Sexual gratification during a play exam

I think that during a play exam I would almost expect the doctor to require collection of semen sample as part of the sexual response test. Having the doctor obtain this would be much more embarrassing (and so exciting). The thought of having the doctor assess the "recovery period" between ejaculations would be exciting, although not sure about the reality of it happening.

IAN wrote: If I were the doctor, I would do the exact same to a patient, but the patient shouldn't sexually engage with the doctor. Just not professional haha!

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LOL! Pretty funny, Ian!

Tryst

I'd have to say that for me, RockDoc had it just about right! Others had the same thought that sexuality should be disguised as a 'test' or a 'procedure' that will evaluate the quality of a woman's orgasm, or her nipple sensitivity....and so forth. :-)

Tryst

Sexual gratification, I think, should be the finish part of the play exam. The doctor should examine any patient's sexual responses, the behavior of his/her aroused body to the orgasm, BUT without any intercourse.

My exams all remain clinical and professional, although after the exam is complete I will ask if the patients would like to orgasm, and I will offer assistance for them, usually with a rabbit vibrator, whilst they are in the leg rests, I had one patient who wanted to orgasm with a speculum still in place, I would say it's about 50/50 as to how many patients want to orgasm immediately after the exam, and those who want to do it later.

I always offer orgasm as an option during a play exam. With new 'patients' there is normally a lot of email discussion to and fro before the appointment is booked and I will offer the option at this stage.

It's entirely the woman's choice of course, but in my experience most women have a desire to experience safe sexual pleasure and be taken to an orgasm(s) if possible during the play examination appointment. I normally perform a realistic well woman type examination and after this offer a sexual response test during which orgasm is the goal...Of course if the woman prefers a strictly clinical exam then she is very welcome to have one.

Dr Philip.

I always bring the female to orgasm during the exam using manual stimulation and clinical language describing what I am doing with her. The talking emphasizes the submissiveness, which brings her a stronger release. These are, after-all, women who crave to be submissive, and what's more submissive than being intimately handled by a clothed man whom she (usually) barely knows?

For me sexual gratification it's a part of the examination, the doctor must check sexual response with clit or penis stimulation.

The vast majority of my patients prefer that orgasm be part of the experience. Many are subs, and medical play is a "treat" they enjoy as something different, I suppose. I begin with a more typical, realistic approach, then move into the "expanded" areas. As in most cases, the basic itinerary is discussed and established prior to the actual appointment. More than a few enjoy a certain element of surprise, as well, but whether or not they expect orgasm to be part of the role play is firmly established beforehand.

I am totally with Dr. Philip and Dr. SJ on this one. Orgasm as part of the exam should be discussed up front and it should be entirely up to the play patient. If the patient chooses the orgasm option, it is only provided upon completion of the exam (unless of course, the patient involuntarily orgasms during the course of the exam, in which case the doc has no choice but to go with the flow). It takes away from the realism if sexual gratification is introduced in the middle of the exam.

If the patient desires an orgasm after the exam, I will usually assist with vibrators and/or perform an extended exam of the clitoris/ vagina or the nipples. Intercourse with the patient is a big NO and against the spirit of the play exam.

PlayMichael - who believes doctor + patient + exam = lots of fun 😃

I would expect it as a matter of course in a play exam.

I would be taken to orgasm at least once

I think that if the doctor disrobed then for me it'd ruin the illusion of a professional exam!

To each their own. Not everyone is here for sexual gratification along with their fetish. If someone is willing to go as far as give a play doc the opportunity to perform an examination, it would be wise to know upfront what is ok and what isn't. While spontaneity is nice, it is better to know a patient's limits before initiating a scene. Going too far in the wrong direction is a guaranteed way to lose your patient to another clinician.

Ithink it really depends on yiur relation with the patient, not the exam itself :-)

If i wanted it to be strictly clinical id go to a doctor 😉

Of course I would expect there to be sexual gratification during a play exam. Waiting for my "internal massage" if half the fun!

Honestly? I'd like to be gradually stimulated, and then scolded for reacting inappropriately on his exam table. 😃

I personally think that is the whole point, albeit others have different views going by the responses on here.

Surely for both parties it has to be a bonus 😳

The question as to whether there should be sexual gratification during a play examination should be settled in one of two ways.

Either - the matter should have been agreed before, or when, the consultation is agreed and arranged -

Or - if there is a separate non-sexualised medically orientated examination, the matter should be agreed before a sexual gratification phase is entered into, either party can initiate such discussion.

BUT - there must always be an option for either party to decline or stop such a phase at any time - and without recrimination!

It might be said that there is always a sexual motive on either the playdoc's or the patient's part in arranging a consultation but this is not always the case. Sometimes the fetish extends only to a medically orientated examination and if this is the case both party's must concur.

I've never participated in a play exam, so maybe my comment might be misplaced or suffer from lack of experience. However, boy oh boy have I fantasied about them, endlessly it seems.

Anyway, whatever is agreed upon regarding orgasms, sexual relief or climaxing or ejaculations or whatever you wish to call it, I'd say the exam itself is a form of sexual gratification in and of itself. I'd consider giving/allowing/forcing an orgasm within a play exam just another one of the many options available for medical play. Just knowing that you are participating in a play exam, with all the sexually tinted elements in play is, to my mind, very gratifying sexually.

Always!

Completely depends on situation and play partner. Some level of satisfaction is common when I play, but it's not necessarily an expectation. Some prefer it to stay clinical and that's cool. I don't like it when the doctor play is really just foreplay. Of course I can see the fun in that, but the doctor/patient experience is important to me and it's not just a means of spicing things up a little in the bedroom (or exam room).

If I am the doctor, I want my patient to have an orgasm. If I am the play patient, I am disappointed if I don't have an orgasm. I don't think that I really want intercourse in the med-fet scenario unless the play patient initiates it with me. When I am the patient, I don't expect my doctor to have intercourse with me. I like the orgasms to be testing or experimental in nature and find it kinkiest when the doctor demands that I masturbate as the play patient while being watched. I do like to get a look up the good doctor's skirt or down her blouse when she examines me and like to be "caught" in that situation with whatever may follow.

I searched for this sort of topic today, and I've read the whole thread with interest, but I don't have specifically a MedFet fetish or kink. As I wrote in another thread today, with my background as a real medical/surgical patient, I'm actually surprised I don't have this interest. I would enjoy it as either doctor or patient, and I have a few times, but my real kinks are rubber, anal, enemas, D/s, mild bondage, and a subtype of a shoe fetish.

I was twice invited to (and did) play with a couple a number of years ago who wanted an extensive realistic medical exam for the wife including rectal and pelvic exams. In addition, they clearly wanted me to masturbate her and then have intercourse with her while the (cuckold) husband watched. I also gave her suppositories and an enema as part of it before sex. They were very happy with the whole scenario and we did it twice, only stopping because I'm straight and the (very nice, professional) husband wanted some sexual interactions with me that didn't interest me.

What I'm really interested in asking you here is for the people who either because of doc or patient preference, do not automatically incorporate orgasm or masturbation into a play exam. If not, what is the patient (let's say for now) looking for and how do they get or feel gratification? For example, I'm straight male, so if a woman has an exam with her play doc, and both really enjoy the physical and role dynamics but no sex, she says thank you and goes home. Is it because she'll then go and masturbate or have sex with her partner, or do some people just enjoy the MedFet scenario and have so much gratification from some perspective that they don't expect or plan to have sex afterwards? Most here seem to prefer sex included or right at the end, which I would as well, done in various creative ways, but everyone will appropriately respect a partner not desiring immediate sex. It seems akin to the man with kinks who goes for a couple of hours with a professional Domme but where she does not offer sex as part of it. What I've learned from watching documentaries about that kind of play is that often the man has such intense kinks or fantasies that just revealing them to his Domme and having her indulge his kinks is intensely gratifying to him, and he can have orgasms afterwards elsewhere. I'm very interested in how this works as far as "nonsexual" MedFet enjoyment with people who know each other. Thanks.

Eric

not desiring immediate sex. It seems akin to the man with kinks who goes for a couple of hours with a professional Domme but where she does not offer sex as part of it. What I've learned from watching documentaries about that kind of play is that often the man has such intense kinks or fantasies that just revealing them to his Domme and having her indulge his kinks is intensely gratifying to him, and he can have orgasms afterwards elsewhere. I'm very interested in how this works as far as "nonsexual" MedFet enjoyment with people who know each other.

I think there is a basic assumption that first needs to be put into perspective. Sexual gratification does not necessarily need to include orgasms, either during any kind of sexplay or afterwards. Some people can forgo them and still have very gratifying experiences because the experiences themselves are very intensely sexual. That can be enough in and of itself for some people.

This will probably depend on a person's sex drive in part, but for those who have a longer recovery period, an orgasm and release of sexual tension need not be gratifying, can even be a letdown and make one feel lethargic. The denial of orgasm may be a way of prolonging sexual tension and feelings of arousal. Which are pleasurable to have in their own right.

This has been covered in sightly different ways in other threads. But to reiterate my take on it..

It all depends on the players and their expectations. I have my preferences but I am willing to make the most out of what a prospective play partner is comfortable with. If someone wants clinical, I can do that and do that very well. I think most people want clinical with a little pizzas around the edges. For example getting their RT taken and perhaps doing more than taking a quick peek at the clit. Also the breast exam can be lingered on a bit more as can the steth part. Kind of leading up to the breasts.. It is basically clinical but slightly augmented to make it more fun. Note that I would almost certainly get myself off after the fact, or we switch places...

The next step is clinical but turns into your getting her off. This is the zone that I like to play in. I like unlocking her little secrets. If people were still treated for hysteria I would be that kind of a doctor. And again, I would get myself off after the fact, or we switch places.

And than there is just the free for all. Unlike a lot of the playdocs here I don't mind fucking in the stirrups. As luck has it both my table and my chair perfectly match my build and it is at least as good as anybody has ever wondered how it may be, and probably even better. With her legs in the stirrups having free reign on her nipples and clit. An exam table is really great for sex. Also for doing oral, man it is nice to be able to sit down and have her parts right where where your mouth is, with free access to her holes...

I am happy with any of the above, and do all of them. We just broke in my new knee crutch stirrups the other day. She got a very clinical exam until I had my fingers in her. Than I got her off until she was drooling and looked like she was going to fall off the table... Than I let her get her legs back and she wanted me in them, so we traded. We went back out the next day and kind of did a quick exam but I was in her pretty quick. 15 minutes later and she is all fucked out laying back on the table and I am all fucked out laying out in the chair... Too funny.

But as I said in the beginning, it all depends on the players and what they want and what they expect. My goal is for everybody to walk away, perhaps a bit bowlegged, with a big shit eating grin on their face.