Ball Stretching

Yes but only one experience doing it. 20 years ago I was invited to see a proDomme friend of another Domme who I was seeing intermittently for giving me submissive enemas. The new proDomme friend treated me to a free session of a few new things I hadn't done before including suspending me both upside down and then upright while the two Domme friends tickled, sucked and then edged me. After changing to upright suspension, she put a parachute device on my scrotum and gradually added a few weights to let me see what ball/scrotal stretching was like. I actually really enjoyed it though I didn't ask how much weight she put on me. If she had gone so far as to try to give me an orgasm the ball stretch would have been a nice kink stimulus to help it occur.

After seeing that proDomme for the nice demonstration session, my original Domme I was seeing and I went back to her place where I got an enema and orgasm. Nice day.

Eric

Love it though I’m still a beginner when you see what some folk in Twitter are up to.

I use oxballs silicone sometimes at work too. Occasionally I’ll spend a while with two on but I’m still too tight to do that for long and the boys pull back through. Other times I wear a 2lb steel weight if I’m feeling more daring. The bulge is v obvious if you look.

With home office I’ve often slipped that steel round my sack in the last few weeks of covid -19 confinement.

At the weekend if I’m alone I’ll do the gardening and housework with 2or4lb hanging. The bigger weight is something I love but after a while is too much and I back off to 2lb or take a break to let the boys get back in shape.

It’s all new for me, having only started at all this autumn. Enjoying it and stretching other parts of my anatomy at the same time.

Wearing a kilo today in the office whilst otherwise commando under my jeans. Bulge pretty visible, but who’s looking and why? ?

Had 2kg for a short while yesterday, but it wasn’t a great idea for the long walk to the canteen. Ouch - a quick dive to the loo needed to reduce the load after the boys started to pull back through.

Are you measuring your progress? The time of wearing, weight, stretch length and (most interesting to me) stretch gain without weights?

Not measured properly yet. I should have taken some photos with a tape measure when I started in October/November.

Definitely see and feel more sack when I’m warm from sun bathing naked or from the bath. In my case I was / am quite tight and with a 15 cm erection not especially big to start with, unlike some of the guys out in the Twittersphere.

Am really enjoying the changes I have made and love the feel of a couple of kg. as long as I can manage. Taking it steady.

With the stretching it’s a long game, I’ve already broken one bathroom tile while struggling with a weight that’s too tall for me still that escaped and fell. ?

I’ve already broken one bathroom tile while struggling with a weight

Oh, the perils of autoerotic escapades... 😉

Need to get myself some stretchers, too

So I've been wearing my half kilo weight for as long as I can tolerate it every day after the shower. The problem isn't the weight, it's the nipping sensation around the area where to two halves of the weight clip together. I make sure all of the bollock skin is out of the way when I first attach, I use lotion so they are nice and smooth. After initial attachment the weight it really comfortable but after 20-30 minutes the skin pinch just gets to be too much.

Anyone else experienced this? Is it just a matter of time? I suspect the 30mm interior diameter might be slightly too tight.

Regardless I've gone ahead and ordered a 50mm 940g weight, this time with a slightly wider interior diameter, hoping that might solve the problem.

I think you’ve answered the question, it’s almost certainly a slightly too small inner diameter.

Aligning the two halves as you tighten it, pulling in the opposite direction away from the side you’re tightening may also help avoid the pinching, and precise alignment will also help.

I think you’re going to be fine with the larger diameter bigger, heavier weight.

Regardless I've gone ahead and ordered a 50mm 940g weight, this time with a slightly wider interior diameter, hoping that might solve the problem.

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Hopefully, that was my thinking the weight isn't the problem. Even after a warm bath I have to really squeeze all the skin to get it into the 30mm diameter. It's not cutting off circulation but obviously not much room to move around.

Looking forward to more comfort on the skin and a challenging tug on the balls.

I wear marine grade stainless steel bow shackles most days, which I purchased from a boating store. They come in a variety of diameters and gauges, and as I stretch I just add another one. During the summer I can wear eight during the day but in winter back to two.

35 mm to tighten up the ball sack and keep the testicle side by side and the balance of the are 45 mm inside diameter. If I just wear the 45's, one testicle will move above the other and the shackles will fall off.

I usually have one or more on during the night, but it takes a while to get used to sleeping with them on. I have to hold and lift them as I roll over.

I rely on the gauge or metal thickness to stretch, rather than weight.

I don't use Galvanized as they left coloured marks on my skin and not sure if the plating, which rubs off as you move about, is good for you.

Sounds very interesting! I really want to try this out after reading this thread thanks for some good ideas everyone. If anyone else has some good ideas on where to start this, without toys unfortunately, any ideas would be greatly appreciated!

So I ended up ordering two 240g weights (15mm depth 34mm interior diameter), looks like the internal diameter was the issue. I can wear both of these for upwards of 12hrs with very little issue.

I then got myself a 490g weight from a difference maker (30mm depth 35mm interior diameter) I can couple this with one of the 15mm weights to give myself more of a challenging stretch. Not much discomfort.

Next step for me will be 24hr wear. Any hints and tips for sleeping with steel weights on?

Flipvanm.. The biggest thing with stretching is take your time and listen to your body! It will tell you what it is needed. I've found that smooth shaved sac and the surrounding area is best. Start with the 15mm and see how it goes. When you can wear the 15mm or 30mm thru the day ( and forget it's there) then you'll be ready for thru the night. Start small and have the allen key handy if in the middle of night it needs to come off.

To give you motivation.. I started about 3 yrs ago.. and I'm wearing 70-85mm all night. Max stretch I'm up to about 120mm (for a few hours). 85mm is normal all day long and often I'll forget they are on. I've biked, swam and ran with a 40mm on. I even took a 20 mile ride on the bike with a 70mm on. All very comfortable. Keep the balls lubed and if the skin is not doing well. Take a break.

good luck, enjoy and listen to your body!

Flipvanm.. The biggest thing with stretching is take your time and listen to your body! It will tell you what it is needed. I've found that smooth shaved sac and the surrounding area is best. Start with the 15mm and see how it goes. When you can wear the 15mm or 30mm thru the day ( and forget it's there) then you'll be ready for thru the night. Start small and have the allen key handy if in the middle of night it needs to come off.

To give you motivation.. I started about 3 yrs ago.. and I'm wearing 70-85mm all night. Max stretch I'm up to about 120mm (for a few hours). 85mm is normal all day long and often I'll forget they are on. I've biked, swam and ran with a 40mm on. I even took a 20 mile ride on the bike with a 70mm on. All very comfortable. Keep the balls lubed and if the skin is not doing well. Take a break.

good luck, enjoy and listen to your body!

Do your balls hang in the water when you sit down to take a shit?

I lay them on my leg to prevent that. Otherwise they would. When fully relaxed & hot they can hang pretty low. 😃

Flipvanm.. The biggest thing with stretching is take your time and listen to your body! It will tell you what it is needed. I've found that smooth shaved sac and the surrounding area is best. Start with the 15mm and see how it goes. When you can wear the 15mm or 30mm thru the day ( and forget it's there) then you'll be ready for thru the night. Start small and have the allen key handy if in the middle of night it needs to come off.

Thanks for the encouragement. I've since graduated to wearing the 30mm all day everyday and have slept with it on a couple of times. I can now wear an additional 15mm for most of the day.

And yes, keeping the whole area smooth makes life much easier.

I figure age will take care of that on its own so I don't have to don't like the idea of them dangling in the water when I sit on the toilet.

Hmmmmm All of these responses. I didn't realize that this was so much an issue with so many men. I have always had natural low hangers and never thought that they would be the envy of so many. I enjoy their movements and fondling so I applaud anyone who wants to share in that experience.

Switchable asked

Do your balls hang in the water when you sit down to take a shit?

Mine do not hang in the water, but I have peed on mine while sitting on the toilet as they rest on the bowl.

With age and wearing bow shackles (earlier post), I have mine stretching to about 125mm in summer, but in winter up high and tight to my body.

I have never tried to stretch my balls, but at times, they do get rather stretched out and hang pretty low. There was a rather low sitting toilet in the men’s restroom where I used to work. My balls WOULD often fall into the water while seated there to take a shit. Quite a shock when they hit that COLD water! I worked in a small office, so after a few COLD ball dunkings, I would just use the women’s toilet, which was much higher, keeping my boys “high and dry” while relieving my bowels!

With age and wearing shackles (earlier post), I have mine stretching to about 125mm in summer, but in winter up high and tight to my body.

Now you have my interest peaked what shackles are. I'm off to do some googling.

but in winter up high and tight to my body.

YES, same thing here, sometimes I looked down and said: Come out, come out, whatever you are!!!!

But besides that and some tight grip when having fun…..balls are over-valued… 😉

Za

Now you have my interest peaked what shackles are. I'm off to do some googling.

MissStress

google - “stainless steel bow shackles marine grade” - the ones I use are: inside measurement 35 mm and 9mm metal gauge x 2 and the larger one inside 40mm and 12mm gauge x 4

google - “stainless steel bow shackles marine grade” - the ones I use are: inside measurement 35 mm and 9mm metal gauge x 2 and the larger one inside 40mm and 12mm gauge x 4

Interesting…very interesting.

Thanks to lots of time at home during the pandemic, I decided to dive into ball stretching. I initially explored via hardware store options, settling on a set of eight chrome rings with an inner diameter of 1 ½" and a combined stack height of about 2". The main issues with those was the light weight (less gravity induced stretching) and that I had to apply a small wrap of electrical tape around the weld points so that it wouldn't snag hair or skin.

I ended up buying the following:

https://www.tantusinc.com/collections/rings-slings-prostate/products/ball-stretchers

https://www.tantusinc.com/collections/rings-slings-prostate/products/c-sling

https://www.tantusinc.com/collections/rings-slings-prostate/products/c-sling-2

Both sizes of this kit https://www.pumptoys.com/catalog/All-Products-7/Ball-Ringer-Kit-10.html

A lot of these products can be used together in different ways, not just during sexual activity.

The Tantus cock slings can be paired with the Tantus ball stretching ring set, though with the smaller sling I can only use the larger of the stretching rings due to the height the sling adds to the stack, whereas the larger sling can be used with both rings because the rings fit and nestle within the sling's opening. The latter setup is more enjoyable due to the added stretch and the overall constriction of the whole package. A bit of lube is needed to help prevent skin getting caught when things are so snug down there. On some circumstances the combined constriction of my penis by the cock sling plus the upward pressure of the stretching rings on the ventral side can pinch off blood flow or nerve sensation. Some adjustment can also be required if the sling pulls down on the suspensory ligament. This configuration works great for both anal intercourse or toy play.

I've also tried combining a cock sling with the ball ringer kit. The 2" rings shift around the scrotal sac a lot, which some people might like, but I find it noisy and distraction. In order to take advantage of the extra weight of the 2" rings vs. the 1.75" rings, I've added the Tantus stretching rings to that configuration and the 2" brass rings slip around the silicone rings perfectly. Depending on a given day, my arousal, the temperature, blood flow, etc. The 1 ½" restrictor ring for the 2" set allows my left testicle to escape too easily. In that case, I just finish the stack with a 1.75" ring and the respective restrictor ring.

I could handle all eight of the 2" rings (one pound weight) from day one, so incorporating the cock sling increases the stack height over 2". I've moved up to incorporating four or five of the 1.75" brass rings into the stack in an alternating manner, which adds additional height and weight, boosting them to something like 3+" and 1.5 pounds. The maxed stretch and weight configuration is best for toy play when there isn't a lot of swinging or thrusting motion. Too much and lube spreading around the area and it's not uncommon for the left testicle to “escape” under the forces. However, a gentle thrusting into my hand's grasp while wearing the maxed stretch and weight configuration, and the Tantus Piggy in my ass, is a mind-blowing pleasure experience. For anal intercourse, finishing a shorter, lighter stack with the 1.5" restrictor ring always the ring to get out of the way of the receiver's ass cheeks and helps to prevent a testicle “escape."

All said, the ball stretching and weight increases my arousal on their own, but paired with a cock sling or cock ring helps to take most advantage of the increased blood flow by constricting it in the area, which adds noticable visual girth, that also provides an even tighter fit once in the receiver's ass.

Edit: I forgot to mention non-sexual uses…I've tried walking around, jogging, yard work, etc. wearing various configurations and they work to varying degrees. Too much weight and stretch during a vigorous activity can be uncomfortable or lead to a testicle “escape” but the right configuration for the right activity increases the anticipation of forthcoming sexual activity.

Wondering if anyone has a ball separator that they recommend. I'm interested in incorporating a separator into my ball stretching play, in the effort to keep my left testicle “escaping” more easily than the right testicle does. Depending on the design, a separator might not work with all the other stuff I'm attaching to my junk, but I'm interested in exploring options. So far, what has come up while searching has been separators that incorporate stretching, as well, but I already have the stretching part taken care of.

Wondering if anyone has a ball separator that they recommend.

I have this which I use sometimes. It is very tight as my balls are on the larger size. I am trying to stretch the two rings that separate your balls, so it is not so tight.

https://www.wildsecrets.com.au/p/211759/california-exotic-stretchy-silicone-ball-spreader

Wondering if anyone has a ball separator that they recommend.

I have a couple of ball stretchers/separators that I've tried. For me, nothing works. That's primarily because my balls tend to stay nice and tight against my body and I just can't seem to get them loose enough to use a stretcher or separator. I hope you have better luck than me.

My new favorite ball separator is a simple boot lace. I have recently learned the joy of tying the lace around the base of my penis and below my scrotum where I twist the two ends together to make a central strap that comes back up between and separates my testicles. It is then tied off around the base of my penis. I found an example on line by simply searching cock and ball rope bondage. You can make each aspect of the cord as tight or loose as you like. I have not found a commercial ring, strap, or separator that fit my anatomy comfortably. Interestingly, every time Mistress applied commercially available parachute stretchers on my scrotum to either hang weights on or or otherwise pull on my testicles, she would have to first tie a cord around my scrotum to facilitate attaching the device.

I guess I am fortunate enough to have naturally large, low hangers, so much so that I often wear tight underwear or a jock to help with the support. Although I have tried fishing weights and other devises, I find they don't work witi my natural build although I know a lot of home devises have worked for others over time.

Strangely enough, I was just cleaning out some of my Hollywood memorabilia and came across, no more than 10 minutes ago, an inflatable basketball – a promotional item from the 1988 movie “Basketball”. Printed on the side is "Big Balls Do Matter". Would anyone like to buy it? Time to clean house.