Having a partner can lead to a lot of difference in the variety of enema play, and we have been E-Mates for more than 33 years.
In the early days before children and during the first two years after the birth of our eldest daughter it was marital play several times a week including erotic enemas about half the time. We both came into the marriage with an enema fetish, we each had combo bags and uniquely we both had colon tubes because that’s what our parents used. I, Marvin was given many enemas by my mother who was an LPN and I, Marlene had an Aunt who was an RN who split enema administration duties with my mother. So we just followed suit. Occasionally we used douche nozzles finding them a satisfactory alternative to the colon tubes and that they provided more stimulation than the standard enema nozzles. We also experimented with various solutions such as mild soap or salt or soda or combinations of the three, varied positions and played in different locations in the home and occasionally in the great outdoors, our fenced back yard, LOL.
As our children became older our marital play quieted down and our “E” play was relegated to once or twice a month. The children received enemas from time to time for constipation or an illness, so not missing an opportunity, our use of the bag right after one of their treatments allowed for it to be exposed drying on the back of the bathroom door for a day or two and of course since they understood that constipation, colds or the flu resulted in enemas it was understandable that mommy or daddy would occasionally have a problem that needed to be taken care of.
As the children became older and went to summer camp for a week or two it opened a window of opportunity and as a surprise for me Marlene came up with the “Miss. Ryner,” the first of our scenario’s, which over the years has expanded to three sessions each more erotic than the preceding one and it has been followed by six other scenarios and except for a brief time, none done excessively so they don’t become as you say, the same ‘ol same ‘ol. There were occasional weekends when one or the other of our parents were happy to have their grandchildren spend time with them and we would have the house to our selves or would spend the weekend away in a hotel. During this period we added an additional variety of bags and nozzles and other marital aids, we also came up with some other scenarios, a very mild “BSDM” one developed on the spur of the moment during a hotel stay, the “Fly on the Wall,” the “Hotel Maid” during another hotel stay and the “Darling Your Husband or Wife is Away on Business and Lets have a Weekend Rendezvous.”
Our two daughters married and started families of their own, then our son, the last one to leave home joined the navy and the opportunity for “E” play became almost unlimited. We say almost because both of us have high stress jobs that require us to do a considerable amount of travel so there are times when one or the other of us are away for a week or longer. But when we’re together the sparks fly. When our son left I, Marlene was 43 and at the peak of my drive and performance in the bedroom and I, Marvin at 47 must admit that my performance was somewhat slipping but always got a significant boost from a lovingly given sensual enema. After our son left his old bedroom was on the other side of the master bathroom so we remodeled the bathroom expanding it into part of the bedroom and esecentialy turned it into a more convenient “E” play ground. When ever possible we try to have 2 “E” weekends a month generally starting on Friday night with marital play along with giving each other a good high cleanout with at least two enemas a soapy followed by a rinse as preparation for 3 to 4 “E” plays on Saturday and again on Sunday. We call a 10-enema weekend a ”Full Bagger,” LOL.