have been periods of interest in other areas of sexuality, but have never lost interest in enemas. How else can

you experience eroticism, sexual stimulation and a good healthful clean out at the same time. Can't ever see

losing interest, have enjoyed them for too long.

My interest in taking enemas seems to go in cycles. I'll be into it for a while, maybe a week or two, then take maybe a month off. Sometimes, an enema will bring me out of a depression. But, when a human being is in the state of being depressed, the only way to not be depressed is by being a different way, ergo the phrase... Don't worry, be happy!

I have always liked frogs and toads, so when I saw you represented your profile with a frog, I peeked into see what you were posting. I get depressed too and more than anything I've found getting busy is the best medicine.

I have had a lifelong love affair with the enema. I was introduced nearly from birth and always enjoyed them. However, they have evolved for me over the years. They went from a guiltless pleasurable sensation at the hands of my mother to an embarrassing and pleasurable sensation and then, for years, a totally erotic private sensation with a raging erection from the time I entered the bathroom and took the big red rubber bag and began filling it with hot soapy water. However, now, at 60-years-old, the are now simply a combination of obsessive compulsive behavior, a desire to stay regular and in control of my bowels, and of course a still dominant erotic aspect. I cannot believe how I have become just like my mother and bowel obsessed. I guess my point here is that interests and erotically stimulating activities change and evolve over the years.

Over many years there have been swings for me as well. I stayed away for a couple of years one time--disposed of all my equipment and books, etc, and walked away. But I eventually came back after watching a show one day in the really early AM that talked about enemas and laxatives. That brought me back and have enjoyed ever since.

Everyone is different and their approaches and desires vary, so just figure out what you want to do and enjoy as you wish.

In the case of a serious bout of depression ist is the best to cleanse the bowels in gulping a good dose of Castor Oil, this early in the morning, not having breakfasted. You will be astonished in which manner your mood will change.

Glad to read I'm not alone in having had a "time off from enema activity" and participating in this site". I had several female friends who enjoyed the "warm soothing waters of the enema for health and sexual recreation" who no longer were available for play....; doing solo was just that..not having that complete emotional connection. On a whim....I rang up this site again but had to "re-register" since I dropped out and lost "my gallery photo privileges"..sure miss seeing the photos....though I'll be enjoying again the forum discussions..Ahh acquired sexual interests still prevail!

Like some have mentioned above my enema "need" tends to come and go over time. Sometimes I find myself with a constant "need" for a good bagfull of soapy water. Other times I find can go for months at a stretch without any real desire for a large nozzle in my anus followed by warm soapy water invading my bowels. HUMM I think I feel a need for a enema in the morning. 😮)

Lives change. You don't know whether that is permanent or not. It will likely come back into your mind at some point in your life.

If you want to move your enema equipment to an inconvenient place for now go ahead. But whatever you do, keep it, in case your interest is revived. Odds are it will be.

LisaK is right you interest may wane and if you throw out your equipment you start over, and new equipment isn't as good as some of the older rubber goods...i learned the hard way.

I am curious about Ricini's comment about taking Castor Oil. Do you do that along with an enema or two??

klyster3

Unlike some, I renewed interest in enemas in later years, helped by sites such as this show more e-fans than I would have imagined. I have mainly colonics but a supply of vintage equipment is on hand for enemas as needed between them for self-giving or by one willing therapist.

Nothing beats old-time quality gear, as charlie said.

I have just had another 2 month absents from enemas. I be honest I just wasn't in the mood, for what every that is worth. This AM, I took my normal 2 quart Ivory, followed with 2 quarts of salt/water. Then to top it off 2 quarts of Chamomile tea. During the Chamomile tea enema at the beginning after the clap was opened I experienced a back breaking cramp only like Mom's enemas would produced. I have never cramped with any teas or coffee before, so I took 3 or 4 deep breaths and was going to close the valve and give up, but the cramp was gone just like that ! I looked up off the floor and my folding travel bag used of tea and coffee as it started doing it's twisting dance as the lasts solution exits. Never have I had a bag empty that fast. Just saying.

For what it's worth, my interest goes up and down. Now I'm at a once a week level.. but that can change and all of a sudden I can't enough. Then just as fast, I lose interest.

My enema interest is mostly sexually based, and as such I would think my enema interest would follow my sexual appetite - but it doesn't. Seems I'm always horny and thinking about sexy women, regardless of the state of my enema interest.

If you lost interest of enemas I think that is time for your good spanking!