Do you prefer CLINICAL enemas (no sex) or EROTIC enemas (LOTS of sex)?

I really enjoy erotic enemas.

If I'm getting a series of clinical enemas, I expect a hard thorough fucking afterward.

I certainly hope so! 😈 🌹

I like to use a hitachi wand while I'm giving the enema. Discretion must be used however to avoid a face full of suds. After the enema I like to use a toy and the wand to give a hard orgasm. Unfortunately it's been too long and with this Covid nightmare is getting longer. I guess that makes it erotic.

For years my enemas were clinical when my irritable insides were rebelling or tied up and sometimes I had a blasting headache. The purpose was cleansing enema, and if it lead to greater heights, fine, but it wasn't planned.

But the first time my husband did a full body massage (and I mean full) to get me relaxed and revved up before starting the enema, what a nice surprise that was between the two of us. We're not into gross porn, although on the exotic scale, I think we're at least a C++. That's pretty good for us considering our vanilla backgrounds. Hoping for at least a B- sometime soon. ?

The distinction is that a non-clinical enema is for play and entertainment for the giver and receiver. The clinical situation may allow for the receiver to have a sense of arousal or reactivity given the nature of conforming to what is being done! This can obviously have secondary benefits most likely once the procedure is completed. Overall, both are likely to have a relationship to arousal, submissiveness, and many feelings both physical and emotional.

How about any enema? In fact I only had medical enemas so far!

I treat the sexual aspect as essentially a side effect.

Not purely clinical, or I wouldn't take them so often, but still therapeutic.The sexual aspect is the not-so-unpleasant side effect.

I am fine with either clinical or erotic, as clinical can be quite as arousing. Erotic enemas are special because they focus exclusively on pleasure and the power dynamic. There's something special about the willingness to lay over a partners lap and take an enema they prepped for your pleasure. Be it a series of soapy bulb fulls or a colon nozzle and two liters while they milk your cock.

Clinical are the best because you don’t need to admit you love it if you are shy and it is also arousing.

I get it…if you're into medfet or similar (?) activity…BUT too much prep/wasted time!!! Don't know which turns me on the most…the enema or the sex…and that seems wierd…or not….but let's get to the action!!!! Then, again…..hmmmm…indecisive…can't decide!!!! To hell with it…let's f___!!!!

…WAIT…no, lets do the enema first…er???? (a little humor there!!!)

The question is…Do you prefer CLINICAL enemas (no sex) or EROTIC enemas (LOTS of sex)?

For my sub he prefers erotic enemas. The feel of the inflatable nozzle and water going in as his cock is in my pussy is just about perfect.

We miss those times. 😞

One can never get enough enemas OR sex, so I prefer enemas with a side of sex. (Or was that sex, with a side of enemas?) Anyway, you get the picture!

To each their own but I don't think sex has a real place in medfet. I'm not sure orgasms do either, but for the purpose of porn I'd say it's fine. But completely unprofessional and the thought of it breaks my immersion.

To each their own but I don't think sex has a real place in medfet. I'm not sure orgasms do either, but for the purpose of porn I'd say it's fine. But completely unprofessional and the thought of it breaks my immersion.

Arika,

I'm not a MedFetter other than a kink for enemas and anal play, but I’m just curious and would appreciate a clarification. Except for the rare medically requested enemas for preop colonoscopies, all of my kinks including enemas are intended to be employed as sexual arousers, so I had always mistakenly thought the same of MedFet as a kink. If your goal or intent during MedFet play is not as sexual arousal and climax, then why do you consider it a kink and what do you enjoy or get out of such a kink? For me, an enema of any size, especially quite a large (4-5 q for me) one, can be enjoyable all by itself, but even though I’m enjoying the enema sensations and feelings, it almost always arouses me so much that I finally orgasm. So, I’d appreciate understanding your view of MedFet better. I’m glad you enjoy it, but what does it do for you? Thank you,

Eric

I love enemas given to me by a lovely lady. I prefer a series of three with a handjob during the last one or after I expell the last one.

I agree a mix of both is the best. I clinical enema with some bondage sounds amazing, tied and gagged and filled while doing exams or even dressed in tight latex!

To each their own but I don't think sex has a real place in medfet.

By definition medical fetish is all about being sexually gratified by a variety of means. It's all about the sex.

If the enemas are sexually gratifying, what do you need sex for? Sex is overrated, I'm pretty sure I'm sex-repulsed actually. If it was about sex then no one here would like real-life exams because your doctor doesn't whip his dick out and have sex with you when you're finished, that'd just be weird. Or the “real” exam videos taken with hidden cameras, there's no sex being had there.

If the enemas are sexually gratifying, what do you need sex for? Sex is overrated, I'm pretty sure I'm sex-repulsed actually. If it was about sex then no one here would like real-life exams because your doctor doesn't whip his dick out and have sex with you when you're finished, that'd just be weird. Or the “real” exam videos taken with hidden cameras, there's no sex being had there.

Real exams aren't medfet

Real exams aren't medfet

I think you have a misunderstanding of what “medical fetish” means. Unless you're saying no one here has a fetish for something when there isn't any sex involved. I think part of the definition of a fetish or kink is that sex isn't directly involved? Or pretty close.

I think you have a misunderstanding of what “medical fetish” means. Unless you're saying no one here has a fetish for something when there isn't any sex involved. I think part of the definition of a fetish or kink is that sex isn't directly involved? Or pretty close.

@arika: “Sex” and “medfet” don't have to be mutually exclusive.

@arika: “Sex” and “medfet” don't have to be mutually exclusive.

They do not, that's the thing, but they also are not required to be together to be considered “medfet”.

If the enemas are sexually gratifying, what do you need sex for?

Isn’t that saying medfet is sexual?

isn’t that saying medfet is sexual?

Yes, it is. I think there's a miscommunication. Something can be sexual without directly involving a traditional sex act. I might have misunderstood the “It's all about the sex” line earlier? But that's what this thread is about, isn't it? Do you like a thing on its own without sex or as an addition to sex (or with sex as an addition to it).

And I personally get sexual gratification from just the thought of enemas, and my little fantasies ironically aren't as enjoyable once I start adding the idea of sex to the mix.

Something can be sexual without directly involving a traditional sex act. I might have misunderstood the “It's all about the sex” line earlier?

In another thread I can't point to, Susie asserted that “sex” meant PIV - any other sexually gratifying activity was just “sexual” - but not really “sex”. Fine line to cross on the definitions - but I think we are on the same page here.

For me, enemas are sex. Erotic sex.